when i hear guys ask if they are the most handsome, i keep wondering, let's face reality, people who ask that are jobless, not handsome, and i smell gay too.. seriously.. a man's handsomeness lies in his pocket... and even if you were the most handsome on NL, is there any award? why haven't you contested for mr world? folks do this a lot instead being done by ladies..

Smartwizy: Ladies , Rate me

spodathug: My girl friend and I have been dating for the past 2 years and we love each other very much that neither of us is replaceable,I am in my 6months IT now,will be graduating 2015 while she will be writing jamb 2015 too. Trouble started when are mum and elder sisters said I am a failure,that life with me will be hell of a life that she should shatter whatever thing she has to do with me cuz some made men are already coming to her for marriage but she doesn't want to marry till she earn her first degree and she doesn't love those people,that she can't do without me and if she doesn't end up her life with me then she will possibly not find a man to replace me in her heart,me in the other way too just can't give up despite all my close friends and loved ones telling me to quit the relationship that I have many responsibilities to take care of before putting a woman on my head,also her mum and elder sisters has already declared me a failure that what else do I want from her family before I know its a no go area. So after much pressure from her family we noticed we couldn't leave Each other,the more her mum pressure her the more she falls more in love with me,now I am an undergraduate with nothing doing for now and my parents are not rich to take full care of me and my siblings,we are all struggling to survive. My girl friends family are not rich too only one of her elder sis is married to rich man,so the elder sis is the bread winner of their family. Now my Girl friend told me one of her suitors is really disturbing her and she has finally agreed to be dating him in other to please her mum but begged me to endure that its for the main time,now looking at the present way things are for me I can't afford most of her basic needs and she presently needs cash for some vital things and exam registrations etc but I can't afford them,she then decided to go out with the very rich suitor for a while to get help from him within that period to solve her financial problems then break up with him to respect our relationship,now she is gradually getting angry at the actions of the rich dude meaning she is now have feelings for him,she promised she will never allow the man have sex with her,so sometimes if I call when she is with the man she won't pick up,I feel very bad about it but still hold my anger and endure the torture of being broke But she will still always tell me its for the main time that everything will be ok soon,that she is very optimistic about us and strongly believe we can make it against all odds. now brothers and sisters here in this forum jealousy and self hate for being broke is eating me up,I am still scared the rich dude doesn't end up taking her away then my heart will be broken and dreams for her shattered,pls what do I do about this unbelieveable night mare happening to me? should I end the relationship or should I keep enduring the torture for the main time as she said before things goes back to normal,remember I love her very much and wouldn't mind spending the rest of my life with her when I make money,she has contributed a lot to my life financially,morally,intellectually etc,she is the only woman I have seen that can handle me because I am a very tough man,the only woman that stayed long with me as long as 2 years which others would want to but can't achieve it due to my toughness aside cash tins,she is not demanding,she always believe she will someday make her own money someday,Pls I need serious and mature advices here before I go mad,I am 23 years old while my GF is 18 and her rich suitor is 34. Thank you for reading while I wait for your comment.

my brother, i really understand your pain.. you just gotta quit the relationship and focus on your studies.. graduate with good grades and get a job.. make money. you'll always find a better girl. do not toil with your futre because of a mere first love cos they always seem to be "lust at last" where is the man in you.. put yourself together. since your family is not all that financially stable, count your teeth with your tongue. you just have to make your family proud.. always look at the brighter side of everything. #word

she's gorgeous.. can i have her number or facebook name?

Trendy247: Her name is Jeslyn, she's just 22 and she's a nurse... I believe she's more beautiful than all our nairaland babes put 2geda... Plus those dat download pix from foreign sites n use as dia profile pix...

i wouldn't have done my packaging without everyone in this building. Ever grateful to God and y'all. Been almost three weeks i got to Canny.. Trying to fix my left from my right. I promise to be active here once i'm settled. I can answer sharply to anyone only on Saturdays for now.. Shoot your questions on Saturdays.. One love. Canny is really a beautiful place but freaking expensive... God bless us all

lynpetra:
Your tribe no de fuuuck around?Bad chicks are everywhere,don't generalise.

no mind the Op, him himself dey collect..

canada is awesome bro. a little bit cold today. i see you've fired your application. Wishing you the very best. check your cic account everyday. don't put all your hopes in it maka HBP. just calm your nerves and follow up with prayers. it's well [color=#550000][/color]

cman4good: My man how is canada and studies

good morning everyone

at last, i've gotten accommodation.. full option. 400 monthly. in toronto. 10mins to school. y'all will be seeing more of me on NL..

A million congratulations to Scguy.. Book ticket immediately and come join us.. Safe trip. Very best to everyone still waiting for their trv

Greetings to everyone.. Missbon are you there. Or I'll call 911 on chrigo

saxywale:
Its possible in my area. you just need about 3-4 certicates that won't cost you up to a thousand dollars..Only in summer though, which falls within school break anyway.

area no matter. I dey Toronto. Abeg which certificates be that make I begin do am. I'll be a week old in Canada tomorrow. Still looking for house o

mzjaney: If she loves u, she should learn to like ur friends especially ur childhood friends. My dear use ur head oo. Some of us(women ) too get wahala we always wanna have it all,buh dat is impossible. Its just like her telling u to stay away from ur family simply becos u're both in a relationship. She's not yet ur wife and she's asking u to choose btw her and ur friends. Op don't push ur friends away cos of ur gf.

May God continue to bless you and your family without season.. I like smart people. Already falling #smiles

geni340: dia iz dis guy in class am tripin 4. hez xo kul i stare @ im in class buh e dosnt knw me. he kips 2 himsef & he has vry few friends- more of d introvert. i dont wanna luk cheap bi telln him. girls plzz hw do i do diz??

