Food › Re: What I Bought With 9,000 Naira In Russia In 2025 by femi4: 6:14pm On Jan 05, 2025 |
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Nairaland General › Re: Is It True That Short People Are Always Stubborn? by femi4: 5:01pm On Jan 05, 2025 |
Nnamdipapa: Is It True That Short People Are Always Stubborn?
There’s this saying in Nigeria that "na small pepper dey hot pass." It reflects a widespread belief that short people are inherently stubborn or feisty. But is there any truth to this claim, or is it just one of those playful stereotypes Nigerians love to throw around and slap on people?
In Nigeria's cultural context, we thrive on humor and banter. Many of our stereotypes come from lived experiences, observations, and outright exaggerations. The idea that short people are stubborn could stem from the way they’ve been perceived to compensate for their lack of height in a society where "tall" is often equated with leadership or authority.
Short people in Nigeria often develop big personalities to avoid being overshadowed—literally and figuratively. They’re the ones you’ll find arguing loudly in bus parks, defending their positions fiercely at family meetings, or taking leadership roles in unexpected places.
Stubbornness in this context could mean determination, resilience, or simply not taking nonsense from anyone. Many short Nigerians have grown up being teased or underestimated because of their height. This can lead to a natural tendency to assert themselves, proving that "size no be problem." Consider successful Nigerians who’ve been described as stubborn (in a good way) due to their drive. Isn’t this "stubbornness" simply a trait of people who refuse to let societal biases define them?
Looking at science, researchers suggest that people with perceived disadvantages, such as height, often overcompensate by being more assertive or dominant. However, these are generalizations. Personality is shaped more by upbringing, environment, and experiences than by height. On the flip side, we know some tall people can be stubborn also. Nigerians will always say, “Everybody get their own wahala.” Stubbornness is not exclusive to short people; it’s a human trait. Some of the most rigid people you’ll meet are tall, quiet, and unyielding.
While it’s fun to joke about these stereotypes, let’s remember that they don’t define anyone. Not all short people are stubborn, just like not all tall people are gentle. Nigerians, regardless of height, are known for their resilience, wit, and ability to thrive in adversity.
So, what is your experience with short people especially the "Maltina bottle" guys? Yes Especially short women. They always see you as someone trying to take advantage of them |
Travel › Re: 9 African Countries To Benefit As Thailand Launches E-visa Application System by femi4: 4:39pm On Jan 05, 2025 |
Thissystem: But Thailand is far o! Up to 20 hour flight time from Lagos.
Anyway, for those who wan japa, visa fees below!! 1 TBH no reach N50 |
Christianity Etc › Re: Marine Kingdom Has Injected Strange Women Into The World - Olukoya by femi4: 4:36pm On Jan 05, 2025 |
Numerouno94: U never hear of spirit husband from pastors mouth too? Is it from Marine Kingdom abi you don't understand the discussion |
Food › Re: Is There Any Remedy For My Ofe Akwu? [Photos] by femi4: 1:15pm On Jan 05, 2025 |
CandyOps: Yesterday I dey kitchen till almost 10.30pm Cooked okro soup and Ofe Akwu for today's rice. With well seasoned beef
As I woke up happily to go an warm it and it was looking a bit swollen with tiny little bubbles popping up.
Hmmm maybe na prank I turned around to check. But na my house so I no expect to see hidden camera.
Na so this banga take spoil. The idea was to include some more veggies and stock fish to the stew this morning b4 dishing it into the storage containers for freezing.
Hmmm! *sighs deeply*
At that moment i wished I was a babe so I would have no excuses than to start crying like a child.
I legit felt like crying at that instant because WTF?! And fridge dey o
I had to go borrow a bigger pistle & mortar from a neighbour to get this stew done faster that yesterday and now it's spoilt?
This can't be true. I just bent over the pot to perceive the aroma but... Nothing. No odd smells. But it's def going bad
Madd! 😠
Its over 3 hours now since I warmed it up again. I want to know if there's any solution to make it taste any better as it kinda slaps a bit and not so fresh any more
. I feel like calling my babe to ask for a solution but remember say I no get babe .. now I'm double mad! 😡 💢
Called mumsy and she advised to add some balls of charcoal to it.
I think I understand how women feel when they have drastic mood swings and go from happy to erratic in seconds. That's me rn.
I went from having the mental composure of Master Shifu (see Kungfu Panda) to that of a 3yo baby.
