₦airaland Forum

Those that are supposed to go if you truly want PDP back alive.

ATIKU.
WIKE.
DAMANGUN.


These 3 individual's time has expired, their continuing staying in the party, would continue to breed toxic and disaffection.

samuelson06:
Leave English. Leg chains on women in Nigeria is different from leg chains on women in other places. Initially, it was adopted by lesbians (they are still prostitutes by the way), later runs/hook up girls keyed into it.

Go do your research. Which sample is small or unrepresentative? Take note that he's not saying women are prostitutes. He's only saying that ladies who wear leg chains are prostitutes. So, I still challenge you to go do a research and if the result doesn't return 80-90% positive then feel free to counter him, but I bet you 80-90% of ladies with chains on their leg are prostitutes—whether married or unmarried, and you can easily generalize such result to the larger population with the same lifestyle.

98% are prostitute sleep with "men" 1% are ogbange 1% lesbian. Let him continuing to deceive himself.

favour32:
For Nigeria,
leg chain mean something.
Most families go discourage their sons from marrying a leg chain girl.
Ask yourself why?

Those that are arguing and attacking, how many of them would marry girls with leg chains? Check their past comments....they are what belong to the street shall go back to the street crew.

If they don't opposite every post on forum, they would have peace of mind.

belikewater:
Before adopting a fashion alien to your culture try and understand what it signifies, although wearing an anklet in other cultures has nothing to do with promiscuity however you can be assured that whatever enters the Nigerian space would automatically get corrupted so I believe the man of God on this one, if you doubt him go around and do your own data-gathering.

,...what the pastor said is clear even to the blind, but some people here must argue to proof a point, meanwhile, let say the pastor says, woman can wear leg chain, the same people attacking pastor her, would also attack him for saying that. Some are saying India and Iran,.....I don't know wen Nigerian become India.

Our fore father said....one man food is another man poison.

Christane:
Wat really pop up in most people's head wen dey see a lady with leg chain is dat ..she is a prostitute but we cant ascertain for sure .. but I do believe dat most of dem might not be into prostitution...dey might be using it for fashion ...but truly leg chain sense d wrong signal ...

But will a responsible lady be putting on a leg chain

Dat is a question for another day

The word prostitution in that statement, not necessarily she is prostituting, but she sleeps with different men. Even women know the kind of eye people use to look at women with leg chains......if you know people see woman wearing leg chain as prostitute and you still says such dressing is your favourite, it means you are not far from wayward girl.

God1000:
https://punchng.com/ladies-who-wear-leg-chains-are-prostitutes-says-pastor-ibiyeomie/?

Nlfpmod mynd44

No virtuous lady would be wearing leg chain, if she is not wayward, she is not far from ogbange, perhaps lesbian.

Your outward appearances, say alot about your inner mind, and what you capable of doing.

Wen we were young, I knew a street brother then, who slept with anything in skirt..... whenever he saw lady/woman from distance, he would tell us this woman, is a fornicator/ cheap woman,.....8/10 of such women, ended up in his bed. the way you dressing says alot about your personality.

Apcshit:
Ecowas without burkinafaso .is that one still ecowas

Wen she was there, what was her benefits, and having left it, who feels the impact? Bad rubbish to good riddance!

We still need your tears on euro without Britain ok. Abi u never hear Brexit?

Yet, wen they sacked kyari and his gang, people were weeping for hausa-yoruba-igbo appointments, Even the wailers were not concerned about the impact of the positions to their welfare.

press9jatv:
definitely character is like a smoke, it always reveals itself. There's no way you are virgin that you won't activate good characters and fear of God. You never experienced virgin ladies that is enjoying their marriage peacefully.

Go and re-read my post, I have given 3 examples of virgin I know.

For the first example......wen my friend, a psychologist interviewed her.....she confessed to him, she only wanted to take virginity to husband and not for the purpose of virtuousness.

Meanwhile, some girls remain virgin, out of fear from parents not purpose of good girls.

I knew a teenage girl in this category,.....her mother always threatening her and testing her virginity from time to time, until she enters university......



Human behaviours too complex for someone to just take it as one direction

press9jatv:
not true here, 90% of virgin wife's are always submissive and have the fear of God.

I pity who no pity you.

Every woman is once a virgin, even brothel ashewo.

In as much beings a virgin is a pride for parents and husband,..... virginity is a different ball game from character.

I knew a lady that his husband married virgin,....after a year into marriage, she is not only thrones in his flesh, she is cheating in her marriage.


Just 1 year into marriage oooo

I know another two different women that married as virgin, though, their is catch them young, after few years of marriage, they become public dogs. One of them them, almost rape my friend, even though she still in her marriage.

