₦airaland Forum

Daejumong:
The man who slept with his Pastor’s wife and more than 300 women(many married) in Equatorial Guinea! What are the lessons to learn as Pastors and husbands in Africa?

Baltasar Ebang Engonga is currently trending online in Africa after his xrated tape recordings of his escapades with 400 women including his Pastor’s wife, at least 10 ministers’ wives , the President’s sister, the head of Police’s wife and hundreds of many married women were discovered after a search of his home following his investigation for fraud!

Baltasar, who is the director of the anti corruption agency in the country, claimed all the women including his pastor’s wife consented to being recorded while having work outs with him! He said many even came back as they loved the experience!

African pastors and husbands, it’s time to wake up! We need to up our game in the bedroom! Many of our women are starved! Many pastors especially in Africa don’t touch their women regularly because of prayers and fasting! Many touch them only to satisfy their own desires not caring about their wives’ needs! Many do it the same way and make the entire thing boring! Many of these women are time bombs waiting to explode! If they by chance meet a pro and addict like Baltasar, in church or outside, it’s literally finished!

African Pastors, pls take time to study the Songs of Solomon to understand how to romantically take care of your wives! Invest time and energy in her ! Consider all her needs in bed and make her free to express herself at nite and you will never have cause to fear losing her to any bad guy outside!

saintbillion:
Can you imagine the length women can go? Hence the saying, hell has no fury like a woman's scorn.

seunoladele:
BEFORE YOU MARRY A MAN 20 YEARS OLDER...

You have to take note of the high disparity and see if you can cope.

Will he see you as a friend or a daughter who must always listen to his command and nothing more? Or he will put his age aside and be your best friend, gist mate and romantic partner? You need a young blood to enjoy your life with and age doesn't really determine the freshness of the blood. Attitude is, if you understand what I mean.

I have met guys who were just few years older than me and treated me like a kid with no thought of her own and I have met men far older who treat me like a buddy, some even say "Yes ma". You get it? Attitude basically matters not just the accumulation of numbers.

At forty, your sexual desire peaks and you want more sex like no man's business. At forty, his own sexual desire begins to decline talk less of when he is sixty years old! But with good diet, enough sleep, right attitude to work and a very young heart, the man can boost his libido, desire you like crazy, have sex 2 to 3 times a week and stay on top of his sexual games with you!

One lady separated from her elderly husband because she was starving sexually! There are young men less than thirty or a little over thirty who also starve their wife sex!

Attitude matters.

God's will matters most!

If God says at 25, you will marry a man who is 45, who are we to say NO?

When Jesus says YES, nobody can say NO my dear!

Do not box God!

Still, don't do what your power can't carry!

Not every lady can marry a man far older than she is.

Wisdom is profitable to direct.

You will not mis-choose in Jesus' name!

© Seun Oladele.
talktoseunoladele@gmail.com
Facebook: Seun Oladele

Blitzking:
When the UK finally use and dump her she should forget she has the Nigerian blood in her.

Fiscus105:
Instead for you people to rehabilitate and do thorough reorientation, you turn them to celebrities.
Nigeria people would do anything to make sure they bring govt of the day to his knees, even when they know, clearly that, their actions is indirectly bringing the nation down.

With the way everyone is pampering and celebrate these kids-criminals now, without a single word of reprimand, how would the little ones know, they committed sins? Tomorrow, they would join bad gangs and committed more crimes, thinking the whole nation would come to their defence.

Sunrise258:
Very stupid comment ever! What sort of silly attention can a single man give to over 400 women? A man who has a job and his own family? Your comment is out of point.

Oshiofe:
lol, bro I dey try do am for the interest of my mom. Make she no use high BP kill the woman for me, we don plenty for house and money no dey! adding another number to our current number at this hard time na palava. Thanks for your input.

Lalami3232:

I have few questions to ask before I can be able to analyze the solution for you.
1. Why don't you want your sister to get married to the guy? I believe there's something you're not telling us.
2. Looking at the guy, does he look like someone who has prospect/bright future?
3. How does he treat your sister?
4. I hope you've NEVER liked my comment when I bash non-virgins a.k.a boreholes?
Bros, it's obvious your sister loves him, hence she has been with him for 5yrs. The guy not wanting to marry your sister may be because he's not financially buoyant enough. The fact that he played some roles when the first baby was born show say he get your sister for mind but na money dey hold am. I know say you want the best for your sister, but you have to trade this matter with great caution. If there's someone you can't advise, then it has to be a lady who's in love. Call that guy, follow am reason like man and hear from his own side before taking a decision. One more thing bros, that guy needs to marry your sister abeg, make another person no go inherit a girl wey don collect steady sperm for 5yrs at a stretch.
What do I even know sef aside enlightening my fellow men nationwide with the good news

Oga if you no meet your wife as a virgin, oga go for DNA test oooooo because boreholes aka non-virgins can't be trusted atall atall

Oshiofe:
Please house, your advice is needed this is from a friend of mine.

I have a sister 27yrs old, who has been into a relationship with a guy for 5yrs now or more...

Last 2yrs she got pregnant from the guy, I took her to the guy's place, to confirm if he's is responsible for the pregnancy , he didn't deny that he's not responsible, but he's said he's not ready to get married to my sister now.

I tried all I could to force him to marry her, we have met the guys parents several times with my mom and my brothers but it didn't work out...


I even planned to chase her away from our house but my mom chilled me. Later she gave birth and it was a boy , the stupid guy started showing interest claiming she cares, bring foodstuffs and money.

I warned my sister not to receive anything from him, unknowingly to me she has been receiving money and other things from him at the back.

