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Auxtan:
E sure me sey this woman fund this wedding.

..........and u don't think it's a scene in home movie.

Jman06:
And how did you know he was cheating on her with other ladies It's been proven that most married men their wives cheat on are usually the calm and faithful ones.

Women don't fear nor respect men who don't give them vawulence! They consider such men weak and cheat on them readily.

Perhaps, you are leaving in Jupiter outside naija,.......even you, unknown entity, nobody knows how many holes u re digging.

One day, Oba of Benin throne would be opened to all bonafide male children of oba's lineage.

JuanDeDios:
I don't. Even if I did, an average person is sensible enough to know you won't be plucked randomly and made a king so he doesn't have such aspirations.

Everyone knows the power of government. Not sure why you think only you do. The power of government is different from what can realistically happen. I know the indigenous Bini people. No, I don't believe there are many of them who will accept even a minor change to the throne succession, much less an important one that seeks to do away with an orderly system and open it up for disputes (for what reason exactly?). Even though people can be that self-serving, if it were throne open, only two or three families would be eligible and they'd have to be descendants of some past Oba (Maybe you start from Adolor or Ovonramwhen or Akenzua). No, you can't just pick some "high chiefs" at random since they would have no claim to the throne. So why would many people support that?

I don't want reply you again since you don't want to come out from absolute ignorance you wear as ur garment, but I choose to when the news of suspension of Oba of Benin uncle broke out.

If government promulgated that the whole family of Oba of Benin would henceforth have opportunity to become Oba of Benin instead of just one person, won't the uncle and every other male children in that lineage happy and accept it without thinking twice?


It's only a foolish that would think, the rest of Oba lineage won't be happy and jump to the throne if such opportunity presents its.

Anyway, you free to be leaving in ignorance if not foolishness.

longetivity:
Same person using two sims to finish his or herself with imagination.

Learn how to understand before you answer question in exam or interview, that's my advice for you.

Op didn't give any implication that's, it's real. He asked audience what would be their reactions if such scenario happens to them in real life.

Instead for you to give ur own opinion, you started attacking and conderming.

When a man ATTACKS and CRITICIZES too much, he becomes problematic not only for himself but also people around him.

Just as I told my wife not too long ago when we were watching a romantic scene on movie.



I told her that, when two young lovers are dating in which, the relationship is too hot, there is high tendency that they won't carry such "hot romance" going forward in marriage, hence the marriage would become boring. before you know, infidelity would crop in, on the side of woman, if she mistakenly jams a loverboy.

RickyJesus:
When he contested as the VP under pdp with Atiku, he doesn't have this level of fellowship and stans, now he has something to bring to the table but is it more compare to what pdp already has in place? I need to be part of this deal.

Pdp and Obi time is elapsed, they have very golden opportunity in 2023, but they threw out selfishly.

It would take death, not even permanent incapacitation to remove Tinubu.

xin5:
Man your so depressed and fustrated about life generally.
I can sense your bad energy from a mile away oozing from this unwarranted attack
gosh.
because I see no reason for this your response to my post when all I just did was to come here and ask to know the truth.

Take your frustrations else where bro
Because at this stage you are nothing else can help you.

I guess you are angry because that guy, talked nonsense to ur head. Well, that's what those, who don't know how to keep their private affairs private used to hear or see.

As the guy suggested, if you don't careful, you would find it hard to leave in peace with any woman.
......you are a man who can't take decision on his and by extension, a man who want get applaud from outside before taking his own personal decision.


I'm very sure, so many frustrated he-goats on nairaland would help you scatter ur smooth relationship.

....... thoroughly investigate what is happening? When it's you and principal that want to set Kano on fire?


Niger with hypocritical character.

When two persons who are not compatible going into marriage, mainly cos of money involved, fame or because boobs and nyanch..... surely as they rush in they would rush out of that marriage.


MEN SHOULD ENDEAVOR TO ASK THEMSELVES 2 BITTER BUT HONEST QUESTIONS BEFORE HEADING TO ALTAR WITH GIRLFRIENDS ......If the money I have now reduce, would this girl still be loyal and respect me the way she is now?
.............The way I'm treating my wife now, if someone is treating my own daughter like that, would I be happy?

Sonnobax15:

Harrysong don really see strong shege for this life cha ....

First,na Him record label, settle down wear him career oraimo cord..........

