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23 years old teenage boy dating 44 yrs old woman. Has scarcity of men reached that level?

DoctorStanley:
Too easy.
Everybody will say the feared, and that's the right answer!

What about the good husband or bad husband?
You think women that are married to feared husbands are not cheating? Oga, go barracks and see how civilians are messing up soldier's wives in cheap-cheap guest houses. What about touts & hooligans' wives? 7/10 involve in infidelity, even babalawo and king wives.

NB.Check below, in every rumours thre is element of truth.

Freshtruth:
She ordered this on her list date who your next step in action broooo

She will pay for it on that very first date.

Assuming all these four men are financially stable to run a family, who among them,bis likely to have faithful wife? And why?


I choose nos 4. "The fear". Woman needs to fear her husband in other not even thinking if cross her boundary, let alone infidelity.

openmyway:
nothing you won tell me na you be the man

I tell the woman is your mum.

merits:
It is you abeg stop lieing how did get to know if not two of you are birds of the same feather 🪶 a proverb says "show me your friend and I will tell you who are" bird or the same feather flocks together.

And if it's me, will you get heart attack ? Doing gragra as if I send him, oh, Mr Angel, you and all your friends are perfectly created. Abeg shift and let human beings contribute. Hypocrites that doing worst, but would be claiming angel on social media.

BlackViper:
https://www.arise.tv/naptip-intercepts-25-women-bound-for-saudi-arabia-in-suspected-trafficking-plot/

25 women were picked in front of popular hotel, to be transported to so- called holiest land. To do what? If they are deceiving, it left for you to continuing DECEIVING yourself.

DiamondsAreFore:
https://saharareporters.com/2025/08/19/kano-islamic-police-hisbah-arrests-27-men-35-women-taking-advantage-rain-enjoy

Govt inside govt, sub-govt that supreme to the main govt.

occfx:
Ukraine believes living in captivity is as good as dead. Exactly how 3m igbos sacrificed themselves for freedom yet could not get it. I believe Ukraine will surrender but they will surrender in pain and regret. The war will continue another day.

If a soldier wants to snatch your legally wife together with your kids, I'm very-very sure, you will quickly leave them for him, since it's very dangerous to fight such individual, even when he crosses his boundaries.

You prefer to loose your wife together with your children for soldiers, rather that fight him to take back your blood.

Cowardice dies many times before he finally dies, but hero dies once.

May we not leave and die like a coward.

What about north Koreas that reported they died massively? Are they not part of casualities.

Daptboy:
Hanging out is a social exercise if I may put it that way... But it's not all about spending much..

First off, choose a closer location it's not necessary the joint should be 20mins away, you can choose a place close to your area and hangout..

Second, you don't need to buy much drinks, a bottle of rum or whiskey or vodka with coke is okay... Get disposable cups you're good to go..

Thirdly, who needs a bucket of chicken or plate of food that costs #4,500 etc.. No one bro, you don't need that..

Fourth, "hang out at home.." Yes you heard me... It may sound strange to you but right now it's the best place to chill... You got fridge, Gen, kitchen with food stuffs, you can use 10k to do it..

Also home hangout means safety, you guys will be indoors playing music, laughing and drinking, anytime your friends are tired, bolt will pick them from your house to theirs...

My 2cent

Abi......I think the ultimate aim of hangout is to discuss extensively offline and not to drink and eat like glutton.

Infact, a bottle of "bottled water" each is enough to talk for 2 hours, if truly you want to be economical with Ur pocket.

femi4:
You think being a hooligan doesn't require skills

You think to sit down at home doing nothing, doesn't require skills? If you are hardworking type, just sit down at home for 3 days and see how it would be.

yemmit90:
Nigerians are reflection of those rulling them. See the kind of criteria someone is putting up as reason for poverty.

While it is important to emphasis on individual struggles as regards to their development, society plays a pivotal role in determination of what her citizens will become. Nigerians are not lazy at all, some don't even have work to do even though they wanted to work. Some prefer to stay at home because they will use all their pays on transportation.

Majority of successful people today normally get opportunity from somewhere that changed their lives for good. Is it the same youths you pay less than 70k per months that you are expected to achieve something tangible in life withiout being into fraud or engage in social vises.

