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Kobojunkie:
Nonsense! Who fed you such nonsense? They are not easily lured into bed because of their unintelligent conversation. Many of those girls are more likely to be stupidly naive, some bordering on imbecilic. That has nothing to do with having bad communication skills. 🙄🙄🙄

2. You really believe that? WOW

Keep deceiving yourself and misleading other ignorant ladies.....I HAVE PERSONAL EXPERIENCE, I HAVE SLEPT WITH LADIES WHOM I KNEW, THEY FELL BECAUSE OF MY MANIPULATIONS CONVERSATIONS, IF NOT BECAUSE OF TALKS", I WOULDN'T HAVE SEEN COLOUR OF THEIR PANTS.

Sonnobax15:

I fully agree with her...

These days,it's almost impossible to find a lady whom you can hold a conversation with and she'd be following the flow till the end.........They are so dull to the extent that laziness have taken advantage of them as well . TBH,to find a lady whom you can have a discourse about life with these days,you may end up needing the accent and all the yeys of all the senators in Nigeria, that's if they haven't even gone into extinction by now

Worst of it all is now that prostitution has taken a huge step in our societies . Any conversation with a loose Nigerian banny must be settled in the man's bed

Very wayward lots

Meanwhile, when you advice ladies that, we are in era in which, woman should also strive to make sure she is bringing something to the table, Even if the money she is bringing is for herself alone......8/10 would be angry, majority only realising it, after 2 to 3 kids in marriage.

Kobojunkie:
What does having weak conversation skills have to do with getting into a man's bed even when one does not want to? Na rape? The educational system in that country is truly messed up. This one is supposed to be a relationship expert, abi no be so?

If you are a man, you would have understood it better, .....girls can be easily manipulated and lured into bed because of their unintelligent conversations
The woman (relationship expert) nailed it, nothing to add or subtract, it left for ladies to know when and how to draw a line, wen going into relationship with guy.

A female relationship expert highlights factors contributing to high rate of divorce, she said, when a lady enters a marriage and her expectations are not meant, she got challenged.

She also said, many of the ladies cannot hold intelligent conversations and cannot relate, and that's why, they get into man's bed even when they don't intended to, because they can't hold constructive conversations and they don't know how to draw the line.

I laf in Swahili, you are shocked because Uche is a religion man, if that is the case, Nigeria is supposed to be a crime free nation nah......how many of us that are not religious? Yet, Naija is the capital city of crime nations.

Meanwhile, how many of these wealthy Igbo men, who are not into ritual, stealing or drug/human trafficking? They nick-named their shady deals as " nah business"

iamjavadem:
Depends on the person. All are hard to quit.

But drug is the only that can affect the "takers" negative if it withdraw suddenly.

I think that makes it most difficult

February30:
Why you steal my response from Facebook?

If you say so.

But be always mindful that, we are billions of people on this planet, and the way they think are diverse,so, stop having notion that, only you can think in this way or that way.

Blitzking:
I gambled for the first time last year after loosing close to 250k I stopped and deleted the app dec 31st and I have never gambled again
I still watch porn till date even though I am married with a child
I masturbated before marriage and when my wife was pregnant cos I was going to womaniser.. she tried to satisfy me when she isn't nauseous tired or when she feels OK but it wasn't enough..don't think I can ever stop.
I don't do drugs..though i take alcohol occasionally I have some bottles of martel..don Julio and cream I haven't used in months I go just see am commot eyes ones of these days I go open am sha. I have never smoked.
Internet is life so I can never stop. I have never seen data as a big deal.
Womanising should be there cos its very powerful.

If you watching porn surely you would masturbate.

But can we say womanising is addiction? Just like eaten food is not addiction.
Well, maybe because I'm not womanising sha.

Difrent:
This is the only addiction thats hard to quit because modern day living revolves around the smartphone. The other day my phone spoil , by the next day it seem as if something is missing in my life, I was just not myself until I got the phone repaired

I imagine myself going off the internet for continuing 5 hours, it would be as if world wants to come to an end

In everything that cost in recent times, it's hike in data prices that hit me most

These betrayals need to be hung in public space to serve as deterrent for others, but trust Naija, they would soon discard the case for want of evidences

I think that would happen in a country where voters are being rational and not in a country where they vote according to how the leaders are treating them the way they like.

