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BleedGraphix:
This is what we keep saying about stupid men. You just meet a girl, boom you have spent almost a million. This is the reason why we have so many promiscuous ladies in our generation. The ladies have been right on this. It's stupid men that destroyed our ladies.

And as for OP, please smnever accept that man's friendship even if he comes begging. He mocked you by lying that he gave the POS attendant money to send to you. He can kill. He has been having grudges towards you even before he met that lady.

According to the story, the girl didn't want to accept but reluctantly accepted becos of how rich the guy is, which means, he used his money to lure the guy into relationship, as it stands now, the guy would get her body, but may not get her love, and if paraventure the too got married,.....I won't be surprised if the girl seeing another man outside, even now that they still dating, because the girl doesn't have up to 5% natural love for the guy.
Tomorrow, you would be hearing lamentations that women are wicked, when guys refuse to play the game according to its principles, why won't guy enter marital problems?

TrustNone:
There's this my guy, we're so close and we share everything in common like eating together, going out to hustle together, gist and relate.
He's rich as he sells lands (real estate) and makes huge profits from it but he's uneducated and can neither read nor write, I usually help him and compose text messages for him and also chats for him on his Facebook account as he can't speak English correctly.

So there's this school I'm currently working, in the evenings when I go to workplace to drop my laptop (as home isn't safe due to recent robbery attacks in our neighborhood) he'll usually accompany me.

Recently he followed me and we strolled together, there's this corper working in our school, she came out and met me, we exchange pleasantries and gisted.

My friend said he likes her that I should help him talk to her, I obliged then smartly did the job but the lady seemed uninterested as he was not properly dressed and blowing wrong grammars with a very local accent.
But after the girl realized how rich he is and the assets he has she finally gave in.

So recently the Operating System in my laptop got expired, didn't have present money to fix and update it, gigs were coming in but no money to repair the laptop. I asked my guy to lend me 5k when I receive salary I'll pay back but he told me he doesn't have but he'll try and help, he requested for my account and gave him, he lied to me he sent it to the POS girl in my area that she'll give me, but till date I couldn't see any alert.
I approached the girl and she told me he's lying he didn't give her any money. He later told me he was lying but there's no money as he's broke. I moved on. Mind you the girl accepted him and they're both dating.

Yesterday I saw the girl with a new Redmi Note 12, I complimented her phone and congratulated her, she then told me it's my friend that got it for her yesterday and also told the her to move out of the school's premises (she was living in the school compound as accomodation was provided for corpers). The guy then rented a new self contain apartment (250k yearly) for her and she moved out and is staying in the new apartment.
The girl told me how he has stocked her house with foodstuffs and giving her upkeep weekly.
Funny enough the girl has a smartphone she was using and never requested for phone from him, he just willingly bought the phone for the girl. Price of the phone was around 140k.

I was sad and grieved how this guy could be so heartless to his fellow guy and close friend but extravagantly kind and so simpishly foolish to girls.
The girl sef couldn't even show gratitude for connecting her to a foolish maga.

On my way back from Church in the evening yesterday, I saw them together at an eatery with sumptuous meals on their table, the girl called me and I just waved at them and passed.
The guy doesn't call me again nor come around my place again as he used to.

I just learnt that if you're educated avoid walking or keeping company with uneducated people and those that aren't exposed, their mentality is annoying.

With the way you ended ur story, ..IF YOU ARE EDUCATED, AVOID WALKING WITH UNEDUCATED......show you are not different from your friend, if u re in his shoe, you too would do more than that, at least you are showing it in area of ur strength which is ur education.

tiswell:
Sorry Paul,ya only crime is being a black

Is Adrian Mutu black too? I doubt if you have grown up to know Mutu's drug saga few years back.


Nevertheless, I will advice you to take responsibility for ur action or inaction, and stop blaming it on the basis of race, color, religion etc. If u want to go far oooooo

It's paining you now, but u did more than this for ur predecessors, just becos u wanted to clinch to power.

If you haven't played dirty politics in the past, maybe Naija wouldn't have entered dungeon today.

finallybusy:
It’s a learned habit. Why do men drink alcohol despite most of the beverages tasting bitter? The same situation.

People take beer not because of taste, bitterness, but alcohol content.

DaudaTheSexyGuy:
Monogamy is man's invention and it is unnatural therefore allow people to explore different sexual partners

I can't imagine myself spending 20 years with the same woman banging the same toto year in year out

Live life, enjoy a variety of toto and be happy

Hope u will also reciprocate the same gesture for it woman.

