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managermahmud:
The last time I checked, the alarming cause of rape is wearing skimpy clothes esp mini skirt and exposing their cleaves, that's d fashion in trend now
I've never heard that a deeper life lady was raped. Ladies b wise, men are moved by what they see



*Modified* To those quoting me and saying trash... Well, am too busy to reply you all for now. Nys job thou, y'all drew my attention to notice ur existence

bros dat's a very wrong thing 2 say& its a bad mentality!!! no girl shld b raped because of her dressing,its her body,she can dress as she lyks!! dat dsnt give a man d right 2 rape her!!!it shld neva b d rape victim's fault.its d demonic rapists dat shld b @ fault all d tym 4 their lack of self control&animalistic behaviours!!! I 8 d word rape&i 8 talks lyk dis!!!who says"deeper life sisters"av not been raped b4? most victims dnt speak out niccur!are u trying 2 say children are raped because dey dress indecently? I get ur point but dis is not a gud way 2 pass d msg across!! all rapists shld b castrated!!! say no 2 rape#its never ur fault u were raped!!! #speak out#dnt let d criminals go scotfree!!!
n/b: I am not encouraging indecent dressing,its not ryt 2 dress indecently,u can look gud& stil b decent.pls let's try 2 attend rape prevention classes/seminars but know dat it's never d victim's fault!!!

Arsenal fans shld stop tormenting us joor,shit happens in football xpcly EPL/BPL.my frnds av bin disturbung me since with pings,i'm stil team ManU all d way!#Red devils#@least we are beta dan"chelsea"

Seunaj05:
I wonder how many of these Universities these rankers have really been to. This is wot is called random sampling

yh bro,u just reminded me of medical statistics

awesome speech 4rm PMB,precise& straight 2 d point.hapi new month y'all& hapi 55th independence anniversary 2 dis great nation NIGERIA!!change begins with u,eradication of corruption begins wit u,a greater Nigeria of our dreams begins with u!!! divided we fall,united we stand!!!#say no 2 terrorism,say no 2 tribalism#i luv 9ja

kossyablaze:
Like I care.... Waheva rocks her boat
Abeg make Anthony Martial score 2mrw make I beer up niggaz

yh niccur dats d spirit!!!depay,martial,rooney& mata made my day!!!i rep ManU!!!

fornication complicates matters& has more disadvantages dan advantages,that's y even our medical lecturers tell us abstinence is d best option.bak 2 d mata,dunno d best advice 2 give cos she may b genuinely sorry but she no try@all o.its not easy abstaining tho,it takes a rily conscious effort&God's Grace.if "ur friend"can take her back fine,if e cant its fine al d same,he wil meet his own girl&she wil definitely meet sum1 else too

JumpingChicken:
Why the publicity?





Feed them and leave. Stop taking photos and posting them in online...




#Hypocrisy.

must we see every good act put up in d social media as hyprocricy? a msg is bin passed across& am sure most pple who saw d thread got d msg.how sure are u dat dey are d ones who put d pics online or even took dem?dis days pple wil take ur pics without u bin aware& nxt tin u wil c it on social media.
n/b:am not supporting dem if dey are indeed"guilty of ur offence"neither am I condemning dem.lets just get d msg& bros pls try 2 help d muslims arnd u too cos we are one& remember not 2 put it on social media,make sure der are soldiers around 2 stop pple 4rm taking pictures wen u do,so odas wont c u also as a hypocrite. tnx,by d way Happy Sallah celebration 2 all my muslim Nigerian brothers& sisters!!!may God's peace locate Nigeria& all troubled nations in dis tym of celebration.lets live 2geda as 1 regardless of tribe,culture,status,class&religion.let all Nigerians learn 2 respect oda pple's religion& liv in peace.long live Nigeria!!!

