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either married or not how possible it is for people from opposite sex to be just friends? a close friend for that matter. what I mean by close friend is the essence of talking at least everyday in social channels, sharing work or personal issues and vital info, and laughs as if they are of same sex.

and either of them will had to buzz the other before starting the chat or calls etc. when status or picture is update the other will talk about it.

to me it's very rear for this to happen ordinarily,. and its the women that normally start the romantic/love feeling first towards the other because women are very quick to develop feeling to someone they talk with and plays with. once they notice you are a nice persons especially with financial assistance the feeling will start suddenly. you will become cutes in there eyes. once they start asking you for birthday gift, to take them out just know say e done happen. women usual use make I come? buy me this and that? you just forget about me nor be so oh? Or she start to happy with she sees you. be it married woman or not my brother e done set oh and you done by market.

I was in a close friendship with a girl not until she start taking it to another level, I never wanted to do it but everybody who keep seeing us together already assume we are dating. so to me a guy and a girl cannot be friend again?, so what is left when I am accused of what I don't know nothing about. so I said to myself let me just chop the apple and clean mouth fast, after i clean mouth I start to avoid her, stop all social channel chat and calls then slowly her affection for me dead. and several other cases its very easy for anyone of them to start thinking it the other way. and what about my friends sisters? I couldn't do it because it look somehow on my part so what I do is cut connection when I notice the communication is no longer ordinary or appropriate.

so if you ask me the % for it to remain as just friends without anyone of them taking it to another level is very low let assume 10%

.. where is all the money now? he he never thought about resigning and start something for himself.

GenBuhari:
Sahara Reporters are based in New York City USA, because they are imperialist mouth piece briefed to misinform Africans to the benefit of imperialist skullduggery.

shut the fuc.k up there. it look like imperialism is a new word to you Right?

it might not be expired injection but reaction. every drug have reaction/side effect. and it react from persons to persons. I was on medication that almost destroyed my eye.

when I search the drug side effect online I was like wow. you will hear something like heart attack, strokes, hypertension, agitation, hallucinations, lever failure, kidney failure, contact your doctor immediately any of the noticed symptoms. these drugs cause more damage than they treat.
there is also possibility that it might not be the drugs.

there is also this body weight gain drugs that almost turn me to impotent. no urge for sex and sleeping all day.

the fact magu have case to answer that only even disqualified him. why can't they tried another so we can rest for once.

Billyonaire:
Why arrest the man if all he does is kill animals to eat and keep body and soul. What nonsense is this ? Americans promoting the wildlife preservation are the cause of climate change, and they are backing away from paying carbon tax, but Africans are foolish enough to live in tropical rain forests and preserve natural habitats and we end up being called Bush people.

If America does not dedicate her resources for climate change, Africa has no business keeping the rain forest and the species. Let's Bleep up the planet together and perish with it.

That is what we did to mars, now we are here and the same group of reptoid humanoids are lording over the rest of the population to preserve the environment that they destroy for their own gains.

so you mean we destroyed mars and other planets billions of years ago and now want to destroy earth?. can't stop laughing.

oshiomole should shut up. he is a coney politician and thief. when he won the state election he was praising Jonathan back then for not interfering. and that the election was free and fair

wow, how i love this. infact all the ones from south should be deployed to north. and the ones from north should be deployed to South.

that girl be like witch. the make up no be here. nor be by force to fine. if u done fine u done fine.

I don't trust the police. they would have replaced the police with solders. and again the custom need to be checkmate they are the most corrupt in the port. the end up inflicting the pains on the masses after imports imposing charges on importers and the importers put the burdens on the masses.

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Hirschsprung's disease
https://www.mayoclinic.org/-/media/kcms/gbs/patient-consumer/images/2013/08/26/10/21/ds00825_im04775_mcdc7_hirschsprungs_diseasethu_jpg.jpg

Hirschsprung's (HIRSH-sproongz) disease is a condition that affects the large intestine (colon) and causes problems with passing stool. The condition is present at birth (congenital) as a result of missing nerve cells in the muscles of the baby's colon.

A newborn who has Hirschsprung's disease usually can't have a bowel movement in the days after birth. In mild cases, the condition might not be detected until later in childhood. Uncommonly, Hirschsprung's disease is first diagnosed in adults.


www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/hirschsprung's-disease/home/ovc-20214664

.and what is the need for the headline. a Muslim woman who converted to Christian. what about address it as a pastor donated a car, job and house to a woman.

.I still do not see the need for this post. or is he trying to tell us he is multi millionaire again.

DanseMacabre, Loyalblak007.

thanks a lot for pointing it out. I know of tendon in the bone jents after looking at the skeleton digram/label and also after reading of bone injuries. but kind of confused which is the biscuits bone.

I injured my knee close to 3 months now and still feeling pains there.

its cartilage I just did research

thanks a lot.

what is the name of the meat bone Nigerians called biscuit bone?

.buying accidental car is costly mistake you should never have found yourself. especially when it affect the engine setting.

