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Suicideboy:
you don't know the meaning of the word you mentioned


toasting a girl on social media is dumb

Thinking the way you are thinking is super dumb.

THE GIRLS YOU SEE IN YOUR NEIBOUGHOOD, CHURCH, MARKET,SHOPS ARE THE INE ON SOCIAL.

if you think is good to toast a student you see physical but dumb to toast same girl on school WhatsApp group or school Facebook group.....it show Ur thinking faculty is incoherent.

PrincessJolade:
So you believed the arrangee 'fight' between Wike and Seyi Makinde? It is obvious that Nigerians are too shallow. For your information, both Seyi and Wike are working for Tinubu. Seyi Makinde is 'contesting' for president just to make sure that Atiku don't lay his hands again on the party ticket. All these charades are part of the plots to perpetually keep the PDP from one crises to the other until after 2027. I thought you are wiser than this. Expect more public mudslinging between Wike and Seyi Makinde. All na game.

DECEIVING urself ok,.....I doubt if you know politicians working with interest, and not personality,.....for me to work for you last year, doesn't guarantee, I will work for you this year.


Seyi makinde has since part way with both Wike and Tinubu.

I biliv they are working towards Seyi/Bala presidency.

If you don't allow him to leave the party, you would allow him to pull down the party.

A party man who is in govt of opposition, which he has said it several times, that he would work for his boss, the same boss that Ur party wants to contest against in 2027.

The way these people thinking is beyond comprehension.

You guys never ready, you are still acting comedy, if you still thinking Wike is part of PDP or you can still reconcile him to work for you in 2027.

OGA awarded the contract to company he and his son are part of, in other to reap Nigeria bountifuly....... even though baba the time baba would still spend on earth cannot up to the one he already spent, yet he wants to run Naija aground before he goes back to his creator.

Pallazzo:
Sue them $3,000,000 for snapping you without your permission.

Did u read where it was stated in the story that USA laws surport the plaintiff? Did you know the meaning of plaintiff?

You guys must opposite everything posted to let people know you are contributing, yet you gathered 38 likes already, what a people on faceless forum!

PHIPEX:
JAMB is a huge disappointment. You reschedule an exam impromptu forgetting many of these students need to travel across states and cities to write the exams. For some of these students, they needed time to make an adequate accommodation arrangement.

Easier to conderm wen u think myopically. In fact, eternal wailer must find reasonable to wail perpetually.


Before they rescheduled it, they said it publicly that the time is tight already, WAEC and latter NECO already taken the available space...... which is two months combined, if they don't squized into that tiny space to accommodate, you will still come online to rant and condemn.

SprinceARMANI:
I have this colleague at work(A lady) she has all a good woman should have skills and character wise, Thou we’ve not been too close prior to this moment but few weeks ago I noticed that this lady has been finding it convenient and relaxing staying around me most especially spending time in my office with me.

I Actually love this lady from onset but base on my principle which is “I don’t date at work place” I have always give her this strict face and boundaries.

But Sincerely speaking, As I move more closer to her I find her more attractive to me, She is single and I really wish I can wife her( Not for dating alone) I am ready to even settle down with what I have.

Thou we don’t talk about Love or relationships anytime we are together, But with indications it shows she like me just naturally, She address me as her only confided at that our organization, She prefer staying with me in my office during her free period.


Guy I need advice on what to do please 🤔🤔 Should I talk to her about relationship?

What if she said NO🥺🥺

My fear is me getting to loose my respect, Just maybe if she feels I am not suitable for and she says No.


Mind You we are bother colleagues but I am higher than her in Rank and in duty.

A man of no principle. With your principle, it would surely end in disgrace for you.

Why? Because having fulfilled your sexual fantasies in her, your eyes would now clear, to leave the relationship, it would hard, to continue the relationship, it would difficult as well, because of ur principle.
The girl would make the relationship opens, she would start disrespecting you, and if you don't careful, you will also loose ur respect before her friends.


Meanwhile, lesson learnt here........man and woman who are not family, shouldn't become close friends, closeness does bring feelings which would eventually lead to relationship(sex)

You said falling in love for women is gradual, yes, but many using that opportunity to exploit men to the last kobo and later disposed him without seeing ordinary colour of pant. In fact, they even mocking behind how they suffocate before they discarded him

Tip to guys...... girls/woman who doesn't say yes for you at first, but telling you to give her time.....you too should endeavour not spend "shishi" for her until she is ready to date you.