I had a rily terrible dream about BH,it mayb as a result of my reading d news b4 sleeping/naturally
but I know dat dis pple go 2ru a lot of suffering,losing deir homes,properties,friends,families&lives.som even become handicapped.still I know it is well wit dis gr8 Nation,Nigeria.coming 2geda regardless of gender,tribe,status,religion& indifferences 2 pray for our country wil reduce our problems 2 a large extent.Nigeria I decree it is well wit thee IJN!!!! 2Chr7:14

Richie0974:
Now she is expecting praises..... Just #2million for people that many.... Is that up to..... Half the worth of 6of her clothes.... This people should just stop pretending to be good Samaritans because they're not...

wat makes u so sure dat dey are pretending?dont jump 2 conclusions.2m is 2 small?,dnt knw abt dat,we judge dis politicians/government officials without facts,we just expect dem 2 go according 2 our pace& d way we feel dey shld
N/B: i'm not supporting dem,neither am I saying most of dem aren't corrupt.d tin is d end 2 corruption begins wit u.most of us are corrupt in our own little way.som of us bribe nepa officials 2 reduce d bills dey giv us,bribe FRSC officers& policemen wen we break rules,bribe jamb& admission officials,cheat,scam our parents,make excess profit& dis is but 2 mention a few.so u c,most of us are corrupt& not just d politicians/govt officials der ar a few truthful ones among dem& d end 2 corruption begins wit u.most of us who judge dem wil do worse wen we get der,if u get der& u are not corrupt,u can den com bak 2 NL& u'l b allowed 2 judge dem.

y is virginity attached 2 women alone 4 crying out louddats hw a male frnd who is a player sd e can't marry a non-virgin& I was lyk WTHsexual purity is 4 all,both male& female!!!!

I'm amazed @ most of d comments on NL threads.how wil somebody think d poor lady bought her hubby?so e cannot luv her& marry her?is dat how bad u tink we blacks are dat white men ar paid 2 marry us?smh 4 una o!!!i'l continue 2 say it ova& ova again dat 1 of our major problems in 9ja is our low thinking,we underestimate ourselves& c only d negative issues.dats hw 1 silly Nigerian was abusing Nigerian universities 4 not bin among d best 700 in d world.does d fact dat e didnt finish wit a 1st class degree make him dull?dats d same way it is,dat we av many issues/dey dnt c us as "1 of d best"dsnt make us undervalued

hidee20:
You started with a paragraph that sounds "FEMINIST" but after the "N/B" I just dey .....Thank you for not leading others not yet married astray....

am not a feminist,i just hate it wen I hear most guys& even some women say chores are meant 4 women alone.my aunt& her husband divide their housechores& dats d way it shld b rily.+no hubby shld expct fresh food+washed& ironed clothes 4rm me evriday.technology has made tinz easier.its not my hubby's right 4 me 2 wash his clothes al d tym.il cook his meals& take care of him but der ar sum tinz he should do by Himself,i no b housegirl as per me sef go dey work.i luv politics& football& most tinz/activities dat interest guys so me sef go lyk dey watch dem wit my hubby.life has been made easier wit technology but il definitely b a gud wife& helpmate 2 my hubby

Nigerian society expects too much 4rm married women.il prefer 2 hear d lady in question's side of d story 1st b4 judging.who says a woman has 2 b her MIL's maid/act d role? I bliv it is not enof reason 4 her 2 b "kicked out",do u knw if she has issues(mayb psychological),different conditions arise 4rm childbirth(i know dis as a med student)?I am amazed wen most men say dey cant marry women dat can't cook,is dat all der is 2 a lifetime marraige?? I know a guy whose wife cant cook anything well,e married her lyk dat&2dy she is a pro in cooking after marrying him.dats y il always live wit my hubby,we'l stick 2geda no mata wat no stayin overseas while i stay@home.women shld equip demselves well while dey can,men dnt want wives who depend on dem totally dis days.by d way,d society dictates roles 2 a gender,y shld it b women who do most of d chores alone?dis comment is not about dis thread alone,its also due 2 my general observations on NL&in our society.
N/B:b4 u start judging me,note dat am not in support of d lady if she's indeed guilty neither am i in support of dem "kicking her out".also note dat I am not a "FEMINIST",i do my house chores&cook well& finaly som family members shld learn 2 mind deir buisness until its needed "indeed".ladies pls b nice 2 ur MIL's oooo,if u dnt want 2 b "kicked out"my boos mum is 2 busy 2 even aff my tym sef.but ladies shld learn 2 b gud homemakers& b nice 2 evri1,it pays u 2 b kind 2 ur MIL,i can't& wil not do dat 2 my MIL(future)

