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iLegendd:
Lemme give you a tiny gist about myself.

Damn, me that pushes people away, even my siblings, if they misbehave wants to be your friend? All my childhood, I have only had 1 friend till this day.

I left Nigeria, came back years later, it was still him. He left my house a year or two ago to Spain for his second masters and PhD, and he's still the only friend. He's begging me to come over, but I told him abroad no dey move me again — I don enjoy before you, no nothing new. Even with the supposed hardship in Nigeria, wise people are making a killing without paying tax unlike abroad that wanted to kill me with tax.

This guy is way smarter than me. You think it's easy to find people that are way smarter than me? I'm not saying I'm the smartest, but damn.

The best in class in Nigeria and abroad. Humility is the reason I control my bragging. Dey play.

So, even if you draw close to me, I'll be the one to approve the friendship, not you because I have way more to offer, but sadly, I'll decline as I have always done all my life.

No woman has ever dumped me—I'm the one who's never interested as they beg me to give them a chance. So, for your mind, I'll give someone like you a chance? A female Nairalander for that matter? Lol.

First, your original post is grossly bias but, ignored until I got to this very one.(even thou, I strongly biliv that, husband should have access to his wife phone and social media accounts)
Nevertheless,
I will advise you to go and see clinical psychologist "if and only if" you want to leave a peaceful life, also, if you don't want to.....die like lonely single/single father and by extension leave a life of embittered old man in future .

You can see, its reflecting alot in your day to day life and gradually pushing you to state of loneliness. (one man mopol).

Moreso, it has started turning you to frustrated and attack dog that is angry with, not only female gender but also his own gender.

Na bussness!

Many of them are rich, no thanks to stolen markets that are being diverted to their shops in the dead of the nights.

If they don't get rid of wiked minister, PDP would become AD.

Can they? Capital NO. wiked minister is a moneybags, that who is who in PDP are using to get shares of national cake.

They become problematic both in dot-nation territory and wherever they resided outside

Why won't them turn to wounded lion? Since they wail,cry and lament on others, while leaving their own mental case to degenerate.

bittyend:
Let me give a scenario:

You meet a girl that's like 10/10 in almost every department and she's like the girl of your dream. You're so into each other and though you only met like a couple of weeks ago, it's like you have known each other since you were kids. All in all, it seems like everything is destined to go far. However the only problem is that the girl has too many male friends and she isn't afraid to tell you about them. Also every time she talks about being with someone, it's always different male friends.

As a guy, you know how super attractive the girl is and you know no guy would just want to be around her and not want to have a taste of the forbidden fruit. She's that attractive, sexy, and beautiful. She looks like Nicki Minaj with bigger bo.obs but without the silicon.

It's not official yet but you know she likes you lot. She calls you all time and she's always fond of holding you tight and telling you to touch her, every time you're around her.

So what can be done about the excessive male friends? Should they be ignored? Or is it better to just leave the girl alone and move on to a next thing?

Let me advise you as a man, who had several experiences, both personal and from close friends that spans for over two decades.

That type of girl is for public, take that to the bank, meanwhile your type won't be able to date her, because of jealousy.

The way you see her showing feelings for you, is the way she is showing it for others. (ALL GIRLS IN THIS WORLD WOULD DENYING, IF YOU ASK THEM ABOUT OTHER GUYS THEY ARE DATING OR HAVING SEX WITH)

The two options you have

Dnt toast her and distance urself from her,(in order not be hurting ur own feeling by urself)

2. Just be sleeping with her without having feelings for her, you won't even ask her if you see man on top of her.

addictiv:
i think thats where trust comes in,i have a girl like that. shes really beautiful and a nice person and every where she goes, guys always hit on her. and these guys are not just small boys, they re oil workers , foreigners, politicians, and really big boys. initially it was difficult but with time we got past that stage. she tells me about every guy she meets even introduced me to some of them. we re really open with each other, i mean there is nothing about her that i dont know and that has really helped us. you have got to trust her and she has got to come clean about her relationships with them. look at it this way, you are a special guy if not she would have left you for one of them. if they really meant something to her.

If your story is true, I pity who no pity you.

....very unfortunate that you guys dnt know how feelings work and by extension how woman heart is fragile and above all, how manipulative woman can be.

I wish I tell you stories of women who their hearts hardened initial wen we first met, and how they melted to a point of almost no return at the end.

