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Gaming › Re: ManFila_XP CLUB #0 by filani(op): 4:57pm On Jan 15, 2021
Hello Geeks, Gamers & Anime lovers !

It's Friiidayyy , so you know the weekend is here.
Come with me and let's see what's good in the club today. grin grin

*ANDROID MOBILE GAMES BUZZ*

<Super Mombo Quest >
This cute Metroidvania is from Orube Game Studio and is one watch in my opinion.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ONwvoPq4oN4

The release date is scheduled for February 2nd but if you don't want to wait that long then follow the link to the play store and try your hands on the free Demo build, thank me later grin grin grin

https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.orube.smqdemo

<Titan Quest Legendary Edition>
For the sake of clarity this game already got a release on the play store but the developers decided to port the DLC's and optimisations from the main console release over to mobile and are we complaining about that? Of course not so head over to the play store to Pre-register and get a notification on global release

https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.hg.titanquestedition


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EvvAj7g0GLI

<Ronin The Last Samurai>
If you felt a little bit left out last year when console gamers were having fan orgasms over Ghost of Tsushima then maybe this will scratch that itch smiley
You're not saving a nation from Mongol invaders but you will get your samurai groove on grin grin

https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.dreamotion.ronin


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WsDInqplPnM
Gaming › Re: Best Open World Games Below 70MB On Android by filani(m): 3:03pm On Jan 10, 2021
Michael390:
1 Big city life
This is the story of an ordinary guy who entered town and his trying to get used to the big city he has to get work hard in all sort of job just to earn a living.The games is just a simple open word game where you play as a guy and achieve all your desires.This game allows you to own a houses own cars and enter buildings there are so many jobs you can choose from.The game is amazing!!!

Size:65MB

2 Grand Gangster
There's nothing much in this game this is just and open world game where you are given the chance to kill people in different cars,with your bare hands or with variety of guns.But remember don't let the cops find you if they do run or drive as fast as you can.There are variety of mini games and watch out for the gangsters!!!
Size:21MB
3 West Gun Fighter
This is an open world game where you are Free to go through different portals (but you'll need to download one or two less than 3MB)once you download it your free to go through it any time.There lot of things to do you can kill people and animal,collect wishky bottles you can also hang out at the bar or you can play mini games(betting) on money if you win you'll get double(like for example bet on 500 you'll get 1500)that's cool.You can also accept missions from legends.
I've played the three games I mentiones there additive and fun.You can download them on Google play store or other app stores
Thanks!!!
@Michael390
Not bad...check out my thread

https://www.nairaland.com/6340981/manfila-xp-club-0
Gaming › Re: ManFila_XP CLUB #0 by filani(op): 5:08pm On Jan 08, 2021
Hello Geeks, Gamers & Anime lovers !
It's Friiidayyy , so you know the weekend is here.
Come with me and let's see what's good in the club today.

*ANDROID MOBILE GAMES BUZZ*

<Rayark International release concept video for new project 'Binary Gods'>

The studio behind mobile game hits Deemo, Cytus 1 & 2 and Implosion: Never lose Hope have dropped a 'Concept video' for thier latest upcoming title 'Binary Gods'

A quick study of the concept video implies an isometric veiw ,hack slasher with heavy influence of anime techno action.

Anybody who has played Implosion: Never lose Hope from Rayark will immediately see the DNA of that game here. Rayark have a record of quality games on mobile so needless to say i am really looking forward to more news on this title, until we know more check out the concept video below


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=g2-QsO0RG2A

<Ninja Rabbit studio to release 'MiceTopia' on Android mobile>

I will be upfront with you guys, i've never even heard of these guys before this announcement but i am familiar with Crescent Moon games who will be the studio publishing this title on mobile .
The description for the game is 'a Pixelart ,Metroidvania platformer' it already has a release for consoles and now mobile gamers will get thier hands on it �. Check out the trailer below


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aAOsu9c-J7I

<Player Unknown Battleground 2.0 coming?>

Ok, confession time....i'm not a big fan of First person shooters or Battle royale shooters but many peeps are into it so this buzz might interest you....follow the link for full gist.

