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Alaska5050:
Apologies for putting this here.

I have a friend, a very close friend whom we've once cohabited together a few years ago. My friend has a girlfriend. He met his girlfriend while they were in the Polytechnic together, they dated & later broke up due to the girls unfaithfulness. The girl cheated on my friend. After ND, my friend proceeded for his HND l, while the lady couldn't go further.
After three years, they reconciled. My friend is now in Lagos, we live very close to each. In fact, we live in same Building but different apartment. After reconciliation, the babe left her place(Ibadan) to Lagos to visit my friend. She would come & spend a few days, then return to Ibadan. This babe isn't even an indigene of Ibadan, she's from Nassarawa State. But traveled to live with her cousins in Ibadan so as to Hussle & save money for her HND. She has been in Ibadan for almost a year & this babe has refused to work. She comes to see her guy every now & then, spends a week or two, then leave and after two days, she returns again.
My friend works as a Supervisor in a small hotel & his salary is not even up to 50k but this guy is sheepishly still in love with this girl. The same girl cheats all the time. My friend has caught her many times through her chats with a particular guy. The babes mum would call & even ask her "How is your husband". The mum is not referring to my friend as her daughter's husband, but she's referring to the other guy whom my friends babe is cheating with. There have been many red flags, but my guy has become hypnotized by love.
My friend is on permanent night shift. Goes to work at 5pm and returns the next morning. Immediately my friend leaves, she will remove her phone from flight mode or silence and start flashing the guy to call her back. The guy would call & they would speak for so so long, sometimes, two hours. Her phone doesn't ring whenever my friend is around. Much worse is the fact that the Girl is so lazy. She has refused to work, she comes to my guy's house only to eat, sleep and chat. Her major hobby is to cook, eat all the meats in the food and demands for suya. She can't buy Sanitary pad or data for herself except my guy buys for her. She can't make her hair with her money. If my friend doesn't send her transport fare, she can't come. And when she wants to leave, my friend must also give her transport fare. In fact, if the money isn't enough, na wahala oo.. Whatever she tells my friend to do, he does. My friend would tell me he doesn't have money and will be eating in my house for weeks and atimes months. But the day the babe comes around, money will enter his pockets mysteriously. He will give the girl 10k to cook soup and buy garri for Eba but same guy cannot use 3k to cook for himself alone and eat. He tries too much to impress this cheating and lazy girlfriend even to the point of getting addicted to Sex enhancement drugs to satisfy his Babe. Without these enhancement drugs, he can't bleep the girl. He has become so weak that the girl has now capitalized on his weakness to continually become disloyal.
He intends marrying the girl, but I feel he's making the wrong decision. The girl wouldn't make a good wife, from all indications. Atimes I am tempted to open up & tell him about the many calls the girl receives whenever he is at work.
I know all these because I'm very close to him. Sometimes we sleep in each other's house.

I am really very angry cos there's nothing spectacular about this lady. No be say she fine. Also I hate taking shits from any lady particularly a cheating girlfriend who is also a parasite.
I'm scared that if I tell my friend to break up with her, my friend may tell her that I am the one advising him to breakup.

I wont be surprised, if you too is a lazy and jobless, like ur friend girlfriend, perhaps,you are indirectly referring to urself as ur friend gf. For you to have chance and time to know much about ur Friend girlfriend, even to the Level that you know the girl would put phone on flight mode and flash immediately ur friend left for office, despite the fact you said it earlier that,the girl on coming thr to chart and charge phone.

Gideonski:
But seriously why are women like this? Let me tell you what I mean:
There's this girl that lives in the same compound as me that I guess she's around her late teenage years or possibly early twenties. She's a very wild girl and I suspected she's into hookup based on her careless dressing and men often dropping her off in their cars early in the morning after night outs. Her friendly nature made us to get along quickly as neighbours. One day she came to me to borrow money, and I innocently gave her. I waited for her to return the money but she never did, and when I asked her about it, she gave all types of silly excuses that made me realise that she didn't want to pay back.
The worst thing is that she would only come to me when she needed something either financially or in items of which I would give to her out of the sake of being just nice.
As time went on I started feeling stupid and used.
Even when her friend came over and started living with her, the friend started knocking my door to ask for stuff within a few weeks! She must have told her about "the nice guy who never says no!". One day I decided that enough was enough and I told them that I will not be borrowing them my stuff and they should buy whatever they need for themselves.
We didn't talk to each other like before but I liked it that way.
This made me realise something about women :
1. Women don't respect nice guys, they only pretend to like them because of what they get from them.
2. Any money you give to a woman is gone. 90% of them will never think of paying you back even when they have it. This is why most guys demand sex before rendering help to ladies. They believe the sex is the only thing tangible that can come out of it. Some sort of a collateral.
In all you do, learn how to say no to ladies that only take from you and never give. That is a parasitic relationship.
My neighbour banged the hell out of a lady that asked him for 2k. He knew she would never pay him back.
They might start to hate you when you stand your ground but it is better to be hated for saying NO than to be loved(If it is real) for being a FOOL.

