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Samantha125:
Sex, sex, sex, and food... Wow! Not fair...🤣🤣🤣

Perhaps, Ur maker sees you are just starving urself what would make you happy. You start having it unrelentingly and see urself happy. Mind you prepare for results oooo

I mean kids.

goran3310:
Women these days don't respect men anyway. Not even the ones who pay for everything. How much less do they respect men they split costs with, and especially those they would have to pay for.
On other topics, many here whine about women asking them for money. Then they entertain the thought of women paying for their outings. Or anything else for that matter.
I really can't imagine a man who is worth even a little more than spit in the dust feeling comfortable while a woman pays for anything for him.
Poverty truly has no dignity.
Poverty and dignity are inversely proportional. They never go together.

Learn how to answer questions they asked you correctly.

The question is....Do rich girls also billing guys they are dating.

Babawee:
If you have done introduction and engagement( paying of bride price in nigeria, its recognised as marriage in customary court).

I stand to be corrected on my ascertion....

I guess the father in law, would give u marriage certificate,in which various Institutions or Govts all over the world would recognise as a legally married couples.

Court.
Embassy.
Bank.
Places of work etc.

AllBlack:
this one dey one kind oh. the last four digits of my phone is the very same number.

For me, the last 3 readily available.....but only number 1.

Maybe if I get it, my happiness would skyrocketing.

Use you last four digits of your number to see what need to be happy.

For me.

MONEY.
SHOPPING.
CAR.
ALCOHOL.

allthingsgood:
When it comes to Marriage, it’s common for men (and pretty much everyone) to mess up at some point. Whether it’s a lack of communication or a lapse in judgment, navigating a relationship requires a certain level of self-awareness. Here are some prevalent mistakes men make in marriage:

1. It is a woman's duty to love, it is a man's duty to provide
A man who continuously shows affection, without anything concrete is just sitting on time bomb and wasting his time. If she is not already cheating, she will eventually leave u in frustration. Women are complex, they are to be chased before marriage. After marriage, allow her to do the chasing. Focus on providing and protecting, that is your job as a man.

2. Letting your appearance suffer
When you first started dating her, you were probably extremely aware of how you looked, smelled, and presented yourself. But now? You walk around donning your dirty boxers upandan. Okay na, she will soon get tired and leave. A woman needs to see her husband as her god. So dont get too comfortable, or she will disconnect from you.

3. Take charge
You are the lord. Allow your wife to have her say, but you must have your way. She will secretly love you even more. No woman likes an indecisive man. Be a problem solver, not weak slub.

4. Expecting your partner to be a mind-reader
Bros, women arent prophets or psychics. Sometimes even if she has an idea what you mean, she just needs to hear the words. Dont just send money to your wife without giving specific instructions/information. You will have done nothing! Tell her exactly what you mean and what you want.

5. Avoiding conflict like the plague
We get it, no one likes fighting. It’s stressful and just all around not a good time. But conflict is pretty much a given in any relationship, besides it’s how you handle it that matters. So if you find yourself leaving whenever an argument starts to brew or just nodding to appease your partner, you’re being avoidant. Your partner wants to know how you feel and you should want to know how they feel, too! Also sometimes, women like conflict for no apparent reason, they can be that ridiculous. But its there way of seeking attention.

6. Prepare for the rainy day
Dont count on your wife to rescue you when things go bad, especially financially. You may be lucky that she does, but dont count on it. The only person who will probably accept you no matter what is your mother, so treat her well. You wife will begin to show signs when things get tough, and may eventually dump you. The biggest disaster is allow a woman become your breadwinner. My brother you are done for!

7. Your wife is not your best friend
Bro get it together. She is your wife and partner, not your best friend. Forget mumu woke generation


Add yours

I subtract nos 7 and add it back as Ur best friend.

Your wife is not only Ur best friend, but Ur number 1 confidant.

Factcheck0001:
Illiteracy and hate for government will kill Nigeria faster than anything, even when this same news have been debunked by many including Reno omokri and records have been set straight the mods still move this to front page.

For those people who couldn't have access to the verified news, I bring it here for Una

"[b]President Bola Tinubu Is Not Borrowing $21 Billion

Dear Citizens of the Federal Republic of Nigeria,

Please let us respond to facts, not fake news or innuendo. Download the Federal Government's Medium-Term Expenditure Framework (MTEF) and read it yourself.

President Bola Tinubu is not about to borrow $21 Billion. The MTEF contains the borrowing plan for both the Federal and State Governments for the next three years.

In other words, the $21 billion is what the Federal Government and the 36 states can borrow over the next three years. Not they will borrow. What they can borrow. They are not even likely to take those loans. It is just a framework for what is possible.

For example, while the MTEF provides for extensive borrowings in 2025, only $1.23 billion will be borrowed externally. And that $1.23 billion will be borrowed by both the Federal and state governments from all geopolitical zones.

The MTEF only shows possible borrowing that Nigeria is entitled to based on agreements with our external borrowing partners, which must be in line with both the Fiscal Responsibility Act 2007
and the Debt Management Office. (Establishment) Act 2003.

