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Pukkalolo:
Sometimes guys in this redpill space tend the assume that getting pussy from a girl means you are the alpha, and getting cheated on by a girl means you are the simp. But that's not true.


Look, that girl giving you pussy despite the fact she has a boyfriend doesn't necessarily mean her boyfriend is a simp: it might simply means she's a LovePeddler or a bitch.... The truth is, Girls also cheat on alpha guys. A cheat is a cheat. A bitch is a bitch. It doesn't necessarily matter if you're a simp or alpha.

Again, you getting the pussy isn't necessarily because you are the alpha or you have good game or you are the best seducer in the town.

It simply because she's currently available and interested in you, and for whatever reason she felt comfortable giving you the pussy. Which might possibly have nothing to do with being alpha or being redpill or being a smooth seducer or whatever.

Please Josefvision, don't get me wrong. You're doing well, so I'm not trying to attack you. I just want you to see interaction with women from a different and more realistic angle. This will definitely help other guys here as well.


So let's begin..

Many guys here might not know this truth I'm about to say because it takes having real experience to know this.

Here it is:

A woman attraction for you is predetermined
...meaning, even before she meets you, she's already attracted to certain traits about you.

This is because, psychologically, women have different taste for men...so once she sees you or at least once she starts interacting with you (within seconds or latest minutes), she has quickly "subconsciously" decides if she fansy you.

Look, Women already know if they will Bleep you or not. Forget all their false front.. This is the bitter truth about women only the real OG understand. Woman also know this, but they won't tell you.

If she doesn't fancy you, she'll only just waste your time and exploit you if you "allow" her to. But if she fancy you and she somewhat feels comfortable with you, she will give you the pussy and you would think you're some smooth seducer or alpha...


If you truly believe that a woman's interest for a man is predetermined, then your whole game strategy will change FROM trying to make her like you and giving the pussy TO giving her the opportunity to either follow your lead or get lost out of your presence.

I love being realistic, so let's take it to the real world.

Let's play with an hypothetical scenerio:

I'm gonna use brothers we are familiar with here, so it can connect even better.

Let's say, CaveAdullam is hosting a party... He invite ladies and cool fellas, some of the fellas include KingEarnest, Lordfranklin... there's also this random dude, let's just call him JASON.

Now, Cave has this beautiful cousin who was also present there. Let's call her Anita. JASON, KingEarnest, Lordfranklin individually told Cave that they are interested in his cousin. So CaveAdllam enthusiastically encourage them to go for it.

Let the game began.

Now, note: JASON, Lordfranklin and KingEarnest are all redpillers, and None of them are Simps.

But the difference is their core believe about interaction with women.

Let's assume Lordfranklin and KingEarnest believes that a woman's interest for a man is most times predetermined, So she's either interested or NOT. So their first goal is to figure out if Anita is somewhat interested and worth the pursuit. Their believe is, She either follow my lead or get lost.

But JASON on the other hand believe that her interest level doesn't matter. He believes he can get Anita if he can seduce her enough and excute the game perfectly, and so his goal is to make her like him and get her to give him the pussy.

Now, we know a woman's attraction for a man is actually predetermined... She's already interested or not. So among these three guys, Anita has already "choose" the guy she fancy. But of course she gonna just act like she doesn't give shit about them. You know women and their "attitude" look.

So, while Anita is just chilling at the house party vibing to music playing, Lordfranklin confidently initiate a conversation with her. Let's assume Anita isn't interested in him. But since Lordfranklin first goal is to find out if there's any interest---in couple of minutes of interacting with her he was able to figure that out. From her negative vibe and wishywashy response, he could see that the girl is more likely to waste his fucking time and energy if he continues going after her. Lordfranklin highly value his time, so in his mind he tells her to get lost, then he stand up and move on to talk to some other cool chic in party who is more likely to follow his lead...

Now, when JASON saw that Anita was alone, he smoothly initiate conversations with her. Anita sincerely doesn't really fancy him: she's just not interested. But JASON was oblivious to that because he thinks he can get Anita if he apply some seduction/game moves. So he focused on getting her to like him and give him the pussy.

Now, since Anita enjoys the attention JASON was giving her, she just play along and gave him the impression that if he tries harder enough he might one day Bleep her. Anita, just like most girls out there is good at misleading men they have no interest in, deceiving them and giving them the impression that they might get the pussy if they try harder.


Next, KingEarnest went into action. He initiated conversation with her. The moment Anita met KingEarnest, she's already somewhat fancy him because he has certain traits she "subconsciously" admire. And since his first goal is to find out if there's any interest---he quickly gave her the opportunity to either follow his lead or get lost. In couple of minutes of interacting with her he was able to find out he has a chance with her. He exchange digits with her. And before he left her present, he playfully told her, "I have to go now, but try not to think about me too much."

