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NotOfThis:
You said NL is the wrong place for him to bring issues like this, criticized the advice others have given and that he should be asking "elders not faceless strangers", then proceeded to "adding your own". Did you exempt yourself from being a faceless stranger or why did you add your own if this isn't the right place for him to seek advice? I doubt the elders around him would encourage him to get a DNA test done; some might not even know about it let alone suggest it to him. OP himself was only thinking about questioning his wife, as if that's the best way to get the truth. Don't discourage people from seeking advice on NL. No one here knows the OP personally, so what he'll gain here are unbiased opinions, which most people have given and it's up to him to choose the ones he'll attend to. Besides, some people don't have anyone to talk to irl, that's why they bring their issues here and there's nothing wrong with that.

Temidayo9:
And the gullible will tell us CAN is for christians ?....... remove religion in Nigeria and replace it with morality, then peace and justice will find its natural curse

Richy4:
Oh!!! Okay so the thread is about the woman correct?.....I am done here ......have a good day

Richy4:
No offense bro but you sound to me like one of the self righteous African male that have all figured it out in life...People are prone to make mistakes in life at least that's why we are all human....But I am glad you said no one was immune to being vulnerable while going through separation...Though in your earlier post you implied that women got strong will power to resist sexual advances when separated.... and the ones that doesn't have it at that stage is immoral....

I for one will never justify infidelity... but the fact that the woman in question decides to date other men when separated does not make her a promiscuous woman...U and I with the little information we got cannot tell the nature of the separation.....Some separation last for 6 years some more or less...The couple cannot put their life on hold because they were separated...
The man in question, did you check if he was faithful all this while that they were separated....We are not here to accuse anyone but to look for a way forward for the OP

Richy4:
I am glad this is your opinion Bro.... I am also glad you did not say if you have encountered anyone that has passed through separation....But in case you don't know, during the first six months of separation, women are more prone to symptoms of depression, poor health, loneliness, work inefficiency, insomnia, memory difficulties, and increased substance abuse.
Most of them are extremely vulnerable during these days of separation. They need listening ears, Friends etc most feel inadequate because of their collapsing marriage ... Unfortunately there are those of the opposite sex who would like to take advantage of their vulnerability...though Some gentlemen are actually on it for the good of the woman and her warfare.. ....

Dear, what you wrote there was a stereotype...The women are not as strong willed as you presumed it to be... one thing might lead to another and the rest will be history....Unless you have encountered people that where passing through this phase, u can't throw stones....

during the first six months of separation, women are more prone to symptoms of depression, poor health, loneliness, work inefficiency, insomnia, memory difficulties, and increased substance abuse.

kretoz:
My dear no matter what she did, so long as she didn't commit murder, burnt the guy house or sold it, there is definitely no need for beating, even if she did the above mentioned acts, it's not a reason to raise a hand on her but I know that most good guys endurance limit would not accommodate the above acts

pritykate:
that one na last thing i go do. i bet this dude no see beetle drive talk more of buying venza for mum

doctorEkene:
Bro its not fair

Mynd44:
Ose!

Watch Christians come for her head

ngmgeek:
Hope he is mentally ok. He may need help. Pray for him instead.

2019ATIKU:
BUHARI

B- Brought

U- unnecessary

H- Hardship

A- Among

R- Reasonable

I- Individuals

#IstandWith2Baba #IstandwithNigeria"

SalamRushdie:
There is a particular white Ferrari italia in Lagos that I suspect is a kit , it looks like an Italia but sounds and moves like a Celica..

SalamRushdie:
Keep fooling yourself and supporting a 500 percent inflation govt , Na u go suffer not me

Pinkdiamondz:
The poor guy! He'll be jailed for a crime he didn't commit! Do they do autopsy there? Could he be cleared or is it all over for him?

As for the lady, I think either karma got her or her husband has something to do with this.

MarieSucre:
we will protest, like we are doing now.

MarieSucre:
Yes, it is our weakness. And the government better address. If we get weaker. This country is gonna get hotter.

SalamRushdie:
Fayose has been warned not to come near there ..Well keep supportin Buhari to waste Ur destiny, I hope U are gaining from supporting what's clearly wrong oo

Yorobastard:
True....Never argue with anyone in the UK like its done in Nigeria.....You may end up getting killed.

You go to class 3 times a week in college and University...Nice Writeup OP

OkoYiboz:
You can't blame her, money can not buy class. Even Linda can't tell originals from knockoffs.

0b10010011:
To be sincere, it's like London to them, you need to see how they celebrate in the village when one of there young lad is coming to the West, it's always like he is going to the USA.

But I must agree with you about there sporadic influx. I think Western Governors might be forced to go the Trump way by banning some eastern states from coming into the West.

We have really tried for them over the years and now it should b "Westerners First"

ndcide:
Which protest cannot be seen as insincere to anyone who is at the receiving end of the protest.

Don't worry yourself jare. If I was emotional about the government, I'll say the same thing.

ndcide:
So because evil men can take advantage, we should not talk or speak truth to power? we should just pretend that all is well?


What exactly can evil men not take advantage of. the government you're soooooo emotional about?

you better stop

obama4osama:
I doubt the pix shown up there, where did they get their Ghana must go from. Now their suffering continue!

gtin:
U seriously need sense in ur life for reasoning this way

SalamRushdie:
With a 500 percent inflation that's climbing daily you still think a protest needs sponsors? I pity u