That style is a win-win for both of you, in fact, not only your financial commitment,even emotional and times, you too, should guide them jealously, not to waste them on selfish and useless person, who hides under,"give me time or that's, woman nature, to exploit you.

It gets to the head of self acclaimed Democrat and freedom fighter, he turns every organ of govt to his puppets.

iwaeda:
It will favour me and my family. Tinubu ruined everything, but they are endorsing him for 2nd term. Insecurity will not abate, I laugh at youth who are supporting their oppressors. Nlfpmod, go to shoprite at Oniru, Osapa, Sangotedo and Ikeja, same story.

Keep disturbing God while your godfather in govt dishing out evil policies.

God has done his best for your country, it left for both the voters and leaders to make their country bearable for citizens.

AS IT STANDS NOW, ONE OF ANTIDOTES FOR LEADERSHIP PROBLEM NOW IS, IF 80% OF CITIZENS START TALKING HOW BAD TINUBU IS, AS A PRESIDENT. WITH THAT, HE MIGHT CHANGE HIS POLICY FOR THE SAKE OF CITIZENS, BUT IF YOU CONTINUE THINK THE MAN IS YOUR TRIBE OR RELIGION AND REFUSE TO BLAME HIM, A TIME IS COMING,YOU AND YOUR FAMILY WON'T BE ABLE TO BUY DATA, BEFORE YOU KNOW WE WON'T BE ABLE TO SEE YOUR TRACES ON NAIRALAND.

apprentist:
Hello Guys, let me first of all say the cliché "It is well".

Now let we start.
I met my wife years back just before the COVID-19 year during which we dated for almost a year and then eventually got married just when the lock down was reducing. I started this story this way because I wanted to emphasis that during that period, we had so much time to bond and she was mostly available to me as she only worked on shifts 2 to 3 days per week.
We could sit and talk for long, go out at late nights and have great s*x as frequently as we needed.

This I think gave me a mirage of an anticipated marriage life so I didn't hesitate to take it a step further ones the lockdown was relaxed.
I also made it clear to her that her job would have to give way when their kids start coming as I had plans to assist her further her edu and also put up a biz for her.

Speed up to after COVID-19, she resumed work which till this day demands 5 days a week and 2 to 3 Saturdays per month all from 7:45am till 5pm. Often times she'd return home tired and would manage to make dinner and off to bed till the next day circle continues.
It became worse when we started having children. I drive them to school as early as 7:40am before dropping her off at her job. And then I'll pick them up by 5:30pm or 6pm when she's done with her job for the day (let me mention that this extends to public holidays and school holidays or breaks).

I got tired and in December 2025 I told her she has to quit the job. My plan was to enroll her back into a private school after my kids are Upto 4 years as one of them still depends on breast milk. I also gave her the option of starting a business which I understand is a dynamic move and might not be successful, but at this stage of my life it's something I could afford to risk and so I didn't mind.

I must also mention that out of a 100% sex, 50% is not mutual as I could sense she isn't interested and 40% is a denial as she would rather deny me of s*x with the excuse that she is tired.

Simply put, I'm tired.
I'm a Christian and divorce isn't an option. Also I can't cheat, but I am starved of s*x and my kids are not given the attention they deserve.
Pls advice me

Your last paragraph, the option is to continue endure. Meanwhile, one thing I know about women, if they don't want sex from you, they give 1001 reasons ,but if they want sex, even in prison they find way to give you

icankel:
not lies ok. Men going through a lot over women just that most of men hardly speak up. Woman will manipulate you to the last and still be crying over your head

Is any of the woman forces you?

You change Ur statement to...MEN PUTTING THEMSELVES INTO A LOT BECAUSE OF WOMEN.

MufasaLion:
And that's nobody's fault.

So Ur analogue is wrong on musk too.

Samuche2000:
Thank God Elon Musk flee to USA and refused to live in South Africa. See the benefits it turned out to him having all kinds of resources at his disposal to explore with.

Hope you also know several American citizens that have never stepped outside USA before, who are leaving poor and homeless.

Talismann:
no woman, I repeat no woman will ever love you unconditionally. It has never and will never work that way. Even your own biological mother will dance to the tune of that child who provides the more for her. Don't allow anyone deceive you. As a man, it's better you live with that truth or die in self denial. Even God will despise you if you can't solve issues in his house or useful to him.