https://gamingonphone.com/news/pubg-mobile-2-0-leaks-sequel-to-pubg-mobile-is-under-development/

<Nier Reincarnation X Nier AutoMata>

Nier Reincarnation is a standalone mobile game based on the Nier series console games.
It was initially due for release in 2020 but was delayed to 2021 with a February 18th release for Japan. Also a release crossover event with Nier Automata has been announced, catch the trailer below.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RrCDNOr7T-c

*ANIME BUZZ*

If you are like me you probably look back to your pre teen days with fond nostalgia especially from the saturday morning cartoons on NTA 2 Channel 5 ��� wow...those were the days.
I still get my Animation fix till today and NetFlix have a series that caught my attention, check it out


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9JAQh544RHE
Gaming › ManFila_XP CLUB #0 by filani(op):
New Year , New Vibe*

Hello, Geeks , Gamers and Anime lovers it's a new year and we are gonna have so much fun here smiley smiley smiley

I'm starting this thread to put my thoughts on the latest on Android Mobile games ,trending comics and coolest anime.

Even with all the challenges of 2020 we always found a way to keep ourselves happy and with a promising new slew of games , shows and comic
2021 looks to be even better!
WATCH THIS SPACE !!!
Phones › Re: Java OS Phone Users by filani(op): 9:51am On Dec 26, 2020
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Phones › Re: Java OS Phone Users by filani(op): 9:50am On Dec 26, 2020
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Literature › Re: Authors On Okadabooks Drop Your Book Info Here by filani(m): 6:00pm On Aug 12, 2020
BOOK TITLE:
The Arasaka Contract

GENRE:
Science Fiction Adventure

Book description:
It is the year 2052 and the world has changed. Democratic institutions have fallen and many countries of the world are indirectly ruled by Mega Corporations with massive influence and resources.

The two largest MegaCorps in the world are the Arasaka Corporation of Japan and Military Technologies Inc of America.

A secret war is being fought between these two for total domination of the world and as such in violent times like this Spies, Mercenaries and Dealers of all kinds make their fortune by working for the highest bidder.

In this Science Fiction Thriller you will step into the shoes of a MegaCorp soldier and experience 24 hours of his life in a dangerous dystopian city of the near future

#TheArasakaContract


The Arasaka Contract is available on Okadabooks. Click on the link below to get your copy.
https://okadabooks.com/search?query=the%2520Arasaka%2520contract

Literature › Re: The Arasaka Contract by filani(op): 10:21am On Aug 12, 2020
Hello peeps, The Arasaka Contract is live on Okada Books, GET IT NOW!!!

https://www.okadabooks.com/book/about/the_arasaka_contract__adult_only_18/15206

Gaming › Re: Good Graphic Games you should have on your Android. by filani(m): 2:26pm On Mar 08, 2020
Omoapena:
How did you tweak it, i downloaded another one and its still crashing at that same spot.


Check screenshot below
First I assume you have the latest version of PPSSPP ver: 1.9.4

Use the settings in the pics below and revert back.

Gaming › Re: Good Graphic Games you should have on your Android. by filani(m): 4:22am On Mar 07, 2020
Omoapena:
Cool


I don't know what is wrong wit mine now, i got to a stage and the game will just crash, it kept doing that at that particular stage.
Probably the file is corrupted or the file i downloaded isn't the complete version.


Forward me link to where you download urs...
@ Omoapena

https://romsmania.cc/roms/playstation-portable/god-of-war-ghost-of-sparta-274256

Which stage is ur game crashing? I had a similar issue at a certain point too until I tweaked my settings a bit.
Gaming › Re: Good Graphic Games you should have on your Android. by filani(m): 6:56pm On Mar 04, 2020
Omoapena:
List of games on my phone with attractive graphics you should have on your Android phones, some are compatible with bluetooth joystick..

Check the list below with screenshots.

1. God Of War Ghost Of Sparta


GOW is an offline game made for PSP but requires you to extract its file to be able to play it on Android.


I use my bluetooth joystick to play it for easier gameplay
@ Omoapena
Just finished this on PPSSPP with PS4 GamePad, highly recommend it.

