PaulH07:


I hope you share the same POV as BlackNeo, cos I too gbadun that guy.

Dude is on fire meen...

It depends. I'm still a learner for that department.

PaulH07:


Good work you doing here brother.
Pls can we chat via mail, as I wanna discuss some personal issues I'm having, which I'm quite ashamed to share on here.

Kindly indulge me please.
Thanks...

I am ready to talk it out with you. I may not have the solution like BlackNeo would have, but atleast, we will have an interchange of encouragement.

Rebekah029:
Its non of your business.!!!

I meant it in a good way. Probably didn't frame those words well

Rebekah029:
My father use to say" Addiction is easy and fast to learn but hard to forget" .... But I promise you something you will be free someday ; and please do your self a favour by changing your moniker...

How does your father know about addiction? It wasn't popular for their own generation

Please my properties friend. I need a self-contained apartment in Uyo.

How can I get that?

alramon:


okay does God reveals who u marry to u, or probably speaks to u that this is the person that u will marry....?


since the Bible says he who has found a wife hath found a good thing and obtained favor from the Lord... "found" and not "revealed"...

my own opinion was that u open ur eyes and see all what u need to see b4 going into it(beauty and the attitude too). then u can now pray over her...


#God won't speak or show u in one dream that this is she

Your opinion is good.

There's another angle though.

But before I mention the other angle, let me tell you why your opinion is good.

God has created man with the capability to know how to get a suitable woman for himself. So there's no need for him to micromanage you in that aspect. It's like a ceiling fan manufacturer that has made a fan with the ability to turn it's own blades, so once the fan is on, it won't expect anyone to come and turn its blades for it.

Then the other angle. While it's true that man has to "find a wife", God has provided him help in doing so. The first help God provided him is that He created women for men in the first place (very important point we usually take for granted). The second is that through his Word the Bible, God is teaching the man how to choose the woman who will be best for him, and how to live a life that will make him get the best out of the woman

alramon:


are u righteousness!

I can answer some of the questions

alramon:



something is wrong with u
go and answer my question on the previous thread....

What was your question?

DrFunmisticGlow:
God doesn't test people.

How did you reach that conclusion?

khingTony:

Ogbeni, if you disagree, keep it to yourself or like the op said, open a thread and write things the Way you want it to be

What do you mean. Please we need broaden minds here.

His point made sense to me. Some people enjoy traveling. In fact many people spend huge amount of money just for tourism and traveling. So his point made sense to me

Omar09:


Bro, it's been a year since I listened to Martinez39s and ubunja.... Tho I took clost to 9 months dealing with this urge and comporting myself, today I can tell you that I am on a path to greatness.

What urge

BlackNeo:
EXAMPLES OF SCARCITY MENTALITY

Scarcity mentality is when:

1) A female is misbehaving and you dont correct her or dump her

2) Scarcity mentality is the fear that you are going to lose her if you insist on having your way all the time

3) Scarcity mentality is if you rely on collecting one girls number from your guy and DMing her

4) Scarcity mentality is when the only option you have of getting women is entering into DMs like a fool all the time

5) Scarcity mentality is texting anonymous messages to women

6) Scarcity mentality is giving a woman transport fare to come see you( Dr Olufunmilayo$

7) Scarcity mentality is when you engage in long distance affairs as if theres no woman with 2 meters of you

Scarcity mentality is when you travel to get punna. E.g Ibadan to lag

9) Scarcity mentality is the name I give to a long term relationship where your female says no sexx till marriahe

10) Scarcity mentality is when any woman matters to you. I dont see women, I see options for my pleasure!

Number 7 above. What if you are pursuing a long distance relationship (overseas), but your main goal of investing in the relationship is for the "outside"?

BlackNeo:
Women are on this thread to shit test and derail. It is a pity some guys are giving them attention. Cant you recognize a shit test anymore? No woman is here to do anything other than secure hypergamy. Just remember that.

BlackNeo. I have been following this topic for a while now. I waited to see if you will reply that girl. To see if you will fall. You are true to what you are here for.

I read these articles below concerning the children falsely accused in Nigeria to be witches, and then they are abused and assulted.