And the Borrowing Rolling Plan ties such possible borrowings by the Federal and State Governments to specific projects.

For actual borrowings, Nigerians should look at the budgets of both the Federal and State Governments.

Therefore, the sensational headlines proclaiming that President Tinubu is to borrow $21 billion are both fake and alarmist.

Again, I urge Nigerians to read the MTEF and the 2025 Appropriation Act.

President Bola Tinubu is a First-Class Cum Laude accountant adept at securing finances at the best rates from the most suitable lenders and for the right purposes.

Under such a skilled professional hand, Nigerians can expect their national debt to reduce, not increase.

Finally, Nigerians should note that many opposition media and influencers know that many of our people sadly do not read and are, therefore, susceptible to manipulation via misinformation and propaganda.

Thus, I urge the public to read as much as possible and verify from official sources before they make conclusions based on sensational headlines.

Reno Omokri

[/b]

I pity who no pity, while Omokri disinforming public for goodies goodies is getting from the govt, for you, you are suffering and smiling from wicked govt.

Yet the 3 national daily below, take cognisance of Tribune.... paragraph 2 and 3.

Legally NO

But wen kids involved, both parents aware and they leaving like couple, they are husband and wife, 75% of this in existence in Naija currently.

Meanwhile, if you do introduction and latter engagement, without going to church, mosque or registry, it still not a marriage

slimfit1:
Tinubu should have used this man shine, in the corruption fight boost his government profile but maybe he has something he can use to hold his balls.

Tinubu can't fight corrupt politicians, but would decimate any politicians who he sees as threat to his government.

Ekiti bigger than Ondo.

Ebony triples Imo.

This statistic is not clear to me, how they being generated o.

Believe this story crew, over to you.

Still not know why human beings would be defending criminals just because the perpetrators come from his tribe or religion. (The victims are also from the same tribe/religion you claim, you hold in high esteem and which you are defending)

Haa! May God save us oooooo.

BlocksNG:
If Trump is dumb, what do we call a senile president of Nigeria who has never and will never grant a live interview?

Always being on Truth social is Ur major achievement? Indeed, masses need to continue enjoy evil leaders.

I will advise you to go and read the entire story on BBC. In the words of HAVARD,... after all, such donations are not gifts, they are giving us for "researches" (these are the researches that are making AMERICA GREAT AND FIRST AMONG EQUAL, because, they are being used by COMPANIES, MEDICAL, TECHNOLOGY among others, to propel USA stronger and stronger, now, bastard has arrived the throne and ready to make the hardworking of his forefathers to go in vain.

NB. All these magnificent discoverery are not just coming to being free of charge, is as a result of financial commitments they are giving universities and research institutions, perhaps you think America is like Naija, where money given to them for research always enter pocket of professors and their concubines.

Next time, you won't vote base on gender sentiment but competency.

A man who once led you with no positive things to point to, but failure and mal-adminstration, most especially during COVID 19.........voters still preferred such unstable character to lead them.

Enjoy your America first in panick mode and turbulence. The BREXIT of yesteryears, where has it taken Britain reach? How has that improved their economy than the remaining Euro?

Those that are supposed to go if you truly want PDP back alive.

ATIKU.
WIKE.
DAMANGUN.


These 3 individual's time has expired, their continuing staying in the party, would continue to breed toxic and disaffection.

samuelson06:
Leave English. Leg chains on women in Nigeria is different from leg chains on women in other places. Initially, it was adopted by lesbians (they are still prostitutes by the way), later runs/hook up girls keyed into it.

Go do your research. Which sample is small or unrepresentative? Take note that he's not saying women are prostitutes. He's only saying that ladies who wear leg chains are prostitutes. So, I still challenge you to go do a research and if the result doesn't return 80-90% positive then feel free to counter him, but I bet you 80-90% of ladies with chains on their leg are prostitutes—whether married or unmarried, and you can easily generalize such result to the larger population with the same lifestyle.

98% are prostitute sleep with "men" 1% are ogbange 1% lesbian. Let him continuing to deceive himself.

favour32:
For Nigeria,
leg chain mean something.
Most families go discourage their sons from marrying a leg chain girl.
Ask yourself why?

Those that are arguing and attacking, how many of them would marry girls with leg chains? Check their past comments....they are what belong to the street shall go back to the street crew.

If they don't opposite every post on forum, they would have peace of mind.

belikewater:
Before adopting a fashion alien to your culture try and understand what it signifies, although wearing an anklet in other cultures has nothing to do with promiscuity however you can be assured that whatever enters the Nigerian space would automatically get corrupted so I believe the man of God on this one, if you doubt him go around and do your own data-gathering.

,...what the pastor said is clear even to the blind, but some people here must argue to proof a point, meanwhile, let say the pastor says, woman can wear leg chain, the same people attacking pastor her, would also attack him for saying that. Some are saying India and Iran,.....I don't know wen Nigerian become India.

Our fore father said....one man food is another man poison.

Christane:
Wat really pop up in most people's head wen dey see a lady with leg chain is dat ..she is a prostitute but we cant ascertain for sure .. but I do believe dat most of dem might not be into prostitution...dey might be using it for fashion ...but truly leg chain sense d wrong signal ...