Bluetooth GamePad compatibility is the best thing to happen to Mobile Phone Gamers.
Gaming › Re: What's The Latest Android Game This Year 2020? by filani(m): 11:02am On Feb 15, 2020
mrkings84:
If there's anything new, just let me know pls.... Enough of Temple run, zombie highway, 9jawot, ludo, etc....
@MrKings84
OK then try your hands on the following

1) Dandara
2) Space Marshals 2
3) Aquaria
4) Eden Renaissance

Get back to me on what you think.

Gaming › Re: What's The Latest Android Game This Year 2020? by filani(m): 8:30pm On Feb 14, 2020
mrkings84:
Pls if there is anything new and interesting share, I just need new android games, tired of all these old-school games!
@ MrKings84
Define "old school" games?
Gaming › Re: The Best Mobile Games of 2020 by filani(m): 12:50pm On Feb 14, 2020
I tend to favor more action, adventure oriented games. The following is my personal hit list for the year 2020 thus far

1) Pascal's Wager by Tipsworks
2) Star Diffusion by Celad games
3) Tom Clancy's ELITE SQUAD by Ubisoft
4) Dandara :Trials of Fear by LongHat house
5) Within by Silver Lining Studio

This should be a good year for mobile gamers.

Gaming › Re: Whatsapp Group For Mobile Gamers by filani(m):
Theflow:
Copy full link and paste in browser, remove extra space from ".com"
Sorry anti spam link bot
keeps on asking me to "download whatsapp" and I already have what's app on my droid phone undecided

update:
fixed it, I'm in �
Gaming › Re: Psp/ps Vita/android/ios/switch/3ds/shield Consoles Gaming Section by filani(m): 4:28pm On Jan 01, 2020
sammyfrosh:
My bouncing bad boy cheesy
@ Sammyfrosh
Wow, you got a Switch Lite, how much did that cost you?
why did you opt for the lite over the Switch original?
Romance › Re: Is It So Impossible To Forgive A Girlfriend That Cheated? by filani(m): 11:46am On Dec 12, 2019
mayim:
I totally can relate to what ur going thru. My woman cheated on me with a married man 3 months after I proposed . I never knew I was gonna survive it. I felt like dying, cudnt go to work for a week. Fast forward to Today we are married with a child. It’s not as easy as it sounded. It was a lot of work, we had to do a lot of unlearning and relearning..it was tough to say the least, I wept like a baby for days.
@Mayim
For the sake of clarity, you married her after she cheated on you with a married man after you proposed to her!!!

You are a man like me so I will be blunt, where is your Self Respect?!

I read your post & I can't find any evidence of it.

Self respect entails boundaries on how you relate with people & standing your ground with anyone who transgressed .
With that in mind let's look at the picture you have painted with your now "wife".

You have a classic case of 'Oneitis' ,you very likely subscribe to the soulmate romantic ideal.
You lack any belief that you deserve any better than her hence your willingness to take her back after she had some good steamy sex from the married guy. grin


https://therationalmale.com/2011/08/30/there-is-no-one/

https://therationalmale.com/2012/10/29/the-soul-mate-myth/


She now knows that she can eat her cake and have it with you without fear of losing out because good Christian boy hubby will always forgive her cheesy

P. S I strongly advise you to take that child for a paternity test ASAP!!! Lest you come back here in donkey years time with tears in your eyes about raising another man's kid.

mayim:
But I saw the need to work it out, it was on my own terms. She didn’t push it. She just kept telling me how sorry she was. There are days it looks like we are over it but then we take some steps backwards again. But ultimately we are here today. I don’t regret working it out. Sometimes a truly repentant partner that once cheated will make the most loyal partner. I sent u a pm.i wud love to reveal some things to you that helped my healing. But pls don’t push the man, he has been kind enough to forgive u. Peace sis
@Mayim
Wort it out on your terms?! What terms are that pray tell? Did it cost her an arm and a leg to get you backhuh

She sheds a few tears and says I'm sorry and that's all it took?

