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People have been deceiving themi since time immemorial.

95% of Catholic fathers and sisters aren't doing it as a result kingdom work and 99.5% of fathers and sisters having regular sex secretly.

The entire blames, the husband has already carried it, because of his inability to control his anger, the frustrations that wife put husband into, which made husband carried out this animalistic behaviour, wife would deny all completely.
Hence the whole world would put entire blame on man.

Originalsly:
This is exactly what I'm talking about ...painting with a broad brush. Your choice ...but let's discuss. Providing your way of upbringing and chastising a child is reasonable ... how do you know no single mom would allow you to? No doubt ...there are mothers even in marriage that do not allow the husband to chastise their precious never do wrong children. The same can happen to the non single woman you marry .... can cause fights between you and her over chastising your own kid. So would you even consider marrying period?
If the single mom's husband is still alive .... then you should know the risks involved including the risk to life. Again.... can't paint with a broad brush .... many have married under such circumstances and went on to have better lives and relationship than many that marry virgins or those with no history of relationships.

I read only one paragraph of ur thrash before I comment for the last time, I won't be surprised if your upbringing is hogwash and I can seeeeee, you are a type who like to deceive himself.

No woman will give you chance to scold her children if you aren't their biological father, as your own child, even biological father still struggling atimes in the hands of mother.

Anyway, you might be talking from the angle of limited experience sha.

I give you this simple assignment, try to scold kids around your environment whenever they err for 3 months continuously and come back and share ur experience.

Originalsly:
I believe it is about "judging a book by it's cover". It is true that this society looks down on single mothers because they believe every single mother is as a result of being unmarried and sleeping around....and every single mother is a prostitute. It is always because of their loose living .... or infidelity. If they were married and became a widow doesn't matter .... a single mom is a single mom and every single mom is a LovePeddler period ... well ....except one's family member. With this mentality .... sooo many men will dump a single mom ...never mind they see she is a good person... and marry one who is childless but had countless abortions .... and after marriage... not only can't she bear children but her true colour comes out ... bottom line ... got married to an undercover LovePeddler . Then what? Not saying all single mothers are good .... many are indeed loose and don't know who really is th baby father .... but saying we shouldn't paint them with a broad brush .

The reasons I can never-ever get married to single mother are two.
1 Children upbringing,: She wont allow me to chastise/discipline her kids the way I will like to do for my own kids. Infact, her kids would ultimately lead to fight and separation.

2. If her ex husband still alive: Marrying a single mother in which her husband still alive, is synonymous to be in polyandry with such woman, the space of her ex, can never completely eraze in her heart. The ex would still have access to her body if he knows how to play his game Wella. I have witnessed countless of such cases.

Good2go1:
Be sincere for once, was it not because of his criticism of Buhari administration that made them dethroned him.

Hope you know the meaning of LOUDER? You are free to give ur friends for explanation. Meanwhile, it wasn't Buhari he critised that made him dethroned but opposing Ganduje reelection and insubordination.
Pls get ur facts straight.

Bookhub:
Look at pep guardiolas case, Two adults who have acquired all the experience and education on how to survive in life decide to go into marriage but unfortunately things go sore and the female party wants to breakout of the union,the government end up splitting the wealth of the man and giving half to the woman not like she is a child or disable person incapable of surviving on their own isnt that unfair,infact some men of end up going bankrupt In the end and live a miserable life nobody cares, I foresee the white race going extinct soon because they are gradually destroying the institution of marriage in their land as men are gradually going their own Way
white men will gradually start loosing interest in women and having children in general ID foresee this race being subsumed into other races in 200 years time.

Before I answer you, HOW MANY MEN IN NIGERIA TAKING CARE OF THE KIDS BORN BY WOMAN HE HAS DIVORCED PROPERLY AFTER DIVORCE?
2. GO AND CHECK TEENS THAT TURN CRIMINALS AND CHECK PERCENTAGE OF THOSE WHO ARE FROM SINGLE MOTHERS AS A RESULT OF NEGLIGENCE FROM FATHERS AFTER SEPARATIONS.

To your question: Because they are in sane society and not jungle as Africa, they gave women such power mainly because of kids that would always come out from union between man and woman, they had studied it in the past, as it's happening in Nigeria now, when man divorces wife, there is high tendency for the man not to take care of the kids going forwards.