Omoawoke:
Omoh, bad wives dey this life oo


Now all the girls single will be crying on top someone neck to marry them

I have so many girls on my neck, crying and doing the nicest things just to get a ring from me…. So na like this most of them end up…
You will see them with pretty faces and sexy shapes, but na wickedness dey their mind…

It still doesn't stop you to get their real character if you want,.....as you said, pretty face and sexy shape, the two won't allow you to focus on character and attitude.

What you won't do as husband, don't start it as boyfriend.

GoodSpirit:
They are watching movies thinking what they do in movies is what happens in real life... divorce proceedings take years to accomplish

It takes years wen one partner is frustrating the process, .......if the two not frustrating it, it comes out less than a year.


Meanwhile, the partners would have even discarded before the divorce finalist.

Toyin Aimaku and her first husband(Adeniyi )case.

coleon:
Don't blame PDP blame the corrupt Nigerian judiciary, Woke has a court judgement that forbids the PDP from suspending or expelling him from the party.
He owns the judiciary that's why he builds houses for judges in Abuja while he's unable to pay pensioners their pension.

So, he also has court judgement to him redundant in the party......did you know the meaning of redundancy?

Learn how to take responsibility to Ur own failure and stop putting all blames on external factors.

How people married more than one wife and still put them under the same house is still unclear to me.

Suicideboy:
you don't know the meaning of the word you mentioned


toasting a girl on social media is dumb

Thinking the way you are thinking is super dumb.

THE GIRLS YOU SEE IN YOUR NEIBOUGHOOD, CHURCH, MARKET,SHOPS ARE THE INE ON SOCIAL.

if you think is good to toast a student you see physical but dumb to toast same girl on school WhatsApp group or school Facebook group.....it show Ur thinking faculty is incoherent.

PrincessJolade:
So you believed the arrangee 'fight' between Wike and Seyi Makinde? It is obvious that Nigerians are too shallow. For your information, both Seyi and Wike are working for Tinubu. Seyi Makinde is 'contesting' for president just to make sure that Atiku don't lay his hands again on the party ticket. All these charades are part of the plots to perpetually keep the PDP from one crises to the other until after 2027. I thought you are wiser than this. Expect more public mudslinging between Wike and Seyi Makinde. All na game.

DECEIVING urself ok,.....I doubt if you know politicians working with interest, and not personality,.....for me to work for you last year, doesn't guarantee, I will work for you this year.


Seyi makinde has since part way with both Wike and Tinubu.

I biliv they are working towards Seyi/Bala presidency.

If you don't allow him to leave the party, you would allow him to pull down the party.

A party man who is in govt of opposition, which he has said it several times, that he would work for his boss, the same boss that Ur party wants to contest against in 2027.

The way these people thinking is beyond comprehension.

You guys never ready, you are still acting comedy, if you still thinking Wike is part of PDP or you can still reconcile him to work for you in 2027.

OGA awarded the contract to company he and his son are part of, in other to reap Nigeria bountifuly....... even though baba the time baba would still spend on earth cannot up to the one he already spent, yet he wants to run Naija aground before he goes back to his creator.

Pallazzo:
Sue them $3,000,000 for snapping you without your permission.

Did u read where it was stated in the story that USA laws surport the plaintiff? Did you know the meaning of plaintiff?

You guys must opposite everything posted to let people know you are contributing, yet you gathered 38 likes already, what a people on faceless forum!

PHIPEX:
JAMB is a huge disappointment. You reschedule an exam impromptu forgetting many of these students need to travel across states and cities to write the exams. For some of these students, they needed time to make an adequate accommodation arrangement.

Easier to conderm wen u think myopically. In fact, eternal wailer must find reasonable to wail perpetually.


Before they rescheduled it, they said it publicly that the time is tight already, WAEC and latter NECO already taken the available space...... which is two months combined, if they don't squized into that tiny space to accommodate, you will still come online to rant and condemn.

SprinceARMANI:
I have this colleague at work(A lady) she has all a good woman should have skills and character wise, Thou we’ve not been too close prior to this moment but few weeks ago I noticed that this lady has been finding it convenient and relaxing staying around me most especially spending time in my office with me.

I Actually love this lady from onset but base on my principle which is “I don’t date at work place” I have always give her this strict face and boundaries.

But Sincerely speaking, As I move more closer to her I find her more attractive to me, She is single and I really wish I can wife her( Not for dating alone) I am ready to even settle down with what I have.

Thou we don’t talk about Love or relationships anytime we are together, But with indications it shows she like me just naturally, She address me as her only confided at that our organization, She prefer staying with me in my office during her free period.