Now that being said, there a few real, trustworthy ladies.but the paragraph above is still engrained in their DNA regardless.

As a man what to do. You need to make money, you need to keep working hard. A man paying his bills earns serious respect from everyone.

Once you can't pay the bills, even your dog will whine and grind it's teeth at you when you can't buy it's food.

Avoid gold diggers btw, you should get a woman who is purposeful and going in the same direction with you obviously. But live with the fact that the moment you can't provide anymore, things will likely go wrong.

One love

Do you love woman unconditionally too? If VJ is not in woman, would you even look at her side?

Will you leave son that is caring for you and be running after the one that is not carrng?

You are just wailing and Ur agony is not logical and rational.

WHENEVER YOU ARE IMPOSING YOURSELF ON SOMEONE WHO DOESN'T LIKE YOU AN INCH, THE AGONY RESULTS ARE WHAT YOU JUST VOMITING NOW. GO FOR A LADY WHO LOVES AND YOU TOO DO THE BEST FOR HER AS A MAN AND SEE HOW RELATIONSHIP BETWEEN MAN AND WOMAN SWEET.


NB. Betrayal has nothing to do with gender, know that and have peace.

What a democracy! The way Nigeria politicians behaving, calling for sober reflection. The period the president is dishing out excruciating policies for people, and pains are everywhere, yet that's the time politicians who claim they relying on votes of masses are decamping and worshiping the man at centre, who is ruling like lord of manor. What an absurd!

.....AND FOR THE DANCING GOV, I THINK HE SHOULD BE WRITING HIS HANDOVER NOTES, BECAUSE EVERY HANDWRITING ON THE WALL NOT FAVOURING HIM.

humberjade:
The kind damage Trump go do to US' foreign relations ehn, 3 consecutive Presidents go find am difficult to mend.

3 presidents? It can never, ever be the same again. Now, presidents of the world would be thinking twice before they go to white house, since he bullied 2 presidents already. Before you know, nations would be compelling to open up their doors for another world power nations, for business and cooperation, China and Russia would be the biggest beneficiary of the way madman of America is behaving.

Putin send plane to carry Burkina Faso president, the same president, that Trump would bully if he ever stepped to America.

So, which of the world leader Burkina Faso president would open door for to explore it's resources?

You said you didn't biliv in a particular god , but I say I biliv and cherish it, how is that becomes problem for some people still fathom to me.

Tekashi89:
Hey guys so I recently went to a popular market in my state and I found some spiritual shops, out of curiosity I decided to go into one and found different liquids and soaps some with names like "love & attraction" "love soap" "love me alone" etc.

So I think I'm interested in it does anyone know the products that work best and how to mix them together.

go back Ur village where you see the advert and ask them to teach you and stop asking useless questions from invincible people.

budaatum:
Perhaps he wants to be the king of Nigeria, or we should adopt China's one party rule.

Some people don't seem to understand that those countries have a system dictated by their history. If Nigeria adopts, say, the Yoruba way of choosing our leaders, one family will rule forever.

If one family rules forever, which would bring good governance for rest of the citizens, compare to turn by turn in which 95% of citizens are suffering.

Saudi Arabia, one family rulership.

isio1:
And you think the Executive don't have their own. When you get to know the amount the Executive have inserted you will marvel. The Country is gone.

If it's limited to execute, it would have saved Nigeria than what we are facing now.

I still don't know why executive allow lawmakers to be inserting whatever they wish into budget ...... claiming democracy and constuency projects, YET, no where in the country where we can see, the so-called constuency projects.


Democracy Na scam.
Still imagine the fake story they sold for us during the military era about democracy.

Very unfortunate, the leader of such struggles worse than dictators, he was fighting then.

Maxymilliano:
https://punchng.com/im-laying-foundation-for-good-governance-in-rivers-ibas/?fbclid=IwQ0xDSwKZAudjbGNrApkC4WV4dG4DYWVtAjExAAEexx_H3o1FZtpWk2zFL7TGrLZbd1uYeFNNgLCsYswbYslQDTDQZK-TGz3YTSQ_aem_gPLbdbWws4v2I5iuqW0S9w

If you wanted to lay good foundation, you should have rejected a stolen offer from very very beginning.