Hahahahahahahahha cheesy

A repentant partner you say, in what way did she repenthuh
She jumps on a married man's Dick at the thought of being married to you but you on here talking about her Loyaltyhuh

Hahahahahahahahah grin

You honestly believe you got a good deal marrying her don't you? You honestly believe she's giving you her best? You are so clueless I'm torn between laughing at you & crying for you but when it's all said and done it's your bed so go ahead and lie in it.

https://therationalmale.com/2013/12/03/saving-the-best/
Celebrities › Re: Ayo Adesanya: At 50, I Still Love Sex And Want To Marry Again by filani(m): 10:16am On Oct 05, 2019
ValCon888:
Now she's 50:
Tall and Handsome has left the chat.
Romantic and God fearing has entered the chat.
This is what Rollo Tomassi calls the women's "Epiphany phase"

https://therationalmale.com/2012/12/19/the-epiphany-phase/

When she was young & hot (?) Tall,dark & handsome was the order of the day but now at 50 yrs old she is looking for a "God fearing" ( i spent my youth shagging bad boys and now i am willing to give you the left overs) man who will be "lucky" ( a guy who is so blind & clueless he doesn't see the crappy deal I'm offering him) enough to walk her down the isle .
Romance › Re: Why A Man Should Never Chase A Woman. by filani(m): 5:58am On Sep 25, 2019
Toks2008:
For the benefit of this piece it is important i define what chase in this context mean.. "To chase simply means making repetitive attempt to win the desire of a lady who does not want you"

A man should show a desire for a lady and not desperation but when you begin to chase a lady then you have crossed the line and if she eventually says YES, it will probably be because she has run out of time waiting for her preferred type of man or she just feels worn out by the pressure you mounted on her and will rarely be because she really wants to be with you..and the worst part is that you will end up being the one who will be making more sacrifices towards making the relationship work since you made it look like you desperately won her like a trophy or medal you have to keep fighting to keep.


For every lady you chase, it is most likely that there is a man out there that she is craving for so why ridicule yourself?...It is interesting to know that Nine out of every Ten single ladies already have a mind made guy they would love to be with?...simply put, almost every lady has a spec and if you don't meet up to the spec there is absolutely nothing you can do than to move on to another lady who may likely have you as her kind of man.

Some ladies have crazy desires and turn-ons like beards, 6pack, height, skin color, Age, Tribe, P*nis size and several other weird and funny preferences that attract them to a man and if you don't have their desired qualities just forget wasting your time chasing them.

The best bet is to approach a lady in a mature way, tell her about your desire for her and be very sensitive to her body language.. if she wants you then go for her but if she rejects you simply tell her to be your friend with hope that she changes her mind and MOVE ON...

And no matter how you look or how your condition is, you must understand that there is a lady out there who is hoping to meet a guy just like you so stop wasting your time chasing a lady who does not want your type.

I hope this makes sense.
@Toks2008

"A woman should only ever be the complement to a Mans life and NEVER the focus of it!" - Rollo Tomassi

#RedPill

Business › Re: Protesters Shut Down Lagos Computer Village Over Installation Of Woman As Leader by filani(m): 8:22am On May 01, 2019
Mizwisdom:
filani grin
Madam if you read the article properly, the main issue is the idea of installing Babaloga/Iyaloga in the first place not so much the gender!!!

P.S I'm waiting for you to reply me on the other thread smiley
Politics › Re: Gender Inequality In Nigerian Politics (1999 Vs 2015 Vs 2019) by filani(m): 12:55pm On Apr 30, 2019
@MizWisdom
Neither you or I are politicians to the best of my knowledge so my answers will be based on simple reasoning power and information which is available to anybody who cares to seek it out.



Mizwisdom:
@NL kid cheesy


If you read my post you'll notice the major one. Why should there be "Women's wing" of a political party, why give women the rôle of getting other female votes when the same isn't done for men, why is there no "men's wing" within political parties,
If I read the above clearly then the act of political parties having a womens wing to source for female votes while no similar Men's wing to source for men's vote officially exists is an act of 'tactically sideling" women in politics

The mindset you display with that statement is that you think Male politicians simply sit on their behinds and votes/support falls on them like manna from heaven!

You assume that male politicians will not need to acquire & motivate their base(which includes women by the way) inline with their political vision before the leaders of the party reckon with them.

Any smart person will tell you that the few politically sharp women in political parties actually see the women's wing in parties not as Obstacles but as an opportunity to be noticed! But according to you they are being sidelined?!

