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Ladipodeal:
He left the country since coronation ceremony last year says the report. Except there are evidences connecting him to the incident.

The army should desist from the brazen ways of handling civilian matters. Read a report which claims most of those declared wanted are mostly those who had spoken against the army in public space or media.

Appears there is more to the case unknown to the public. RIP to the murdered soldier.

If they spoke against military publicly, is it the reason to butcher Nigeria soldiers?

If they have their own version, why can't they go public on social media to open can of worms?

They asked you to follow them to their office ,you said no but took law into ur own hand.

If you have obeyed them, it wouldn't have degenerated to this, and at last you still did what they asked you to do initially.

When all the elected people leave the party, Abure eye will clear.

By now

I pity emotional deranged people that Naija celebrities always use their heads to play talking drum, for them to remain relevant. Such people are highly populated here on faceless forum.

Seeing Jeremy you will know that he has high tendency to enter such calamity

Security forces cooperating with notorious terrorist when it came to hospital premises....
The same way office of national security adviser allow binance executive escaped from detention.....

I wish Nigeria divides, so that all this northern elites playing with security to suffer fully for the consequences.

Ravenna:
Chioma wey Peruzzi and unilag Big boys don kpansh tire.

They want to have heart attack because lady wants sex (using her own toto, and not ur mama toto o), and she disvirging,
while they themselves, leaving a reckless life, known every ashewo joint in state of their residency.

A biblical proverbs, .....worry about shaft in someone's eye while leaving the log of wood in their own eye.

Talking as if he wasn't OBO as at that time, even if you are jobless till now, you are hot cake for naija ladies.

Yet an extravagant man without a wife at home wanted to be executive governor of a state.

Still surprising that, an established party could put this type of a man forward, for it's gubernatorial candidate.

The western nations are the one that designated Hamas as terrorists organization, yet they are the one that would quickly conderm, if nation trying to eliminate them, meanwhile, the west would do anything to quickly destroy, any form of smallest of the smallest act of terrorism in their backyard.


THESE PEOPLE COMPLETELY AWARE THAT HAMAS, WOULD STILL REGROUP AND LAUNCH ATTACK IN FUTURE,......IF THEY ATTACK IN FUTURE, THEY WOULD ALSO RUSH TO MEDIA THAT, "ISREAL HAS RIGHT TO DEFEND HERSELF.

the same thing applicable in Nigeria, WESTERN WORLD WOULD SAY THEY DON'T WANT TERRORISTS, but if naija soldiers kill them, "Aminesty international would quickly jump to defense of terrorists by putting naija govt as irresponsible for not respecting human rights in global scene.

What a hypocrisy!

erai30:
This gender is never satisfied with whatever is offered to them, well I blame the husband for accepting her back after the first incident. Once beaten, twice shy..... I hope he let's her go for good this time around.

Ur gender and the gender you are accusing who flirt most?


Perhaps, you are telling us how ur mama behaving, despite huge investment ur papa did for her

Most unfaithful among married women are wives of soldiers, I still dnt know why they have effontary to be firting anyhow and carelessly, not even mindful that the husband is a solderman that carries weapons.

Tallesty1:
Doesn't make sense to cheat on a woman you respect

You direct it to appropriate quarter, I biliv u can read and comprehend properly.

Learn how to key in to issue discussing and not digress to win cheap popularity.

LordIsaac:
I have often wondered why cheating men (who are “bread and tea winners in their homes”) fear their wives so much that they do funny things to avoid being caught. I have also noticed, however, that it is not really the case if the woman is the “bread and tea winner” and the cheat! What does this say about men?

Let me narrate a real life story, though you may not believe.

A chronic womaniser in which his work required to be transferred to different local govts within the state on a frequent basis.

So, he leaves permanently in state capital but frequently rent a room in whatever local govt they posted him to, there was one particular day, that his wife just came to his station uninvited late in the evening, in which the husband had already scheduled a lady to sleep overnight and she came from long distance.

when the wife arrived,he told her point blank that why did she come unscheduled and that, his girlfriend was in the room.

AT NIGHT, SHE SLEPT AT THE MIDDLE OF THE 2
WOMEN AND HAD SEX WITH BOTH OF THEM BEFORE DAYBREAK.

I narrated the story to let you know that, majority aren't feared their wives, only few that are respecting wife.

Dickson178:
I really appreciate your advice, thank you baba 👍🏼

Abi ooo, you re leaving up to ur name....DICK-SON

Dickson178:
This is so true! My ex still calls me for assistance, she's married with one kid! And Am expecting to fvck her next week. I go dey on colos knack her wetin no nice 😀

Infact, all the money you are supposed to use for good things in life, gather them together and give her, in other for her to give her husband to spend on his family, but make sure you keep on fucking the hole until it fill up ok.

No wonder many of u struggling to have good relationship and .ore reasons,ur marriages collapse before it even started,..... keeping on working hard oooo. After all, Ojo iku lojo isimi(the day of death is the day of rest)

OGwales:
I have said it times without numbers, before you think of fearing devil 👿 FEAR WOMEN. Those hoes aren't loyal. At least, he should have keeled her instead and submit himself to authority, e no go pass life sentence.

