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Romance › Re: What Are Those Things You Have Deciced To/not Do In Your Nxt Relationship by fitzmayowa: 1:01am On Jan 09, 2013
Aitty: In my next relationship, i will go with God. I will shun pre-marital sex. I have come to realise that you can tie any man down by offering him your body. It is like giving a precious jewel to the swine. He just trample on it.
Hmmmmmmmmmmmm
Romance › Re: If You Got A Call From Your Very First Gal Or Guy, How Will You Feel? by fitzmayowa: 12:55am On Jan 09, 2013
You can always give her a call just for old time sake, but i would suggest you thread carefully though.
Romance › Re: I Need A Lady ... by fitzmayowa: 12:38am On Jan 09, 2013
*justpassing*
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: I Dey Find E- Girlfriend! by fitzmayowa: 12:37am On Jan 09, 2013
undecided
Romance › Re: Question For Guys by fitzmayowa: 12:35am On Jan 09, 2013
This is really incredible shocked
Romance › Re: Break Up With Your Guy/girl And Get A Hummer Jeep + 2 Bedroom House. by fitzmayowa: 12:33am On Jan 09, 2013
undecided
Romance › Re: Will U Marry A Girl That Sleep With Other Man To Get U Job Or Contract by fitzmayowa: 7:25pm On Jan 08, 2013
One word

NO angry
Romance › Re: Who Enjoys Dating, More Boys Or Girls? by fitzmayowa: 7:21pm On Jan 08, 2013
seunfly: In many cases it is girls that enjoy the thing ooO! Cos they just got new ATM be that.
LWKMD grin
Romance › Re: Loneliness Or Desperation? by fitzmayowa: 7:20pm On Jan 08, 2013
Lolaabokoku: i wonder ooo, he still dey drink panadol to another man headache
My thoughts exactly
Romance › Re: Why Do People Return Their Ex Pics? by fitzmayowa: 7:17pm On Jan 08, 2013
cindyrella: Why return them when it is easier to set them on fire! grin
I wonder oooooooo BTW why would you do that huh
Romance › Re: Can I Get A Husband Online? by fitzmayowa: 7:01pm On Jan 08, 2013
You can get a man for yourself online, but you have to have it at the back of your mind that it does not work for everyone.
Art, Graphics & Video › Re: Liu Bolin, The "Invisible" Photographer by fitzmayowa: 6:41pm On Jan 08, 2013
This is really cool
Food › Re: Wierd Substance In Five-Alive Juice (Picture) by fitzmayowa: 9:16pm On Jan 04, 2013
Take juice to the nearest NAFDAC office.
Entertainment › Re: An Open Letter To Tonto Dikeh From An Igbo Man By Onyeka Nwelue by fitzmayowa: 9:10pm On Jan 04, 2013
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Politics › Re: Picture Of Gov. Wada's Wrecked Car by fitzmayowa: 2:30pm On Dec 30, 2012
fitzmayowa: Is it me or something, another northern governor involved in an auto crash. May God save northern governors. Amen
Politics › Re: Picture Of Gov. Wada's Wrecked Car by fitzmayowa: 2:28pm On Dec 30, 2012
Is it me or something, another northern governor involved in an auto crash. May God save northern governors. Amen
Jokes Etc › Re: Eggs In A Bottle: How Did This Happen ? (see Pic) by fitzmayowa: 1:53pm On Dec 30, 2012
How does this affect the price of GARRIhuh angry

PS: Am expecting a ban *Hisses*
Romance › Re: For Ladies Eager To Marry Next Year by fitzmayowa: 1:38am On Dec 26, 2012
Romance › Re: Am Confused Guys!!!! What Should I Do? by fitzmayowa: 1:14am On Dec 26, 2012
k2039: I have been in your shoes so I know how you feel.

Isaiah 4:1 gives me hope always, we have more ladies than men.

You will find someone better than her, trust me you will, there are thousands of ladies like her and their are even more who are better than her.

Only of recent did one of my crush let me know she had a boyfriend, all I did was move her phone number to my sim, no calls and sms, after a week I got over her.

