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OredoPikin:
U cant be the most educated and constantly produced leaders that forged all their educational documents
Ur leaders represent u and tells the kind of education u guys have.
For every 3 high ranking political office holder from SW
2 forged their certificates 🤣
All ur lies and propaganda have been bursted😁

I like your submission, but Igbo who are known as most educated,often ended up as spare parts sellers in a slum. Little wonder, nobody considering any "dot-national" qualified enough, to rule the nation.

......and if he doesn't go to law school ? When has it become criminal not to go to law school after completion of BSC degree in law?

wiseoneking:
Your second paragraph mocks the whole submissions. Gaza is destroyed and death toll is highest, yet you claim you did better. You are regrouping to be decimated and destroyed not knowing that Israel has increased both militarily and with far more highly sophisticated missiles. Presently, Palestinian depends on Israel for the energy, jobs etc

Stop replying mad man, .....for people looking at you,not to be thinking 2 mad men are fighting.

malakaimoscondo:
u are I'll informed....your own is just hatred toward Muslims....go see what decision pundits in Israel are saying regarding the seize 🔥 deal....they believe it a capitulation of israel to hamas.u won't understand...no one single war objective was achieved.hamas still waxing stronger ... military graves in israel is filed u..no more sight to bury fallen soldiers.u will understand better its just a matter of time...

I pity who no pity you sir. People around you should be vigilant.

MondayOmoAdugbo:
I'll fly my drone, nothing will stop it from flying High and wide.

Nonsense ingredients 😏

The picture below is youths in age bracket that executed in Congo yesterday .

The teen u see weeping, was once doing gragra than u, today he is RIP.

EVEN ONLINE THE LONG ARM OF LAW WILL CATCH ANYONE GOES AGAINST THE LAW

trium:
Also stop bringing people into your house just to return a book. Meet people outside, only bring people you want in your lives to your home or else, your house is open to all

Infact, he should stop sending her to market alone, at least to separate her from random guys.


Wen the common sense losses, the owner of the brain worse than lunatic.

Getright247:
I will need some opinions to be sure I do not blow the entire scenario out of proportion and take drastic action without justification. I will try to be as brief as possible. I married my wife, and she joined me in Netherlands where I was working. We have 2 kids, and we have had some struggles in the marriage in the past which I now attribute to family influence from Nigeria. My main concern now is that back in 2020, we had a serious argument, and she felt I was not giving her attention and that I maybe having affair outside. My conclusion at that point was that , she had too much time to chase shadows because she was not working. She has access to my phone, my social media account but that was not enough for her, at a point she was constantly suspecting who I talked to, what we talked about and so on. Then I decided to lock and privatize all my account because I felt she was only interested in finding what did not exist. I remember we once had an argument in which she said if I deprived her of sex she can go out and get it, she even said she was seeing someone. I took the statement seriously and it became a big problem my parents and her own parents back home got involved and they all concluded it was a statement out of anger. I did my investigation and found nothing and decided to let it go after she begged and apologized and claimed it was not true that she wanted to make sure I feel the pain if I was cheating. few years into our marriage after she joined me, we had a serious fight and within that period I saw she registered on a dating site, ( the profile show looking for men 30-50 in the area) I saw that screenshot the page and kept it aside and confronted her she denied that she did not know and that she just got email and thought it was like face book and she registered. That response was not adding up as she used her picture on the site. At that time, we already had our second child, after threatening to leave her, the problem escalated, and we finally settled. Even when I took it seriously at that time, I was convinced nothing has happened and we moved on.
Mid 2021 she started working as care giver, in Netherland, at the end of the year the company where she worked had a party for all staff. She attended and gave me gist of her experience and the drink and dancing etc. but never mentioned at that time about a Nigerian guy she met and was working in the same company. The same guy happens to be a junior from my school and was still a student at that time.
Knowingly or unknown to him that his colleague was my wife. The community where we leaved was quite small and I practically know 80% of the Nigerians there both student and workers. Late 2023 I got transferred to anther city in Netherland we relocated to my new city. I came across this guy just last month and he was now married with his own family and working in the same city. He was not my very close friend but someone I know. We got talking and he needed a book for research which I had and was not using. I obliged to give it to him. I sent him my address so that he can come pick it up but he was saying I can just take the book in my car so we can meet and he will collect it. After like a week he decided to come to my house for the book.

