₦airaland Forum

Flows001:
What the f*ck is wrong with RWANDA?

As tiny as the country, it has been a major instigator of the Congolese war since the late 90s, that is so bad, and I wonder why DR Congo cannot also attack Rwanda, DRC is the second most populated country in Africa, but how they keep tolerating the excesses and killings from both the Rwandan army and Rwandan backed rebel groups.. It is so annoying

Lampy336:
I just pray no one should experience infidelity then you will know that it's not an easy thing to keep catching a cheating wifey..

Abee79:
You know, you didn't need to respond to my comment . . .

Wealthoptulent:
Women will only lady, when they KNOW they OWN THE HOME, wise Woman builds, foolish one SCATTERETH!
He makes the money, he owns the Fame, def it comes with SHORT COMINGS(SHORT COMINGS = CROSS)

mu2sa2:
Funny, isreali army so good and efficient they could capture hezbollah weapons but couldn't locate hostages held in tiny Gaza trip. Hahahaha, world's most fearsome/efficient army indeed! Hamas is coming, run, run for cover!

Almiron:
These people think Biden is still in office. This is Trump's era, mess around and find out. This will send a clear message to others not to mess with Trump. He can cripple your economy with a stroke of a pen.

Some misguided liberal apologists and those pushing the Russia fake news propaganda are celebrating in another thread. Y'all are either misinformed or uninformed. This is Trump 2.0, not 'sleepy' Biden, if you act carelessly, you’ll face the consequences.

Nlfpmod frontpage boss

Bola4boy:
oponu, you're quick to call me broke because of my opinion. Pele, mikano generator owner.
The woman was there for him all these while but they still divorced and only bill gate was ranting rubbish, abi he was forced to sign divorce papers ni?
Ati bill gate o, Melinda o, and yourself are all confused entities.

PresidObi:
It's a crying shame that Lagos couldn't generate at least 180 trillion dollars from our ports and all our company headquarters stationed there. I think there is heavy fraud going on there. They must be hiding some revenue.

Westves:
Thank you, my brother. Incompetence permeates all that we do, even down to porn, agriculture, primitive industries you'd assume we should have perfected due to experience. We simply stagnate mentally

Regarding electoral malpractice, low intellect can't be blamed. We borrowed a culture that doesn't work. Yes, democracy is more civil than monarchy and dominion, but we lack the means to achieve it: INTEGRITY. Simple and short

We don't possess the basic honesty to carry out one election without misconduct and rigging. Democracy itself is even flawed because of a number of factors:

1) age is too rudimentary a criteria to make one eligible as polity

2) many who know an aspirant is not worth his salt should not made to pay for the delusion of other voters

3) net worth is a poor determinant for highlighting political candidates. Being rich should not be enough for one to standout as our only options for leaders

It's a long list in my document but these are the ones that come to mind quickest. At the very least, we were supposed to improve on the system we plagiarised. Instead, we not only copied it verbatim but bastardized it

So these are the issues that should be addressed before elections can be reliable. If the process is gotten right, NOBODY will contest or dispute the results. Because then, you know it's not an emotional decision or one that favours you on an personal level. It's not about what horse you're backing but, objectively, the best in the race

The reason there is still a smokescreen of bribery, violence, ballot snatching etc, is because there is a platform for doing so. Bvas came close to fixing it but nothing was transmitted. Results were announced in the middle of the night. Everybody was gloomy for a day or two and went about their businesses

I'm not a violent person and I acknowledge the catastrophic effects of war. Before I suggest physical harm, it's because it's the only way there is to upheaval the mess, overhaul and try something more foolproof

It's a hill I'm willing to die on. We can NEVER conduct a fair election as is, and announce that result. We are not honest enough, ESPECIALLY in our everyday lives. Has nothing to do with poverty or malnutrition. I will say it's more of orientation, standards. We grow up content with the bare minimum and that cutting corners makes one a sharp guy. From the cradle, it's institutionalised

Jakumo:
Fela's open confrontation with the Nigerian government paved his path to destruction. He failed to realize that popularity does NOT equate with power, so he became open in his disapproval of what powerful men were doing in government positions.

It was only a matter of time before the fate of all dissidents against despotism in the Third World would befall Fela, when his house was burned down and his mother murdered right before his eyes by federal troops sent on a mission of comprehensive destruction that was intended to serve as a cautionary tale for all potential agitators.

meobizy:
Good. The same holy book says a Christian shouldn’t judge. Live life as you deem fit and let the other person do the same.

eepeepook:
Somebody will create a thread asking “what is the state of Nairaland?” Nairaland will remain useless as long as stupid topics like this make front page.