From the articles I see that two organisations are working for the welfare of these children in Cross River State. (Basic Rights Council Initiative [BRCI] by a Lawyer Mr Ibom, and Way to Nations).

Now I need to locate similar organisations in Akwa Ibom because I want to volunteer. Please if you know any link me up. Thanks

If you want to read the articles:

https://www.aljazeera.com/indepth/features/nigeria-fear-child-witchcraft-ruins-young-lives-181112055349338.html

https://interactive.aljazeera.com/aje/2018/suffer-not-a-witch-to-live/index.html#1

Martinez39s:
I have copied it.

Thank you. Expecting you there

Martinez39s:
Give me your number, and I will reach out to you on WhatsApp.

Thank you

Martinez39s:

Please can I talk to you privately Martin

olabrinks:
1. Maintain your weight whilst your young. Not watching your weight will give you series of problem later on in life. Exercise and eat properly.

2. Dont be with someone who’s family do not like you. It is an everlasting battle that you will eventually lose.

3. You will not gain respect trying to please everyone. Stand up for yourself and always speak your mind.

4. Only share things when you are established. People are envious and will try to destroy your plans if you share too quickly.

5. Listen more than you talk.

6. Social skills are paramount for getting further in life. You must learn how to make solid connections.

7. Elders do not know it best

8. Confidence is more valuable than looks

9. Your family doesn’t always want the best for you

10. No one will values you until you hit it big.

11. Be careful with alcohol. It is addictive and very accessible, probably the worst drug out there.

These are just some of mine, feel free to contribute some of yours.

Number 11: Pornography, not alcohol, is the worst drug out there

Mindlog:


I understand your direction because I trained as one and also work in a psychiatric hospital as they are patients who have been brought in but ended up not being medicated by the psychiatrist because what they needed was psychotherapy.

Yes my dear. Where do you practice?

Mindlog:
There is more to this story. There is a Psychiatric Hospital in the state, in Nawfia if am not mistaken.

They handle people like mad people.

We need more psychotherapists, not just psychiatrists

Fucsheetup:
What God is behind it then? Allah, Buddha or Jehovah? Imagine calling me confused. You cannot for the life of you respond to my question, but I’m guessing you’ll say Jehovah?
Okay, I respect your belief and I’m not trying to promote atheism, I’m simply asking him to study his brain and study the universe. Which if you had any education about, you would know if a God created this universe we are not the center of his creation. The Splendor of the spacious heavens should scare you silly, you seem to have no idea just how endless it is, how you are not the center of the universe.

Okay, mention 10 religious scientists that contributed to the technology we have today and their various religions. Educate me.

About the scientists that believed in God. What I expected was for you to search these answers by yourself.

The question of whether there's God or not is a serious issue with great consequences, therefore anyone acknowledging this would always seek to know more beyond the place of debates.

But because you have asked, I will be leaving you with lists of some of these scientists from respected sites like Wikipedia, Forbes, etc

However, it might interest you to know that Charles Darwin, one of the top Original Proposers of the Theory of Evolution, (with his book "The Origin of the Species" ), was famously quoted as saying, "I have never been an atheist in the sense to deny the existence of God". So even he believed there is a God

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_Christians_in_science_and_technology

https://www.beliefnet.com/inspiration/galleries/5-inventions-that-were-god-inspired-ideas.aspx

https://www.famousscientists.org/great-scientists-christians/

https://www.famousscientists.org/25-famous-scientists-who-believed-in-god/

HomerTimpson:
DUDE don't be flattered she's a stuff

Explain please.

Fucsheetup:
What God is behind it then? Allah, Buddha or Jehovah? Imagine calling me confused. You cannot for the life of you respond to my question, but I’m guessing you’ll say Jehovah?
Okay, I respect your belief and I’m not trying to promote atheism, I’m simply asking him to study his brain and study the universe. Which if you had any education about, you would know if a God created this universe we are not the center of his creation. The Splendor of the spacious heavens should scare you silly, you seem to have no idea just how endless it is, how you are not the center of the universe.

Okay, mention 10 religious scientists that contributed to the technology we have today and their various religions. Educate me.

I want to comment on whether the infiniteness and spaciousness of heavens should scare me silly.