RCCG has many welfare plans 4 not just its members but outsiders including non Christians if u doubt me,u can make ur research.i c no big deal in it if its 2ru.our pastors teach us dat God owns all tinz& can bless us wit al we want/need.if dey are poor,tel me wil u bliv dempersonally,il doubt a Pastor who teaches such& is suffering 4rm poverty.so u c ders no big deal so far its not d church's money& I can testify dat its His personal money cos He has private buisnesses.most pple who accuse pastors of embezzling church funds dnt even drop deir tithes so I wonder y dey complain wen God blesses His Children,although der are som pastors who may b guilty of dis.does d fact dat pple are suffering stop u 4rm buying gud phones,clothes& cars?King Solomon was a blessed Man by God& der wer stil poor pple arnd Him who wer in need. d realistic tin is der wil always b pple who are suffering but d best we can do is to limit their no& help in every way we can.if u feel its church money He used, leave him 2 God& stop concluding/judging.ask ur self dis question,wen last did I give 2 d poor or help d needy?so u c,u may b guily of d offence u tink e is commiting which I knw e isnt committing cos am aware of d many welfare plans RCCG has 4 d community.help d poor/needy in ur own little way 1st,its not a duty meant 4 Pastors alone.d issue we av in 9ja is dat we expect 2 much 4rm our pastors& stop bin spiritual in our own private lives.helping d poor begins wit u!!!!!!!!!by d way dat is not d RCCG Logo I know.if doz judging av d money dey wil buy more dan dat,dey are saying all dis cos dey dnt av d money!!!
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[quote author=Aminat508 post=37822429]Natural indeed Choi...... .. with eyebrow [/quote u neva can tel,mayb she shapened it dat way

I cant imagine hw sum1 wld bring Jesus into dis& say even if Jesus Christ is d partner,e wil stil cheat.its absolutely wrong& disrespectful 2 say so.in d old testament wen tinz like dis hapnd,pple died on d spot.tnk God 4 Jesus& His death 4 Us.as 4 d issue on ground,not all men cheat!!!most cheat but not all!!!i knw a woman who is hot-tempered,very big,has had many abortions in d past,has tried lesbiansm,smoking& all forms of attrocities but God stil gave her d best man!i can say it anywer dat He dsnt cheat!!!av stayed wit dem so I knw wat am sayin,she uses her story 2 encourage we youths.d man drives straight home after work each day& watches cartoon wit d wife& kids.so u c, dnt av d mentality dat all men cheat.Men who fear God genuinely do not cheat,some so called"born again xtians"may cheat but not a man who has d genuine fear of God!!!op ur points are cool tho

Toks2008:
What happens to buying a washing machine?

Abeg park well.Im not talking about house maids here im referring to wives.

exactly,i hrd of a washing machine dats just 65k& it dries clothes after washin dem.il b a workingclass wife so y slave myself durin d weekends?technology has changed som tinz so no nid 2 stress urself out wen der ar machines 2 do certain tinz.

shikshark:
doing the laundry is an added advantage

well,2ru but dats d only tin I hate.i can do odas but not dis.i can do it once in a while wen I marry but not al d tym.my bf knws my opinion on dis& doesnt mind.i dnt pretend 2 do tinz I wont do.

LASUTH!!!

ZianaJordana:
Disgusting.

exactly!!!if dis part is rily 2ru den
its devastating!!!