So now... Sunday lunch will be replanned. Any remedy to the soup? Any hope 
I'm omw to the market to get some charred coal. I'll check suggestions so I'll buy anything I need at once Trash it...flagyl is expensive now |
Properties › Re: It Is Unlawful And Illegal For A Landlord To Unilaterally Increase Rent. by femi4: 1:13pm On Jan 05, 2025 |
jayce232: Why are cars that have been manufactured years ago still selling at high rate?? Scarcity...they are few on the roads. The same can't be said about houses |
Politics › Re: Ondo State SSG, Tayo Oluwatuyi Is Dead! by femi4: 10:14am On Jan 05, 2025 |
fergie001: Tukana was first appointed SSG by Rotimi Akeredolu on 6th January 2020 and re-appointed by Aiyedatiwa in January last year
He was a former Akure South LG Chairman
SOURCE First 2025 death. Death is required to control world population |
Properties › Re: It Is Unlawful And Illegal For A Landlord To Unilaterally Increase Rent. by femi4: 10:09am On Jan 05, 2025 |
MasterJayJay: Did cement companies negotiate with the landlords before increasing price of cement? Is the house a recently completed one? How does an increase in price of cement affect a house built 30yrs ago |
Politics › Re: Tinubu Returns To Lagos After Working Visit To Enugu (Pictures) by femi4: 9:59am On Jan 05, 2025 |
Urheadmaster:

Lagos state is now the federal capital while Abuja is the presidents resting place. No wonder people called Bola tinubu the president of Lagos state. Na so Buhari once ruled from Daura, katsina too |
Politics › Re: Tinubu in Enugu, Says It’s Time to Unite, Build Nigeria by femi4: 9:57am On Jan 05, 2025 |
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Christianity Etc › Re: First Sunday In 2025: Pastor E A Adeboye Attends Service In Agbada (Pictures) by femi4: 9:55am On Jan 05, 2025 |
hisexcellency34: General Overseer of the Redeemed Christian Church of God (RCCG), Pastor Enoch Adejare Adeboye look sweet in this agbada outfit.
He rarely wears agbada but today is first Sunday of the year 2025 What's the big deal He's human just like you. You are in church to see God of man not man of God. I don't know the kind Christianity we practice in this part of the world...we too dey focus on what does not matter |
Family › Re: Groom And Bride's Families Clash Over Bride Price In Imo State. by femi4: 9:45am On Jan 05, 2025 |
Armaggedon: Jobless blogger. Brideprice is rarely a problem anywhere in Igboland. yinmu It's the only region that ask for heaven n earth in the name of bride price |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Brighton Vs Arsenal (1 - 1) On 4th January 2025 by femi4: 9:17pm On Jan 04, 2025 |
NaijaReppin: I don make mouth finish with my Liverpool friend sey once they slack, we don overtake. . . na im we go dey draw ball can you imagine?
if Nwaneri no score we for lose the game to number 10 team, I for just watch Squid Game instead haha Stay humble eh eh |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Crystal Palace Vs Chelsea (1 - 1) On 4th January 2025 by femi4: 9:17pm On Jan 04, 2025 |
Thank God, we are not in the title race |
Education › Re: How We Built Covenant University In 7 Months - Bishop David Oyedepo by femi4: 3:51pm On Jan 04, 2025 |
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Travel › Re: Germany Launches Online Visa Application Portal For Nigerians, Others by femi4: 3:49pm On Jan 04, 2025 |
Language barrier |
Politics › Re: Falana: Why Yar’adua Cancelled Sale Of Port Harcourt Refinery To Dangote by femi4: 12:20pm On Jan 04, 2025 |
SmartPolician: If death hadn't snatched Yar'adua from this country, that man would've transformed this country. May his soul rest in perfect peace, amen. 🙏 Transformed indeed....someone that didn't give his vice the go ahead to be in charge when he was sick. They are all the same. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Marine Kingdom Has Injected Strange Women Into The World - Olukoya by femi4: 12:15pm On Jan 04, 2025 |
Omoawoke: Religion downgrades women
Both Islam and Christianity are same and treat women like lesser beings
Why can’t they say they have unleashed wizards, why always targeting women You dey mind them...marine kingdom no get strange men  |
Christianity Etc › Re: Marine Kingdom Has Injected Strange Women Into The World - Olukoya by femi4: 12:02pm On Jan 04, 2025 |
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Family › Re: Groom And Bride's Families Clash Over Bride Price In Imo State. by femi4: 11:41am On Jan 04, 2025 |
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Celebrities › Re: I Was Raped Five Times, Iyabo Ojo Opens Up About Abuse by femi4: 11:37am On Jan 04, 2025 |
BoldBrainz: This story no clear. Five times on a spot or five different occasions? Is she a rape magnet? Abi this one na lamba for sensationalism?! Dumb....watch the whole interview. She mentioned that it happened at 5 different occasions. Online lo wa...we understand |
Celebrities › Re: I Was Raped Five Times, Iyabo Ojo Opens Up About Abuse by femi4: 11:34am On Jan 04, 2025 |
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Celebrities › Re: I Was Raped Five Times, Iyabo Ojo Opens Up About Abuse by femi4: 11:28am On Jan 04, 2025 |
Basic123: Attention seeker.