AfroKnight:
Emmmm no.

Belle no be proposal.

If you believe your girlfriend is terrible and she would turn out to be a bad wife, my brother, avoid marrying her. Avoid a situation where she has legal rights to your abode, your food, your property and finances.

Highest! She go swear for you.

No be today. You too, swear for her back.

If her parents use oloopa to carry you, say you no wan marry their pikin, ehn no wahala, when you come out you too, use oloopa to carry her papa.

Give them craze for craze to the extent that her parents will be the ones advising her to avoid “useless husband”. Don’t be so shy or timid that you’d enter serious problem.

A bad wife is not an easy affliction to endure.

However, if your babe is your dream girl with compatible character and values, don’t miss the opportunity to marry her.

Regardless of your decision, be financially responsible for her during pregnancy.

Caveat: Do this last one ☝️ if you know the baby is yours.

Kobojunkie:
The right to bodily autonomy — the right to one's body without fear of violence or discrimination — is not given up in marriage. I do agree that a woman or man should not be blamed for refusing his/her partner's sex even in marriage. Of course, this also means that a man or woman has every right to get a divorce if he/she is not comfortable with being denied sex.

MONEY247:
Don't blame serialists and psychotic people when they misbehave.... some times life happened to them and and they take on new characters forms and habits that become psychologically irreparable and damaging to society and their self...


1) Loss
It could be loss of anything
2) Association
Mingling with the wrong people.
3) Environment
Tough and criminality thriving environments can alter people identity
4) circumstances
Situations they find out themselves at a particular present time...
5) Experience
What some have gone through in life can alter their beliefs and behavior...

If you feel you and deviating from societal values and Start cravings for things unusual
Like
Suicide, to rape the opposite gender, to kill someone, to revenge, or just anything that makes society not safe...
Please relate to your pastor or spiritual leader and also seek God's mercy.....
It's well with us in Jesus name

franchasofficia:
That's also true.


But most times its three things that brings disagreement or fight in most marriages. They are:


1.) Sex matters

2.) Food

3.) Money

4.) Some in-laws


As the man, if you can avoid complaining about the 4 things I mentioned above by not expecting much from the start and manage the situation like nothing, believe me you will enjoy less issues in your marriage

goodman41:
Update on https://www.nairaland.com/8304810/want-arrest-wife-family

My wife went to women afair to report me. So I got invitation letter to come to women afair next week.

I don't think I will go there because am planning to go to court to seek for custody of my two boys. I don't want to be sending her money for my boys. Please what do you suggest should I go or not?

Abee79:
Na them dey miss me! 😅🤣🤣
They still call me for financial support, even though they are both married.
Thank God for the heartbreaks and disappointments. God is indeed a wise God 🙏

gloryman91:
A Nation full of deceits will continue to fool herself.

How does this affects order faiths?

This is meant for only Muslims interested in their religion.

God's Guidance.

Wizardslayer:
The problems with Islam ..

They always want special treatment, while neglecting the feeling of others. They go about doing it forcefully with threats and violence.

Just imagine what will happen if Christians go about demanding for canon laws in every place they are.

mrvitalis:
Yess ooh and what can you do about it

If you people don't like it you know exactly what to do

yashau:
https://x.com/thecableindex/status/1883074456685269242?t=i34QixkLl3T0gMDOIxxyzQ&s=19[/quote]Dot nation contributed least , but they have loudest shout.

Anyway, they develop other regions, while crippling their own economy every first working day of the week.

Dindondin:
Because he was innocent. Have you considered others that Abacha killed?
Are they coup plotters too?


Some of you on this forum deserve FG visitation.
Tell the whole world your pain and grouse with people of southwest. Creation of this post is a manifestation of your intentions.
How can you say the bolded to a whole tribe?
What is their offense?
Who exactly did something that you can't highlight the individual and drag such person. The way people do tribalism in Nigeria is appalling. We are in volatile times and anything can lead to unrest.
Be responsible.

Temitunz:
Do you believe in love at first sight, the kind where your heart skips a beat the moment you meet someone? Or do you think true love grows over time, as you get to know and connect with someone on a deeper level?

Let’s talk about it. Are you team instant spark or team slow burn? Share your thoughts below. 💕

Bar1941:
Trump really lack adequate knowledge on running a viable economy. Everyone will obviously be affected by his bullish attitude towards Canada and Mexico and it’s better he’s called to order.

CodeTemplarr:
Oyo got half of what was contributed. That doesn't support your argument.