to all doz tribalising d case,wat av u done 2 help reduce cases lyk dis which arise daily av u tried volunteering 4 NGO's alligned 2 such cases??av u comforted a victim instead of judging hence makin dem ashamed? av u prayed 4 dem?wen last did u take tym 2 pray specially 4 Nigeria?av u reported such cases?? av u exposed d criminals/did u cover up 4 dem as her father's family tried 2 do? do u blame d victim when u shld help dem?do u create awareness on sexual offences? do u take time 2 tink of a way 2 minimise/possibly end such cases?do u watch out 4 pple/incidents around u/do u just mind ur business completely?ask urself these questions,ponder on dem& pls tink of a way foward
dnt just comment without tinkin&4get d case.pls change ur thinking 2dy& think of solutions!!!#say no sexual offences#say no 2 tribalism,its a deadly disease#

cromz:
Igbo bastards they are a curse to Nigeria

haba bros!!! dats a very terrible tin 2 say in my opinion.every tribe av deir own usefulness 2 d country,we av many cursed pple originating 4rm all tribes d same way we av blessed pple.its unfair 2 generalize.we are all Nigerians,u dnt av 2 voice out al ur tots if it wil hurt ur fellow humans!!!

shizzy7:
IN every aspects of our Affairs,, Tribalism has always been a form of Cover-up which prevents us from solving the major problems,,I just don't know how in a situation like this what will come up in some people's brain is Igbo-Yoruba-Hausa.....

Those kind of people who make such comments might as well tell the 7-yr old Victim to wait for them to verify if her Father is Truly Igbo/ Yoruba/Delta-igbo/Hausa Before they take care of her OR punish the father....
I just don't know how Some people think...very Annoying..

dats d same way I felt wen I read som of d tribalistic comments,its common on NL,i ignore dem but I cldnt just ignore 2dy's own.most of dem(tribalists)lack knowlege on most tinz& just decide 2 cover it up wit tribalism.dis has 2 stop!!! #say no 2 tribalism#

sauceny:
She is being turned into a nymphomaniac @ age 7.

as in ehn!!d poor girl 2ruly nids help& God's intervention

shizzy7:
Tribalism Has NOTHING to do with cases like this

pls tell dem,tribalism is 1 of our major problems in dis country.wen we start seeing ourselves as one Nigeria,our problems wil reduce 2 a large extent,pls say no 2 tribalism,we are 1,United we stand,divided we fall.but wait sef,wat has a sexual offence got 2 do wit tribe?am sure som sexual offenders wld b on NL too& dey wil b acting innocent here.parents befriend ur kids so dey can trust u enof 2 tell u things,study ur children& knw d introverts among dem,try 2 make dem speak& show dem special care,also victims shld try 2 speak out 2 save odas,speaking is a healing balm 2 most victims#say no 2 sexual offences#say no 2 rape# say no 2 tribalism#

shizzy7:
An eye for an eye makes all go blind
Don't be tribalistic and try to tell those who are to limit it to political matters and not when its Unnecessary in Problems like this,, you'll see that some will listen to you,,,,,Tribalism is the last thing anybody should think of In cases like this...
Be more of a peacemaker..

shizzy7:
An eye for an eye makes all go blind
Don't be tribalistic and try to tell those who are to limit it to political matters and not when its Unnecessary in Problems like this,, you'll see that some will listen to you,,,,,Tribalism is the last thing anybody should think of In cases like this...
Be more of a peacemaker..

pls tell dem,I am amazed wen I read comments lyk dat,wat has tribe got 2 do with dis story?if it was child marraige,we may accept d comment,but its irrelevant in dis case.our way of thinking is also 1 of our major problems in dis country.just saying tho,I mean no harm

shizzy7:
Tribalism Has NOTHING to do with cases like this

pls tell dem,tribalism is 1 of our major problems in dis country.wen we start seeing ourselves as one Nigeria,our problems wil reduce 2 a large extent,pls say no 2 tribalism,we are 1,United we stand,divided we fall.but wait sef,wat has tribe got 2 do with a sexual offence?am sure som sexual offenders wld b on NL too& dey wil b acting innocent here.parents befriend ur kids so dey can trust u enof 2 tell u things,study ur children& knw d introverts among dem,try 2 make dem speak& show dem special care,also victims shld try 2 speak out 2 save odas,speaking is a healing balm 2 most victims#say no 2 sexual offences#say no 2 rape# say no 2 tribalism#

acenazt:
It has never been cut since birth dats it

I knw pple who av cut their hair many tyms&its still full,i also knw sum1 who hasnt cut hers&her is very short& scanty.dis baby is naturally gifted wit d hair,its obvious