More so, they aren't only doing this for the kids alone but for their society at large, they don't want kids that father neglected because of divorce to their mother, turn to criminals and nuisance to the society.

What is the name of the pastor and his church?

FOOLISH MAN POSTING JUST FOR SONS OF LUCIFER TO WAIL AND INSULT CHURCH AS USUAL .

Soonest every street of Nigerian would be littered by mad men and women, not until it start manifesting, govt would not take concrete action. Anyway, our approach is fire brigade approach before

Sanusi voice always louder whenever south is in govt.

YoungLionken:
It would have been beneficial to us as a nation, but the country is currently in the wrong hands. E go reach our leaders turn and it would degenerate into massive borrowing. So sad!!!

If you are a president today, please how would you run it to prosperity?

...........with scores of "PALESTINE'S" PRISONERS? If Israel is killing spree as Palestine claimed, why Israel not killing the adults they put in prisons as prisoners?

How is possible for Israel to be killing infants and kids, who were not capable to fight back, but arresting and keeping adults(not killing adults) that are capable of fighting them?

AL-JAZEERA WONT SEE THIS ABSURDITY O.

Nonexisting1:
She was once a "super independent woman", "super mum" and "boss lady" but she was dying in the inside. From battling depression to batting stress of raising kids alone, she ended it and left the same kids she took away from their father alone to suffer motherlessness. Women should learn to close their legs if they are not ready to raise children. If eventually they give birth to these children, they should stop fighting for what they can not do. Children need their fathers. She would be pretending online and showcasing fake smile and fake self hype without knowing that behind the fake smile lies an empty woman who was heavily depressed. Rip to her.

Meanwhile, in society where they have foreseen likely hood of this scenario, in which they have made laws that, property of husband must go to wife in case of divorce, for children's supports, you Naija men would still be wailing endlessly.
Those societies already knew that, there is high probability for man not to take care of kids, immediately they divorce wives, and they are doing that mainly for the kids and society. They do it to sanitise society because they know, if the kids not properly taken care, they would grow up to become criminals and nuisance to the society [b][/b]

Usmanovic95:
E no go better for that unfortunate creature who propose that property of a man should be split into half in the case of divorce. This has embolden women to file for divorce. Just look at the stupid reason she file for divorce.Now she is in possesion of what he laboured for with his blood,sweat and tears with a license to Bleep around.

Abi ooo, little wonder, millions of kids grown up and become criminals in your country, since in your country, you are free to marry women, impregnate and discard them at will, without proper provision for the kids cares,(how they would be well taken care going forward).

WEST WILL ALWAYS WISER, STABLE AND FAR AHEAD OF YOU TIL THY KINGDOM COME!

obinna58:
Men should better give up on women, it’s a game over, government should start building public masturbation centers/houses, and put out teachers to give men clues on self masturbation and it’s advantages

Why not advocating, that man should completely stop sleeping with women and forget having kids

Namaster:
Search to the end of the Universe, you'll NEVER find a creature more EVIL than the woman that claims to love you.

The Serpent in the Garden could have NEVER approached Adam directly in a ZILLION years, Adam would have BRAINED the creep.

The Fall of Adam was orchestrated with a BIG HELP from the woman who claimed to LOVE him.

Same with Samson.

And it was Job's own WIFE that screamed at him to just CURSE God so he would die QUICKLY and she could be finally free.

Look to different cultures and religions, you'll find ENDLESS lores of GREAT men being stabbed in the back by women who are supposed to have their backs.

The point here is simple:

Men must realise that their RIDE-or-DIE Is really just their DIE-or-DIE.

NOTHING foils great men like the women in their lives!

Here's a woman DESTROYING the family a CHAMPION has built, and his mental health along with it, because he supposedly works TOO much.

Meanwhile, she's happy to take the MANSION and HALF the wealth his work ethics PAID FOR.

She's making away with MILLIONS of Pep's money and here's all she "did" to "earn" it:

"she was a key source of support and inspiration for Guardiola throughout his career."

This is what EVIL looks like.

It's even WORSE when you realise that there is NOTHING Pep could have done to protect his assets.

A Prenuptial Agreement would have been USELESS!

Prenups ONLY protect assets/wealth that you owned BEFORE marriage. Not what you acquired DURING the marriage.