I'm single and searching.. #justsayingmymind

Deshannel:
best opinion so far.

. God bless you. You perfectly understand how hard it is for her to be willing to make a sacrifice like that.

Siga: ... For u to secure a SIN... ur study permit must have specified u can work... and right now... All students are allowed to work... so.. u are good... Chrigogo... correct me if I'm wrong...SIN is for records and tax purposes...SIN is what employers use to report your pay ...

. Good to know.... Thanks to you and chrigo.. One love..

pyhz: I was given my work permit immediately i got to the airport yesterday despite having my visa issued to me in april....so i dnt think its jz those issued after June 1 that can gt thr work permit!

. A guy that stays same building with me and also in my skl told me I can work with just my study permit.. I've gotten my SIN number.. How true is that. What does work permit look like @chrigo siga missbon phyz evrryone

5naira: Assuming your girlfriend had to sleep with your boss of a rich company to get you a job with a good salary and that was the only option available, would you still date her or would you term that as unfaithfulness knowing that was your only option to get a job .

if we discuss and she can pay that price for me, i MUST marry her and respect her for the rest of my life.. Let it be our little secret.

OmobaNL I like your spirit... We looking forward to your arrival.. Amen

Glad you got here safely.. Welcome to Canada Phyz.. I dey Toronto dey try find my left from my right. Not funny at all. But Oluwa go see all man through Amen.

I don't like stories when it kicks off with "my friend's life" if your friend isn't bold enough to come put it up here, then you shouldn't be her mouthpiece... Whoever needs help or advice should ask directly.. Most ladies come here to narrate via "my friend" when its actually them in question. I'm not saying you did. But I just withhold my contribution..

Beamn4real:

Guess we're in same shoes, except dat I neva leave naija.. Leaving on 31st Aug.. Abeg, did u get ur homestay in naija or when u reached canny? I'm looking for one close to UofT and wondering if I can get something lyk dat @ Pearson airport...

. I got mine when I got here. But I'll advice you to use Google map. Search for home stay around your skl. You'll see their number on the internet, call them and book. Tell them you coming so so date. So when you land, you just take a taxi to the place. Them no dey price taxi here. As e dey drive dey go, e go dey read for the screen. You go see for yourself. They have a map paper where all addresses and prices to drive to there. Safe trip in advance

ChriGo: ....Welcome to Canada my brother....good to see you're settling in well....you can connect with other naija peeps during orientation....you should get accommodation shortly....

. Accommodation is my biggest challenge at the moment. How do I go about it... I need it asaply.. Would appreciate if you can help

Ac and fan dey for convenience.... See groove inside convenience

Safe trip phyz... You'll see things for yourself when you get here.. Summer is really hot. I dey use handkerchief here o. I keep hearing winter is crazy here. Small para don grab me against winter

Canada is cool... Lovely people everywhere. Still trying to find my left from my right. Going to a world where you know no one is bullshit.. It only gets worse before it gets better.vMy flight experience with emirates was cool. They treated me like a king. Great food.. Pretty cold in the sky. The blanket given to us really worked. To those coming, bring plenty money... I'm in a home stay and paying $35 a night. No food. Anyone coming to Seneca college? Holla.. Reporting live from Toronto. For now I'm staying opposite Fairview mall. Seriously looking for an apartment. Anyone already in Seneca with accommodation support or recommendation.. Would appreciate. Got here two days ago. I'll buy a phone today. God bless us all. Would visit here once in a while till I settle. You can reach me on email. Finestlex@gmail.com Chrigo and missy.. I hail o. God bless all of us

Amefrica:

Angels are on guard! You shall land safe..

. Thanks bro.. Amen

Flying this night.. Very best to all of us. See y'all on the other side. One love

skylar2020:
computer systems technology
did you pay your school fees

yes I did.. Sorry for late reply. My brothe now has my phone. Don't have accesss to the internet for now.. I'm flying this night.. Very best dearie

Got dollars at the rate of 162 in diamond bank owerri today. Hitting Lagos tomorrow.. who's with me #Emirates this Sunday..

skylar2020:
what course?

public admin.. you?

vinnygod: Hey everyone just boarded yesterday n finally arrived canada today. My journey was full of fun,excitement,n inspirational. Ethiopia airline treated me like a king,all kinds of meals, drinks, fruits were served not even once or thrice. Infact mai experience with'em was awesome. I was opportune to sit with one of d nigerian-canadian lecturer @ sereca college toronto it was really educative n informative having him as my sit partner.

@toronto airport..its cozy n neat with many a kitted uniform men. It was fabulous meeting a canadian border service agent. She was really cool,amiable with her friendly looking disposition. Am loving dis people. They're all willing to help infact there was this particular uniform lady the way she responded to mai question and even took me to where I was looking4 was superb. Canadians are super friendly.....I actually asked one for a direction could you believe that he almost took me to d venue while I asked d other @d airport where I would ease myself infact he didn't only gv me direction he took me to d lavatory..... I can say that they do more of solving ones problem than profounding a solution to ya pros

It was only in nigeria that d officers demanded tip from me which I stubbornly refused to succumb aside there the journey was excellent

I'm heading to Seneca college Toronto. Moving on Sunday

briansmith: All thanks to everyone for ur contributions. Well..I later met with this girl and I made her to understand that I am more than the gifts and cash.I told her DAT if she continues this game with men she might end up with problems in life.She cried and wanted to give me back the gifts I bought for her saying she had needs but didn't know how to get it .I adviced her to get a job and stop depending on men for one thing or another. I simply walked away knowing that I have laid a seed in her life.it hurts to love but I gat to move on.

maturity...