I later found out, that he even sent money to my sisters account to pay for hospital bill , I got angry the day I noticed that, and got mad at my sister, and she made arrangement with the guy and left our house to a place where they guy rented a house for her with the baby. I felt sad about her attitude, but decided keep calm

In summary.

Unfortunately, the baby died this year January, we then went there and packed her load from where the guy rented house for her back home and warned her to leave the guy, not knowing she still visit him .

The worst is that she's pregnant again from the same guy. we recently met him the same story he used at the first time

My major problem now, my mom is so attached to my sister and wouldnt want anything to happen to her , because she's the only daughter she has, and can't sleep always thinking about her condition.

I swear If have money I would have locked the guy up tey tey.

Gistmedia10:
In every marriage, trust, respect, and loyalty are supposed to be the foundation of a strong and lasting bond. But there is a harsh truth that many may not want to confront:
when another man succeeds in sleeping with your wife, it can be seen as an act of conquest. While this may seem like a dramatic statement, it highlights the significance of the emotional, mental, and even spiritual invasion that can occur when infidelity enters the equation.

The Nature of Conquest in Marriage

Marriage is more than just a physical relationship; it's a union of minds, hearts, and souls. When you marry someone, you commit to sharing your life, your dreams, and your vulnerabilities with them. You build a world together. However, the moment another man gains access to the most intimate part of your marriage—your wife—he does more than just break a physical boundary. He shatters the emotional and psychological trust that was once solely between the two of you.

In essence, that act can be viewed as a form of conquest. The man who is able to seduce or manipulate your wife into betraying your trust has successfully infiltrated the most sacred part of your life. He now has a piece of your world—one that should have been yours and yours alone.

A Challenge to Masculinity and Leadership

For many men, the idea of another man taking their wife is more than just a betrayal—it’s a direct challenge to their masculinity and leadership in their home. In a traditional sense, a man is seen as the protector and provider, the leader of his family. When someone else takes that position in your marriage, it can feel like a blow to your pride and authority.

However, the real question isn't just about pride—it's about the failure to protect the emotional boundaries of your relationship. The true conquest here isn't necessarily the physical act itself, but the erosion of your connection and trust. If a man can successfully woo your wife, it’s a sign that you may have neglected areas of emotional or relational leadership.

The Emotional and Psychological Impact

Being betrayed by a spouse is one of the most painful experiences a person can endure. The emotional scars often run deep, and the effects can be long-lasting. When another man sleeps with your wife, it doesn’t just affect the physical relationship; it strikes at the very core of your emotional well-being. It creates doubt, insecurity, and a deep sense of loss.

The mental warfare that follows this kind of betrayal can be devastating. Many men may find themselves questioning their worth, their ability to provide or protect, and their value in the relationship. In some cases, this leads to anger, depression, or even self-destructive behavior. The worst part is that the person who should have been your greatest ally—the one you trusted more than anyone else—has not only hurt you but has also emotionally abandoned you.

The Role of Trust and Vulnerability

Trust is the bedrock of any successful relationship. When that trust is broken, it is hard to rebuild. Infidelity breaches this trust on an intimate level, leaving a void that can often never be completely filled. A man who sleeps with another man's wife has not only violated the sanctity of marriage but has also exploited the vulnerability that should have been protected.

Marriage, especially one that has been built over years, requires vulnerability. It’s about sharing your deepest fears, desires, and dreams. When that vulnerability is betrayed, it’s as if your entire foundation crumbles.

Choosing a life partner is one of the most important decisions a man will ever make. It's not just about finding someone to share a home with, but someone with whom you’ll build a life, raise a family, and face the challenges of the world. The importance of this decision cannot be overstated because a wrong choice can lead to devastating emotional, mental, and even physical consequences.

When men choose a life partner, they’re not just choosing a companion—they’re choosing someone who will either uplift and support them, or potentially tear down the foundation of their happiness and stability. This is why careful consideration and discernment are crucial in choosing a wife.

Ybholy:
If this happened in western world, they’ll make everything possible to stop the news from spreading.

But AFRICA 😔😔😔

phineas:
Common sense says majority of the videos would probably be AI, or they have a culture that accepts wives sharing, sleeping with 400 women and most married to high ranking officials on video... doesn't sound probable,

But then the gullible believe all things,critical thinkers would pause and wait to see where all this is going

iichidodo:
[color=#1986BC] Guys, pls I will need a link to those videos, help a soul, pls.[/color]

Jayhome24:
Pls point of correction Tinubu can't promote millitary officer its the military that promote pls stop this nonsense.

No manipulation in military promotion if you are due for it and qualify for it you will be promoted especially the senior rank.

Pls I'm from this background so stop talking nonsense.

Shevchenkko:
Mumu Tribal president

THEGALADIMA:
What I can definitely swear upon is some guys go collect number.
There's gonna be a case of swinging here.
I even somewhat believe that's the reason for this event sefff

Gbajabiamila1:
While the man was hustling to provide for the family, then the wife fell for attention. It is scary.

Gbajabiamila1:
While the man is hustling to provide for the family, then the wife fell for attention. It is scary.

Elzazzi:
That guy never understand women. Most of them think like children

balladin:
You mean he had the time to give 400 women attention? Doesn't he have a job? If all he does is to give attention to women.

joseph1832:
Hmmm. I wonder what will make a woman agree for a man to record their sexual encounter, knowing fully well the backlash they will occur should that sexual encounter go public. .

InfoGuru118:
Previous Thread:
https://www.nairaland.com/8257931/equatorial-guinea-official-arrested-over


Source
Read more:
https://news360ng.com/equatorial-guinea-scandal-woman-allegedly-commits-suicide-after-seeing-her-viral-video/

CountinBlessins:
Use this energy of analysis to get a job and better your life. No one cares for this nonsense knowledge. Go and learn a skill and do something with your life before its too late. Time is not on your side