She blushed.

All KingEarnest had to do was just to make her feel a bit more sexually comfortable and safe with him, and few days or weeks later she is dropping her panties for him...

Weeks and months later, JASON is still "working on" Anita. "I guess I'm doing something wrong," he tell himself.

So he ask some pua/game junkie. They gave him some more game/seduction technique to apply her on her in order to get her to drop her panties... They told him, if you apply this seduction tactics, soon she will be screaming "Bleep me harder" loud while you bang her for behind.

But unfortunately, the only loud "Bleep me harder" JASON end up hearing was from the pornhub video he was watching on his computer.

He wonder what he was doing wrong. He felt emotionally shattered. He holla CaveAdullam, "bro, what's up with your cousin, what's really her issue"

But here's the real issue Jason didn't realize: Anita was never interested from the beginning. But his pussy focused mentality prevented him from realizing that.

Jason look Anita up on Facebook to see what she's up to. To his surprise he saw her picturing with KingEarnest: she was holding him in a romantic way.

Jason thought to himself, "wait, isn't this the guy I saw at CaveAdullam's party. So this is the asshole Anita chose over me."

Now,

Some Fellas might think KingEarnest got the girl because he has better game, but not really. Infact Lordfranklin also has solid game. But KingEarnest got Anita because she was available and ALREADY INTERESTED in him from the beginning. All he did was just to make her feel more comfortable.

Although Lordfranklin didn't get Anita, but he wasn't emotionally affected or heartbroken by that because he didn't invested his much time, effort and money wooing her. Right from the first conversation, he was able to quickly figure out that this girl wasn't really into what he was offering. So he had moved on quickly to avoid getting attached to the wrong girl.

But JASON was attached, bitter, angry and heartbroken because he had invested his time and effort and self-respect trying to seduce/pursue a girl(Anita) that was never interested in him.

In summary, The one reason most guys aren't getting girls is because they are ignoring the vast majority of girls that ALREADY LIKE THEM and going after the girls that are either currently unavailable or uninterested.



I hope this was helpful. Stay blessed.

The information you freely released here is not meant for people here, your information is meant for people who have brains and know how to you use brains rationally.

Meanwhile, the character of JASON is the character that many possessed, they struggled fruitlessly on ladies not interested in them, afterwards, they gather together for collaborative lamentations.

Maybe his/her head will reset small when he/she finally off from hook she deliberately hung herself on.

Arobaga:
Wonder how Yoruba people will be telling us how to run our government in PH



Them think say we dey worship Godfathers here



I’ll be alive and witness disintegration of Nigeria



Make we see how e go be

Isn't Yoruba people that are telling how things run in entire south south?

Sit down and be dreaming, when u wake up, world would have left you a decade behind.


YORUBA IN CHARGE OF FINANCE, TREASURY,CUSTOM, TAXES, ARMY, POLICE AND STILL NOT BELIEVE IS CONTROLLING YOUR LIFE AND WELLBEINGS.

maasoap:
And I'm asking you to tell us what you have read, heard or watched El-Rufai did to the incumbent gov since he assumed it office? We can start from how he has refused to give him complete free hand to govern.

You can now go to front page and check how Elrufai boys in his administration are the one forced on Sani in his own govt, just like wike and fubara in PH.


Anyway, ur type would open eye, yet you won't see.

Bye

Kimcutie:
A 40 years old man is at his peak, so yes you can be a catch provided you plan your earlier years well.

Did you plan ur earlier years well now? Since you leave ur own life and start monitoring women how they spend their lives up and down, before twinkle of an eye, you would reach 40. No wife, No children and No solid job. By then you would truly understand philosophy of life.


NB. The public stunt the 34 years old lady posted, does it suppose to surprise you, if you are a type who think rationally?
You and the lady, what's different between you?
BOTH OF YOU ARE LEAVING IN SELF DENIAL.

Hezmatosky:
You're just a swin, looking for where to rob

Go back to every of ur previous comments, you urself, do the analysis of ur comments and be truthful to urself.


Indeed,here is a frustrated and bitter soul!

I pity the woman that would end up in the hands of "slave master" that she would mistaken as husband.

Hezmatosky:
A well brought up girl and a good house wife will not demand 250k for hair or even seen among men who can cough a whole 250k and give to a woman just for hair. There's something you're not telling us abeg

A well brought up boy and who would make a good husband won't be critical of every decision one makes, such man is toxic and bitter in nature.

Can you underline where she demanded the said amount? You think man cannot give her the money without asking for it?