Peakdesign23:
None.

Can you abstain from coming online on your phone for just one day?

Firebox123:
gambling

What about cocaine addiction? I think it worse than gambling

1. Gambling.
2. Smoking cigarettes.
3.Porn watching.
4.Masturbation.
5.Drugs.
6. Phone/internet.

To me it's phone addiction is most difficult to quit.

Samantha125:
Sex, sex, sex, and food... Wow! Not fair...🤣🤣🤣

Perhaps, Ur maker sees you are just starving urself what would make you happy. You start having it unrelentingly and see urself happy. Mind you prepare for results oooo

I mean kids.

goran3310:
Women these days don't respect men anyway. Not even the ones who pay for everything. How much less do they respect men they split costs with, and especially those they would have to pay for.
On other topics, many here whine about women asking them for money. Then they entertain the thought of women paying for their outings. Or anything else for that matter.
I really can't imagine a man who is worth even a little more than spit in the dust feeling comfortable while a woman pays for anything for him.
Poverty truly has no dignity.
Poverty and dignity are inversely proportional. They never go together.

Learn how to answer questions they asked you correctly.

The question is....Do rich girls also billing guys they are dating.

Babawee:
If you have done introduction and engagement( paying of bride price in nigeria, its recognised as marriage in customary court).

I stand to be corrected on my ascertion....

I guess the father in law, would give u marriage certificate,in which various Institutions or Govts all over the world would recognise as a legally married couples.

Court.
Embassy.
Bank.
Places of work etc.

AllBlack:
this one dey one kind oh. the last four digits of my phone is the very same number.

For me, the last 3 readily available.....but only number 1.

Maybe if I get it, my happiness would skyrocketing.

Use you last four digits of your number to see what need to be happy.

For me.

MONEY.
SHOPPING.
CAR.
ALCOHOL.

allthingsgood:
When it comes to Marriage, it’s common for men (and pretty much everyone) to mess up at some point. Whether it’s a lack of communication or a lapse in judgment, navigating a relationship requires a certain level of self-awareness. Here are some prevalent mistakes men make in marriage:

1. It is a woman's duty to love, it is a man's duty to provide
A man who continuously shows affection, without anything concrete is just sitting on time bomb and wasting his time. If she is not already cheating, she will eventually leave u in frustration. Women are complex, they are to be chased before marriage. After marriage, allow her to do the chasing. Focus on providing and protecting, that is your job as a man.

2. Letting your appearance suffer
When you first started dating her, you were probably extremely aware of how you looked, smelled, and presented yourself. But now? You walk around donning your dirty boxers upandan. Okay na, she will soon get tired and leave. A woman needs to see her husband as her god. So dont get too comfortable, or she will disconnect from you.

3. Take charge
You are the lord. Allow your wife to have her say, but you must have your way. She will secretly love you even more. No woman likes an indecisive man. Be a problem solver, not weak slub.

4. Expecting your partner to be a mind-reader
Bros, women arent prophets or psychics. Sometimes even if she has an idea what you mean, she just needs to hear the words. Dont just send money to your wife without giving specific instructions/information. You will have done nothing! Tell her exactly what you mean and what you want.

5. Avoiding conflict like the plague
We get it, no one likes fighting. It’s stressful and just all around not a good time. But conflict is pretty much a given in any relationship, besides it’s how you handle it that matters. So if you find yourself leaving whenever an argument starts to brew or just nodding to appease your partner, you’re being avoidant. Your partner wants to know how you feel and you should want to know how they feel, too! Also sometimes, women like conflict for no apparent reason, they can be that ridiculous. But its there way of seeking attention.

6. Prepare for the rainy day
Dont count on your wife to rescue you when things go bad, especially financially. You may be lucky that she does, but dont count on it. The only person who will probably accept you no matter what is your mother, so treat her well. You wife will begin to show signs when things get tough, and may eventually dump you. The biggest disaster is allow a woman become your breadwinner. My brother you are done for!

7. Your wife is not your best friend
Bro get it together. She is your wife and partner, not your best friend. Forget mumu woke generation


Add yours

I subtract nos 7 and add it back as Ur best friend.

Your wife is not only Ur best friend, but Ur number 1 confidant.