Actually it gives me hope and joy. It's a testament to the truthfulness of the words recorded in Ecclesiastes 3:11 _{He [Jehovah God] has made everything beautiful in its time. He has even put eternity in their heart; yet mankind will never find out the work that the true God has made from start to finish.}

God has put eternity in our hearts and the universe so that we can actually live forever, learn forever, and not become bored.

ModestGal:

Ehn ehn, chat me through my signature if you need tips and strategies on ways you can impress me, it comes with a price. Not free

Hahaha. (Well, in my little knowledge of psychology, that means I'm impressing you already)

ModestGal:

Lol, truth is that naturally, when people come out to say;
I'm beautiful
I'm powerful
I'm brilliant
Its natural for people to think the opposite for the individual, that is, a negative energy. Though, someone like me read deeply and I won't assume in an opposite direction and likewise would deep thinking people
The reason you didn't read so much hate on this thread is because I have written this post in such a way that such people would become speechless. I'm also a good psychologist, and I write/talk to bring out a certain behaviour from people. Even though everything written here is true, it is planned to bring forth certain responses and feelings

Princess. Please come and pay my bride price. You are sounding like my dream woman.

Only that you are way young. (And one other barrier)

ModestGal:

Lol, keep deceiving me

You're just being modest now. Where do you stay

ModestGal:

Check my picture and you will see the services I render

Seen it

ModestGal:

I do not have interest in programming, by the way I know some bits of HTML, CSS, JavaScript, but its not something I like. I love designing instead, making animations, graphics designing, writing, delivering speeches and Health matters. I'm in the Health line and I'm building my career in Health Tech, I don't want to be a programmer. I know all I wanna be and I'm developing myself towards that area already

By the way, I am wowed by you. You are already a genius already

ModestGal:

I do not have interest in programming, by the way I know some bits of HTML, CSS, JavaScript, but its not something I like. I love designing instead, making animations, graphics designing, writing, delivering speeches and Health matters. I'm in the Health line and I'm building my career in Health Tech, I don't want to be a programmer. I know all I wanna be and I'm developing myself towards that area already

Ok dear. If you want more books in your area of interest, I have a website where you can download most of them free

ModestGal:
I'm starting to think I might be special, not the type that would invent this and that or is something wrong with me? because I really do not know why I'm this way

LITTLE BACKGROUND INTO MY CHILDHOOD
I grew up intellectually very fast, more than my peers or anyone else I knew of my age.

In primary 1, I was the best, though I attended a public school, but, those in my class were quite older, I was 2years old and my classmates were mostly 5years old children.
My schooling was very fast, I graduated University at 19years old,
In my Primary school, I was a normal kid, played but I was quite thoughtful more than my peers and I understood my environment, that is one of the reasons why I could still remember everything at this age (I'm in my early 20s).

In my secondary school things started changing for me, I was finding it difficult to relate with friends, I was turning quiet. When I got to JSS2, my school was changed, and it was at this point I turned fully into an extremely quiet girl till I graduated.

Why I think I'm a rare gem is that I find myself to be extremely good in anything I lay my hands on, so far I have the interest on a task, I come out there extremely great. For instance, when I was learning sewing, I learnt very fast that I was teaching those I met there, and I find myself extremely perfect with metric sewing. I'm not currently practising that now because I wanted to buy 3 sewing machines of $655 each, and at this moment, i do not have such money. And I do feel very sad when I sew and I can't take all my imaginations into reality.

Along the line I started so many fun journeys, one is learning more about beautification, skin care, hair care, I learnt how to make hair products et cetera.
I understood very well, even though I learnt through DIY methods, and not like I went to learn professionally, but I did myself lots of favours by reading so many chemistry textbooks, and so many books I could lay my hands on, but also, I do not have money to establish (I would need a standard lab, Nafdac registration, etc), I can't be mixing rubbish and be selling to innocent Nigerians like some people are doing, endangering the health of beautiful Nigerians.
Although I still teach women all forms of ways to beautify themselves, what to buy and what not to purchase, I have a FB group and pages I do that, I have also successfully grown a waist length hair, yes its true, but I still had to neglect those skills as regards making income out of them.
In addition, I'm a good oratory, I started that in JSS1 when my English teacher would teach us Oral English and along the line, I picked interest, and I can say, I speak quite above average, eloquent, starndard British English, and my Yoruba is quite good as well, I often speak in parables, proverbs. I do voice overs.

