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ValCon888:
Now she's 50:
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Toks2008:
For the benefit of this piece it is important i define what chase in this context mean.. "To chase simply means making repetitive attempt to win the desire of a lady who does not want you"

A man should show a desire for a lady and not desperation but when you begin to chase a lady then you have crossed the line and if she eventually says YES, it will probably be because she has run out of time waiting for her preferred type of man or she just feels worn out by the pressure you mounted on her and will rarely be because she really wants to be with you..and the worst part is that you will end up being the one who will be making more sacrifices towards making the relationship work since you made it look like you desperately won her like a trophy or medal you have to keep fighting to keep.

For every lady you chase, it is most likely that there is a man out there that she is craving for so why ridicule yourself?...It is interesting to know that Nine out of every Ten single ladies already have a mind made guy they would love to be with?...simply put, almost every lady has a spec and if you don't meet up to the spec there is absolutely nothing you can do than to move on to another lady who may likely have you as her kind of man.

Some ladies have crazy desires and turn-ons like beards, 6pack, height, skin color, Age, Tribe, P*nis size and several other weird and funny preferences that attract them to a man and if you don't have their desired qualities just forget wasting your time chasing them.

The best bet is to approach a lady in a mature way, tell her about your desire for her and be very sensitive to her body language.. if she wants you then go for her but if she rejects you simply tell her to be your friend with hope that she changes her mind and MOVE ON...

And no matter how you look or how your condition is, you must understand that there is a lady out there who is hoping to meet a guy just like you so stop wasting your time chasing a lady who does not want your type.

I hope this makes sense.

Mizwisdom:
filani

Mizwisdom:
@NL kid


If you read my post you'll notice the major one. Why should there be "Women's wing" of a political party, why give women the rôle of getting other female votes when the same isn't done for men, why is there no "men's wing" within political parties,

Mizwisdom:
why is the sale of nomination forms to elective positions very high such that many women can't afford,

Mizwisdom:
why do political God father's not make God daughters of women and back them up as they do their sons

Mizwisdom:
, why are certain political meetings held in the dead of night when most women/men should be with their families? I can go on pointing these tactics but I chose to stop here for now.

Mizwisdom:
Good topic but I still give 95% blame to women for this abysmal performance in politics. There's no where in the world
where first lady of state is an aspiration or where women's wing of political parties exist. It's clear that women in politics have been tactically sidelined by their male counterparts yet they're not smart enough to notice. Ask Theresa May how she did it

Profkenny1:
These feminist bastards only eye the positions held by the top 20% men, while ignoring the ones held by 80% men who die daily on their jobs.

None of ya'll bastards clamor for equal representation in jobs like sewage treatment, plumbing, electrician, carpentry, trash collection, fire fighting, Nigerian army infantry, and other dangerous low-paying jobs that men are involved in.

f.ucking vile, selfish, cold-blooded, entitled women will always want the opportunity but not the responsibility.

joshuisiukwu:
A Nigerian couple identified as Opemipo and Opemipo, held a Game Of Thrones themed wedding over the weekend and we've got photos from the event. The Game of Thrones themed wedding held by the couple, was attended by family, friends and loved ones and here are photos below; 


https://unclesuru.com/2019/04/15/nigerian-couple-hold-a-game-of-thrones-themed-wedding/

midolian:
Well, until we know the course she studied in school and how she graduated, we should not condemn her yet.

The melons may be more deserving of recognition than her brain.

cyndy1000:
She is never tired..

This one don pass hatred, I guess she still loves him

Amagite2:
Legendary singer, 2Face Idibia's youngest brother, Charles Idibia is set to wed the love of his life, Rosemarie.

Excited Annie Idibia took to Instagram to announce the news writing;

"wow wowzaaaaaaaa������������ So Excited!!!!! Youngest Idibia Brother Is Taken Oooooooooooo !!! Can’t wait can’t wait!!!! Latest Mrs Idibia Coming throughhhhhhh♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️ @charlybrave @rosemarie__1"

Rosemarie had her bridal shower on October 14th.

More photos here; https://www.amagitesblog.com/2018/10/2face-idibias-youngest-brother-set-to-wed-see-pre-wedding-photos.html

Wonder2018:
This men though, shout out to all the married women out there who know/ feel they are doing well in this school called marriage, but still getting an F by their examiner the hubby.

After 6years am still not getting it.

I used' to be the sex lover, who I loved intimacy with him from our dating ratings till recently, I won't deny the fact that I observed am loosing it gradually, easily put off, easily tired, not always in this mood, I just want to get in bed and sleep, (I sincerely never saw this day coming, knowing how sexually active I used to be) but whatever, I still make sure am available, i just don't really participate. But does this mean am cheating?