Does Islam allow a man to hit his wife?

Yes, but only if she doesn't do as he asks. The beating must stop if the woman complies with her husband's demands. Behind verbal abuse and abandonment, beating is intended as last resort solution to coerce submission.
According her testimony in the Hadith, Muhammad physically struck his favorite wife for leaving the house without his permission. It is not known how he treated his less-favored wives.


Quran
Quran (4:34) - "Men are the maintainers of women because Allah has made some of them to excel others and because they spend out of their property; the good women are therefore obedient, guarding the unseen as Allah has guarded; and (as to) those on whose part you fear desertion, admonish them, and leave them alone in the sleeping-places and beat them; then if they obey you, do not seek a way against them; surely Allah is High, Great." Contemporary translations sometimes water down the word 'beat', but it is the same one used in verse 8:12 and clearly means 'to strike'.


Quran (38:44) - "And take in your hand a green branch and beat her with it, and do not break your oath..." Allah telling Job to beat his wife (Tafsir ).

Hadith and Sira

Sahih Bukhari (72:715) - A woman came to Muhammad and begged her to stop her husband from beating her. Her skin was bruised so badly that it is described as being "greener" than the green veil she was wearing. Muhammad did not admonish her husband, but instead ordered her to return to him and submit to his sexual desires.


Sahih Bukhari (72:715) - "Aisha said, 'I have not seen any woman suffering as much as the believing women'" Muhammad's own wife complained of the abuse that the women of her religion suffered relative to other women.


Sahih Muslim (4:2127) - Muhammad struck his favorite wife, Aisha, in the chest one evening when she left the house without his permission. Aisha narrates, "He struck me on the chest which caused me pain."


Sahih Muslim (9:3506) - Muhammad's fathers-in-law (Abu Bakr and Umar) amused him by slapping his wives (Aisha and Hafsa) for annoying him. According to the Hadith, the prophet of Islam laughed upon hearing this.


Abu Dawud (2141) - "Iyas bin ‘Abd Allah bin Abi Dhubab reported the Apostle of Allah (may peace be upon him) as saying: Do not beat Allah’s handmaidens, but when ‘Umar came to the Apostle of Allah (may peace be upon him) and said: Women have become emboldened towards their husbands, he (the Prophet) gave permission to beat them. " At first, Muhammad forbade men from beating their wives, but he rescinded this once it was reported that women were becoming emboldened toward their husbands. Beatings in a Muslim marriage are sometimes necessary to keep women in their place.


Abu Dawud (2142) - "The Prophet (peace be upon him) said: A man will not be asked as to why he beat his wife." The authenticity of this verse is characterized as daif (weak), however, a similar verse from Sunan Ibn Majah 3:9:1986 is said to be hasan (sufficient).


Abu Dawud (2126) - "A man from the Ansar called Basrah said: 'I married a virgin woman in her veil. When I entered upon her, I found her pregnant. (I mentioned this to the Prophet).' The Prophet (peace_be_upon_him) said: 'She will get the dower, for you made her vagina lawful for you. The child will be your slave. When she has begotten (a child), flog her'" A Muslim thinks he is getting a virgin, then finds out that she is pregnant. Muhammad tells him to treat the woman as a sex slave and then flog her after she delivers the child.


Ibn Ishaq/Hisham 969 - Requires that a married woman be "put in a separate room and beaten lightly" if she "act in a sexual manner toward others." According to the Hadith, this can be for an offense as petty as merely being alone with a man to whom she is not related.


Kash-shaf (the revealer) of al-Zamkhshari (Vol. 1, p. 525) - [Muhammad said] "Hang up your scourge where your wife can see it"
Notes
Some contemporary Muslim apologists often squirm over this relatively straightforward verse from the Quran (4:34) - which gives men the right to beat their wives if they even have a "fear" of disloyalty or disobedience. Their rhetorical aerobics inspired us to write a separate article:


Wife Beating- Good Enough for Muhammad, Good Enough for You
Others are not nearly as squeamish. Sheikh Yousef al-Qaradhawi, one of the most respected Muslim clerics in the world, once made the famous (and somewhat ridiculous statement) that
"It is forbidden to beat the woman, unless it is necessary ." He went on to say that "one may
beat only to safeguard Islamic behavior," leaving no doubt that wife-beating is a matter of religious sanction. ( source )


Dr. Muzammil Saddiqi, the former president of ISNA (the Islamic Society of North America), a mainstream Muslim organization, says it is important that a wife "recognizes the authority of her husband in the house" and that he may use physical force if he is "sure it would improve the situation." (source )


Sheikh Dr. Ahmad Muhammad Ahmad Al-Tayyeb, the head of Al-Azhar, Sunni Islam's most prestigious institution says that "light beatings" and "punching" are part of a program to " reform the wife" ( source ).


Dr. Jamal Badawi endorses corporal punishment as "another measure that may save the marriage" (source ). He isn't clear on how striking a woman will make her more inclined toward staying with her assailant, unless the implication is fear of more serious consequences if she leaves.