So even with a Prenup, she'd still have made a KILLING!
NO way out!

That's why marriage, especially in Western countries, is only BENEFICIAL to women and male losers who intend to REMAIN losers.

Meanwhile, that is more reason, in Africa, millions of kids grown up to be criminals , since laws allow man to marry woman, impregnate her and kick her, together with kids out without making provision how the children, would be adequately taken care of going forward.

WEST WOULD ALWAYS BE WISER AND STABLE THAN AFRICA TIL THY KINGDOM COME.

Namaster:
Search to the end of the Universe, you'll NEVER find a creature more EVIL than the woman that claims to love you.

The Serpent in the Garden could have NEVER approached Adam directly in a ZILLION years, Adam would have BRAINED the creep.

The Fall of Adam was orchestrated with a BIG HELP from the woman who claimed to LOVE him.

Same with Samson.

And it was Job's own WIFE that screamed at him to just CURSE God so he would die QUICKLY and she could be finally free.

Look to different cultures and religions, you'll find ENDLESS lores of GREAT men being stabbed in the back by women who are supposed to have their backs.

The point here is simple:

Men must realise that their RIDE-or-DIE Is really just their DIE-or-DIE.

NOTHING foils great men like the women in their lives!

Here's a woman DESTROYING the family a CHAMPION has built, and his mental health along with it, because he supposedly works TOO much.

Meanwhile, she's happy to take the MANSION and HALF the wealth his work ethics PAID FOR.

She's making away with MILLIONS of Pep's money and here's all she "did" to "earn" it:

"she was a key source of support and inspiration for Guardiola throughout his career."

This is what EVIL looks like.

It's even WORSE when you realise that there is NOTHING Pep could have done to protect his assets.

A Prenuptial Agreement would have been USELESS!

Prenups ONLY protect assets/wealth that you owned BEFORE marriage. Not what you acquired DURING the marriage.

So even with a Prenup, she'd still have made a KILLING!
NO way out!

That's why marriage, especially in Western countries, is only BENEFICIAL to women and male losers who intend to REMAIN losers.

Crying more than bereaved, the man himself deliberately gives out his properties without involving court or 3rd party, but here is one wailer in far away zoo, going bitterness for Spanish man.


NB. IF YOU MARRIED A WOMAN WHICH SHE IS NOT DOING HER RESPONSIBILITY, LIKE PREPARING FOOD, ALLOW YOU TO SLEEP WITH HER, NOT READY TO BORN FOR YOU, ALWAYS TRAVELING etc, hope you know you are free to file for divorce? The same way woman is free to file for divorce.

You think properly before you start family.

Access the woman you plan to marry, critically,if two of you can go through the journey till end.

Spouse must have at least 35% of all the 3 criteria I listed below, for them not to end in marriage failure.

Love, understanding and financial resources.

jeff1993:
As a Man, "your" children are more important to u than ur spouse.

Make money ... Enough money to be comfortable and meet ur needs and want cos if money no dey, ur wife fit run leave u.

Drop it Ego and apologize as a man when u are wrong.

When u have a wife who loves and respect u regardless of your financial strength, don't ever ever hurt her.

Your mentality about ur first point will definitely affect your last point. Infact, your entire opinions completely contradictory and absurd.

Think properly before you act.

Bobodee09:
The man who always put himself out there as a saint.

ObJ is the foundation of the problem we are facing today.

A very greed and selfish man. No one must outshine him ,he always has problem with anything good coming from other people.

WHY WON'T YOUR BP HIGH AS YOU CONFIRMED IN YOUR OTHER POST?

Read it again before you continuing your weeping, the man himself said, he was not about party politics but faulty foundation, but unknown man must wail to make himself happy.


Thank God another person has already shut ur mouth up, how you people use to feel happy still not known, and how people around you cope with a complete nasty and bitterness person is worrisome.

When lamentations too high it would definitely bring HP.

Mikel99:
I don't know. Whenever I make eye contact with girls or want to ask something from them, they seem to frown or kind of give me facial impression that they don't want to talk to me. This happens to me a lot at school or with random strangers. I have even noticed that I am the only one who is treated that way. In fact, girls don't sit beside me for long but you will see same girls sitting with other guys for hours. I asked my friend if it's because I am ugly. They said nothing is wrong with me that I am good looking. Trust me, I am the most cheerful guy you will ever meet and it's not as if I frown everytime or something. I sometimes think that it's because I am good looking, but what baffles me is that girls act cheerfully around guys that I can say are more handsome than me. I dress well so I don't know what is wrong.
Is there anyone here going through the same situation as me?

