₦airaland Forum

rayvelez:
When are they going to arrest Rufai Oseni of Arise TV?

The legacy that Arise TV would have had as best TV station in Nigeria, that guy is eroding it at fast pace, though obedients are haiIling him, since he his doing their biddings, aside that, he is a man that like to be chasing clout.

A TV ANCHOR MAN THAT HE IS SUPPOSED TO COMPLETELY NEUTRAL, WOULD BE ATTACKING GOVT OFFICIALS AND INTERROGATING THEM INSTEAD OF INTERVIEWING.

OriOko88:

So na legislative act dey depose Emir for north.

I doubt if hausas even get culture. Cos it wasn't that far that they were islamized by Dan fodio. Just 1803 or so. What titles did their Kings bear before those jihad periods

Yoruba culture for Life!! Cant imagine an Ooni or Awujale being deposed by a legislative bill.

For almost over three years counting now,Oyo never get Alafin. Atari ajanaku..kii seru omode

Ignorance, lack of understanding of how governance works and tribalism. The trio are affecting you.

donbenie:
You will explain tire,after spending a Billion Pounds..
Billion Pounds Bottle Jobs..

Hope u re not one of ₦gozi united fans?

Judging from the way you are para with what the guy is saying oooo!

vanitybutiwanti:
you know nothing, those lawmakers defected to the Presidents party and they have the assurance from BAT that they wouldn't lose their seats, you think Tinubu is buhari? You think wike didn't know what he was doing when he asked Seyi Makinde to write a counter letter to the PDP chairman recognizing the man from Enugu as the pdp secretary instead of Samuel Anyanwu? You know nothing, wike is also about to build a 32b court of Appeal in Abuja, what has fubara done for the judiciary? You're a small boy, sit back and watch as the game unfolds

So, you haven't known yet, that Tinubu is tactically supporting Sim and that's why he is having upper hand?

You people find it difficult to read between the, ......... perhaps sentiments making it difficult for u

nifemi25:
It's definitely the landlord that will repair it if it's spoil before you park in but if you have eventually park in already before the pump develop an issue... Everyone benefitting from the pump will surely contribute to repair it...

I guess the same rule applicable if roof leaks,
If toilet full? And if the painting of the house fades?

WriterNig:
Now you see what Putin is fighting for. For you poor Africans but it seems y'all enjoy being in chains. In love with your captors.

For those of you always supporting the West and making excuses for them. Una eyes go peel.

You think they're gonna see you as equals or as part of them because you support them??

If you like obtain citizenship or become a CEO of a fortune 500 company as long as you don't share their genes or ancestry or skin you'll NEVER be considered a part of them.

You're going to trust the same people who enslaved your ancestors for centuries??

If they can do this to Russia, a fellow European with white skin, imagine what they'll do to you a black negro. A former slave.



They're ignorant. They'll learn the same hard lessons their ancestors learnt.

What stops you to develop and stay in ur own country/ continent?

Keep on wailing and expecting to enjoying someon father's wealth, while ur own father playing around when others are working ok.

You go wail tire!

descartes400:
Wetin dey ilk me na the mumuness of African continent. They should all withdraw their signatories from all these intl. court for just a simple common sense reason. THE HYPROCRACY AND DOUBLE STANDARD of the west.

They should all withdraw, so that, the African leaders won't having anything to fear again, at least, ur own African leader would now deal with you people as slaves.

What about university of transportation that amechi sited thr?

Federal poly among others in daura alone.

shortgun:
Your writeup is full of contradictory statements and ambiguities.
Women do not help men in fulfilling any destiny, a man was already a complete package before the arrival of the woman...
It's men that help women.
God created women simply to be companions and not partners as most you ignorantly assert these days....

There's no single account in the Bible where the presence of a woman in a man's life made his life better.
Sarah,eve, Rachel,Esther, Hanna, Ruth e.t.c..what most of them brought to the man was barreness,enmity with god and suffering

Is there anyone on earth that doesn't need someone to fulfill his or her destiny?

Well, when a teenager speaks, his comments would be filled with inexperiences.

As they grow older, they now realize that, Its income getting from her handwork, that can effectively bring comfort to her,rather than notion that, "woman comfort lie in the hand of her man/husband.

Jennifer Lopez spouses in the past.

You cannot be a married man or woman and still want to have luxury of freedom of single, single mother or single father.