Why is that happened? Just because they gave me freedom & space for communication and be around them, when the feelings crept inside their hearts, they couldn't explain.

Dnt forget these women are for some people o.

NB. @ ur bolded, no girl would ever tells you the guy that having sex with her, she would sure tells you sweet things ur 👂 wanted to hear nah.

Winks2:
All women are Dangerous. The earlier u realise this, the better

With no exception from mama that born you!

descarado:
Personality disorder will not make him look like this.
That's a mental health issue.
I mean he is sick like somebody that have kidney disease. That man look so dry and sick up there.
Unless the picture is fake.

Many Nigerians have unidentified mental health problems because we don't take mental health serious.
Almost all those people who say they see visions like herbalist, pastors, man's etc are schizophrenic. It's a serious mental health challenge.

When a clinical psychologist too deep into his profession, he too becomes psychiatrist patient, because he would never see anything outside psychology training he has received. Meanwhile, there is world outside physical world, just like cyber world existing outside physical world.

Oga, people see visions and hear voices, either from God or Satan. (Though scammers abound everywhere)
I biliv you are having dreams, that's to tell you that, spiritual world also exists side by side with physical.

vanbonattel:
Lack of home training, when you see them online abusing everyone especially their elders, you will know they lack home training.

This leads them to vote wrongly for drug addicts, join touting and all other social vices like this one, but they won't see the harm they have done to their place, they are here all day abusing other states while they keep decimating themselves until their population reduce. They are almost killing off their entire region.

The solution is to keep retraining them, the people who Labour to leave their states to travel to train them in their homes are supposed to be praised, because if not for the good morals those people bring, crime would have consumed the SW

So sorry to the innocent victim.

Exactly what you are displaying here, not even from tribe, that totally lack respect,even for their own father and mother, dot-nation citizens that usually use leg to wake up daddy ,if they want to greet him in the morning.

To make the matter worst, they now become nuisance to everybody, most especially on social media, Anyway, I dnt blame them, it's not easy for a whole tribe to be slave of others in the same society.

The day we will give them freedom, doesn't have date yet.

why is that, wenever a woman/lady leaves her husband/boyfriend, the very first thing she would do is to unfollow and delete pics of him from social medial?


I think the pics should be thr, to remember him and to show for kids about ex-husband/ex-boyfriend.

If I'm Tinubu, I will not send local govt fund to any state that enact such law.

It requires madness to cure madness!

Afonja44:
Seems Tinubu and Wike are just going from loss to loss. The so-called master strategists are being checkmated left, right and centre by all and sundry.

Bitter lesson after bitter lesson.

If you have gf, I pity the mama who born ur gf, and for ur mother, she lost it on you already. Well, maybe if she takes you to psychiatric, she can still rescue you from total madness.

I think TINUBU should fashion should fashion a way how INEC would take the conduct of local govt election from state govt.

Atuero:
I think political parties are part of the problems we are facing in this country,


They are not ready to produce and present credible candidates, leaving us with limited options to choose from.

If we, the masses ready, we will go for good men and women that used relatively unknown party, and vote for them to get to power, we will not go for moneybags

Ogbodavies:
What do u expect.. when d head is CORRUPTION itself.

Abi ooo, even the home state of Agulu is also party to corruption, Igbo people will never disappoint you.

We still need a long way to go in zoo, maybe masses would have courage to start revolution one day.


When you are supposed to be pushing for more laws to entrench transparency, you are trying to block govt institution to know how you spend money, this is public funds ooo, that that belong to everyone and not ur father's money you inherited o.


......trust Naija justices, they would even do more than what rogues requested for.


Not even for CBN governor also join then to ask for nonsense.

atoliman:
every time they make money, it is to sportbet and on girls. One should spend and enjoy their money, after all na you get am. BUT AT LEAST do something useful with money while enjoying yourself. Nothing is used meaningful apart from feeding and upkeep. No land buying, no investment in business, career advancement, farming and so forth. When the money is gone, they will say someone has swear for them. There are people who make money in this Tinubu regime, but they have nothing to show because they cannot manage money despite earning a lot of money that can last a generation or 2 generation. No one is saying you should not enjoy your money, manage your money or money will mismanage you.
Too many riches to rags nowaday

....and there are some people, the only thing they know is to complaining lamenting and wailing, why can't you ask those people that are making money to show you the way, and wen u make ur own, you use it meaningfully.