Before the guy came my wife asked who the guy I was expecting was, I showed her the guy pictured on WhatsApp and she claimed not to know the guy. She was asking if the guy was married. Unknown to her that I already saw the picture from the company party with the other colleague and the guy was boldly in the picture. (only 7 people were in the picture) I then told her the guy was also working as a caregiver in our previous city. It was at that point she said, “or is it the Nigerian guy I met at the company party that year?” I just kept quiet, knowing she was lying.
Finally, the guy came to my house, I expected he would come with his family, but he just parked outside with his family in the car and came in alone claiming they were in a hurry to meet up with another appointment. When my wife saw him, she claimed not to know him and was asking if he was at the company party, but the guy was acting confused and said he could not remember, in my presence. I gave him the book and escorted him outside and they left. Just less than 5 mins after they left my house the guy called me back that I should tell my wife that he can now remember that he was in the company party. My wife body language was not normal and she asked me who called I told her it was the guy and she was asking what did he say? I just told her something else. Throughout that day my wife was acting too nice, I could see she was trying to make everything normal. I was quiet and pretended that I did not know anything.
My main concern now is considering my wife’s statement and past attempts, did she have anything with this guy or was the guy asking her out at that time, because the guy claimed to be single at that point. Why was she lying about not knowing the guy, why was the guy so anxious to call me back to explain to me just 5 mins after leaving my house? There is something not adding up here. Is she cheating?

My guy, you dnt need prophet to tell you that, ur woman is a cheat,infact,"she is a serial cheater", but you made one "gracious" mistake. You should have used fake profile to toast her on dating site, by abruptly telling her you saw her on dating site,portraying you as a neophyte, when it comes to women's infidelity, and by extension, giving her space to give you loads of excuses and escape routes,......I called it gracious mistake because, that mistake is still the grace holding her as a married woman by now.

Anyway, you are sharp when it comes to"emotional intelligency" but you still to work more on that in other to see, all her secrets open yakata for you.

No human can do anything outside his or emotions, because emotions in human are true reflections of that person, and not what he/she saying.

For men and women who like opening bottles of drinks,( beer or soft drinks) with their mouths.

BayLord01:
The sad incidence narrated here sound like fraternity clash/score, they went straight to only him & shot him without stealing anything. Rip to him

If it's not cult related case, it would be a case of two guys fighting over a woman. (Not even a very strong member of a choir.)
Immediately I saw his picture, I knew he is a cultist.

RollinTNDA:
My Aunt is a well educated career woman. Book smart and intelligent
She did very well in school..
She also has Phd

She gave me one of her used phones.
Turns out she didnt logout from her youtube.

Anytime in on youtube, na her account i dey see.

Here is the problem
1. Despite her level of knowledge, this woman believes those AI videos are real. She subcribe to youtube channels that post fake Ai videos of America got talent.
And she totally belives it.

2. She is subcribed to many different "Prophets"
She is a huge fan of prophet lovy
A prophet with tatooo and dreads
This woman subscribe to many fake pastors on youtube...

3. She is the type to share a post on facebook saying "Share this post if you love Jesus"
They are using fools like her to generate likes and she will stupidly type "Amen"

How can a woman with such level of education still fall victim to fake Ai videos, fake christian posts.

There was a fake Ai generated video of conjoined twins singing gospel music on America got talent.

She really believed it was real
She comment "Amen" and shared the post saying. "God use them to preach gospel to americans"

How can a highly educated woman still fall victim to fake Ai videos and fake christian posts

Go and read Redpiler thread here on nairaland, and come back to tell us how your gender is slowpoke and gaulible.

