₦airaland Forum

HeatSeeker:
But you are part of us na 🙃

Abi did you fall from heaven?

How am I part of you?
Different colour
Different nationality
Different ethnicities
Disgusted by humiliation rituals and 1 sided vows

See not one of you will defend or explain your narcissistic nature in weddings

Because you know its all absolute nonsense and none of it can even be asked for if a couple doesn't want to do it

Make sure he never asks for reverse cowgirl
She might get offended at the thought of turning her back on family

Starz825:
Na sarcasm bro

Na wa for you oooo

Fella i understand that, but do you understand that jokes about neglecting, starving and malnourishment of children sickens me

The woman freely chose to marry him and there would have been signs hes cheap before marriage

No kid signs up for parents

Diamond098454:
even the 100k is not visible because he sounds as if 35k is a huge amount. 35k can not cook a pot of good soup in Nigeria today anyways, I don't blame him i blame that Innocent lady for allowing herself to be used by incompetent man

To be honest lady its the fault of all of you women in this country when this happens in marriage and worse

You activity choose the man that will do the humiliation ritual weddings and grovel to your families then abuse you after over the good the man that will refuse and put you first in marriage

Simply put betrayal earns betrayal not reward

Not a legal requirement at all

Three forms of weddings and the choose what they do

A couple freely choose to completely ignore all traditional aspects if they dont want to do it

The families have no legal or moral or ethical or cultural right to any of it At all

The law in Nigeria is freedom to marry, does freedom come with conditions?

Your bride can legally choose to sit you down privately without her family involved and tell you what she wants for her own bride price for her giving her hand in marriage

She can legally accept and collect it herself and then keep it or distribute it or do what she wants for it

You are adults and you can marry however you personally want acknowledging or rejecting any traditional aspects you want

They are only social expectations not legal requirements

You are well within your legal rights to walk upto the parents and make an offer for the bride price if they dont accept it they still cannot stop you getting married and from a purely legal perspective you and your woman can freely reject the bride price completely and still get married

How can a country be this silly to believe parents do this as a legal requirement or legal obligation?

Fine, say nothing then it just proves the world right about the majority of you

Why do adults in this country let other adults stop them from living their lives?

Your parents and families do not need to like the people you marry at all, they don't need to approve or give consent

They dont even have to like or agree to the type of wedding you want, all they have to like is how the person treats you not the person

Stop living for the approval of other people

Why are Nigerian families and extended families so culturally narcissistic in weddings?

Why do you preach humility and respect then outright lie about the not mandatory status of your wedding traditions?

Why is it you always demanding your side is respected?
Your culture is done?
Your families are honoured?

You literally get paid for marriage and you are incapable as a nationality of just accepting the bride price graciously and gratefully as it is a gift not a legal requirement and just be happy with that?

Its in your nature for your families to invade something about two people and make it about celebrating you, I want to know why its always you you you you from parents and extended family

Im going to eespectfully keep out of this and just read what you say about it because I want to hear your honest opinions about it since this is anonymous but please understand that is one of the main reasons not the main reason but one main reason Nigeria is always ranked as 15th most throughly disliked nationalities on earth

Fenrir:
Lets test how racist you are fella....

You are stood infront of 2 buttons

One instantly deletes 1,000,000 white people

The second deletes 100,000 Ghanaians

No matter what you do the next day its all over world news and the entire world knows

What would you do?

Obviously you couldn't read fella and are too stuck on the race issues to actually read it

The answer is..... you walk away

It was a statement "you are stood infront of 2 buttons"

An explanation of what the buttons do "one deletes 1,000,000 white people and the second deletes 100,000 Ghanaians"

Then the question was "what would you do?"

It did not say you had to touch the buttons nor did it say anyone had to get deleted

But thats the problem with Africans once race is mentioned you lose the ability of rational and lateral thought

This was just to prove a point, the same thing happens to me at the mention of kids being neglected, malnourished and starved

Grow up

DoctorStanley:
Racist? This proves you're not lying. You're truly a foreigner.
Oga, if you grow up in Nigeria you don't see race and you CAN'T be racist even if you tried. BECAUSE race had NOTHING to do with you when you were growing up! Everybody is black so where would you get the notion of race from? What you do see is tribe and what you do have is tribalism and tribal bigots and gingoists!

Where as I grew up with all races
Many cultures
All religions so how can I be racist since I was exposed to them all and built up tolerance and understanding

Now lets make that question easier for you

You are stood infront of 2 buttons

One deletes 1,000,000 white British

The second deletes 100,000 Nigerians

What would you do?

DoctorStanley:
Racist? This proves you're not lying. You're truly a foreigner.
Oga, if you grow up in Nigeria you don't see race and you CAN'T be racist even if you tried. BECAUSE race had NOTHING to do with you when you were growing up! Everybody is black so where would you get the notion of race from? What you do see is tribe and what you do have is tribalism and tribal bigots and gingoists!

Race was made up by Africans ask a real history professor African ancestors called us white before we called you black

Now please answer the question
Its a simple question, what would you do?

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DoctorStanley:
Just go borrow yourself sone sense of humor, irony, and sacarsm. You desperately need it.

Ciao

Lets test how racist you are fella....

You are stood infront of 2 buttons

One instantly deletes 1,000,000 white people

The second deletes 100,000 Ghanaians

No matter what you do the next day its all over world news and the entire world knows

What would you do?

DoctorStanley:
What is he still yapping about? What "half of your country is suffering malnutrition and starvation"??
Show us photos of Nigerians looking like Gaza people where they actually have starvation.
Oga, you have a problem. You should NOT be participating in a thread like this. You should first go somewhere and borrow a sense of humor and a sense of sacarsm!