Wonder2018:
Hubby woke me around 4am and wanted us to get down, I was tired, i just started this new business (logistics) it's taking a ton out of me in a different way, once am tired, nothing gets wet, everywhere is dry and tight. He wanted it from behind, usually I can deal without my vibrator, but I just wasnt in the mood, so I didn't use my vibe, I just took it in that way, it was painful and uncomfortable for me, but I wanted him satisfied.

Wonder2018:
After we weere done, he said to me it's no more like before, are you cheating on me, and since then hubby has been Moody and all gloomy, I tried to hold a convo with him, but he just isn't interested, all he knows is once my private part doesn't feel the same, them am automatically cheating. I don't think that's fair, what happened to finding out what's wrong with this lady that it seems she is loosing what she used to have, what happened to seeing It from a positive angle.

Am not happy at all, I want to leave him to get over it, but then again I taught, it's not the first time he is asking me if am cheating, claiming the place feels different, when it feels loose, he would say something is different.

Okay here I am stating in 6 years I haven't cheated, sexually or any way possible. So if my body changed, i dont know why it did, if my pussy hole feels larger, i dont know what changed, sometimes am tight sometimes am not, i don't want to be tagged what am not, or to suffer for what am not even close to doing, cause if he wants to make you suffer like he will do it so well, you wont know when you will start begging him to forgive you for what you didn't even do, so please sex therapist in the house come and look into this for us from a different angle other than cheating, hopefully he sees this and reads comments.

Body changes does not automatically mean she's cheating. Men!!! Stop doing it

Wonder2018:
This men though, shout out to all the married women out there who know/ feel they are doing well in this school called marriage, but still getting an F by their examiner the hubby.

After 6years am still not getting it.

I used' to be the sex lover, who I loved intimacy with him from our dating ratings till recently, I won't deny the fact that I observed am loosing it gradually, easily put off, easily tired, not always in this mood, I just want to get in bed and sleep, (I sincerely never saw this day coming, knowing how sexually active I used to be) but whatever, I still make sure am available, i just don't really participate. But does this mean am cheating?

Wonder2018:
Hubby woke me around 4am and wanted us to get down, I was tired, i just started this new business (logistics) it's taking a ton out of me in a different way, once am tired, nothing gets wet, everywhere is dry and tight. He wanted it from behind, usually I can deal without my vibrator, but I just wasnt in the mood, so I didn't use my vibe, I just took it in that way, it was painful and uncomfortable for me, but I wanted him satisfied.


[quote author=Wonder2018 post=67987959]After we weere done, he said to me it's no more like before, are you cheating on me, and since then hubby has been Moody and all gloomy, I tried to hold a convo with him, but he just isn't interested, all he knows is once my private part doesn't feel the same, them am automatically cheating. I don't think that's fair, what happened to finding out what's wrong with this lady that it seems she is loosing what she used to have, what happened to seeing It from a positive angle.

Am not happy at all, I want to leave him to get over it, but then again I taught, it's not the first time he is asking me if am cheating, claiming the place feels different, when it feels loose, he would say something is different.

Okay here I am stating in 6 years I haven't cheated, sexually or any way possible. So if my body changed, i dont know why it did, if my pussy hole feels larger, i dont know what changed, sometimes am tight sometimes am not, i don't want to be tagged what am not, or to suffer for what am not even close to doing, cause if he wants to make you suffer like he will do it so well, you wont know when you will start begging him to forgive you for what you didn't even do, so please sex therapist in the house come and look into this for us from a different angle other than cheating, hopefully he sees this and reads comments.

Body changes does not automatically mean she's cheating. Men!!! Stop doing it

MarieSucre:
Bro so sorry about your rape. A lot of people even your fellow men don't take male rape victims serious and it's so sad. I pray and hope you helped from the trauma. if you need someone to talk to I'm here.

yettymuse:
It's safe to say an average man goes into marriage primarily because of sex!?!?!

tobianthony:
I was once in a LTR relationship were sex and music was the connection . But things change . And she became religious and started to say that sex was not good for her but however still flirted with other people's partners openly and was very willing to cross boundaries of other people's marriage .

I knew even then in my beta mindset that once I got married to this lady that there would be no sex in our marriage just transactional sex unbeknownst to me at that time of Rollo tomassi .

tobianthony:
Years ago as a teenager myself and pal let's call him O ( he was the bad boy of the class ) were outside a female classmates house . He brought a condom as it was his intention to have sex with the girl . I being the good boy back then told I couldn't have sex with any girl I didn't love . Yes I was a virgin for many years to come after then .

Many years later in my 30s I almost got married to my " dream girl " , who promptly told me no sex till marriage . To which my beta mind agreed . Even kissing her was based on transaction .i.e. a reward for having done something good . Which was few and far between as time and no private space was an issue .

tobianthony:
Close to two years later I was at a bar with my old pal O the bad boy who was married now but still an alpha none the less .

He asked me what went wrong and I told him although we had discussed this before but I didn't go into details . At that point other present company K my pal too asked for this lady's name to which I told them .