Ur facial expressions not friendly, to complicate it, you aren't a jovial person, so, it would take great effort to make women ur girlfriends

TimeManager:
https://www.thecable.ng/efcc-arraigns-nwabuoku-over-n1-96bn-money-laundering/

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Umuinyioku:
Well, it's your opinion.

After ridiculing me with "tiny in a circle" population? And you expect tangible answers from me

Are you happy with what's panning out in the polity with troubles here and there? Is it how best to govern a country

I expect you to say Amen and appreciate me.


If someone calls you a black man,or a christian, does she insult you? So far, you are black and Christian.

If China block USA owns platform, they should also expect retaliation


That's what they call, "tit for tat"
if your enemy bilivs he has coconut head, you too, proof you have iron-head.

TruthU87:
More than 80 Palestinians killed by Israeli strikes since ceasefire ...

Source
BBC: https://www.bbc.com/news/articles/crke088e27lo

I think few miscreants here,said, Hamas won and Jew lost yesterday.

Umuinyioku:
What's your problem here?

Why not fight so hard so that Fulani hegemony and expansionism doesn't real its ugly head in Yoruba Land?

Oke Ogun in Oyo is battling Fulani influences. Ditto Oyo Town where Islamic Court is being established. These are worrisome news. But you prefer to comment on Igbo affairs.

You will all have heartache because Igbo affairs.

Mtchweee!

Are you not happy that people are joining your nation? Hope you know, you guys have been sidelined in scheme of things? No thanks to ur, "tiny in a circle" population. I biliv if you guys expand east-west & south-north. Who knows, Almighty would look down from heaven to answer your prayers.

Slytiger:
And steal the lands of minorities.

Abi, everything that would make us achieve "golden trophy", which we had been yearning for long time, but keep on eluding us.

Dot nation wants to expand at all costs.

Even the blinds see it clearly, fighting over individual you cannot match, even if you come to this world 3rd time, instead for him to cooperate fully with other players for the team to achieve much more success, he busy chasing Shadows.


No wonder Madrid is retrogressing since he joined them.

Ekele22:
my worry is if she sees me like a bad boy

No intension of seeking her attention just as I posted

If indeed, no intention to seek her attentions, you wouldn't even aware, if she is uneasy at your sight.

The way you are looking at her, has been disturbing her stability, she is not toddler, every woman knows when man has interest in her, either by his actions or Inactions.
I pray you won't be roasted as you said earlier before February ends. When your oga finally pushes you to job market, you won't tell people how you neglected work they assigned to you and instead pursuing oga daughter.

kroger:
Where is A.Y and his wife today. Wife will come and go but your mum is irreplaceable.

I STRONGLY BELIEVED THAT WAS, HOW YOUR OWN MOTHER CAME AND LEFT IN YOUR PAPA HOUSE.

I guess AY's mother has completely moved in, to stay with her darling son till rest of her life.

Meanwhile, you are going to marriage, expecting wife to come and go, was that how your mother came and left? Infact, you guys needs deliverance and your way of thinking is something else.

EmperorCaesar:


OP, thanks for the bolded sections of your article. It made the whole task easier for us all. We could see at a glance, what could have taken us 50mins of thorough search.


Congrats to them and they should keep the flag flying.


To the most important part of the message, lets discuss the ethnic origin of the aforementioned individuals on that list.

There seem to be recurrent names of people from a particular region, Why would half of the entire list be concentrated in just one region of the country?

How biased can Biden be? Whats with the Yorubanization of even a random list of excellent Nigerians that was collated 10000 miles away from the country?

We the dot-nationals no go gree.

PresidObi:
Am here to watch as those people from regions where there is Godfather controlling all their states are fighting to establish a Godfather in Rivers state so they can siphon the resources through Wiked bluetooth

At least, better for them, cos they use that tactics to lead the nation, since 4th Republic, while the big headed from tiny Republic who do not have godfather, have been looking from afar, the throne of authority.