Marriage would always be problematic for those who are not ready to stick to the rules.

chloride6:
100% fake news

Tinubu will not allow anything happen to Ganduje

Ok sir, even God hands off on person's issue, ......when the person keeps going against laid down rules of Almighty.


You think Fubara that's winning the war & battle between him and Wike, isn't as a result of Tinubu that has tactically handed off his hands on Wike issue.


Gbajabiamila that since behaved normal, isn't as a result of no full backing from the president?

Calvary247:
My husband cheats alot.
I tried communicating with him to consider my emotional and psychological well-being but he didn't really take kin interest. I have wanted to cheat back but thinking of it disgusts me. Just help with a piece of advice that will help me.

I'm very sure you knew this before marriage, but marrying to handsome bobo completely overwhelmed ur rational thinking faculty then.

Unfortunately, no advice I render to a woman that got himself hooked by a he-goat.

Wallteck:
Good morning, I will first start by introducing personalty, I'm a very soft, naive guy and shy guy..I stayed indoors most of the times and I'm also an introvert, i enjoy been alone. Knowing my weakness, I always avoid not be take advantage of because I'm working like crazily to developed and structured myself. But this my area girls are always talking about me.. ""he doesn't talk with anyone"", he is rude, he is proud, lot of things I'm hearing from them... My neighbour always even tell me that I should be carrying girls. That am I gay??, there is even one day one girl even asked me why I
don't like relating people, I just said It is just my decision...
Currently, I'm really tired of their complain how can I handle all this criticism.. Should I start relating with them.. because I always dey careful with type of person I wanna relate with.. because I Sabi my weaknesses die!!!

Wen u swallow red pill.....YOU BECOME A BULL IN A CHINESE SHOP!

Repiller is another name for mad urchins, only them thinking that they are doing rational things, while others see them having absolute irrational behaviours.

May God hand touches you for goodness!

Xscape1993:
Local government chairmen talking to a governor anyhow. Wike is not a responsible man.

Are you not talking to president anyhow?

maxiuc:
For the past 1yr I have been in a relationship but I have been banging steady not runs girls but people's serious girlfriends

Relationship na waste of time money and energy

Before you know, you would get to 35yrs, and twinkle of an eye 45, you would still be banging people serious girlfriends,infact,wives.
While you urself, would be single man at 45. NO WIFE, NO CHILDREN.


Oga pls keep ur good work up oooooo.

idahme:
This is why I said comprehension is difficult these days ,where in the text did you tell you he is the one spending the lesser amount? No wonder people dey fail exams

Have you ever heard the idiom below?

READ BETWEEN THE LINES!

I will advice you to learn how to add 1 + 1 in which you urself would know that it's 2 and not that you wait until they tell it's 2.

NB. I'm not the one that quoted you o

A country that can't pay 50k minimum wage, in which just a bag of rice is 60k+, yet that country is rich enough to have at least 4 aircrafts for her number 1st-4th citizens.


OH MY DEAR COUNTY!

KnowAll:
1. Free transport to work

2. Subsidised homes. Like the ones built by shagari in the 80’s . Little one two & 3 bedroom houses. They would pay N5000.00 per month

3. Build large cooperative stores that would sell groceries at rock bottom price. That means government would buy fruit and vegetables from farmers and subsidies them. Including meat rice& fish.


It can be done. There would be know reasons to increase wages which would eventually lead to a runaway inflation. The 650,000 labour is asking for would lead to runaway inflation just like in Zimbabwe.

The money they would use to subsidies all you mentioned above, govt should summon it up and use it to pay minimum wage of 75k.


Trust me, all the money that would be budgeted for it ,would go directly to pocket of few individuals that are privileged.

You never tell us where it paining you.



......the last time I checked, it's woman that do take part substantially in children upbringing

Wike personality is different from Akume, Wike sees himself as demigod in which everyone must worship, he has similar personality with Yeye Bello.


I biliv Ododo is governing in peace currently, no thanks to EFCC that trailing Bello, here and there.

Freshtruth:
I REGRET LEAVING MY MARRIAGE SAYS Tiwa Savage

Don't Listen To That Man Promising You Heaven and Earth, He May Become Worse Than Your Partner; I Regret Leaving My Marriage - Tiwa Savage

"Simi And Adekunle Gold Makes Me Rêgret Being Single, Their Love Is Still Burning Fresh Like They Started Just Yesterday". – Tiwa Savage writes in pain and rêgrets leaving her marriage.