Two friends took a trip to India, while walking on the street among Indians the 1st friend said" My goodness look at so many of them walking barefooted, so sad!'
The 2nd friend looked and said "Yes you're right ...so many of them are barefooted!" with a gleam in his eye.

Both friends went back home eventually, the 1st friend told everybody who cared to listen about the hardship and poverty he saw in India.
The 2nd friend gathered the needed resources, went back to India and established a shoe factory!

Both friends saw the same Indians ,while one saw poverty & hardship the second saw an open business opportunity.

MizWisdom , if all that women who think like you keep seeeing around them is "evidence" of women being sidelined you will forever be blind to the opportunities for elevation THAT is not a curse, it is simple common sense!


Mizwisdom:
why is the sale of nomination forms to elective positions very high such that many women can't afford,
You make this statement in a way that presumes that ONLY women are affected by high cost of nomination forms

https://www.legit.ng/1189741-2019-apc-aspirants-threaten-defection-high-costs-nomination-forms.html

And since you raise that issue how many female politicians who are given a "subsidy" on the cost of forms cry out for their male counterparts to be given the same treatment?

Mizwisdom:
why do political God father's not make God daughters of women and back them up as they do their sons
Do you know what a Godfather is? Do you know what a Godson is?

A Godfather by definition is a male individual who weilds power and influence in any given domain of their choosing I.e Religious, Financial, Political
A Godchild is any individual who ACKNOWLEDGES a Godfathers power/ influence & SUBMITS themselves to the Godfathers Mentorship/Direction to have same rubb off on them

Now ,we all know how naija women love SUBMITTING smiley

Especially submitting to a MAN smiley

It comes down to Naija women wanting to eat their cake and have it at the same time!

Naija women want all the advantages of being a Goddaughter but hate that there will be a string attached! They don't want to pay the price of being Godchild! There is NO FREE LUNCH even in Freetown!!!

Another angle is that women like that seem to turn a blind eye to well to do Women in society, why are they not knocking down the door of these women to sponsor women's political dreams?

We see enough SlayQueens posing with bling on the 'Gram, Multi millionaire Social media bloggers buying houses in Banana island like pure water and Yeye...excuse me , Female celebrities making noise on TV up an down showing off their latest fashion. We see women on paper and NL front page quoting fempowerment mantra and the next minute telling us that she is going to spend the salary that many women & MEN spend years to get putting silicone in her Boobs and Butt smiley after the surgery she comes back to NL front-page to pose for picture with boobs & butt hanging out with hashtag #EmpoweredWoman #WomenRule #I love my life smiley smiley smiley

But according to you a Godfather who promotes a Godson who has Submitted himself to YEARS of mentoring , political networking & influence is "tactically sidelineing women ?!

Hahahahahahahahahahahajaj smileysmileysmileytongue


Mizwisdom:
, why are certain political meetings held in the dead of night when most women/men should be with their families? I can go on pointing these tactics but I chose to stop here for now.
Similar to your statement about high cost of nomination forms you again presume that ONLY Women are negatively affected by latenight political meetings SMDH sad

I look forwarded to a well articulated response from you, I stop here for now smiley
Politics › Re: Gender Inequality In Nigerian Politics (1999 Vs 2015 Vs 2019) by filani(m): 8:45pm On Apr 29, 2019
Mizwisdom:
Good topic but I still give 95% blame to women for this abysmal performance in politics. There's no where in the world
where first lady of state is an aspiration or where women's wing of political parties exist. It's clear that women in politics have been tactically sidelined by their male counterparts yet they're not smart enough to notice. Ask Theresa May how she did it
@MizWisdom

Let me take a chance that you are not one of the numerous NL kids who are up past their bedtime and engage you in discourse.

In what way exactly are naija Women tactically sidelined by their male counterparts?

Serious question please, not Trolling!
Politics › Re: Gender Inequality In Nigerian Politics (1999 Vs 2015 Vs 2019) by filani(m): 6:04pm On Apr 29, 2019
Profkenny1:
These feminist bastards only eye the positions held by the top 20% men, while ignoring the ones held by 80% men who die daily on their jobs.