Factcheck0001:
Illiteracy and hate for government will kill Nigeria faster than anything, even when this same news have been debunked by many including Reno omokri and records have been set straight the mods still move this to front page.

For those people who couldn't have access to the verified news, I bring it here for Una

"[b]President Bola Tinubu Is Not Borrowing $21 Billion

Dear Citizens of the Federal Republic of Nigeria,

Please let us respond to facts, not fake news or innuendo. Download the Federal Government's Medium-Term Expenditure Framework (MTEF) and read it yourself.

President Bola Tinubu is not about to borrow $21 Billion. The MTEF contains the borrowing plan for both the Federal and State Governments for the next three years.

In other words, the $21 billion is what the Federal Government and the 36 states can borrow over the next three years. Not they will borrow. What they can borrow. They are not even likely to take those loans. It is just a framework for what is possible.

For example, while the MTEF provides for extensive borrowings in 2025, only $1.23 billion will be borrowed externally. And that $1.23 billion will be borrowed by both the Federal and state governments from all geopolitical zones.

The MTEF only shows possible borrowing that Nigeria is entitled to based on agreements with our external borrowing partners, which must be in line with both the Fiscal Responsibility Act 2007
and the Debt Management Office. (Establishment) Act 2003.

And the Borrowing Rolling Plan ties such possible borrowings by the Federal and State Governments to specific projects.

For actual borrowings, Nigerians should look at the budgets of both the Federal and State Governments.

Therefore, the sensational headlines proclaiming that President Tinubu is to borrow $21 billion are both fake and alarmist.

Again, I urge Nigerians to read the MTEF and the 2025 Appropriation Act.

President Bola Tinubu is a First-Class Cum Laude accountant adept at securing finances at the best rates from the most suitable lenders and for the right purposes.

Under such a skilled professional hand, Nigerians can expect their national debt to reduce, not increase.

Finally, Nigerians should note that many opposition media and influencers know that many of our people sadly do not read and are, therefore, susceptible to manipulation via misinformation and propaganda.

Thus, I urge the public to read as much as possible and verify from official sources before they make conclusions based on sensational headlines.

Reno Omokri

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I pity who no pity, while Omokri disinforming public for goodies goodies is getting from the govt, for you, you are suffering and smiling from wicked govt.

Yet the 3 national daily below, take cognisance of Tribune.... paragraph 2 and 3.

Legally NO

But wen kids involved, both parents aware and they leaving like couple, they are husband and wife, 75% of this in existence in Naija currently.

Meanwhile, if you do introduction and latter engagement, without going to church, mosque or registry, it still not a marriage

slimfit1:
Tinubu should have used this man shine, in the corruption fight boost his government profile but maybe he has something he can use to hold his balls.

Tinubu can't fight corrupt politicians, but would decimate any politicians who he sees as threat to his government.

Ekiti bigger than Ondo.

Ebony triples Imo.

This statistic is not clear to me, how they being generated o.

Believe this story crew, over to you.

Still not know why human beings would be defending criminals just because the perpetrators come from his tribe or religion. (The victims are also from the same tribe/religion you claim, you hold in high esteem and which you are defending)

Haa! May God save us oooooo.

BlocksNG:
If Trump is dumb, what do we call a senile president of Nigeria who has never and will never grant a live interview?

Always being on Truth social is Ur major achievement? Indeed, masses need to continue enjoy evil leaders.

I will advise you to go and read the entire story on BBC. In the words of HAVARD,... after all, such donations are not gifts, they are giving us for "researches" (these are the researches that are making AMERICA GREAT AND FIRST AMONG EQUAL, because, they are being used by COMPANIES, MEDICAL, TECHNOLOGY among others, to propel USA stronger and stronger, now, bastard has arrived the throne and ready to make the hardworking of his forefathers to go in vain.

NB. All these magnificent discoverery are not just coming to being free of charge, is as a result of financial commitments they are giving universities and research institutions, perhaps you think America is like Naija, where money given to them for research always enter pocket of professors and their concubines.

Next time, you won't vote base on gender sentiment but competency.

A man who once led you with no positive things to point to, but failure and mal-adminstration, most especially during COVID 19.........voters still preferred such unstable character to lead them.

Enjoy your America first in panick mode and turbulence. The BREXIT of yesteryears, where has it taken Britain reach? How has that improved their economy than the remaining Euro?