Secondly,wife wey suppose to console am go chuk leg for outside,dey busy dey collect another man gbola...To the extent say she get belle for the other man

Worst things that can ever happen to a man have all happened to Harrysong and fortunately he's been strong enough to survive Dem....

A deep lesson to single men like us that--- "Dem no dey trust banny finish"

Man and woman must nurture their marriage,if they want to have peace and bliss in the marriage.

So, as you are blaming wife, you should also endeavor to blame man as well.

I'm very sure that, ....while Harry neglected beautiful wife at home, he would be sleeping around with different girls, women, even married women outside.

Before you know, another sharp guy would have twisted the brain of married but single wife of Harry.

JuanDeDios:
In theory, the government can, but it'd take an Idi Amin-type dictator to attempt that. The government can only change the mode of succession to a throne it created - like the Bichi emirate, and no government anywhere has ever changed the mode of succession to any throne. You can only tinker with succession lightly (like Nick Clegg's amendment did to the British throne a few years back) and that is where the people have no problem with such a tinkering. Idiogbe (promigeniture) is rooted in Edo culture and has been upheld by the Supreme Court, and "throwing open" the Benin throne is not the sort of thing government would contemplate. It would be far easier to abolish the throne than to do that.

Oga, you dnt know the enomous power of government and how people in power can manipulate people to do their biddings.

YOU THINK SEVERAL PEOPLE OF BENIN ORIGIN, MOST ESPECIALLY AMONG HIGH CHIEFS, WONT BE HAPPY IF OBA OF BENIN STOOL IS OPEN TO MORE THAN ONE FAMILY IN BENIN KINGDOM?

....who no wan become king and his rule his people.....

SlavaUkraini:
The manual remains the same.

Christians and non-christians buy Samsung TV but the manual is the same for both of them.

You can choose to use the manual or discard it

God's word remains the manual for life

The post is talking about correct guy, you are supposed to know that the guy you quoted is high on drug and that's, how 70% of guys in this forum behaving irrationally.


YOU NEED NOT REPLYING SUCH GUY/ GUYS, WHEN RATIONAL PEOPLE ARE DISCUSSING IMPORTANT ISSUE.

FashionCookie:
Life no get manual.

Life marriage not get manual, still, you need to follow MARRIAGE's rules, provided,the two couples involved want to enjoy and have peace in their marriage.

you nurture ur marriage the way you nurture ur business or career that you want to succeed

Amumaigwe:
You are either a young boy or a lady hiding behind a masculine Monika.

When you sleep around with various women claiming that you are African man.

When you use money that u supposed to take responsibility of family for drinking and womanizing

When you chasing every girls, even at ur neighborhood,by not respecting ur marriage.

When you go out at will and comming home at will, even when you dnt have any tangible things doing outside, (neglecting kids for wife alone)

And several of such atrocities committed by men,...... goggles is ur friend,u can check it to confirm or deny .

......I have intervened several of
marriages that are having issues, before I came out to my submission.

You can keep on doing gragra, the way Africa men doing.

I still maintain my position that, "WE" the men, do cause marriage failure farrrrrr more than wives do.

Oga Methuselah, doing ur self good, by conducting UNBIASED accesement of marriages of ur friends, neighbors, church members and family that are
having issues by urself.

Also, check the one that are "relatively enjoying peace, take notice of how husbands of such marriages(good & bad) are behaving.


NB. Your post is enough to say whole lot about ur personality.......a personality that full of prejudice towards gender, religion, tribe.

I will advise you to learn how to take responsibility when things going wrong,rather than shifting blame others .

jeromestarks:
No woman cheat like married women.
No living thing follows peniss like human single mothers.


If you didn't marry your wife as a virgin , you're living in bondage.

Fvck any woman you like but when it comes to marriage, take your time to find a virgin. Do otherwise and suffer depression like many married men are currently suffering.

Read ur post very well, you would see that you are going mad gradually.

Anyway, that's effect of Colorado on Naija teenagers

ceejay80s:
Good for her
Sebi she no wan sidon for husband house....
I bet u the ex husband will be saying now sebi I tell una say she dey fucckkk up and down that why I left, Una don believe me now?

75% of marriage failure caused mainly by husbands, know this and have peace.

Obierika:
That is the lie the whiteman told you!

Hope u also know that ur fore father that married more than one wife, that, it wasn't only them that service THOSE numerous wives?