In her words: "While on set with Simi I had to ask her when she met Adekunle Gold again. Because AG kept calling & checking up on her every now and then, like 10 times in 10 minutes hahaha. Their love is still burning fresh like they started just yesterday. Omo, na that day single life pan me…”😭

Indeed people don't know the value of what they have until they lose it, the poor and the rich cry differently, many of those ladies you see out there celebrating their divorce and separation from their spouses aren't truly happy, no one celebrates divorce and if they are truly happy then, they won't celebrate it.

Many were gull!ble, a lot were mislêad and dêceived into leaving their homes thinking that there is something on the Streets but within a space of time the euphoria will die down and reality will set in, most of them cry silently and the big lady Tiwa is one of them, if not a case of violence sit down with your husband/partner and sort things out. Every relationship have ups and downs, even twins fight and have issues.

Don't listen to that man promising you heaven and earth, he wants to have a taste of your new wine and will lick your foot if that's all it takes to get it but when that happens he may become worse than your current partner.

The pasture looks lush green on the other side from afar, it can't be same when you get there.
Guard what you presently have jealously, it is the best.

Being single no be moi moi
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Nothing sweet like Marriage, when the two partners are treating themselves with respect and contributing by making the marriage become successful, with this, they would jointly seeing their kids growing up in other to become successful in life.


For women, when you re still younger, they would say whole lots of sweet things to ur ears,and if you don't careful, you would start seeing marriage as bondage if not slavery.

Just step out, all those men/guys that have promised heaven and earth, would now start complaining, wailing and lamenting, having succeeded gotten their fair shares from honey pot.

My sister they only interested in body and discard it after a taste. Not even female celebrities.

marksonrick:
Nothing really important.

I tried knowing where she came from and how long she's been doing her business.
I asked her to come know my place but she refused.




.

Get her number and start chatting with her on WhatsApp, social media make it easier to express ur feeling for partner.

If you invited her and she refused to come, she might be playing on ur weakness of shyness in other to drain you financially.

Next time, when u see her frown ur face stop be friendly towards her,.....if indeed she likes you, she would come down and start doing ur bidding.

Namaster:
A woman calls you to come and you ran to her. Told you to zip her up and you did it sheepishly.

Guy, you are a HOUSEBOY MATERIAL. You will get used WORSE than tissue papers.

Deal with your timidity.

To do that:

1. Dress better ALWAYS.

2. Get better shoes.

3. Improve your grooming.

4. Say NO more often.

5. Exercise MORE.

Someone say he is impotent in the mouth, u re telling him to dress better, doesn't she see the way he dresses before she asked him zip his cloth for her?


All ur five advise is not solutions to his problem ok

Odebayo4010:
I can't forget how i saw my mathematics lectures and secretary in a lodge coming out frm a room.
Sweating
I once saw a married woman with her about 3years old son and another married man came in for short rest smh
Caught a lot of my married neighbors they didn’t know I worked there
There was a night my Bea call me saying sweet word I was just nagging but I couldn't get mind through what I saw. relationship that year to me seems like world of deception the love I have my girlfriend then reduce drastically.
Even staying close to a lodge..makes you feel things like the eve gender are nothing to take serious.
Working at a Lodge is where u get the ultimate challenge of minding your business and also get a lesson of the type of person u want to settle with. I worked at a Lodge in Ogun State when i was at Uni years ago, the thing i saw ehn. Pastors, Prophets, Herbalists,drug dealers,scammers, Married men, Married women.
Your girlfriend can't be faithful to you if she works in a hotel...from experience
Working in a Hotel will make you hate marriage with passion.
I work as a receptionist in a hotel, one very Sunday, one married man wit 5 different girls
As one girl was leaving another girl was coming in, nd u knw u gats Inform d guest of his visitor
Omo it got to a point I got tired of calling d room, wen dey come i ask Dem to call their clients abeg
I once pimped a girl for her boyfriend and it wasn't funny. The guy wan mad. He was like bro. Na my serious babe you control for me so ooo. That Day I run kitikiti.
If I open mouth talk watin my eyes see 3 home go breakas I see of the Aunty after few month with belle I open mouth because me and she know say that belle nobe for her husband..na them dey first greet me for street I go just pass jeje single girl lyk me watin I know..watin dey vex me most na those women way dey feel say them decent pass.
Ashwear.... Na person wey never work for hotel dey carry girl matter for head.
Lol that's how I nearly cast one guy , then I was working in a guest house as a receptionist and he came in with a lady and lodged then the next day he came with a lady but I didn't know it was a different lady so he was like which room is available I now asked him that do you want the same room of yesterday.🤦
I quit hotel work d day one guy carry my gf come lodge…na me still clean the room wey dem use, I was crying while cleaning…na dat day I make up my mind to make it in life.
Any day wey I remember say I go marry I they fear 💔💔one thing is for sure I no see myself marrying one woman, two wives 3 side chick I can't come and kill myself.
as a hotel Receptionist,i don see things.
there’s this particular guy that lodged for 2 months.
He was always bringing in different girls everyday,I don't know maybe he's doing it for ritual purpose