But will a responsible lady be putting on a leg chain

Dat is a question for another day

The word prostitution in that statement, not necessarily she is prostituting, but she sleeps with different men. Even women know the kind of eye people use to look at women with leg chains......if you know people see woman wearing leg chain as prostitute and you still says such dressing is your favourite, it means you are not far from wayward girl.

God1000:
https://punchng.com/ladies-who-wear-leg-chains-are-prostitutes-says-pastor-ibiyeomie/?

Nlfpmod mynd44

No virtuous lady would be wearing leg chain, if she is not wayward, she is not far from ogbange, perhaps lesbian.

Your outward appearances, say alot about your inner mind, and what you capable of doing.

Wen we were young, I knew a street brother then, who slept with anything in skirt..... whenever he saw lady/woman from distance, he would tell us this woman, is a fornicator/ cheap woman,.....8/10 of such women, ended up in his bed. the way you dressing says alot about your personality.

Apcshit:
Ecowas without burkinafaso .is that one still ecowas

Wen she was there, what was her benefits, and having left it, who feels the impact? Bad rubbish to good riddance!

We still need your tears on euro without Britain ok. Abi u never hear Brexit?

Yet, wen they sacked kyari and his gang, people were weeping for hausa-yoruba-igbo appointments, Even the wailers were not concerned about the impact of the positions to their welfare.

press9jatv:
definitely character is like a smoke, it always reveals itself. There's no way you are virgin that you won't activate good characters and fear of God. You never experienced virgin ladies that is enjoying their marriage peacefully.

Go and re-read my post, I have given 3 examples of virgin I know.

For the first example......wen my friend, a psychologist interviewed her.....she confessed to him, she only wanted to take virginity to husband and not for the purpose of virtuousness.

Meanwhile, some girls remain virgin, out of fear from parents not purpose of good girls.

I knew a teenage girl in this category,.....her mother always threatening her and testing her virginity from time to time, until she enters university......



Human behaviours too complex for someone to just take it as one direction

press9jatv:
not true here, 90% of virgin wife's are always submissive and have the fear of God.

I pity who no pity you.

Every woman is once a virgin, even brothel ashewo.

In as much beings a virgin is a pride for parents and husband,..... virginity is a different ball game from character.

I knew a lady that his husband married virgin,....after a year into marriage, she is not only thrones in his flesh, she is cheating in her marriage.


Just 1 year into marriage oooo

I know another two different women that married as virgin, though, their is catch them young, after few years of marriage, they become public dogs. One of them them, almost rape my friend, even though she still in her marriage.

Omoawoke:
Omoh, bad wives dey this life oo


Now all the girls single will be crying on top someone neck to marry them

I have so many girls on my neck, crying and doing the nicest things just to get a ring from me…. So na like this most of them end up…
You will see them with pretty faces and sexy shapes, but na wickedness dey their mind…

It still doesn't stop you to get their real character if you want,.....as you said, pretty face and sexy shape, the two won't allow you to focus on character and attitude.

What you won't do as husband, don't start it as boyfriend.

GoodSpirit:
They are watching movies thinking what they do in movies is what happens in real life... divorce proceedings take years to accomplish

It takes years wen one partner is frustrating the process, .......if the two not frustrating it, it comes out less than a year.


Meanwhile, the partners would have even discarded before the divorce finalist.

Toyin Aimaku and her first husband(Adeniyi )case.

coleon:
Don't blame PDP blame the corrupt Nigerian judiciary, Woke has a court judgement that forbids the PDP from suspending or expelling him from the party.
He owns the judiciary that's why he builds houses for judges in Abuja while he's unable to pay pensioners their pension.

So, he also has court judgement to him redundant in the party......did you know the meaning of redundancy?

Learn how to take responsibility to Ur own failure and stop putting all blames on external factors.

How people married more than one wife and still put them under the same house is still unclear to me.

Suicideboy:
you don't know the meaning of the word you mentioned


toasting a girl on social media is dumb

Thinking the way you are thinking is super dumb.

THE GIRLS YOU SEE IN YOUR NEIBOUGHOOD, CHURCH, MARKET,SHOPS ARE THE INE ON SOCIAL.

if you think is good to toast a student you see physical but dumb to toast same girl on school WhatsApp group or school Facebook group.....it show Ur thinking faculty is incoherent.

PrincessJolade:
So you believed the arrangee 'fight' between Wike and Seyi Makinde? It is obvious that Nigerians are too shallow. For your information, both Seyi and Wike are working for Tinubu. Seyi Makinde is 'contesting' for president just to make sure that Atiku don't lay his hands again on the party ticket. All these charades are part of the plots to perpetually keep the PDP from one crises to the other until after 2027. I thought you are wiser than this. Expect more public mudslinging between Wike and Seyi Makinde. All na game.

DECEIVING urself ok,.....I doubt if you know politicians working with interest, and not personality,.....for me to work for you last year, doesn't guarantee, I will work for you this year.


Seyi makinde has since part way with both Wike and Tinubu.

I biliv they are working towards Seyi/Bala presidency.