By rushing to faceless forum to complain for unseen people won't solve ur problem.

Its time to consolidate on power, remove every remaining loyalists of wiked tyranny from govt payroll, even if he/she is messenger in civil service, follow by bombardment his eternal foes which are very rugged and tough into ur ur govt.
Make you push oil money for them in order for them, to do most dirty jobs for you.

Give him just 3 months, he won't be able to enter Rivers ,even to say hello to his siblings.

news247:
I swear bro the height of tribalistic fo*ols here on nairaland eeh, I pity the owner on what his website has turned into?

And which tribe majorly cause the forum to turn to tribal jingoism?


I guess you know it people from ☀️

Maybe Obi should run to NNPP, .....meanwhile in NNPP, his landlord also having issue with his own landowner.

Last last Obi would accept to become minister under AMUDA govt.

ogaemma:
Is obvious some external force's are sponsoring the infighting in the LP.

Thats how you will hang ur excuse on external factors if by error agulutin of anambra come to power

Calitoscassius:
Nothing wrong with paying for sex, in this case it just went wrong if you give your so called "girlfriend" money after sex what do you call it? And your "girlfrend goes and does the same with 2 other men who also believe she is their girfriend, what do you call it? Or just because she is not advertising herself as a prostitute?

That scenario is far far far better that ashewo in a gutter hotel, ......ashewo that bambiala or one drug addit just left her room, a man who know isnt in hopeless condition would enter and climb her?

Any man doing that, his finished already.

If the hopeless he-goat happened to be on nairaland during his lifetime, he would be among those who usually ,wailing, lamenting and crying about female gender, he would never come out and explain how hopeless he was, that making woman to be treating he like plague.

What a shameful way to send man to his creator!

Should I say rest in peace?

aariwa:
I don’t see him as someone who will leave power in 2031. He may try to amend constitution by then to make himself life president like Paul biya, mugabe, gnassimgbe eyadema etc and if we go by his antecedents things will definitely get worse than it is today..

Not far from truth.

He will definately take foot step of Alassane Outtarra of Ivory coast

jchioma:
How do we even identify VDM's fans sef? Did they identify themselves as such cos anyone that has grievances against you can come under the shadow of VDM to threaten you also.

I hope this is not an excuse by the fearless SAN NOT to do the needful!

They scattered everywhere, even here, 75% or more, they have destructive tendency to bring great person down, they belong to school of thought , in which, every allegation against imporant person is true and must be punished painfully , even if the allegation is blantat lie.


For the fearless SAN, he said it on channel TV that, he is constrained to charge mad sheboy and ally for criminal malalignment of personality, bcoz he is championing "free speech" in africa sub region

So,he is been consumed by his own strugle.

Attack Is best form of defence, start attacking him and his ally, they would force to retract, infact, let the attacks reach abuja his defenders.

Isreal giving it to hamas & hazebolla

Kamala gave it to Trump, in both instances it working.

Denko2721987:
Well, nobody is undermining the military capabilities of Israel.. I used to be a pro-western and Israeli war mongering supporter until I started doing my own research to understand that many things the western controlled mainstream media have been telling and programming us to believe about war and the so-called war on terror were lies and propaganda.. And a whole lot of evils, atrocities and false flag attacks even against their own people have been perpetuated by the West and it's Zionist lobbyist to falsely justify a lot of wars we were made to believe were wars for a just cause. Of course terrorism exists in the ME of which some of them are justified resistances against illegal occupational forces but the biggest most dangerous terrorist are in the West with their evil agencies which as the CIA and their Zionist allies with their media which they use to control narratives and change perspectives.. Let's also don't forget that the biggest exporter of terrorism still remains Saudi Arabia who is an ally of the West. The Saudis constituted majority of 9/11 attackers but the West went ahead to attack Afghanistan and Iraq instead of Saudi Arabia. See it takes one who really wants their eyes opened to a lot of deception which we've been made to believe in the past by the West and all it takes is an open mind and an indepth wide research which may take you down a rabbit hole if u arent careful and change your perspective of the world you thought you knew forever. That notwithstanding, the ZIONIST Israel knows it can't risk an all out war with Iran without getting the US deeply involved to save it's arse as usual becos we all know the false modern state of Israel exists today becos of the US to have a strategic hold on the ME but the current shameless democrats in power wouldn't want to make that mistake of giving Israel thr nod or getting involved in any war in the middle east now becos it may sway the support of the people against them during the Nov. Elections..