Are u a nice guy? Or you are longing to taste from her cookie? Since she already seen signal that your eye is thr, she explorted you to ur bone marrow.


Any guy that cannot off his eyes in every girl he see, he must be dealt with the way you are dealt with.

Lady will start respect and fear you wen ,she shake yanch up and down and you don't look her side to know what she is selling.

wayisshut:
I think this punishment meted to the Libyans is trivial.

Firstly, you endangered the lives of a full national team when you diverted the flight away from the initial destination.

Secondly, you abused the players emotionally, physiological by passing the team through that ordeal.

The verdict should have read that the Libyan national team is barred from holding any of their home matches on home soil for the next five years.

Then Nigerian team should be reimbursed what ever amount of penny that was used to persecute the botched match

Libyan officials Fa is barred from holding any caf position.

Hope you know, football is established for fans to be enjoying, I mean home fans and u also know football is not politics or war

psucc:
Only that we don't have a listening leaders or they're so confused that they don't know how to tackle the security breaches in the SE. The situation can be brought to order within 3 weeks if they'll go behind the Nigerian security agencies to unravel those behind the scene.

It's a pity and a sad reality that over 80% of those killed by the security agencies are INNOCENT. The core players are hidden and protected

.....and you think this kind of man could be innocent?

If CAF doesn't use this opportunity to stamp out all these barbarism from any nation participating in CAF footballing of any kind, it means they still much ready to be taken back seat in global events

deeptechcool:
Video flying up n down has been debunked as propaganda.

All the projectiles fired were reportedly intercepted.

War? Yet they have no money to feed the world.

Intercepted yet Iran already confirmed, 2 soldiers dead.

Go to ur neighbours room and watch ur own aljazera breaking news now.

ch214:
You are the one being childish for thinking tinubu offer to bianca ojukwu is a reward for her loyalty when in reality Bianca Ojukwu was never loyal to tinubu and APC. Just days ago before the tinubu offer, bianca ojukwu called for the release of Nnamdi Kanu while critizing Tinubu government for having no respect for court order.

You have been brainwashed and decieve by gullible people, Tinubu and APC have evil interior motives for offering her ministering post but as a wise woman Bianca Ojukwu have rejected tinubu offer and she is no longer interested to be among tinubu cabinet.

Tinubu and his demonic corrupt APC party can go to hell.

Let see if Bianca will accept the offer? If she does, I biliv you should exit nairaland in shame. If she takes it and u still continue behaving gragra here. "I will pity who no pity you.

I think they say, she is a wife of deity

MadPolitician:
So because they refused to die and are involved in buying and selling, that means they're alright and are being treated well by the government? They should have gone to die, right?

Tell me, just one way, in which they treating Igbo bad by any govt since 4th Republic?


If you talk of appointment, Jonathan favoured much more than any tribe.

Meanwhile, those presidents tht put their tribes in govt, how has it beneficial to their regions than other?

kettykin:
I wish ipob was as powerful and deadly as mossed. Some people never see anything wrong with oppression until you become a victim.

Igboho is walking around free. Miyetti Allah president is walking around free, Dokubo and tompolo who once picked arms against the government are all free and languishing in stupendous wealth. Nnamdi Kanu is languishing in jail.his only crime is that he is igbo.
May God curse and destroy everything oppressive from the face of the earth be it a country, people, organization, etc

And who is oppressing Igbo?

Igbo that dominates and buying different houses and turning them to shops in every nuke and cranes in Nigeria, is that what you call dominate?

If you don't win election to rule your country, that not the same as domination ok.


In UK , go and check how many regions formed United Kingdom and the region that producing prime minister on regular basis. Yet no lamentations of domination

EmperorCaesar:

Mongolia had Genghis Khan

Greece had Alexander the Great

Babylon had Nebuchadnezzar and sons

Persia had Cyrus

Media had Darius

Egypt had different Pharoses

Rome had The Caesars


USA in 2024 having a female President looks like a misfit...Just shit

Trump all the way

If she wins, promise us you will commit suicide.

Big advert and kudo for a legend who leaves a life of globalism and not like, half of a yellow sun.

Maybe it's time to send him back to shithole nation.


Why people would cross over to other side and total erase their memories from where they originally belonged s worrisome.

Killing yourself fo a candidate, who has no regards for human dignity saying alot about musk himself, maybe he thinks it's shithole nations where votes are for sales.

essentialone:
I have been able to link the reason why most Yoruba men are rapists and lack sexual control to the excess Pepper that they eat, and the excess bitter drinks that they take into their systems.

Those stuffs are Aphrodisiacs.

Wen are going to find reason why Yoruba turned Igbo to boyboy in Nigeria?

Or you forgotten Ndigbo never taste president or vice President?