Guy I need advice on what to do please 🤔🤔 Should I talk to her about relationship?

What if she said NO🥺🥺

My fear is me getting to loose my respect, Just maybe if she feels I am not suitable for and she says No.


Mind You we are bother colleagues but I am higher than her in Rank and in duty.

A man of no principle. With your principle, it would surely end in disgrace for you.

Why? Because having fulfilled your sexual fantasies in her, your eyes would now clear, to leave the relationship, it would hard, to continue the relationship, it would difficult as well, because of ur principle.
The girl would make the relationship opens, she would start disrespecting you, and if you don't careful, you will also loose ur respect before her friends.


Meanwhile, lesson learnt here........man and woman who are not family, shouldn't become close friends, closeness does bring feelings which would eventually lead to relationship(sex)

You said falling in love for women is gradual, yes, but many using that opportunity to exploit men to the last kobo and later disposed him without seeing ordinary colour of pant. In fact, they even mocking behind how they suffocate before they discarded him

Tip to guys...... girls/woman who doesn't say yes for you at first, but telling you to give her time.....you too should endeavour not spend "shishi" for her until she is ready to date you.

That style is a win-win for both of you, in fact, not only your financial commitment,even emotional and times, you too, should guide them jealously, not to waste them on selfish and useless person, who hides under,"give me time or that's, woman nature, to exploit you.

It gets to the head of self acclaimed Democrat and freedom fighter, he turns every organ of govt to his puppets.

iwaeda:
It will favour me and my family. Tinubu ruined everything, but they are endorsing him for 2nd term. Insecurity will not abate, I laugh at youth who are supporting their oppressors. Nlfpmod, go to shoprite at Oniru, Osapa, Sangotedo and Ikeja, same story.

Keep disturbing God while your godfather in govt dishing out evil policies.

God has done his best for your country, it left for both the voters and leaders to make their country bearable for citizens.

AS IT STANDS NOW, ONE OF ANTIDOTES FOR LEADERSHIP PROBLEM NOW IS, IF 80% OF CITIZENS START TALKING HOW BAD TINUBU IS, AS A PRESIDENT. WITH THAT, HE MIGHT CHANGE HIS POLICY FOR THE SAKE OF CITIZENS, BUT IF YOU CONTINUE THINK THE MAN IS YOUR TRIBE OR RELIGION AND REFUSE TO BLAME HIM, A TIME IS COMING,YOU AND YOUR FAMILY WON'T BE ABLE TO BUY DATA, BEFORE YOU KNOW WE WON'T BE ABLE TO SEE YOUR TRACES ON NAIRALAND.

apprentist:
Hello Guys, let me first of all say the cliché "It is well".

Now let we start.
I met my wife years back just before the COVID-19 year during which we dated for almost a year and then eventually got married just when the lock down was reducing. I started this story this way because I wanted to emphasis that during that period, we had so much time to bond and she was mostly available to me as she only worked on shifts 2 to 3 days per week.
We could sit and talk for long, go out at late nights and have great s*x as frequently as we needed.

This I think gave me a mirage of an anticipated marriage life so I didn't hesitate to take it a step further ones the lockdown was relaxed.
I also made it clear to her that her job would have to give way when their kids start coming as I had plans to assist her further her edu and also put up a biz for her.

Speed up to after COVID-19, she resumed work which till this day demands 5 days a week and 2 to 3 Saturdays per month all from 7:45am till 5pm. Often times she'd return home tired and would manage to make dinner and off to bed till the next day circle continues.
It became worse when we started having children. I drive them to school as early as 7:40am before dropping her off at her job. And then I'll pick them up by 5:30pm or 6pm when she's done with her job for the day (let me mention that this extends to public holidays and school holidays or breaks).

I got tired and in December 2025 I told her she has to quit the job. My plan was to enroll her back into a private school after my kids are Upto 4 years as one of them still depends on breast milk. I also gave her the option of starting a business which I understand is a dynamic move and might not be successful, but at this stage of my life it's something I could afford to risk and so I didn't mind.

I must also mention that out of a 100% sex, 50% is not mutual as I could sense she isn't interested and 40% is a denial as she would rather deny me of s*x with the excuse that she is tired.

Simply put, I'm tired.
I'm a Christian and divorce isn't an option. Also I can't cheat, but I am starved of s*x and my kids are not given the attention they deserve.
Pls advice me

Your last paragraph, the option is to continue endure. Meanwhile, one thing I know about women, if they don't want sex from you, they give 1001 reasons ,but if they want sex, even in prison they find way to give you