Infact, boko haram and Ipob, its USA and his ally promoting them in nigeria.

I will advice you to go back and do ur reseach properly, but this time around, without prejudice.

Im very sure, the kind of lifestyle, the iran and ally subjecting their own people to, they never subject you to 1/10 of it in naija, that you are weeping everyday on govt.

If you can reasoning like person with functional brain, you will join force to decimate a nation that had been given humanity problems, since time immemoral , even before US came to existence.

I doubt if you do ur reseach to know the name of Iran before and their relationship with humanity(diffrent nations) about 500 years ago.
Go back and read about PERSIAN and if they are kind of cruel.

Bye.

Trying hard to change narrative that obvious to everybody.


Anyway i dnt blame u either, you are playing the script they handed over to you from the villa.

If Tinubu wants peace today in PH, he knows what to do and every storm will calm immediately, but can he? Definately no, since his 2 eyes are wide opened going to 2027, he needs "bulls in the chinese shops of major political parties in Nigeria.

Afonja101:
I wanted to open a new account to post this but i realized there's not need since i haven't done anything, i'm just looking for help/advice.

I have an 18years old niece staying with me right from when she was 8years because she losed her both parent. Her mother is my cousin whom we were extremely close when she was alive.... I've been taking care of her to the best of my ability without showing any difference with my kids. This days i noticed that i'm becoming sexually attracted to her. This is something that has never crossed my mind because i see her as my daughter. Please what is the best way to handle this because everyday the temptation keep increasing and becoming so strong. Please help me, i don't want to fall for the temptation the devil is laying into my heart. She is very respectful and so hardworking.

Now i understand the kind of temptation that led people to sleeping with their this and that... Which they were not able to overcome the temptation.

My advice, YOU ASK YOURSELF IF SHE IS TO BE YOUR BIOLOGICAL DAUGHTER, WILL YOU FALL INTO SUCH TEMPTATION?


secondly, you must make sure the girl is dressing appropriately and decently at all time and trying to be removing the thought whenever it comes up in ur mind, if you start removing negative thoughts in mind, as time goes on it would perish.


3. If you have married, discuss the issue with ur wife, provided she is understanding woman sha, having discussed it with her, it would help you to reduce the thought a little bit, because you will now know that someone know about ur dirty thought already.

If you cannot overcome the two advice above, let the girl leave ur place to safer place.[/b]

it would be a very big mistake on ur part if you have sex with her now that she has known you as her dad, because she is just like ur own daughter and if you ever try it, It will take grace of God not to sleep with your own daughter in future.

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Besides, you have really tried for the girl, I will advise you to endure to the last, if you really want to have ur rewards in full, any dirty acts towards her now, would nullify all the good works you have been doing for 10 years.

JASONjnr:
Hmmmmmm🤔


How can you be sexually attractive to your own sister's child?

A child that grew under your nose.....

This is not temptation, this is greedy and evil.

The little child will start distrusting men and probably go out there to LovePeddler around because a man who was supposed to protect her wants to eat her.

What is the way forward? You started attacking, which type of people gathered on nairaland for Christ sake?

maasoap:
For how long has Israel been striking Iran and killing their officials including targeting assassinations of Iranian scientists and academics?
At this point, it doesn't matter if USA support Israel or not. Israel needs to be confronted at some point. If left unchecked, Israel won't slow with her madness

Have u ever asked urself why saudi, egipty, iraq and others hate iran? They dnt only they also labelled hamas, hezebola terrorist organisation, but you that nobody even recognised ur religion, you are going crazy in surporting enermy of humanity.

God1000:
I made it clear in my post yesterday that israel cannot fight Iran without US support and some people were not happy with me

We are not talking about Hamas and Hezbollah, but a regional power with a lot of military capabilities

There's little israel can do when it comes to Iran without USA

It's only the US air force that operates the strategic bombers capable of striking deep inside Iran, the question now is, will US support such operation which will ignite a wider war in the region


One thing I want people to know is that, whatever happens in coming days is because of US involvement which will not be made known

Can hezebolla and hamas become terrorists to the whole world without iran backing?

If you knw that a teenage has very strong giant that is backing him, is not reasonable to distance urself from him?