₦airaland Forum

yettymuse:
It's safe to say an average man goes into marriage primarily because of sex!?!?!

tobianthony:
I was once in a LTR relationship were sex and music was the connection . But things change . And she became religious and started to say that sex was not good for her but however still flirted with other people's partners openly and was very willing to cross boundaries of other people's marriage .

I knew even then in my beta mindset that once I got married to this lady that there would be no sex in our marriage just transactional sex unbeknownst to me at that time of Rollo tomassi .

tobianthony:
Years ago as a teenager myself and pal let's call him O ( he was the bad boy of the class ) were outside a female classmates house . He brought a condom as it was his intention to have sex with the girl . I being the good boy back then told I couldn't have sex with any girl I didn't love . Yes I was a virgin for many years to come after then .

Many years later in my 30s I almost got married to my " dream girl " , who promptly told me no sex till marriage . To which my beta mind agreed . Even kissing her was based on transaction .i.e. a reward for having done something good . Which was few and far between as time and no private space was an issue .

tobianthony:
Close to two years later I was at a bar with my old pal O the bad boy who was married now but still an alpha none the less .

He asked me what went wrong and I told him although we had discussed this before but I didn't go into details . At that point other present company K my pal too asked for this lady's name to which I told them .

At the mention of her name O and K opened their mouths in surprise and asked for pictures to confirm their suspicions to which I obliged . Upon seeing her picture they shouted .

Apparently sometime after she left me and before Os wedding ,same year mine crashed , he was seeing her and they were bleeping . The lady who wouldn't so much as let me kiss her was paying for hotels so she could shag O . Who promptly wasted no time in giving us details of how he made her squirt ...flipped her indifferent positions but jilted her at the end of the day to marry his wife .

tobianthony:
What did this teach me ?

It made me think what I was doing wrong . Why this beta mindset was a disease a virus that had plagued me from birth . Viciously written into my programming , damningly wired to repeat this every time I was in love .

Well ...your guess is as good mine .

ObaKlaz:
Oh please! What smoke?! What fire?! First, she agreed to do a PERSONAL APOLOGY (though she might be telling the the truth, according to you) than a public one, but she could defame a man PUBLICLY & not expect legal wahala?!! Sometimes, the mind and whole thought process of a Nigerian can be very sickening and repulsive.

You're trying too hard to justify that which CANNOT be justified.

Mr 'no smoke without fire' your thought process is very warped, twisted and faulty.

gloriana:
women have nothing to do with this. its just the crave for evil. after all there are also intimacy gadgets for women but like we all know, its a man's world. while d women intimacy gadget has to be kept secret or low key because they don't have a right, the men's intimacy gadget is ok for publicity.

gloriana:
if you think men don't have any fault, why do we have vibrators to do d deal? women don't need a full blown "man doll" to fill in the gap but men need a complete doll. why is that? #menarebabies #womenaremature #womenaretherealdeal

Assassin101:
I really cant seem to wrap my head around the fact that this "sex-doll" thing is causing so much commotion. I believe they are manufactured in male and female version, so how come the women are not as excited as their male counterparts? One reason is for sure; they will have sex with the male doll alright, but who will now be paying for their various irrelevant needs?

AnonyNymous:
I'm sorry. . .I just don't agree with the way you paint women as some kind of 'victims' of patriarchal oppression which is DEFINITELY not the narrative. In fact, in the western world, men are more oppressed than women. Feminism has outlived its usefulness. It was an attempt to balance the scales but its tipped them too far.

I can site numerous examples if you're interested.

As far as I'm concerned, only women who have nothing to offer but sex will be intimidated by the sex doll. A man who enjoys the company of his wife or girlfriend will have no need to look in the direction of sex dolls. Women know that men are more susceptible to their sexual desires, and then use sex as a bargaining tool- acting like sex isn't a two way thing. Why would a man want to go through the stress of dating/marrying a women who does nothing but take from him- his money, his peace of mind, his sleep, and so on, just in exchange for sex which is supposed to be both partners pleasing each other.

Of course, I agree that a man should aim to find a virtuous woman, who he can build his life with. An independent woman who can stand on her own- so that both will be complementing each other instead of one that would rely on him. (Or a relationship where both would rely on each other, even).

As far as I'm concerned, this sex doll thingy is just nothing more than a tool for masturbation, like the dildos, penile pumps, etc that have been existing for a long time. "Body no be firewood". Before you meet that special someone, your body's sexual needs have to be met.

This sex doll of a thing would also help to eliminate men whose sole purpose for dating is sex. If they get all they want from the doll, there's no need to prey on innocent GOOD women. That'd probably also force the 'leeches' to get their lazy prostitute asses to work so they make their own money- leaving relationships for people who actually know what they want from their potential partner.

Everyone wins. The sex doll is a welcome development

Ryabcool:
As seen on twitter, a Married Nigerian woman ignored all shreds of dignity and got exposed for trying to seduce Cassper Nyovest as he lands in Nigeria. Massive reactions trail this scandal which has gone viral and the woman involved had to lock her twitter account and even changed her profile picture.

This begs the question: Is there still any sanctity left in the institution called marriage?