If the same girl say, .....see the the hair I made from 250k my guy gave me.....evil person like you would also be the first to criticize her that, why can't she use it to do business.

Only death would satisfy you guys!


Try to change ur attitude if you want to leave in peace in life.

abobote:
If the boyfriend can give 250k just for hair, that means he is rich enough to start a good business for her.

Don't believe everything you see on social media though

Hope u also know that most of naija guys ready to give girlfriend 500k for hair but would be struggling to give just 50k if she tells him directly that she wants to start business.

The same way, fellow guy is ready to buy beer of ₦1m for merriment for his friends but same guy will refuse to part ordinary 10k if u ask him that u want to use it to do good thing in ur life.

condensedmilk:
Someone who was given the position of directing land allocation. You said it's not qualified to issue a Land?

Abi ooooo, finance minister can take 100 billion dollars loan without the approval of president. After all, he is the man in charge of finances.

The same way the custom general can open and close border without taking authority from president.


Pls sir, stop contributing when discussing govt policy and decision, you can wait for woman bashing thread to hurl insult as usual.

harmonyglobal:
214 hectres of land to one person in the FCT without approval of a minister?
Thus is much thou
How many land come remain for that area

To make it worse, they quickly acquired it when there was no minister. Yet, wen it's taken to judge that's being paid with tax payer money, he himself will still be struggling to make rightful judgement.

condensedmilk:
So director of lands is not qualified to issue a Land in the FCT

That is,P S will do all official work that executive governor will do in a state.

YOU GUYS COMMON SENSES HAVE COMPLETELY TAKEN BY TRIBE AND RELIGION.

To think properly and appropriately is now a problem, yet they are agitating for youth to take over the country

Then use sharia as smokescreen to fight Obasanjo presidency and many of you queue behind them like bambiala", today you suffer it most, while Yerima and his crew are well protected.

These are the business that both federal and state governments are supposed to be doing over the years, which would have given them more than enough forex to power the economy.


Every political leader chooses to loot treasury dry before passing it to godson, for the circle to continue.

They trapped in the forest they are complaining, what about the wives of 17 soldiers that permanent trapped in the graves? Let them enjoying their forest while it last.

Aaaaarghmed:
keep asking dem out ,so they will keep rejecting you.lol.una no even sabi women at all. .keep it up.i have penned down my own advise,it is up to you to take it or discard it.nice guys will always finish last

You and the guy u quoted, who is playing role of nice guy? No be you? Who is wasting his energy, time and resources trying to play boyfriend role instead to go straight forward to know his stand?


Out of 50 girls you want to play ur game with, hardly you would be able to go down with 2. Meanwhile,you would waste ur time and resources on virtually all of them playing ur childish and foolish game

nairavsdollars:
Can't we have a youthful president in Nigeria?

And what will youth do differently? The governors and ministers that were/are youths, how are they fearing and what difference have they made?

In Nairaland here, what is percentage of youth talking senses to find solutions on issues that are posted?

Itooweak4una:

Honestly, this is the worst advice I've ever seen consistently shared here. Continuously playing the boyfriend role for a girl only for her to brush you off. You assume the role of her boyfriend, only for her to hit you with 'Who do you think you are?'

Not to mention the unnecessary time, attention, and resources you'd have spent on her. Just because you did it with one girl doesn't mean all girls are like this. As an adult, I believe in straightforwardness and defining my relationship with everyone I come in contact with. I won't overdo it and start playing the boyfriend role for a girl who doesn't see me that way, only to turn around crying and creating a thread on how a girl manipulated me.

Abi ooo, when you see a teenage guy or adult without a focus advice, you won't read it twice before you know.

Still dnt know why an adult would be playing ostrich just because he want to have sex.

You see a lady you like, go straight and let her know ur intention, if she says no, you move on and life continues. Life is too short for someone to be hunting woman in endless game.

MAN MUST LEARN HOW NOT TO SLEEP WITH EVERY WOMAN THAT COMES HIS WAY AT ALL COST.

BareFacedLies:
If you don't fúck a lady within the first 72 hours of meeting her your chances of fúcking her decrease with each passing day!

It shows every girl you are frolicking with is either club girl or olosho in making.

At the end of the day, you would marry one of such girls and latter come here to lament that "all naija girls are cheat"

Namaster:
Handiwork of USELESS cultists.

It's INSANE how the useless security operatives let knives and hammers be smuggled into the campus but would be quick to harass students for indecent dressing.

Also if he sustained defensive wounds on his hands as the article claimed, then people should have heard him screaming. Lecturers have their offices in the faculty building. Students and other lecturers should have heard something.

This entire case is STRANGE.