I think you should worry about that, because ur son and great ground son are still comming to serve Yoruba people

reuben81:
From removing, Igbo woman from full minister, to giving another minister for state, junior minister I can see

Ok ooooo, the govt that Ndigbo overwhelmingly voted for.

ch214:
Good reputation is better than greediness for money and power.

If she need money and made one publication online for financial support, millions of igbos will donate money for her that will make her never to lack money again in her life.

.....but billions of dot-nation, cannot give her ministerial appointment, for her career and political progression.


The hopeless ipig telling her to reject appointment, if Bianca contest in Imo or Anambra today, the headless mad people would collect money from other politicians and left her as a lone ranger.

helinues:
You people should celebrate with others so that you can be celebrated when it comes to your turn

Make una stop all this unnecessary bitterness, it no dey make grow fast in life

Leave them ooo, we at our side, we are happy with their bitterness.

Wen I read them wail, it gives me joy.

Lamentations in which they still don't know the year that will end.

free2ryhme:
Story.

You did not take the oath with a dead person.

Abi oooo, an opinion from teenager or grown old man, who doesn't know his left hand from right hand.

Bye

mohbadliveson:
Bianca shouldn't have lobbied for, or accepted the appointment. She will end up being messed up and that won't be a good thing for the memory of her husband, the great Dim Ikemba Chukwuemeka Ojukwu

....but ordinary special assistant to special adviser to an unknown local government chairman, you will jump at it.

free2ryhme:
Any oath terminates at death

I laf in Swahili ,infact, oath starts its dangerous works at death.

I pity those who think Bible is infective and do anyhow with it, most especially wen it comes to oath taking.

Bible and Quran are more dangerous to use wen taking oath, very difficulty to render impotent than all these traditional oath.

jflower06:
To me, something is not adding up concerning this story. Why the arrest of the guy at initial stage when Police knew it was an accident and two detectives even went with her to FMC where she was pronounced dead? Or am i missing something?

You will teach them their work ooo.


The police command that arrested might not be police command where, the police escort comes from?

Police might arrest to protect the guy temporary, until the two parties got details explanations about the incident

Nwaokunkpara:
Is that what the autopsy says 🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔

Hope you will fund the autopsy?

Biodun556:



Weakening of dollar is not the major objective.

The goal of brics common currency is ease of doing business, transfer and receiving funds

Euro zones know the importance of euro that's why they stick to it.

The fact is US has weaponised the dollar by using it to sanction and enslave other countries

Dollars strong or weak is not the issue

Must you join bricks before you do business without using dollars as means of exchange if the two nations ready to do it?

Two, in all those nations form bricks, how many that are importing Nigeria goods?

3rd and most importantly, will BRICS has wherewithal to give loan and other incentives to nations as America does?

Oluboh:
This father is a monumental disaster. Tinubu's puppet

Abi ooo, you must support everyone that is against Tinubu govt, even wen they on wrong side.


Is that not reason why, you yourself is disaster to ur hopeless situation.

Even a novice knows that, the Govs would come back with shame from supreme court.


If Yaya Bello is pushing his cousin to dance like a naked mad man in market Square, did other Govs supposed to join him, for show of shame?


Meanwhile, one by one, they are removing their legs, until it becomes lone ranger.

Basicend:
I think amongst the conditions for borrowing from World Bank / IMF, etc is to weaken or devalue the Naira. . Which Tinubu did not have to a choice than to comply with, since he did not have funds to run d govt.

I think FG is trying to escape from the era of over dependency of dollar, and gain a breather for Naira and it's revaluation.

From Yar'Adua to Buhari, didn't they borrow money? Did they devalue Naira?

Update yourself in current affairs and stop pending rumours and fake news.

Biodun556:
The fact is, there must be alternative to dollar

Euro that created by stronger countries than bricks, has it in any way weakened Dollar?


Is alternative to dollar that most important or for your nation to think outside box and learn how to be productive as a nation?


Keep on blaming others for ur woes, you will remain on the ground till they kingdom comes.

PheelzAlmighty:
I wonder how many men are able to give up their values and standards to impress/please a woman.
SIMPle men everywhere..#spits

Will ur ur hopeless situation improves? Or you give up already, because you see simp being married every weekend, while u, a redpilar cannot even feed ur own mouth?

immortalcrown:
Her own madness seems to have paid off.

When would ur own insanity pay off?


Abi you want to wail in a faceless forum until you go back to ur creator?

Lungs:
Oga the dude always tells the truth, some dude here most times do make points but we always take everything for a joke . U had Better go DNA for your kids before it's to late

Has your father done your DNA to proof your mum not wayward as wife? Pls post the result here for everyone to see first.

Let it begins with you pls!

integrity16:
Good. He didn't merge any ministry, just change of name and then placed all regional development commission under the ministry.

What about culture and tourism?


Oga read well before you rush to attack, if u do, it won't make you sound like fool in public forum.