A wise people knows that societies, backgrounds and opportunities along the journey of life determine how far an individual can go in life.

If you studies American and European system, you will never blame your country men for being poor again.

Just I highlighted above, blaming others for your woes. As if, whole lot of people are not poor in USA and other advanced democracies, I guess you will also blame their established govts for that.

Your number 1 enemy is you, wen you start blaming everyone but urself, ur failure would be incurable.

femi4:
The answer is not there

The answer is NO SKILL

No skill = No problem solved = No money

All these motor park union leaders, they don't get any skills yet they swim in millions, ( many of them are not even driver, but because of the hooligans jobs they are doing for Gov)

Everyone wants to be lord and saviour in Naija republic. Africans with slave-like mentality in their leadership style.

Godsonkemz:
PHCN will not even allow you to enjoy the TV all day in your comfort zone.

I guess you are leaving in 80's, what about phone, are people not watching films all days on phone? Ladies are guilty of this mostly.

Omalicious1:
All...the most is BLAMING OTHERS...AND COMFORT ZONE. Many are guilty of this

Even in marital failures, blaming others contribute significantly, couples who have much more kids, they can cater for, would start blaming govt and family member that are doing well with little children they can care for.

Is man not abandoned wife and go for small small girls? Infact, when money come, is man not going for second wife and abandon wife that she stay with him during the time of struggles.

Why going for marriage wen u know, you still want to be enjoying your papa name?

Therock5555:
If you want to chop plenty women money, suggest foolish things to her, it would sound very pleasing....


Now ask this lady why she quench 2k to remove pant wey any other male fit do for free, she'll answer you, "cause it's Chris Breezy".

U don't know how women feel around popular person. They can't control their feelings when they meet famous person, though, not all, but larger percentage.
Woman falls for popular person much more than handsome dudes.

Judolisco:
The soldier wants your wife and kids.... And there's room for negotiation, instead u chose to fight the soldier even though u know u won't win, u don't have the resources to fight him..... Now you've not only lost your wife but also your kids... Wisdom is profitable to direct....

Cowardice cowardice cowardice, cowardice dies several times before he finally dies, but hero dies once. May we not be cowardice for our generation.

I like to have conversations with braves and not simp.

Bye.

Judolisco:
he is mad for wanting peace? D only mad people here are people who pushed a dwarf country like Ukraine to fight Russia.... U all seat in d comfort of your house when people are in war torned countries... What did d previous administration do about the war?

If a soldier wants to snatch your legally married wife together with your 2 kids. I guess you will push your wife and children to him, since it's mad for you to fight soldier, even wen he goes beyond his boundary.

I still don't know why women easily melt for men who are famous, they can do anything for them. All these Nigeria actors that are not even rich, the way they are recklessly lifestyle with ladies ehn. Not limited to celebrities, even pastors/imams.

muykem:
US will regret ever voting for Donald Trump again.

Voting a mad man to lead most exalted position? Highly incredible, not even a lunatic that has been tested and failed once
Voters are mad, that's why I don't blame how, some wicked rulers are leading different nations the world with iron fist.

MrSly:
What can you say about the current Okada man carrying you?

That one doesn't even qualify to be nation's Okada man.

Softmirror:
The letter in the middle should be changed to D please.

Why? Is B not comes after A? Besides, it is those that already finished, any magic they might have inside them.

If you meet all of these Okada men on the road, which of them you will allow to carry you to your destination and why?

Me, I will choose 'B' because it is the least clueless among them.

Ordinary their Special Assistant pay is way bigger than Professor pay.

kokoA:
They force innocent children in to ridiculous "academic gowns" to extort monies from their parents. Allow children to be children, a child just want to play, "finish my food" and learn that's all. The real graduation is after first degree.

It has even gone to the level, in which, they would be competing from one school to another, the kind of gifts they share in your school, meanwhile, the gifts also money they took from parents ooo. Trust some illiterate parents, they too would be happy from gifts inform of exploitation they got from their children proprietors.

Long overdue, infact, they should extend it to secondary school, if you want to do graduation, may sure you enter university and come out as a graduate.


Enough of exploitation here and there.