None of ya'll bastards clamor for equal representation in jobs like sewage treatment, plumbing, electrician, carpentry, trash collection, fire fighting, Nigerian army infantry, and other dangerous low-paying jobs that men are involved in.

f.ucking vile, selfish, cold-blooded, entitled women will always want the opportunity but not the responsibility. sad
"Responsibility without power is ineffective but Power without Responsibility is TYRANNY!"- Anonymous

When was the last time anybody on this thread heard or read about what Responsibilities that Feminists will take up along with the Power...oh excuse me the "Rights" that they keep asking for?

Romance › Re: Nigerian Couple Hold A Game Of Thrones Themed Wedding Unclesuru by filani(m): 7:50am On Apr 15, 2019
joshuisiukwu:
A Nigerian couple identified as Opemipo and Opemipo, held a Game Of Thrones themed wedding over the weekend and we've got photos from the event. The Game of Thrones themed wedding held by the couple, was attended by family, friends and loved ones and here are photos below; 


https://unclesuru.com/2019/04/15/nigerian-couple-hold-a-game-of-thrones-themed-wedding/
This will not end well for him sad

Holding an elaborate GOT themed wedding which I am sure was HER idea not his.

His body language in the Pic tells the story...He needs her more than she needs him even though his SMV is higher than hers!!!

He is displaying Beta male traits

#RedPill

https://therationalmale.com/2018/09/26/body-language/

Fashion › Re: Lady's Massive Cleavage-Baring Graduation Dress Goes Viral by filani(m): 10:32pm On Apr 08, 2019
midolian:
Well, until we know the course she studied in school and how she graduated, we should not condemn her yet.

The melons may be more deserving of recognition than her brain.
Cheezus !!! What Savagery is this? shocked
Celebrities › Re: Tonto Dikeh Blasts Churchill After She Was Accused Of Selling His Car (Pics) by filani(m): 6:49pm On Apr 07, 2019
cyndy1000:
She is never tired..

This one don pass hatred, I guess she still loves him
"The opposite of LOVE isn't HATE ,(when somebody hates you they STILL have strong feelings for you) the opposite of love is INDIFFERENCE!" - Rollo Tomassi

#RedPill
Celebrities › Re: Charles Idibia Weds Rosemarie, Pre-Wedding Photos Of 2face Brother by filani(m): 1:04pm On Oct 27, 2018
Amagite2:
Legendary singer, 2Face Idibia's youngest brother, Charles Idibia is set to wed the love of his life, Rosemarie.

Excited Annie Idibia took to Instagram to announce the news writing;

"wow wowzaaaaaaaa������������ So Excited!!!!! Youngest Idibia Brother Is Taken Oooooooooooo !!! Can’t wait can’t wait!!!! Latest Mrs Idibia Coming throughhhhhhh♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️ @charlybrave @rosemarie__1"

Rosemarie had her bridal shower on October 14th.

More photos here; https://www.amagitesblog.com/2018/10/2face-idibias-youngest-brother-set-to-wed-see-pre-wedding-photos.html
Call me a cynic but the Body language on these pics is all wrong! My NL brothers whatever you do ,DON'T LEAN IN !!!

https://therationalmale.com/2018/09/26/body-language/
Family › Re: He Did Not Enjoy Intimacy With Me, And Concluded I Am Cheating by filani(m): 12:32am On May 30, 2018
The following advice is given to @ Wonder2018 with the assumption that she is sexually attracted to her husband & actually cares about
Pleasing him

Wonder2018:
This men though, shout out to all the married women out there who know/ feel they are doing well in this school called marriage, but still getting an F by their examiner the hubby.

After 6years am still not getting it.

I used' to be the sex lover, who I loved intimacy with him from our dating ratings till recently, I won't deny the fact that I observed am loosing it gradually, easily put off, easily tired, not always in this mood, I just want to get in bed and sleep, (I sincerely never saw this day coming, knowing how sexually active I used to be) but whatever, I still make sure am available, i just don't really participate. But does this mean am cheating?
@ wonder2018
By your own admission you have not been putting in your "A" game in bed, just making yourself "available" does not cover your lack of enthusiasm which is what your hubby has noticed and is calling you out on.

