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braxjay:
I'M NOT UNDERSTANDING. . . . . .

you still need someone to tell you what to do

my brother knee down where you are

place your hands on you head (Both hands o. your case is serious)

and say this out loud

" My father My father, wherever they have taken my head to, COME BACK ! COME BACK ! ! COME BACK ! ! ! "

mofeoluwadassah:
you are as weak as your english....it is well with your soul

MzDeeb:
Jenny Baby... Happiest birthday to you.

You are definitely an inspiration to younger ladies.. Full of vigor, creativity, tenacity and intelligence........

I'm happy you are celebrating this day with Joy(Esp..Baby Bumps ).

May you deliver safely in Jesus Name.

There is definitely light at the end of the tunnel for everyone. If only we won't give up on God.

#PEACE

0b100100111:
Happy Birthday Rukiat Akinsanya!

Still don't know where the surname "Sanda" came from?

faithugo64:
Potbelly

But he who turned fibroid into fine boy
Can turn the potbelly to pregnancy


To all looking unto God for the fruit of the womb
Dont give up
Is anything too hard for him?
Is it ever too late for him?
Just hold on a little more
When it finally decides to rain, its gona pour

pweetiedee:
I don't think she has people advising her at all. Where is her mother sef, the girl still needs a lot of training.

Dunno why she had to start the virginity issue in the first place.

emilyone:
One jobless nigga don't use prick reset this one brain

eLcastro:
nothing like real lez or gay.,even the whole babblin of been born that way......they all still react to the opposite sex in their closet........it juz what they want.,some people jus like been anti-nature.....generally there r people that just crave been anti whatever....my grandmum told me if heaven and hell r kept open.....some people will still jus pick hell for whatever reason...and itz their problem

ShyCypher:
Lesbians are cool but gays - asin preeq inside another muscular hairy anus?

Mbanu!!

Those ones should be shot, hung, cremated and their ashes re-burnt jus to make sure.

firebaby:
Amen o.and me too o!!!!...its even now sef

Jostico:
€500,000 a week. almost 247 million naira every week and almost 1 billion naira every month . Nairaland mark my name. I'll be there someday.

jcflex:
is he a sex machine.


introduce sleeping tablet in his dinner every night

johnwizey:
Maybe she is just a victim of circumstance, not prolly dull though. 2.2 no bad too but you knw tell us how you made the 2.2, is it by serious jacking or serious shagging? Moreover, who book epp sef

Prognose:
I read the whole thing.
You're not alone bro. The problems you're having is the same kind of problems married people have at this stage of their marriage. This is the setting limits stage. This is where you both draw the line on things you can tolerate and things you won't allow no matter what. This is the stage where you show the kind of man you are and your wife will likewise adapt as a woman. Your problem is nothing out of the ordinary that others in these phase of marriage have experienced.


You didn't see all these flaws in her initially because you were deeply in love with her then. You may have even noticed some of these things but pushed them aside. But now the euphoria of love have gone and both of you are seeing yourselves live and direct. It's not a new thing bros, trust me.

So she nags. Almost all women nag, some nag worse than others. It is kind of your job to be patient with her as the man. Pls try and control your temper, this is what will make you matured and will separate u from being a boy. When she shouts and talks ceaselessly find a way to leave the environment or ignore her, depending on the type u can do. Over time she will learn to control herself.
Her controlling herself and reducing her nagging and your not getting enraged to be slapping her shows that you are both coming of age in the marriage and are understanding each other and becoming mature.


Do you want her to go back to her job? Remember she is pregnant (for the first time) and in a delicate and scared state. She is quite vulnerable right now with the changes going on in her body. Your job at this time is to be as supportive as you can. I don't mean you should become her slave but try and give her more rope when she misbehaves. It gets worse at three to six months of age and then she should start returning back to normal.

Set a boundary for her father. The fact that he has cut the phone on you once is enough to piss you off. He's not married to her, you are. If he calls again tell him politely that this is your family and you have your own plans for your wife. If you don't have the mind to do this then u can just ignore him instead. This is your wife now, he should stop butting in.

Find a job for her to do, no matter how little. Also don't give up on yourself. Every married couple went through this stage, it is those that come out of it that last. If you break up now, what's to say in your next marriage u won't break up again at the first sign of difficulty. Your a postgraduate man, you should be more mature and patient bro.

Find an older married couple you can talk to for advice. Not online o. A respectable married couple or couples preferably from the generation before ours let them tell you what they've been through themselves. Marriage is hard work and the more work you put into it the sweeter it becomes.

Cheers bro.

Digriz:
Absolutely, OP u are wrong,u need to show u are willing and needs help but ur effort is not good enough,then heaven will come for assistant.

pyyxxaro:
ATLANTA home for all the Nigerian fraudsters in Yankee

unlimitedgrace4:
Am totqlly against a married man having another baby mama outside bt Every woman need to impress her husband in their Wt her look...like someone rightly said ,no one is born ugly...but d truth must be told,there is a huge gap between odunlade and his wife in terms of look and dressing..for crying out loud,her husband is a celeb,she needs to look more appealing..is not as if there is no money to do DAT...she no try abeg

HeOrShe:
The invitation must have fell off the road and picked by a smart graduate who has been jobless watching the wedding party.


I guess u now know the rest of the story.