Why won't you be establishing different agencies, when Tinubu refuses to play lean govt and let u guys know Naija is passing through austerity.

Very unfortunate about 90% of Naija girls/ladies are into hook up, either overtly or covertly.


.......... before you deny my submission, that indeed you are not into hook up, covertly....

A MAN INVITE YOU AND HAS SEX WITH YOU IN WHICH HE DOESN'T EVEN GIVEN YOU ORDINARY TRANSPORT FARE LET ALONE OTHER MONEY.
How did u react?
If you are calmed and not feel cheated, that means you are not into hookup in any form, but if u re feel cheated or even flare up and forced him to give you money, much more than transport money, infact, you are overtly into hook up.

Yet bubu govt frustrated this man for whole 8 yrs, ....why economy won't be battered under foolish regime

Everything that govt does, people must criticize, give any leadership role for serial critics ,they would fail woefully.

When govt didn't implement it, they criticized, now they want to implement it, they are attacking.


It's only death that satisfies human beings.

icankel:
see this one, ur SIMPly telling me u don't understand women, if u start paying those bills u have started no going back. The day u don't do any of them is day u will become a bad person and she must start cheating on u and u can't do anything else she will dump ur ass to the next guy.

I'm not the one u quoted o, but let me give u one beautiful advice on dating women.

ALWAYS GO FOR A LADY WHO DNT SEE YOU AS ATM MACHINE, THEY ARE STILL SEVERAL OF SUCH LADIES.

2. EITHER SHE SEES YOU OR NOT AS ATM, NEVER DO GOOD FOR ANYONE BECAUSE SHE/HE PUT PRESSURE ON YOU, ..... do it, on ur freewill.

3. Don't do favour for lady beyond what ur capacity can bear.


And lastly which is most important ,stop forcing lady to have relationship with you


If u can abide with these four advice, you would enjoy ladies you are dating, they might be few in number but u will enjoy the relationship, and u won't regret dating and giving them money.

ABC101FF:
Your No 1. is so insensitive and a poor man's way of thinking. Pay fees for people when you can afford it, it has its own reward even when you don't get appreciation from the recipient.

Abi ooo, he is talking as if fellow men or even siblings can't repay bad with good.

PROPEACE:
Many of the people saying "I will pay her school fees" will abandon their siblings and even parents and be screaming "nobody owes you anything" (wicked man's favourite slogan) whilst paying the fees of a strange woman.

So, if u see a strange person you cant do her favour.


Anyone you want to help, HE/SHE must reciprocate.

Daystar7:
Abeg name the Igbo's and under whose government? Yaradua or Jonathan or Buhari?

Jonathan.......Igbo controlled that govt, much more than Ijaw. You re free to denying but records are thre.


That's why you guys not recovered from his defeat up til now,even when the man that was defeated has moved on

Coordinating minister of economy, ( most powerful person in govt after Jonathan)
Chief of Army Staff ((most powerful person in military)
Power
Health
Aviation
CBN
SEC DG

SoNature:
If not that APC members love politics more than their lives, these are the kinds of technocrats that should be made the power minister.

Na for APC government lawyer be power and aviation ministers. Those people don't care about development; they are just after the next election!

When he was minister, what was the outcome?

I guess you just started following political events.

Few years ago, Igbo constituted substantial part of federal govt. We knew how Nigeria started running downward and for APC to now totally run it aground.

Ready to fight for everything, I mean everything you can think of......



Meanwhile, if you are single guy and ur room is neat and you can afford to eat 3 meals a day. If you know how play game very well. You will sleep with 2/3rd of girls/ladies/women in the house.

Tranquility2345:
Anybody wey believe say that Omah lay nonsense was not staged deserves to be flogged walahi. Lazy youths of these days are just so fukking dull, they can’t just use their brains. God help una for this life

In as much I'm not disputing what u said, nonetheless, don't underestimate the minds of some people (man/woman).
They go for whatever they want and show no atom of sympathy for emotional trauma that might have caused the partners.


BBN STAR THAT OPENED HER FIRM & ROUND BREAST FOR DAVIDO IN A SHOW, IN PRESENT OF CHIOMA. Is that one staged too?

Righteousness2:
People should be mindful of what they do.
The devil is out to snatch souls to hell through every available means.