Thinking that you put more than one wife at home and u still expecting such numerous wives to be loyal to you alone make you foolish far far far more than White.

BERNIMOORE:
it can be dismissed as a skit but a signed document carries weight

Yet baba ijesha own not dismissed.

BERNIMOORE:
Fubara learning politics 101...The whole point here is to prepare the Appeal court to rule that PDP is divided, and Obviously this dissecting tunes is a genuine proof, Moreso the National Chairman and secretary are with wike on This....The Judiciary can only work on proof of evidence.....there was no defection letter served...thats the Joker. Femi Falana, over to you

I guess video footage is not one of evidences in ur own country

Yet mad people would still be puting naija woes on foreign POWER.

LAST TIME I CHECKED, NO AMERICAN OR BRITISH THAT WAS/IS HEADED ANY INSTITUTIONS IN NIGERIA IN THE LAST 50 YEARS.


YET, AMERICA THIS AMERICA THAT........

Despite the domination of America, several countries of the world still brought their economy from 3rd world economy to developed economy.


Any nation that putting his predicament solely on others, not ready to come out from the wood .

Hezmatosky:
Nigerians are too forgetful. Sanusi and Soludo should be suffering what Emefielie is suffering now. Although, wetin concern me

How? I guess you re the one reeks on ignorant, perhaps suffering from half information.

Racoon:
All is tyed to the Kano politics. Traditional stools or institutions used to be a highly reverred body until they became bastardized by politicians.

Is it politicians that bastardized it or some traditional institutions usually want to step beyond their boundaries?

I never see or hear that, British monarchs public going against British politicians, despite the fact that, it's most powerful traditional institution globally.

JuanDeDios:
Yes. The British removed Oba Ovonramwen in 1897.

However, it's not as easy. The thing is, you can pick anyone from certain families to be emir of Kano. But in Benin, only one person, the eldest surviving son of the last king, can be king. So if the state government removes him, Benin would go kingless until he dies in exile and his eldest son is enthroned. However, the political cost of doing that will be such that no governor would contemplate it lightly. Of course, if he was removed because he was manifestly bad and everyone agrees, the traditional council might agree for a regent to reign in his place until his death and it's time for his son, the crown prince. But, again, even with primogeniture, regency often leads to disputes, as we saw in Ubiaja and other places.

And who tell you that government can't promugate a law that would open the throne for any Benin bonafide person? You dnt know the powers that revolve around govt.

I like this type of disputes in Edo......at least,this would enlighten the mass ignorant in Benin that usually mistaken Oba of a Benin, a mere mortal to gods.

He concluded by saying....by God grace. But very unfortunately, God in his Majesty didn't grant that grace for him.


He still needs to thank Almighty God that, the day he mentioned, he still alive though, not on the throne.

helinues:
Is Dangote no longer a private business owner?

Why should the government be monitoring the activities on how a business man run his business when he his not doing illegal things.

Shalaye is unnecessary

So, government shouldn't know what comes in and goes out in her territory?

correctyourself:
See you think it's a child that is talking, when i sent money to wrong account and i got court order, the CTC was not ready within that week.

Just go and do what I told you, it's not only child that needs education, maybe I should also advice you to learn how to comment to post with unbiased mind.

I pray the civil servants that would be working thr make it effectively for the reason it's being installed.

correctyourself:
What surprises me here is that, the judge gave an order late yesterday, and certified true copy was also ready that same day, so government officials are so fast with discharging their responsibility?

Since when did they become so effective? the officials that , once it's 3:30pm they're already outside office waiting for their staff?

Go and educate yourself,what they call, exparte order, and interlocutory injuction and reason for issuing such order .

creolehunt:
It amazes me how Nigeruan police are so swift to make arrest in civil matters such as this. But are never no where to be found when actual crime that needs investigation is committed.

Same applies to the military guys who akwaysvfisolay might when it comes to civilians.

Despite reading the reason, yet a stupid guy still wrote nonsense and liked by foolish people.

Oga, how would you feel if people write defamation content about you?

ogmask:
If the military wants to stop terrorism today they go stop am sharp sharp. The gov is 100% correct. The military is culpable.
The amount of money voted for security alone is enough to add firewood to the fire of banditry and terrorism.
In the era of drones and satellite imagery we still dey do shoot and run.

Even govs themselves, don't want the insecurity to go down.

Imagine a south west gov taking, ₦1b as security vote.