Your dad died at 40...yet he also fought you for marrying your first husband.
During the fight between you and your father,how old was your father?...Assuming your father had you at 20yro,you were probably around 17 or 18 when you insisted you wanted to marry a particular somebody.
Who were those 5 people that raped you 5 times and in what circumstances?
I see Iyabo Ojo as an attention seeker..VERY HISTRIONIC! Go n watch the interview doubting Thomas. His father had her in his 20s same way she had pricilia n his brother in her 20s She got pregnant outside wedlock |
Celebrities › Re: I Was Raped Five Times, Iyabo Ojo Opens Up About Abuse by femi4: 11:26am On Jan 04, 2025 |
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Politics › Re: Between A Nigerian Soldier And A Civilian In Enugu (photos/video) by femi4: 11:21am On Jan 04, 2025 |
SadiqBabaSani: See the way the ladies talk to that guy in a condescending manner Igbo n Hausa matter na since 1967....the matter never settle  |
Business › Re: The Economics Of Detty December by femi4: 10:53pm On Jan 03, 2025 |
eepeepook: …and those coming to visit in January, nko? Quite few...every is back to work from Jan 6 |
Foreign Affairs › Re: "French Troops To Leave Ivory Coast" - President Alassane Ouattara. by femi4: 10:52pm On Jan 03, 2025 |
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Jobs/Vacancies › Re: @33, I'm More Afraid Of The Future by femi4: 10:31pm On Jan 03, 2025 |
Breatheon: @33, I'm more afraid of the future
So reality is dawning on me for the tasks ahead.
Presently 33 with N85k/month salary job
During my days in school, I had thought life will be far better after school but here I am earning 85k/month and that is money that cannot even meet my immediate needs and not to talk of wants and unto other responsibilities.
By age, I'm supposed to have been married but still living in one room which is not advisable to even think of marriage in this condition.
To arrange myself for marriage, I need at least a one bedroom, furnished and comfortable. The yearly rent for that is about 400-450k
Then I am also worried about renewing the rent every year, year and year.
How about catering for the family? Aside rent, feeding, school fees (once married, you begin to reproduce), medical, clothing and so so and so forth.
To live a good life, you need a car for mobility sake as a family.
I can't continue to pay rent. Meaning I need to build a house.
Obviously, the 85k salary is not enough. I need to start a business.
And so many other issues giving me stress and sleepless night.
So my worry is, where would i get the money to do all these with these kind of job i am doing? For years i may not even raise a million naira.
I have seen situations where people no longer able to change clothes just because they now have a family and I'm trying to avoid that by all means.
I'm really really afraid of the future.
I feel there shouldn't be any future. Change your circle of friends. Open yourself to new opportunities and be diligent in what you have for now |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: "This Is My Last Season At Liverpool, I Want The Premier League" - Mo Salah by femi4: 10:23pm On Jan 03, 2025 |
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Romance › Re: I Used Witchcraft To Make My Husband’s Dick Useless – Lady Confesses by femi4: 10:22pm On Jan 03, 2025 |
Oluromantic: Is she still married to the husband? watch the video |
Celebrities › Re: Celebrities: Am I The Only One Who Doesn't Feel This Way? by femi4: 9:58pm On Jan 03, 2025 |
Sermwell: I see both online and offline how people freak out at the sight of a celebrity. Some even go as far as rushing or grabbing them.
I have never been to any show, let alone wanting to go up stage to grab a celebrity. I saw how a young man was kicked by Burna Boy and I felt really disgusted because such nonsense can never happen to me.
Early last year, I was on the 6th floor at BUA Group headquarters in Victoria Island where I saw Tekno and Davido sitting down at the reception having a chat, I just greeted them and sat down. I also saw how every other person on that floor was minding their business and don't really give a damn about their presence.
When I told a cousin how I feel weird on how people go crazy at the sight of these celebrities, he said it's not normal but I strongly disagree with him. I even told him how some staff at BUA Group didn't give a damn about Davido"s presence, he insisted that they are not also normal.
Do you guys here share my views, or do you think it's not normal? Nothing wows me, not even new car, clothes, etc |
Celebrities › Re: Emmanuella Reacts To Lodging In Hotel With A Man (Photos) by femi4: 9:55pm On Jan 03, 2025 |
Moblux: You are the dumb here. Go back to listen to the podcast Take your L n run along. Too early to be deaf in the year |