Here is a direct link to the thread on twitter;

https://twitter.com/charlyge2/status/951820849513934850

Alexsmith20:
Sorry to say your story sound all ficticious to me. How can a man in this era lavish all his money frivolously on beer and mere follies. I think your mission is to mislead ladies out their. and create a negative impression about men who are in similar state.

pocohantas:
For all sorts of child sexual abuse, the figures should be close, though male child rape is less reported.

pocohantas:
For adult rape of individual sexes, men take the lead. The average woman can't overpower a man, except she uses drugs. I for one have never been able to hold down any guy.

frenzyduchess:
we are saying the same thing because logically it's almost impossible for a lady to rape a man, if we are to go by the definition of rape, and let's not forget that statistically, in ten rape cases we will find men raping women in nine of them, and eight will be guilty

moghulis:
Now the short man will probably going to be taking care of another man's baby.

Marriage is an overrated bullshit!

victovrry:
My wife is a good and I can call her a virtuous woman but she won't give me sex when needed

victovrry:
, though we have male and female kids ...please what can I do again? Tried all I have read online and even attends seminals together just to make her change but she did not.

victovrry:
Please I'm not saying this to paint her black but that is only one aspect I wish she could change.

Advise please !!!

IBENUALHASSAN:
I recently got married to a girl I meet last year.we courted for just 3 month,and felt we should get married

IBENUALHASSAN:
.since we got married,I have to practically beg to make love to her, it's been one complain or the other.is either she is not in the mood or that she is cold because I refuse to turn off the ceiling fan,or that I didn't tell her early before she fell asleep,or that my weight is too much ,or that she is having stomach pain which I took her to go and see a doctor for.She sex starved me for 2 month,we sleep on same bed facing opposite direction,this has been the usual trend.

IBENUALHASSAN:
I was very happy when she eventually told me that she is pregnant,since she became pregnant am scared of touching her, last time I wanted to make love to her she started crying,I felt so embarrashed, irresponsible and insensitive and I promise never to demand for sex from her until she delivers her baby,although she is just 2 months gone with the pregnancy,I do not want to have any reason to cheat on my wife but she is driving me nut.She doesn't care about my feeling,she is the one that always decide when we make love.I have tried to talk to her but to no avail,am too shy to ask my parent or go to her parent for advise.please I need advise on what to do.

HumanistMike:
You have a point but it is deeper than that.

I am a Men's Rights Advocate so I know a lot about these things.

You see, the feminist have a plot for women to be in major positions of power and subjugate the male. They know it will be difficult so they hatched a plan. The plan is to infiltrate the media, education, government etc. Through these points, they spew male hate and emasculation materials. This is done so the male will be easier to dominate. When males drop out of school, can't communicate properly, can't act well in public, have poor hygiene, fear the female, etc it will make the male less qualified for good jobs and good positions. It also will make the male less likely to want to compete with the female. So it's more like the female running unopposed, kind of.

Most Hollywood materials are misandric. So are most sit coms and TV commercials. The education focuses on the girl child. There are more female degree holders in the US and UK now. The only academic disciplines where males dominate are in STEM. So what did the feminists do? They have put up scholarship schemes in STEM courses for the female child only in a bid for the females to overtake the males. Note that the government (feminist's puppet) are not interested in why males are dropping out of school. It is not important to them.

Women own the government. Divorce, crime, immigration, workplace harassment etc all favours women. The plot is to render as many men as possible voteless. Any man convicted of a felony loses his right to vote. Also, more men die in the workplace and in wars. Therefore, women constitute the bulk of the voting block. Consequently, women will determine who rules; who becomes president. As it is in the US now, if all women vote for a particular candidate, that candidate will win since the eligible female voters outnumber that of the males.

That is why you hear politicians say things like "free this and that for females only if I'm elected", "if your wife slaps you, you should kneel down and beg for forgiveness because it's not domestic violence. It just means you are a jerk". The politicians can't risk not appeasing the female voting block.

That's why everyone is surprised Trump won cus him no send women. What happened was despite, Hillary's tactics of making the female voters hate Trump, she forgot that women hate women. All in all, Hillary's plan would have worked if not for the Electoral College.


So here in Nigeria, we don't think. All we do is copy. We have copied their chivalry and TV script without knowing the Why. This is the reason why job creation and literacy alone won't stop the effemination/dumb-down of men in Nigeria. After all, rich kids and big men fall for the brainwashing too.

What will stem the tide is proper education. Not the type gotten in schools alone, but the type gotten from awareness. The type gotten from male-help sites like avoiceformen.com. Youtubers like Barbarossa (I probably spelled that wrong) and Paul Elam etc.

I know this is a long piece but there a lot to things than meet the eye.

Knowledge is not in schools although school is very important. Knowledge is out there. It is this knowledge that will open your eyes to the manipulation we all are being subjected to. School can make you intelligent but knowledge will make you aware and wise.

mhizesther:
I need a male friend.....someone I can talk to,he must be intelligent,attractive nd very funny....

EgunMogaji:
You're attempting to promote a thinly veiled feministic agenda that a gentleman provides.

I would have been more impressed with a "my honey bunny invited me over to her house for diner after my work out".

I'll give you an unrequested advice that I'll give to my son. Stop this financially calamitous and exhuberant ideologies that wasting money on a woman makes you a gentleman.

But like I said, carry on.