Bookhub:
I have being dating this girl for about 2 month now, though she has made clear to me from the beginning that she is in a serious relationship and she is cool dating both of us,as a guyman I didn't mind as long as she is given me my share but I recently discovered that she is actually has good qualities, she is industrious and intelligent and infact she spends more time talking to me than her boyfriend,meaning she is just dating the guy out of pity.
I asked her to be bold enough and quit the relationship that I have better future plans for her i am 32 while her boyfriend is 22,i told her I am willing to wife in 3 years time if she stays loyal but the boy of 22 is not even certain about their future together she has bring crying over it since yesterday.
Women are really complicated and tricky if you ask me,this girl! her boyfriend will see her off to the bustop after they are done with class In 1 hour time she will land In my house and stay till evening the boy will think she has gone home,one day she said she will go to the boys house i rebuked her and told her not to go out of jealousy omo she obeyed me and cooked up excuse and never went to the guys house.

And you too? Haven't you sounded stupid?

Meanwhile, you deliberately not mention how you have been bombarded her with cash and gifts, that made her staying longer in ur house than original boyfriend.

Dnt you being foolish for spending higher money for hole that two of you sharing? Your own is even worse, while original boyfriend not aware, you, that have detailed knowledge of her waywardness still begging and spending more, just to give you ordinary attention.

GOFRONT:
Some will come now and tell you "Mind your bizness" ....Some will tell you "Its her opinion, not yours. Some will tell you " Live and lets live" Some will tell you "She is an adult and she is entitled to whatever she feel like to beleive"

Someone is already sayin "He blame your Aunty for giving you her phone in the first place.....

Abi, since you are the owner of universe, everything you like/ biliv, others must like/biliv it with full force, little wonder you guys are finding it very difficult to have stable relationship and having issues in ur marriages,.......you think some of us don't know, so many posts here are fake, yet we still comment, the reason why people comment are different.

Some comment bcs they must wail daily.

Some comment for fun.

Some do so to troll.

Some think they're real.

Why some know, it's fake yet people would still learn from it from their comments.

niel63:
To all Nigerians who can't differentiate what cyber bullying is. This is a typical case.
Not when the rich has the power to oppress.

Stop cyber bullying. It kills.

Simple solution, "dnt read the comments", even me here,ever since I understood how toxic this forum is,I hardly read my comments.

Country where there are laws and orders, and not 3rd world nations, where political leader is bigger than entire nation.😩

FatimaMurtala:
I thought you guys said you ain't Igbo?

Check this

...and that singular act turned that particular ethinc group to, "a dot in a circle", making them, "merry-go-round" the seat of power from afar. Till date, nobody trusts them to near the seat of power.

Yet, Nigeria judicial would still spend a century before they do the needful, even when they finally do the needful, leprosy would suddenly catch gov to do his own duty.

Why won't Nigeria turn to hellfire.

His servants reluctant to talk about this on his TV, if isn't their pay master that happened to, it would have been "a hot sacrifice" for them, to feast on since Monday the news broke.


Very easy to CRITICIZE, ATTACK & CONDEMN, give human slightly opportunity,he would do worst.

You quickly made you turn because Tinubu promised to come to ur daughter's wedding.

Many of people attacking govts, doing so because they dnt have opportunities, let the govt of the day, flash small contract/cash to them, ....... seeing them prostrating.

If Tinubu gives Farotimi small position now, he would start singing hosanna for his govt

CorrectionFLuid:
You need deliverance

Abi, you will be freed the very day you ready to accept the truth.

Umuinyioku:
I hope Lagos state government is reading.

After elections of 2023, Lagos state is no longer friendly to non Yorubas. They see non Yorubas as anathema that should be done away with.

State sponsored demolitions of non Yoruba buildings and properties,and those perceived to have anti Tinubu political dynasty.

Abia state has shown the way. Evidence they support best hands, best brains irrespective of regional or ethnic origin.