Anyways, the e-diot guy just wasted himself for nothing 😭😭😭

Man and woman who cheats most?

This is how election and judiciary of a nation should be, LET THE POPULAR CANDIDATE WINS, if the bad guy who is a popular wins, the voters would learn their lessons in next poll and if they don't, let him roast them, with his bad policy.

Namaster:
No DNA, NO Naming Ceremony!

Unless your bride is a virgin, chances are high you'll raise bastards. First 3 years after marriage, your wife's immediate ex still has MORE control over her vagina than you do.

Even if you marry a virgin, there is no guarantee she will not meet her "soulmate" after getting married to you.

Women marry who is ready. But Bleep whoever they like. Both men are RARELY the same person. As a result we read about brides who had lavish weddings and still book hotel rooms to get rammed in.

Best thing for men is to treat DNA tests like vaccinations, just another box to tick.

.....and the wife you met virgin cannot have another sex partners together with you after you have desflowered her?

I pity mama that that born a complete foolish man, doing gragra on every thread to get attentions on a forum that is even faceless.

Pukkalolo:
Exactly. You are totally right brother.

Even Einstein once said,...Insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results.

Telling a girl hi, hi, hi for the past 5 years is insanity.

Sometimes, we blame women for their sauciness and attitude but most times we guys are the biggest contributors to that.

I checked a girl's chat(one of girlfriend at that time). She gets lots of messages online. A lot of the messages she got from men were boring, dull, needy and pathetic. All I saw was "Hi" "Hello" "hey", “hey baby" or "you are beautiful," or "wanna Bleep?” or “hey how are you?”, or “Heyyyyyyyyy” or "hi, you look beautiful" or "Hi, Sweetheart, you look sexy" or “Hi, Can I get to know you" ....

I looked at another lady's chat, all I saw literally was "how are you sweetheart, I really need you?" Or "Come and see me please?" Or Worse, some men even randomly sent her photos of their joysticks...

Wow

Anyways...

Philosopher1979, just like you said, "At least be creative."

Being creative when chatting with women doesn't mean you are trying to impress her. It means you are being "different" from all the other simping folks out there and putting yourself on the spotlight.

Everyone is different, and our creativity is what makes us different and this is what finally makes each and every one of us unique from each other.

And your uniqueness attract a woman. And your uniqueness is what attract money to you.

It's safe to say, being creative means showing your uniqueness. For example, an employer isn't looking to employ a person who's just like him in terms of skills and experience, but rather he's looking for a person who has a different and unique value, skills and experience to offer the company.


From the dictionary I just checked for some of the synonyms of creativity, I saw words like, Original, Expressive, Engaging and so on....

Take note of those three words, Original, Expressive and Engaging.

Original:

For example, like you said, telling her "Something like Einstein theory of relativity and a film on it or a bob marley song on one love".

That's actually more Original than telling her hi, hey, hello, hi...because you're putting your real self and uniqueness out there and showing willingness to standout.

She's might not really care for what you're talking about, but she'll be curious and be willing to engage with you to know why you are telling her that.





Expressive:

For example, telling her, "I don't trust most naija girls, but there's something crazy and cute about you that caught my attention."

That's more expressive than telling her "hi, or “Heyyyyyyyyy” or "hello, you are beautiful"

Because you're expressing your mind in a unique way and she'll be intrigued and curious and be willing to engage with you to know why you said that. As they say, "curious kills the cat" or better say, "curiosity wets the pussy..."



ENGAGING:

For example, telling her, "if I tell you the part of your face that makes you more beautiful, you are gonna be surprised."

That's more fun and engaging than telling her "hi, hi, hello"

Because she'll wonder and be curious and be willing to engage with you. As they say, "curious kills the cat" or better say, "curiosity makes the pants drops..."


If you try out those examples, I'm 90 to 99 percent sure that she's gonna respond to your message.

Most times when I chat women up for the first time, they often respond, if nothing else, but out of curiosity... Because my message always appear like an EXPLOSION in their inbox; and in their mind, they be like, "who the hell is this guy?"

I'm gonna STAND OUT immediately in her eyes....

Standing out is risky because you are putting yourself on the spotlight. The spotlight attract both love and hate, both compliment and criticism, both positive and negative reactions.

Only those who are very bold and confident always put themselves on the spotlight.

If you want to start conversations with lady or anybody which you don't know from adam, "won't you say "hi" first? "Oh! You will just start your "creative or whatever" directly without any form of introduction!
Is that not a bigger insanity?


In as much as I don't see reason why guys should be disturbing ladies endlessly online, crappy you narrated up there is for a clown or immature lads.

I won't be surprised if u re still under 22yrs.

See, lady that would flow with you will flow and the one that would ignore will ignore, it has nothing to do with any formulas.