Why would I care about a religious war?
Seriously why? Let them do what they want to each then why they are all gone we can just take over and build a holiday resort

Ive got no sympathy for ether side and by now you lot should know I personally feel about that particular religion involved its over religion of all things the world would be better off with no religion at all

You need to focus more on your own country and stopping all the bad stuff here first and stopping all the religion based crime here

DoctorStanley:
Being a foreigner, even living on the moon, is no excuse. Where do you see the guy say anything about "wives"??
Anyway let me spell it out for you (because that is the only way someone like you will get it):
THE OP IS JOKING AND PEOPLE SAYING HE SHOULD PAY EVEN LESS ARE BEING SARCASTIC!!!
If you still don't get that you never will. Now run along. What a guy!

No, im just sickened that people would make jokes about neglecting and starving children, why don't you understand?

There is nothing funny about starving children or neglecting them and any nationality that sees it as a joke when half of your country is suffering malnutrition and starvation needs to seek medical help immediately

dimexy247:
4. Involuntary Boners
This shit is actually very annoying because they’re involuntary and always happen in the most awkward of places. You’re standing at church for ministration and next thing, your big man downstairs decides to be such a dick literally.

Women will never understand the sad life of a dick
His nearest neighbour is an arse hole and his 2 closest friends are nuts

That women will never understand that getting kicked in the jewels is alot more painful than childbirth

Proof = most women will happily have multiple kids

Show me any man that willingly get a kick in the nuts a second time

iamteegee:
Thank you for allowing your daughter believe in truth, however what happens to people that died? Do they cease to exist in the world?

Dont go attempting to force religion onto be fella
And FYI when people die they are just gone and become food for flora and fauna like flora and fauna were food for us

Do the 1 thing that no man or woman that ever lived could do and produce evidence of a god

Evidence that can be tested
Weighed
Measure and replicated in a laboratory and everyone in the world can see all at once

Until then keep your personal beliefs to yourself like the majority of the world does

tobore4u:
Oga don't take like too serious.

Both the poster and dollyj are catching cruise.

Maybe shes the posters mistress and encouraging him to neglect his family to spend more on her

You never know Nigerians are not exactly moral or ethical people and definitely not religious people or responsible people

Divaan:
God help you.













Amen

What society thinks is only a suggestion to me
As long as my wife and child are safe and happy I really dont care what anyone else thinks

Im straight and madly in love with my wife
Im also atheist and ex military and have been in combat zones to fight against this attitude

Divaan:
These days one has to be consciously careful in throwing compliments around as you may be termed a homosexual. I used to love giving compliments when I see things that impress me but now I seldom do. Some people are walking dirty minds and any innocent word, touch or act can give you the wrong labelling.

Or.....

Be secure in your masculinity and sexuality blowing them a kiss to confuse and freak them out while you walk away chuckling to your heterosexual marriage to the wife you love are attracted to not caring what other grown consenting adults do in the privacy of their own homes behind closed doors with own bodies and rectums

The attitude to it in this country its like you are jealous and insecure craving a pounding sensation in your butt holes

duduade:
OP is just a clout chaser... People posting on his thread are indulging his senseless behavior

You talk about senseless behaviour when 1 particular tribe equates a man having self respect and saying no to prostration like the law says he has a right to do with a literal slap in the face while preaching about humility and respect and at the same time throwing tantrums like petty and petulant children and calling him every insulting name under the sun and attempting to destroy the relationship

iamteegee:
I am still the wrong person you are channelling Nigeria cinstitentcy or law to, why did you become an atheist?

Become an atheist? Thats a silly question

Why are you Christian?
Why are there Muslims?
Why are there jews?
Why are there Hindus?
Why are there people of any religions?

90% of the time religion is nothing but family amd location based and you are just indoctrinated into it

Im European and most European countries are Christian on paper but now atheist in reality

I was born atheist into a pagan family and was asked what I believe and I believe there is no such thing as a god and its just bizarre anyone believe without 1 scrap of evidence

My daughter however is Christian because I sat her down and explained religion as many different types as I could and explained my beliefs and let her choose like your god, like your bible and like jesus said to do

iamteegee:
I think you should channel this energy to the government, elected by the people to do those things you mentioned

No, i think im directing it to the right person
The type of person that preaches this and that all the name of the Christian god but also does the exact opposite of his teachings and elected, you're having a laugh fella, your current president was crowned a full 9 months before any election proving its a rigged system and the title is always for sale not voted on

iamteegee:
Thank you for reading the article, I am very sure it blessed you, everything complained was addressed there and I wish everyone of us quick growth

Blessed me? Fella im an atheist and not Nigerian. you addressed nothing about the sexual assault in the civil war in any of it and you since you as a nationality preach in the name of god so much explain why the majority of men in this country have a sexual assault mindset is ok way of thinking

Where anti homosexual laws and blasphemy laws are enforced but sexual assault and human rights aren't?

Jman06:
35k is too small for a family of 5 in a month!

Even as a single guy, I spend more than that per month. So, increase the amount you give to your wife. Since you earn up to 600k, give your 150k every month for your family's upkeep.

No, if this is true and makes a measly 600,000 naira what he should be doing is putting 60,000-120,000 naira into savings for his familys future

Then giving his wife exactly half of whats left and anything after housekeeping is hers

He married her, so take care of her and stop pretending women are greedy

There is literally is no such thing as a gold digger or greedy woman

All women cost money even women you think are low maintenance are expensive to some men

Just pick one that can live within your means, be happy and do right by her