Standing with ISRAEL not Political. It is BIBLICAL.
Standing with ISRAEL is standing with GOD ALMIGHTY.
It does not matter who says what or who makes noise here and there.

ISRAEL is GOD signet on the Face of the Earth.
Fighthing against ISRAEL is Fighting against GOD. You will end up killing yourself.

May you not depart for a devilish cause.

I think you should be following the footsteps of Jesus Christ, who is author and finisher of ur Faith.

In entire Bible, have u ever read where Jesus condernmed anybody before? Even if he/she is a sinner?

.......ur own utterance is totally condermed, even when the news is about killing innocent babies.


Those people killed, did u know u can preach for them and win their souls? With ur bias minds, how would you preach to them if opportunity presents itself?

You are delusional about religion and religion has taken common sense from you, just the way Hamas are doing. You are not different from Hamas you are condernming.

God1000:
Very sad, may his soul rest in peace and may God forgive his sins.

He died a hero no matter what anyone says about him and he died fighting for the freedom of Palestinians.

He sent a powerful message to Israel and his country USA.

I'm not surprised that some nigerians in their usual characteristic manners are making sadistic comments insulting him, may God have mercy on you people.

He died for nothing, his kids and wife, (if he has) only them alone, would suffer for his foolish decision.

Israeli fight started century before his great grandpa was born and he would continue, a century and more after the foolish man set himself ablaze.

.......but in naija, when our daughters come from famous family, she must include her father's name boldly and husband name tiny.

So, no video calls again to confirm authencity of the person you are chatting with before you journey all the way from Upper Volta?

Even direct with calls,you couldnt distinguish 13 years old voice from adult?


People saying anything for attentions.

Obazee always ends in inglorious way. I think it needs to check his character, perhaps he is cursed!

That's how buhari minister disgraced him on issue of religion then.

Xenry:
How do you react to people who snub you via chat and in real life, especially unexpectedly?
For me, I not only snub back, but pretend as if the person doesn't exist anymore. If it's via chat, I'll delete them.
What about you?

For u to post this, it shows u still disturb they snub u, someone you think is not exist, you won't even think about him not to talk of post about his character.

Frayoworld:
Please diz government of d Yorubas, by d Yorubas n for the Yorubas should allow pple to PEACEFULLY exercise their fundamental human right.
What's all these??

Wen will your tribe gets such wonderful and golden opportunity?
I pray next 100 years!

Still don't know the importance of ECOWAS to Nigeria state.

EreluRoz:
Why not just quietly walk away? He has right to stay faithful or unfaithful since you both ain't married and same way you have the right to dump him if you can't condone his cheating excesses.

If one door closes another one will definitely open so why choose violence?

A foolish animal given useless opinion.

When it comes to girl, she dnt have anger issues again.


The way guys reasoning and talk would make world collapse if God gives u opportunity to rule a street for one second.

Anyway, I pity people relating with you, ...... they are relating with animal in human body.....

EreluRoz:
Most men are having anger issues, this marriage was broken because of anger that was not managed. One party was always gaslighting the other.

Leave relationship alone if you find it hard to apologize when your partner is upset with you.

Is anger issues has to do with one gender?

Anybody that is planning to marry a famous/celebrities, should be planning that he/she wants to marry our instead of my husband/wife.

I will advise such individual to think deeply if he/she would be able to cope going forward with community husband/wife.

You are out of race already.

Oga, go home and lick your wound.

247man:
This is what we are saying. Give hope to the masses.

I just googled what a rice paddy means

In this context, Sanwo Olu meant.... unmilled rice and not goggles' definition you posted.

emerged01:
States begging Fg to do things that are important for the states are insane. True federalism should take it place.

Does true federalism gives liberty for state to import whatever she likes?


Import and export are perogative of federal govt in all countries of the world. Either military, democracy or monarch system.

Biglittlelois:
If you are a man that knows how to use your brain, you would know that there is no culture in Nigeria that mandates brides to crawl for one place to another to meet her in-laws, but of course, obtuse people like you would use culture as an excuse because women are involved.

If you are not taking from gutter, or perhaps you are child not claimed by any father, you would know that each family, lineage and town, has specific culture.

In other way round, perhaps a man claimed to be ur father but you are coming from a family that wife is the head of family, in which wife controls husband, you won't have in mind, going to Marriage to disrespect in-laws and trying to impose ur own way of life in ur husband's house.