Kudos to Abia state!

How many Igbos that are in elective positions compare to lagos? Infact, is it possible for non Igbos to come out for elective positions in Igboland as Igbo doing in southwest?

AerialMapper:
As it should be... Merit over everything else!

I'd rather see a ministerial cabinet filled with competent individuals from one tribe than a geographical spread of incompetent buffons just for the sake of "national character"!

And u think there is one region without a competent person? That was song lifeless sang all through his 8 years, at the end it's disasters.

Gradually , we are moving to situation in which, the person that occupies the office, his people would only be the competent at that particular period, after he leaves, they are no longer competent again to occupy good positions.

chibuzor05:
https://www.google.com/amp/s/thenationonlineng.net/gov-otti-swear-in-edo-born-ojeikere-as-abias-head-of-service/amp/

When people with this type of mentality are in helms of affairs, the productivity in that organisation would increase tremendously.

I'm very sure, the original Abians who are not competent like him, won't say this, but instead start campaign of calumny to bring him and govt down.

wazobeer:
Some filling station owners might be culpable for adjusted meters to increase profits, but to sell air into people's tanks like this one, I think that's the fuel attendants' handiwork...

Someone who spent hundreds of millions to build a filling station would show some concern about the reputation of his business, but a bad staff that has no stake in the company can do the unthinkable.

No attendant does that without the knowledge of the owner or supervisor in charge of that filling station. Attendant can only sell Petro of ₦3000 for ₦5000 if you are negligence by not focusing on metter reading, he can't adjust the fuel pump unilaterally.

wazobeer:
Some of these fuel attendants are really heartless. A lot of them work in connivance with their managers.

How can someone buy 35k fuel and the fuel guage doesn't move at all... Despite the fact that petrol is now 5x what it used to cost.

Is attendant that doing it or the owner of fuel station

gasparpisciotta:
Another round of ass licking has begun.

She has already broken the record of being the female speaker in Lagos house of assembly but history shows that female speakers don’t last in Nigerian politics, hope she will break the jinx

In Rivers that 27 law makers are doing shege for Fubara, you are wailing, here in in lagos,that law makers planning to cooperate with gov, u also running tears. 😭

But here in Zoo, they would bath them with warm water, Cook good food for them, Carry them to Palace to meet President/Governor, give them Pocket Money and ask them to go back to the society in peace.

Why won't be surge in criminals activities!

duduade:
Better face the development of Oyo State


Only you persecute Hazmat and co

Only you persecute people who collected egunje for Alaafin

....but only you crying on faceless forum, when Makinde does not even know, you are existing.

For those crying their eyes out cos they didn't allow Ifa to select Alaafin for them.

As if
Ifa won't change voice when he sees money.

we still have genuine Ifa priest in our midst.

Even in time immemorial, thr wasn't dishonesty.

TimeManager:
The least we can do is to appreciate these new military chiefs and in particular, Mallam Nuhu Ribadu. They are putting in the efforts 24/7. This news scares me, I must confess.


-Kiss the truth!

Courtesy of Bola Ahmed Tinubu. only number one person that heads government can effectively tackle any issues in his domain,provided he has political will to do so. His two predecessors were bias in handling the situation, that was why, the insurgency prolonged and became cancer to Nigeria populace.

Since drugs intakes have become new trend for teenage guys in Nigeria.

Few years to come, govt would declare emergency on mental health cases in Nigeria, because, every town and village would have littered with mad men and boys.

Mode4:
Parents need to do more by teaching boys sex education and the consequences of having sex with minors or not seeking consent from adults whom they want to have sex with to avoid rape cases. These boys grow up with raging hormones in their teenage years and with the rot in todays world where illicit sex is promoted everywhere, find it difficult to practice abstinence.

At that age, parents should be extremely hard on their teenage wards, that is when the hormone started running afresh in the body of teenage boy, ..."tear rubber hormone and never used prick", the owner ready to put it inside any hole available, even his own biological little sister.