The greater irony is that you conveniently expect your hubby to accept sub-par sex after you have given all your strength to the job, as other posters b/4 me have noted your hubby is WORKING TOO! If your hubby goes a year without touching you, spending late hours after work ,taking private calls away from your hearing,code locking his phone, you would start asking questions too!

As others have also noted,this is less about stress & more about passionate desire, specifically your sexual desire for your hubby!

"A woman who wants to Shag you WILL FIND A WAY TO SHAG YOU!!!" - Rollo Tomassi


Wonder2018:
Hubby woke me around 4am and wanted us to get down, I was tired, i just started this new business (logistics) it's taking a ton out of me in a different way, once am tired, nothing gets wet, everywhere is dry and tight. He wanted it from behind, usually I can deal without my vibrator, but I just wasnt in the mood, so I didn't use my vibe, I just took it in that way, it was painful and uncomfortable for me, but I wanted him satisfied.
I can't help but notice that with all the hullabaloo in recent past about S3XDOLLS ,that NONE of our "Married" contributors on this thread raised an eyebrow about your Vibrator!

S3X DOLLS =evil, immature, satanic
S3X Vibrators = perfectly OK : /

You have an easier time connecting sexually with a intimacy gadget than with a flesh and blood Man but our married contributors completely missed this Red Flag and have nothing but critique for your hubby. LWKMD !!!
How many of them would welcome a S3X DOLL into their marriage bed?

She is taking the easy way out to her own Orgasm rather than purposefully building sexual intimacy & knowledge with her hubby to achieve same result, Why? Because the first requires just 3 AA batteries & 5 mins of clitoral stroking while the second demands Commitment, Time(days, weeks, months) & Desire to be the best she can be for her Hubby!

But Hey ,what do I know? Let's just blame the Hubby !!!

Wonder2018:
After we weere done, he said to me it's no more like before, are you cheating on me, and since then hubby has been Moody and all gloomy, I tried to hold a convo with him, but he just isn't interested, all he knows is once my private part doesn't feel the same, them am automatically cheating. I don't think that's fair, what happened to finding out what's wrong with this lady that it seems she is loosing what she used to have, what happened to seeing It from a positive angle.

Am not happy at all, I want to leave him to get over it, but then again I taught, it's not the first time he is asking me if am cheating, claiming the place feels different, when it feels loose, he would say something is different.

Okay here I am stating in 6 years I haven't cheated, sexually or any way possible. So if my body changed, i dont know why it did, if my pussy hole feels larger, i dont know what changed, sometimes am tight sometimes am not, i don't want to be tagged what am not, or to suffer for what am not even close to doing, cause if he wants to make you suffer like he will do it so well, you wont know when you will start begging him to forgive you for what you didn't even do, so please sex therapist in the house come and look into this for us from a different angle other than cheating, hopefully he sees this and reads comments.

Body changes does not automatically mean she's cheating. Men!!! Stop doing it
To be fair ,the slackness of the vagina as evidence of cheating is simply incorrect.

With that said, she herself is also Ignorant of her own body!!!
We are the generation living in the information age!!!

I challenge her to tell us that she has taken the time to research from Google "How to tighten slack Vaginal muscles",
I challenge her to tell us she knows what Kegel Exercises are!
I challenge her to tell us she has asked Google to tell her " Sex Positions for Lazy couples"
I challenge her to tell us she knows what KY jelly/lubricant is & what it's for!

My final submission is this, Get rid of the Vibrator ,Do your Sexual Knowledge Homework to bring your Vaginal muscles back up to specs,
Put the same enthusiasm you give to the Job to Making passionate love to your hubby, if it is really important to you ,You will save energy & make time for it, NO EXCUSES!!!

SHALOM !
Family › Re: He Did Not Enjoy Intimacy With Me, And Concluded I Am Cheating by filani(m): 11:17pm On May 29, 2018
Wonder2018:
This men though, shout out to all the married women out there who know/ feel they are doing well in this school called marriage, but still getting an F by their examiner the hubby.

After 6years am still not getting it.