BELOW IS SCREEN SHOT OF WHAT A LADY WROTE ON ONE DATING SITE

Testiebobo:
I dont know the reason why the church of today are against lovers who are yet to get married to wear matching outfits to the church, because we are not yet married( there is no point in this). Including my parents and my gf's parents they're both against it . It is just a sign of love and physical bondness. Or does it mean another thing? am yet to understand.

Action that ur parent and church against, yet u still carried it to faceless forum, ......so, that sons and daughters of devil to validate it for you, in other for you to destroy fast .


Can online commentators love you more than ur siblings and church?

AyobamiOluwole:
So this girl has been coming to my place, eat the best food and all that. I've asked her if she has a boyfriend and she said no. I do give her money without asking her for anything on return because I could see she is not the lazy type and she is really hardworking. I am very much ok with finances and I see no issues with some of her demands.


Yesterday I called her and told her that I'm not happy and that I need cuddle only and not sex(I lost so much Dollars from futures trading that night). She later called and said she will come to my place for that reason. In my mind I was thinking this will go down as sex and all, but I don't really want sex.

All I just needed is someone to cuddle and get distracted with that's all. This is the only time I am demanding something from her.

So she came during the evening time, and later that night we went to supermarket and I got her something's to eat at home for the night. We got back home and everything was going well. We were both on the bed when I reminded her why she came. This is someone I've been doing quite a lot for without even thinking twice out of pity. She wouldn't give in and wouldn't let me know why she can't just allow me to cuddle her.

Mehn, from the loss I had earlier and all that, I got infuriated and called another girl telling to pls come over for the night. Then I told this girl to leave my house since she can be that selfish. I sent her out of my house around 10pm. She was telling me she doesn't have money to go home, I didn't care and I shut my door against her. Though I was scared letting her out on that road and that time of the night but my anger got the better part of me. It was later after getting over the whole thing I confirmed nothing happened to her from someone else.

Pls is there anything wrong with what I did?

Modified: Anger is a bad thing. I am wrong sending her away at that time of the night. This is probably the judgement I'll get 😔

I read so many people commented above me, blaming you, anyway I biiv 90% of commentators are female and for the rest that are male, they lack evil experiences of bad girl manipulations

Wainey:
Don't blame hardship, these people are just betking addicts that wants to use N100 to get 25k in less than 2hours.
The economy affects me too but you will not see me in a bet shop.

On the other hand, This could also be a betting shop that opens 24hours in a very busy place, the people got tired of betting around 3midnight, couldn't go home and decided to sleep there,

Abi ooo only miscreants stays in the betting shop as he is in his own shop or room.


Everybody that sleep in that picture are "daed when they are still roaming about.

Office that is not supposed to have a single budgetary allocation in first instance, infact, this is office that a single director, would deliver effectively.

Yet we are in time of austerity.

The disadvantages of democracy far outweight military governance in naija.

Elohorp:
Uhrobos are very peaceful people

Since all these politicial tumors in Nigeria,when have you heard their names involved

The only time the stand up for themselves,they get killed
Please don't say what you don't know

My observations goes beyond politics ooo, I'm talking about day to day relationships, though, among the four I listed above, they are still far far better than the rest.

Thoughts007:
There's a big difference between defending yourself and carrying out a genocide. why don't they kill the Hamas terrorists only. But they have to bomb hospitals and schools killing mothers and babies. over 30,000 civilians living in that geographical location of Gaza and minding their businesses before now, have been killed.
Even if it was a retaliatory attack, when does enough really becomes enough? I'm asking you because you are obviously an enabler.
This is life my brother and you dont know tomorrow, if a similar situation should happen to you, you will know how it feels and in your next world, you'll have some empathy maybe.

@ ur bolded
......because the terrorists make the innocent people their sheld. They hide inside hospitals and schools.

Even Bible confirms it, when wicked suffering, innocent would also take part.


Meanwhile, if Hamas knows that the life of their citizens are precious to them, they wouldn't have attacked, someone they know it's too big for them to defeat.

No matter the situation, you shouldn't take law into ur own hand! But one thing is for sure.


FULANI.

IJAW.

EBIRA

UROBO.

The first 3 are extremely difficult while the last is moderately difficult to leave with as neighbours/friends/co-workers.

Can you correctly interpret this picture?

Slytiger:
I don't know the guy but I sort of agree with the banner he is holding in the picture attached to the topic. Naija pastors dey overdo. That pastor has several YouTube videos where is is performing miracles similar to that of TB Joshua

And how has that becomes heart attack for you? if he chooses to do such miracles and people choose to believe him, how has that becomes ur own headache?


Society would have peace when people see any how, and not talking any how for things they say.

Why Abure wants to be sit-tight chairman of the party at all cost? Despite all sorts of allegations from every quarters, within and without. If party collapses, you are less concerned, in as much you are the oga at the top.

I think you guys say you wanted to come and right the wrongs of Nigeria?

Yet blinded followers must still following them, so far, the party would marchal their town-man into throne of power