If they are searching every bag and pocket of students now, you will also be the first person to call them useless. That, they are treating university students like kindergarten.

Very easy to criticize ooo,how ur own life fearing?I biliv is not the same as ur rhetoric.

Under normally circumstances, labor party is supposed to be led by norther candidate by now.. but igbo wants to have it all, u never ready for president in a multiethnic nation

They say he wants to bring ethics into the issue, when ningi himself started the ethnicity.

I'm very sure the deseased know clue of how dangerous is friend during his lifetime but still continue be close friend to him

May we not know the truth in the grave!

maasoap:
And I'm asking you to tell us what you have read, heard or watched El-Rufai did to the incumbent gov since he assumed it office? We can start from how he has refused to give him complete free hand to govern.

Sit down there and be thinking like clown, before Sani went public to criticize Elrufai, whole lots of infighting has been going on underground.

For Elrufai to be going up and down romancing opposition party and political opponents of gov/president, is that not enough for you, though your reasoning shows you are still political neophyte.

MajorOvakporaye:
Incompetent power grabber. Useless presidiot. Urine dispenser. Chicago runaway drug criminal. Gbola Tilumbu.

Pandora Republic, hope you know is among the leaders

maasoap:
Una don start o! The same way you pushed Fubara, now he's facing the threat of impeachment. Must we betray people who helped us to success? Is it a curse or something?
And you want the incumbent gov to "Dismantle all his political structures with immediate effect"! Why?
Has El-Rufai publicly criticised this gov? I fear una for this country o! No fear of God whatsoever, just selfishness everywhere

I will advice you to go and study the case of a state in Nigeria called Anambra, how the immediate former Gov helped the incumbent gov to win and how he gives the incumbent gov complete free hand to govern.

Tinubu defeated Elrufai, even before the battle started.

I pity other tribes which Obi had hoodwinked to be members of obidient family,thinking Obi is comming to power to right the wrongs of other Nigeria's leaders. EVEN RUFAI HAS PRESSED REVERSE MODE.


OBI ONLY WISH, IS TO GRAB POWER IN OTHER FOR HIM TO SATISFYING HIS/THEIR QUEST FOR IGBO PRESIDENCY.

EreluRoz:
All I'm saying is people jump into relationship too quickly without taking much time to know themselves. If you both had taken much time before the relationship there's no way you won't notice the flaws that eventually led to your breakup.
Most of these relationship you see around are two people deceiving themselves, they tend to polish their character and when it eventually leads to marriage and the true character of both parties start popping out then marriage will hit the rock. That's why you see relationship of many years but hardly will they last two years in marriage.

Is it about polishing character? I doubt. I think it's more about unable to reach compromise by the partners. That is, some part of my behaviour that I must let go and some parts of my partner behaviour that I must accept, that only way 2 or more individuals can leave together, but in recent times, how many people ready to do that?

Thank God you come out clean to say what you are going through, many of such guys are full here and instead to come out open, they resulted to denigrate female gender up and down, like a lunatic that just breaks loose, ...."all Naija girls are useless, you must marry virgin crew" blahblah, etc.


MEANWHILE, I STILL BILIV UR CASE IS NOT A CURSE, THANK GOD U RE STILL MEETING GIRLS THAT ARE READY TO BE YOUR FRIENDS, NEXT TIME DON'T ASK THEM OUT, BUT PUT PRESSURE ON THEM, TO LET THEM DATE THEIR FRIENDS.

....and for immediate sex, go to night club to look for club girls to sleep with,.....if none of olosho is ready to have sex with you ooo,. It will now clear that you are under spell.

otherway:
They should impeach this mumu already.

Very stwpid guy. When he ought to have stood his ground when they defected... He was so foolish to follow the deciet of Tinubu and Wike.

Very fooooolish man

If it's not Tinubu, he would have thrown out, and by now, be referring to as ex governor.
You are ignorant of so many things.

socialmediaman:
This government is full of propaganda.

Here’s your proof:

https://www.nairaland.com/8046241/fact-checking-numbers-cbns-announcement

Everything in ur head for now, is that Nigeria must go down, since ur own candidate failed in last election.

123yes:
Air peace is a pride to an African man. He proves that where federal government failed an individual can turn things around for good. In a civilized society Onyema can be appointed to handle Nigeria airways. It is a shame that a big country like Nigeria have no operational national carrier. I wish air peace well. What is in a name: udo

Why would Onyema appoint to handle Nigeria's Airway? When he himself is advocate of Nigeria's government neutrality in running of airway, though he wants govt to surport Nigerians to have successfully airways.


If Onyema that has airway,now appointed to manage Nigeria's airway, won't there be conflict of interests?