After sometimes, I thoughy of what else to do that would be proffessional, that i would enjoy doing greatly and earning good income out of (as you can see I didn't establish in all the skills listed above due to no resources since my taste is quite high and professional), I looked else where.
I proceeded to learn digital marketing (Social Media), digital branding, and creation of animations and I can bet that I'm a top notch as well. Even though my background is quite different (in health line, where I'm currently heading my local government on the fight against Covid19, I have an initiative I lead that raises awareness on several community topics for the betterment of our society) I'm doing quite well in the TECH market.
I get so happy when client gives me good reviews without asking and when people come up to meet me and tell me how well I'm doing in content writing, and Branding without having spoken or worked for them before

Growing up, I had this problem of people viewing me as weird, after thinking about all these tonight, I started feeling ''What if Im a rare type of Genius'' ''What if im a rare gem'', I never thought of myself to be exceptional until this moment when I was evaluating my life and my skills
So please, I need you to evaluate me of what I truly am, am I a genius or an averagely brilliant lady or I'm just over thinking and over valuing these skills?

Note**please feel free to point out grammatical errors, vocabulary mistakes et cetera, I'm more than willing to learn from you

Babe learn programming language. If you are looking for the one to learn, learn Go programming language (Goland), and after learn C++. You will do great things as I see you.

By the way, you are a genius!
I would even marry you without blinking. If you what you are saying is factual

If you are looking for where to get books for the programming language or any other books that you want, contact me I will show you how to get them

Fucsheetup:
What maker?
I thought you said you have no religion? Who is this maker and almighty? Oh you are an Israelite who reads his bible. Even in Israel, there are two religions. Christianity and Judaism, which of their fathers is your father in heaven?

See this clown calling scientists blind fools with the technology they created in your hands to make your miserable life easier when you are currently holding the medal for world’s most asinine person. Educate yourself and stop displaying your illiteracy so openly. The universe you live in is too vast and too old for your comprehension, the Earth a micro organism, your view is too small. IT’S NOT THAT SERIOUS!

I doubt you went to any university, because if you had any education you would not be typing bull crap on the internet, disgracing your family.
Only weed you smoke, you don create another religion. If you take DMT wey go produce 3 extra hands for your body, mimick death and make you see aliens wetin you go talk?

I will advice you take up Neurobiology as a hobby. Look for facts about your brain on internet (Surprise! It’s not just for porn) and you will understand just how powerful your brain is, how it is responsible for all your experiences and laugh at your sheer stupidity.

Look at the sky above you too, try to learn more about your universe. Your planet is less than a grain of sand, so it definitely does not revolve around you or your religion or your specie.

Remember. ITS NOT THAT SERIOUS.

The way you guys say "scientists that produce the tool you are holding in your hand to type this rubbish". As if it's only atheistic scientists that produces useful things.

For your information, most of the technology in the world today, yesterday, and tomorrow are produced by God believing scientists!

Atheism is a new thing. It's actually a new religion. Part of the sign of the last days.

You all giving God more and more legal evidences to remove wicked people from this world soon.

You talked about the awesomeness of our brains and the splendour of the spacious heavens. In your mind that's the evidence of no God, abi?

In mathematical probability, the excellence, harmony, and consistency found in nature is beyond chance. God is behind it Ma.

You want to explain God away with this your confused brain that is not even yet able to explain itself to enough satisfaction

ArisingStorm:
Firstly, if you are a smoker, an advice : start eating as much fruits as you can till you overcome the addiction. Smoking is a fast way of killing the body cells, infact, very fast. All these post of smokers are liable to die young ain't a joke. Eat fruits and drink water adequately(I trust smokers, them no go believe ) .

