₦airaland Forum

JackDaAlienz:
2 fine yellow sissi living in opposite me. Tonight for some reason they decided to quarrel serious quarrel and in the process started exposing their dark secrets.

The good news is the one that is my spec was accused of doing Hooks and in the process she accepted and they both started exposing each other.
It's over and hour and they are still yell at each other cursing each other.
I'm just enjoying the whole secret spillage with my ear glued to the window.

Now I know my neighbour is a Hooks ambassador how do I approach her now that her matter don cast fir open?

LillyandDaisy:
To be me been a drunkard doesn’t make you a good or a bad husband, you just have to be responsible… wise women understand

Kobojunkie:
I think the answer is fear & anxiety. From what I have seen, most women who settle for drunks are too afraid to go it alone. Yes, they settle because they have had it drummed into their heads that they must have a man in their life. Even though somewhere in the back of their minds, they realize they are truly alone with such men, they convince themselves that it is at least OK that they have ticked the marriage box with even that one they have settled with. These women find it hard in such cases to take the step towards freedom because they are terrified of what awaits them on the other side.

Tohsynetita1:
I met a student of mine while I was taking some jamb classes lately and she told me that those times, she had crush for me. She said I was afraid of wooing her.
I laughed, if not for self determination and seriousness if I had used sex to worsen your posture, physically and mentally ,what would you say when you see me now.
Some ladies think being nice is foolish.

Lifestone:
This guy is just rambling with no cohesion. I think Alafin should quickly remove this guy before he causes more damage. The entire stuff he wrote up there has no meaning and is not relevant to the current discussion.
The 48hours he gave Ooni has expired and Ooni hasn't reversed the appointment he gave Okanlomo Oduaa.
I was expecting the punishment Alafin was going to dish out to Ooni. Abi na only loud mouth.

MufasaLion:
DO NOT TAKE A NGERIAN WOMAN ABROAD. YOU WILL REGRET.

Numerouno94:
Did u just referred to Buhari as trustworthy? After scamming Nigerians wit fake promises? Wow.

Adegbem01:
Sense far from you op

Adegbem01:
Sense far from you op

Ericmaestrooffi:
Thank you, I’m glad you see things from my perspective but I have a question and I’ll be glad if you can advise on that.

What about your ex partner siblings , is it also necessary to cut them off. One of my ex girlfriend’s sister still chats me till date, like she regularly checks up on me and stuff like that. If I ignore her messages she’ll send multiple messages or even call to see if I’m ok.

marlow1962:
We don't care and we don't want to know.

Girls that spills such are either products of single motherhood or a broken home (of which I have none against them)

Gabrielshow24:
😂😂😂 This is comedy gold. So she has all the ‘demand’ but somehow can’t ‘settle’ down? Meanwhile, men with little to no demand but endless ‘supply’ seem to be the ones making it work? 🤷

Let’s be real: girls have it easy compared to men 👀. They’re the custodians of ‘supply,’ while men keep demanding—often at the expense of their actual worldly supplies 🤕. Men are isolated; even fellow men rarely help. When war breaks out, it’s men who are sent. Men maintain the infrastructure of the world, take on the most brutal, thankless jobs 🤦🏾‍♂️, all just to make life easier for some ‘35-year-old supplier’ still pretending the market is unfair.

Who really has it harder? 🤷 Please. Whatever ‘difficulty’ she faces is child’s play. The toughest thing she has to endure is being tested with multiple choices—and because most of them no get sense, they’ll almost always pick wrong 😂. The irony? Even their ‘worst choices’ still have more suitors lining up than a hardworking man who breaks his back daily. That’s not struggle, that’s luxury👀 masquerading as hardship 💀.

nurudeen181:
You got it wrong. When they say feared, it doesn't have to be a soldier. A soldier that can leave his family for months is mostly unalive to her so how is he feared? He's only feared when he's around. A feared man is that man that takes no nonsense. As a matter of fact, soldiers dont have that liberty to do their wife as they like, you go notice say na army dey do soldier man marriage. How them go take allow you mess their wife up

Analog95:
Hello guys, I humbly need you all view on this. All my life I have always wanted to be a lecturer, so early this year (January, 2025), I finally got awarded PhD in Applied Mathematics. Though I had my first degree in Mechanical Engineering, masters in Applied Mathematics with specialization in fluid dynamics and PhD in Applied Mathematics with specialization in fluid dynamics as well. During my study, I run a tutorial centre and making cool money from teaching mechanical engineering and mathematics students. So after obtaining my PhD I started sending out my CV to people I know in institutions, though most are of the opinion that I shouldn't have switched from mechanical engineering to mathematics that it will give me problem.

Around January 2025, immediately after my PhD oral examination, my supervisor linked me up with the rector of a polytechnic to go submit my CV to him, which I did, and according to the rector, he told me that it is not matter of CV for now, because most people that he employed as assistant lecturers, they really don't have much to pay them and the governor of the state has promised that he will do recruitment for the polytechnic around March because of accreditation processes, so during that recruitment, I can be employed. Fast forward to March, the accreditation went on and I wasn't informed if the recruitment was later done (you know all this underground stuffs), so I later got my mind off the institution and look at for another university in other states which I was promised also that once there is directives to start recruitment, I will be employed.

On the 3rd of july, 2025, I got a call from someone from the polytechnic, telling me to come to the personnel department as soon as possible with my credentials, when I got there, he collected photocopies of my credentials and on sighting the mechanical engineering as first degree, he said which department do I want and I said mathematics and he said why not mechanical engineering where I had my foundation, so I said I preferred mathematics because since I switched to mathematics, I have published 11 academic journal with 7 of them Scopus rated in Q1, and I have also attended 7 seminars with certificate to back them up, and I have also been a member of the Nigerian mathematical society (NMS), so he said they will get back to me.

Since then I haven't heard anything. After a month, I made a call to the person that I submitted my credentials to at the personnel department, that I haven't heard from them and he said "sebi we are the one that called you ourself, the process is ongoing and once we are ready, we will definitely call you back". But I haven't heard from them still. It is almost two months now since I submitted the credentials and I am already losing faith.

I am just confused, could my changing from engineering to science be hindering me from getting a lecturing position? If it is, does it make sense to go back and obtain another master and PhD in mechanical engineering and just forget about the mathematics? Or just forget about lecturing and focus on my tutorials, meanwhile I make more than 500k monthly from the tutorial because it is in school area, but I don't want to be a tutor forever, not even with a PhD.

chiagozien:
She no spend one naira in the marriage so it will be easier for her to be misbehaving and walk away easily.




If not for kids men gain nothing in marriage.

Procashtips:
Seems topics like this aren't meant for the Nairaland audience.

Procashtips:
The wife is currently handling the bills which comes with it's own consequences.

Fiscus105:
What about the good husband or bad husband?
You think woman not cheat with feared husband? Oga go barracks and see how civilians are messing up soldier's wives, in every cheap-cheap guest house.
What about touts & hooligans wives, 7/10 involve in infidelity, even babalawo and king wives.

NB.Check below, in every rumours thre is element of truth.

Hassanmaye:
Women when they are in their prime They won't investigate and get responsible man to marry na bad boys They want, you know "good guys" are boring, They will later settle drug addicts