Egyptian cleric, Abd al-Rahman Mansour, said in a 2012 televised broadcast that, in addition to discouraging the wife from filing divorce, beatings would inspire the wife to "treat him with kindness and respect, and know that her

husband has a higher status than her." (source )
During Ramadan of 2010, another cleric named Sa'd Arafat actually said the woman is "honored" by the beating (source ).

No one else seemed terribly surprised or upset by this.

An undercover report from progressive Sweden in 2012 visited 10 mosques and found that 6 actually advised beaten women not to report the abuse to the police. These women were also told that they must submit to non-consensual 'sex' with their husbands. ( source )


In the birthplace of Islam, about half of Saudi women are beaten at home. "Hands and sticks were found to be used mostly in beating women, following by men’s head cover and to a lesser extent, sharp objects." (source )


In 2016, the Council of Islamic Ideology proposed a bill - ironically named the Protection of Women against Violence Act - that actually included exceptions for "lightly beating " defiant wives. ( source )


According to Islamic law, a husband may strike his wife for any one of the following four reasons:
- She does not attempt to make herself beautiful for him (ie. "let's herself go"
- She refuses to meet his sexual demands
- She leaves the house without his permission or for a "legitimate reason"
- She neglects her religious duties
Any of these are also sufficient grounds for divorce.


Respected Quran scholars in the past interpreted verse 4:34 with impressive candor. Tabari said that it means to " admonish them, but if they refused to repent, then tie them up in their homes and beat them until they obey Allah’s commands toward you. " Qurtubi told wife-beaters to avoid breaking bones, if possible, but added that " it is not a crime if it leads to death. " ( source )


Muslim apologists sometimes say that Muhammad ordered that women not be harmed, but they are actually basing this on what he said before or during a battle, such as in Bukhari (59:447) , when Muhammad issued a command for all the men of Quraiza be killed and the women and children taken as slaves. (Having your husband murdered and being forced into sexual slavery apparently doesn't qualify as "harm" under the Islamic model).


But, in fact, there are a number of cases in which Muhammad did have women killed in the most brutal fashion. One was Asma bint Marwan, a mother or five, who wrote a poem criticizing the Medinans for accepting Muhammad after he had ordered the murder of an elderly man. In this case, the prophet's assassins literally pulled a sleeping infant from her breast and stabbed her to death.


After taking Mecca in 630, Muhammad also ordered the murder of a slave girl who had merely made up songs mocking him. The Hadith are rife with accounts of women planted in the ground on Muhammad's command and pelted to death with stones for sexual immorality - yet the prophet of Islam actually encouraged his own men to rape women captured in battle (Abu Dawood 2150, Muslim 3433 ) and did not punish them for killing non-Muslim women (as Khalid ibn Walid did on several occasions - see Ibn Ishaq 838 and 856).


In summary, according to the Qur'an, Hadith and Islamic law, a woman may indeed have physical harm done to her if the circumstances warrant, with one such allowance being in the case of disobedience. This certainly does not mean that all Muslim men beat their wives, only that Islam permits them to do so.

https://www.thereligionofpeace.com/pages/quran/wife-beating.aspx

GAZZUZZ:
no allow pesin tear you off duty Eslap

lol.. as how na,?

GAZZUZZ:
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fineboynl be careful

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what you mean by that.

it's already too late to cry. let move on.

.. the guy get taste sha

and the circle continue

and the fight Begin's over mere imagination

why is the donations in dollars? what is from international sources? I think so.

estimated billing is what is creating this laziness, I don't care attitudes and no electricity.

if u don't use don't pay as simple as ABC

chai, this is serious. gulli erosion

lol, maybe he is using chams

can you see what I saw below

..by the way what concerns the police and Dino rally?? it look like they shot him in genital area penis and balls.

those of you saying youth will never hear word. this are what the police want you to fear. they want to scare you and put fear on you. its political and what concerns them and the paeceful rally that's my question. protest is a fundamental right. the police under this inspector general of police is a monkery of the arm force. the police has been degraded to shithole. we won't take this anymore. 2019 is around the corner.

that's why I laugh when I see youth donating money to a police that dead in zenith bank. brave police my foot. I can never donate to Nigerian policeman, all of them are the same and criminal.
he dead why saving his life not anybody life. there is nothing hero there. hero is someone who save the life of others in replacement of his.

no good person or Mentally stable person will joined or remained in the Nigeria police force.

ernieboy:
u people should shut up. Nigeria is a sovereign state not under the jurisdiction of another state. this is just the futile effort of a desperate and dying campaign.

you should shut up

.. timeline of June 12 to Democracy lovely long piece

www.nairaland.com/3856298/timeline-june-12-1993-gen

contrarily to the believe that abiola make us have Democracy is nothing but a laughable statement.

democracy was in the making and inevitable at that stage. IBB calls for it that was why the election hold at the initial stage. just that IBB don't like abiola for his personal reasons even when it defiles all odd to annulled the election.

so abiola or what ever its called didn't create democracy he was part of the process. thank you