I used' to be the sex lover, who I loved intimacy with him from our dating ratings till recently, I won't deny the fact that I observed am loosing it gradually, easily put off, easily tired, not always in this mood, I just want to get in bed and sleep, (I sincerely never saw this day coming, knowing how sexually active I used to be) but whatever, I still make sure am available, i just don't really participate. But does this mean am cheating?
@ wonder2018
By your own admission you have not been putting in your "A" game in bed, just making yourself "available" does not cover your lack of interest which is what your hubby has noticed and is calling you out on.

The greater irony is that you conveniently expect your hubby to accept sub-par sex after you have given all your strength to the job, as other posters b/4 me have noted your hubby is WORKING TOO! If your hubby goes a year without touching you, spending late hours after work ,taking private calls away from your hearing,code locking his phone, you would start asking questions too!

As others have also noted,this is less about stress & more about passionate desire, specifically your sexual desire for your hubby!


Wonder2018:
Hubby woke me around 4am and wanted us to get down, I was tired, i just started this new business (logistics) it's taking a ton out of me in a different way, once am tired, nothing gets wet, everywhere is dry and tight. He wanted it from behind, usually I can deal without my vibrator, but I just wasnt in the mood, so I didn't use my vibe, I just took it in that way, it was painful and uncomfortable for me, but I wanted him satisfied.


[quote author=Wonder2018 post=67987959]After we weere done, he said to me it's no more like before, are you cheating on me, and since then hubby has been Moody and all gloomy, I tried to hold a convo with him, but he just isn't interested, all he knows is once my private part doesn't feel the same, them am automatically cheating. I don't think that's fair, what happened to finding out what's wrong with this lady that it seems she is loosing what she used to have, what happened to seeing It from a positive angle.

Am not happy at all, I want to leave him to get over it, but then again I taught, it's not the first time he is asking me if am cheating, claiming the place feels different, when it feels loose, he would say something is different.

Okay here I am stating in 6 years I haven't cheated, sexually or any way possible. So if my body changed, i dont know why it did, if my pussy hole feels larger, i dont know what changed, sometimes am tight sometimes am not, i don't want to be tagged what am not, or to suffer for what am not even close to doing, cause if he wants to make you suffer like he will do it so well, you wont know when you will start begging him to forgive you for what you didn't even do, so please sex therapist in the house come and look into this for us from a different angle other than cheating, hopefully he sees this and reads comments.

Body changes does not automatically mean she's cheating. Men!!! Stop doing it
Celebrities › Re: OluTimehin Adegbeye: "Pretty Mike Raped Me At 16, Andre Blaze Assaulted Me" by filani(m): 10:02am On May 06, 2018
MarieSucre:
Bro so sorry about your rape. A lot of people even your fellow men don't take male rape victims serious and it's so sad. I pray and hope you helped from the trauma. if you need someone to talk to I'm here.
@MarieSucre

It's all good and well that you recognize that Male rape victims are not accorded the same level of attention but are you aware that women don't take Male rape victims seriously?

How many women do you know of that openly admit that there are Female Sexual predators among us?

How many NGO's , Hashtag campaigns have you seen calling for Female Sexual predators to be named, shamed & locked away for the rest of their natural lives?

Do you know why this is?

We now live in a society where Men are viewed as guilty until proven guilty while Women are innocent until proven innocent!

We live in a society a women can have casual sex with a guy ,feel guilty about it 3 days later and then when her family find out that sweet little innocent "virgin" girl has been riding D!ck like a porn star ,she tells her family that he "raped" her.....and they believe her because she said so! No evidence or due process required.

We live in a society where a Man can spend 30+ years building a career, a life, a Legacy to have it all torn to shreds by one tweet with #MeToo attached to it! No evidence or due process required!

To be sure , there are Dangerous times ahead for Men in general as the #MeToo copy cat campaigns gain ground and momentum as Mob Justice mentality takes over.

I have already seen signs in the political realm of a Governor pandering to these campaigns to secure Female votes(2019 tinz!), The monster he is feeding now will soon grow big enough to swallow him whole!

Wake up Men, Wake up!!! The enemy is at our gates and we are the Prey!

https://therationalmale.com/2017/12/18/dangerous-times-part-1/

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