And there’s one married man that do lodge,u will see people’s wives coming to see him everyday
As my gf tell me say she wan start working, and the place she sort out to work was a hotel Omo
I nor fit for emotional cramps
We both went out separate ways oh
Because I know weyin eye done see for hotel worker
Was I so insecure yet I was because they said karma is real.
I witnessed one back then... My perceive innocent looking teacher with another teacher... It's not surprising again
Omo no just loud a m I don see married women wey carry him pikin come collect gbola and the worst be say the pikin still Dey breastfeed.
A friend of mine that is a Bolt driver. Once told me that will never marry because of the things his seeing when picking up client.
Receptionist job at the lodging post is not for the weak.
One married woman came to my Lodge with someone when saw me she tried to run away had to tel her to calm down as the staff of the place, told her am just making my money that you Don need to be Afraid.
I once worked in a hotel.. Thr one that surprised me most was the married women that came down short time before going to work.

Keep on writing fiction just because you want to hit front page.

When age mates are doing great in their careers and businesses, you are doing boy boy in one guest house, yet you are not ashamed of urself.


I pity hole that born a useless son sha

If you can't cope with partner's behaviors again. Let go of him or her, instead of leaving like cat and mouse under the same roof.
Even Nigeria pentecostal have since be given consents to separations & divorces.
Moreso, society no longer tagging single mother or father as useless as it used to be in years past.

seunmsg:
US, UK and other western countries run a sustainable credit financing system. So, why do you think we won’t be able to sustain our own?

Because both the officials and beneficiaries are corrupt.(they would run it aground)

2. We dnt have mentality of giving back to the society/govt for others to enjoy what we earlier enjoy.


By this time of next year, go and check the account balance of MD of the agency and landed properties he would have acquired.

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If you really know the meanings, you don't have to argue otherwise, hence you are projecting urself as unwise before the public, for you to hate the messenger not necessarily mean you should hate the message.

TAKE FOR INSTANCE.
If you travel and you call ur wife around 11pm, how would you feel if she says she still with a male family friend at such ungodly hour......after all, Mr Ige ur family friend is a bestie to ur wife.

papyjaypaul:
"Will not allow"
As if she's a slave and you're the master.

I was thinking about this topic and was thinking about what happened in the past. Everything is sexual today. No one is talking about family friends now, everthing is now self. A family can be friends with another family but you the husband or wife cannot provide all that your spouse will need or be. Your emotional balance in life needs PEOPLE. This mistrust we have is why women are going to pastors and Imams because they expect them not to have any sexual promiscuity with them.
In the past, men will go to another city or country and the woman will raise the family with support of neighbours and family. If she likes let her sleep out. If he too likes, let him sleep outside. Everything sex sex sex. Una no wan rest

What the mind wants to do, it will attract eventually

Go and check the meanings of this following?

Bestie (close friend)

Ordinary/ casual friends

Family friends

Acquittance

Colleagues

Church or mosque members

Neighbours.

All except the bolded are allowed for married man or woman, when you are noe pushing it to level of the bolded, something is wrong with you.

U re supposed to be ur wife bestie and vice versa.

Man or woman who is into serious relationship and still claiming he/she has bestie, apart from the person she has serious relationship with......I pity the partner, cos the partner not yet ready to go into serious relationship/Marriage with serious minded partner.

He/she still deceiving herself in the hand of community tools