I started smoking marijuana when I was in my Final year back in school (if I had started earlier, for me o, I don't think I can graduate). In the beginning, it was all fun, the journey was blissful, no problems, just a young man enjoying his life on a lowkey. I was introduced by my friends of course, they introduced me like joke like joke. Then I started smoking continuously like joke like joke. The feeling was good, like really good. I don't do all this Tramadol, Refnol and all other drugs (they are actually all the same thing). I always tell them (friends) it's chemical that weed is natural (God made it). I don't really like alcohol too (I always say they are damaging their liver). I can defend weed with my life. I will bring out health tips and benefits of weed. I was a brand ambassador of weed.

Mind you, if you see me, You wouldn't know I smoke marijuana, that's a trait of weed smokers (don't be deceived thinking all weed smokers have a thick voice or always look like thugs on the street). Very secretive because we know people will judge us and say stuffs like "haa your life don spoil, haa your life don finish (tho this is not true, The life is actually finishing gradually on a slope).

I smoked all through final year, I smoked even before going for final defense. Weed was like a best friend (didn't know it has turned to idol, that's always the end point). There are two types of weed smokers:

-the loners (they mostly like smoking alone),
-the group smokers (they mostly like smoking with friends).

I was mostly a loner. After graduating, when at home, weed was starting to be of less effect on me, the thing does not do me anything again, so I climb the ladder. I started with SK, a higher level. At this point, been an educated smoker that cares about his health, I started getting worried because I personally knew I was damaging my lungs (all smokers knows this but choose to ignore).

I decided to buy a vape pen (its a device for smoking with less smoke). The original was 45k, the chinese brand was 15k. I bought chinese. I used it for a while. Then I realize this vape pen can blow anytime and I will just die. I just went back to my smoking of blunt (the normal paper weed = roasting of lungs). At this stage, I forget things easily, my decision making was poor, my financial management extremely poor, I started becoming an I don't care kinda person, I started getting dehydrated easily, my body system started changing because of the smoke, my productivity was getting low. It affected my finances, I am always broke, it affected my relationship, it affected my whole life.

Weed smokers always have supporting strikers (this are bad habits that the weed gives inspiration/ginger/vibes to do). It can be sex, masturbation (Pornography), gambling, playing games, wasting time doing nothing (scrolling social media/internet) etc. I was a gambler and self service personnel. Things wasn't going well, mind you, You won't be able to tell anybody, You will just hide it to yourself. Depression gang arrived (drugs always lead to depression in the end).

NOTE : The moment I started thinking of quitting weed smoking, that is when it was as if world war 7 just started in my life. If you are a smoker reading this, and you are still enjoying it, You won't have any problem, but the moment you start trying to quit, chaiii, its when the battle just start, just go and wear armor.

The struggling started, I will stop for three days, am back, I will stop for 1wk, I am back, there was this time I stopped for Six good months. I started praying then and getting serious with my spiritual life. I was already like, finally, I don escape. I don't know shaa, I find myself dere again, this time, it was crazy. I smoked SK till I started not feeling anything again. I then climbed the ladder to "loud". At this stage, I wasn't happy with my life personally, but I can't stop. I didn't give up, I wouldn't lie to you, I received grace from above to be able to overcome, sincerely. All praises to My Maker. Now, if you like, put weed in my front, I will just be looking at you.

Conclusion: Trust me, You gonna lose opportunities taking drugs because you would be too high to see opportunities. Mindset is all that matters. You will need to distance yourself from those friends. Weed will always make you feel like the world is crumbling and that you should not stress yourself and just smoke. It will make you take stupid risks. It will change your attitude. If you want, You can be religious and also an hypocrite but the truth is Don't decieve yourself, any addiction you have, face it, be fearless, and don't give up, You will overcome!!!. I will gladly answer any questions. Many are feeling the vibes of weed now, sincerely, they don't know that it is an institution. Parents check your kids because they will never tell you. I told my mum when I overcame by grace, she was just crying, I was just looking at her like, why is this woman crying.

Any Addiction you have on earth, Don't give up, You are not a Slave. Be Fearless!

Please know this as well, all those inspirations, thoughts, vibes that comes when high is from Demons/unclean spirit(I am 100% sure). If you want me to go Spiritual, I will gladly explain, just quote me.

Thank you. APTTMH.

Arising Storm. Please I need to speak to you personally