At the mention of her name O and K opened their mouths in surprise and asked for pictures to confirm their suspicions to which I obliged . Upon seeing her picture they shouted .

Apparently sometime after she left me and before Os wedding ,same year mine crashed , he was seeing her and they were bleeping . The lady who wouldn't so much as let me kiss her was paying for hotels so she could shag O . Who promptly wasted no time in giving us details of how he made her squirt ...flipped her indifferent positions but jilted her at the end of the day to marry his wife .

tobianthony:
What did this teach me ?

It made me think what I was doing wrong . Why this beta mindset was a disease a virus that had plagued me from birth . Viciously written into my programming , damningly wired to repeat this every time I was in love .

Well ...your guess is as good mine .

ObaKlaz:
Oh please! What smoke?! What fire?! First, she agreed to do a PERSONAL APOLOGY (though she might be telling the the truth, according to you) than a public one, but she could defame a man PUBLICLY & not expect legal wahala?!! Sometimes, the mind and whole thought process of a Nigerian can be very sickening and repulsive.

You're trying too hard to justify that which CANNOT be justified.

Mr 'no smoke without fire' your thought process is very warped, twisted and faulty.

gloriana:
women have nothing to do with this. its just the crave for evil. after all there are also intimacy gadgets for women but like we all know, its a man's world. while d women intimacy gadget has to be kept secret or low key because they don't have a right, the men's intimacy gadget is ok for publicity.

gloriana:
if you think men don't have any fault, why do we have vibrators to do d deal? women don't need a full blown "man doll" to fill in the gap but men need a complete doll. why is that? #menarebabies #womenaremature #womenaretherealdeal

Assassin101:
I really cant seem to wrap my head around the fact that this "sex-doll" thing is causing so much commotion. I believe they are manufactured in male and female version, so how come the women are not as excited as their male counterparts? One reason is for sure; they will have sex with the male doll alright, but who will now be paying for their various irrelevant needs?

AnonyNymous:
I'm sorry. . .I just don't agree with the way you paint women as some kind of 'victims' of patriarchal oppression which is DEFINITELY not the narrative. In fact, in the western world, men are more oppressed than women. Feminism has outlived its usefulness. It was an attempt to balance the scales but its tipped them too far.

I can site numerous examples if you're interested.

As far as I'm concerned, only women who have nothing to offer but sex will be intimidated by the sex doll. A man who enjoys the company of his wife or girlfriend will have no need to look in the direction of sex dolls. Women know that men are more susceptible to their sexual desires, and then use sex as a bargaining tool- acting like sex isn't a two way thing. Why would a man want to go through the stress of dating/marrying a women who does nothing but take from him- his money, his peace of mind, his sleep, and so on, just in exchange for sex which is supposed to be both partners pleasing each other.

Of course, I agree that a man should aim to find a virtuous woman, who he can build his life with. An independent woman who can stand on her own- so that both will be complementing each other instead of one that would rely on him. (Or a relationship where both would rely on each other, even).

As far as I'm concerned, this sex doll thingy is just nothing more than a tool for masturbation, like the dildos, penile pumps, etc that have been existing for a long time. "Body no be firewood". Before you meet that special someone, your body's sexual needs have to be met.

This sex doll of a thing would also help to eliminate men whose sole purpose for dating is sex. If they get all they want from the doll, there's no need to prey on innocent GOOD women. That'd probably also force the 'leeches' to get their lazy prostitute asses to work so they make their own money- leaving relationships for people who actually know what they want from their potential partner.

Everyone wins. The sex doll is a welcome development

Ryabcool:
As seen on twitter, a Married Nigerian woman ignored all shreds of dignity and got exposed for trying to seduce Cassper Nyovest as he lands in Nigeria. Massive reactions trail this scandal which has gone viral and the woman involved had to lock her twitter account and even changed her profile picture.

This begs the question: Is there still any sanctity left in the institution called marriage?

Here is a direct link to the thread on twitter;

https://twitter.com/charlyge2/status/951820849513934850

Alexsmith20:
Sorry to say your story sound all ficticious to me. How can a man in this era lavish all his money frivolously on beer and mere follies. I think your mission is to mislead ladies out their. and create a negative impression about men who are in similar state.

pocohantas:
For all sorts of child sexual abuse, the figures should be close, though male child rape is less reported.

pocohantas:
For adult rape of individual sexes, men take the lead. The average woman can't overpower a man, except she uses drugs. I for one have never been able to hold down any guy.

frenzyduchess:
we are saying the same thing because logically it's almost impossible for a lady to rape a man, if we are to go by the definition of rape, and let's not forget that statistically, in ten rape cases we will find men raping women in nine of them, and eight will be guilty

moghulis:
Now the short man will probably going to be taking care of another man's baby.

Marriage is an overrated bullshit!