Channel your energy to being the best you can in everything you do and you will be surprised at the quality and caliber of girls that will chase you.
SECONDED
Romance › Re: A 15 Year Old Girl Claiming She Loves Me So Much by fitzmayowa: 1:00am On Dec 26, 2012
undecided
Romance › Re: Would You Marry A Woman Desperate To Get Married And Why? by fitzmayowa: 12:07pm On Dec 15, 2012
jhydebaba: On several occasions I have "Usain Bolt" my Girlfriends who have attained desperation age (29yrs upward). I can never subject my life to eternal slavery/desperation.
on point
Foreign Affairs › Re: Gunman Kills 27 Including Children At An Elementary School by fitzmayowa: 3:14am On Dec 15, 2012
stjudas: Allah has turned the infidels against themselves. America, UK, Israel and France shall fall and the Islamic State shall rule the world.... I'm sure all true muslims feel the way I feel... More of this, i pray for. Allahu akbar!!!
Thunder fire you and your generation. Stup.id fool
Entertainment › Re: Louise Priddy Closes Down Bacchus Nite Club by fitzmayowa: 6:46am On Dec 04, 2012
ozodigboo: Sorry, this closure of Bacchus Nite Club . . .. .

How does it affect the price of red palm oil & dried fish in Asaba ?

I would like to know . . . .
You just took the word out of my mouth.
Christianity Etc › Re: Usher Embarrasses Comedienne Princess In Poju Oyemade's Church by fitzmayowa: 6:39am On Dec 04, 2012
1 shortblackboy: Thinking of sugar and groundnut,water and of course g4rri
Seun is allergic to the word Garri, the guy go BAN you oooooooo
Romance › Re: Single Mothers Are Never Taken Serious by fitzmayowa: 12:56am On Nov 30, 2012
[quote author=mondi_cheeks]A Stupid man focuses on a girl's mistake and forget the shitload hey did in his own past. He probably made a couple of women mothers and a few other abort. The value of a woman is not measured by the mistakes she made in the past but what she is willing to have and maintain a healthy relationship with a man she loves. I don't see anything with ending up with a divorcee because the are human too and they probably have more insight about what not to do in marriage[/quote]SECONDED!!!
Celebrities › Re: Mercy Johnson Is Not My Friend - Tonto Dikeh. by fitzmayowa: 12:51am On Nov 30, 2012
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Crime › Re: Corruption And Our Religious Leaders by fitzmayowa(op): 7:23am On Nov 25, 2012
While one religion preaches prosperity the other preaches hatred for other religions and their members. The result is corruption and wanton killing of innocent people by blind and misguided people. The only set of people I regard as sincere are those who visits houses on Sundays to preach love and the Kingdom of God to their neighbours.

Can't agree more with the above comment
Crime › Corruption And Our Religious Leaders by fitzmayowa(op): 7:22am On Nov 25, 2012
Corruption is characterised by extreme immorality and dishonest exploitation of power or wealth for personal gains. Today, its modes are endless and exists in almost all spheres of the society and among all levels of authority.

Children lose their innocence readily to corruption in examination rooms, right from the primary school levels. It continues to eat them up as they grow into secondary schools and subsequently higher institutions. Afterwards, they become full blown corrupt adults who, by the way, have always been adherents of one faith.

These same individuals, who have dug deep into government and the corporate world simply because they have access to it, are also given all sorts of titles in all spheres — traditional, educational, communal and, unfortunately, religious.

Religion is a sacred relationship with the Creator which plays a part in human culture. It forms the most revered part of human existence. Every religion has a leader who directs, guides and counsels in all matters of faith. He is a custodian of its tenets and principles. All religions uphold the highest level of integrity, dignity, morality and all forms of virtue. A religion is naturally opposed to corruption which is embedded in deceit, dishonesty and fraud. Our country, thankfully, is a religious one. Despite the fact that most Nigerians hold firmly and dearly to their faith, corruption persists. We must therefore analyse religion as an anecdote endangered. Without pondering too far, the onus rests on the heads of these institutions.
Wealth, today, is not only a matter of status but a symbol of the magnitude of God’s blessing as asserted by religious leaders; the source of the wealth being immaterial. Endless sermons on prosperity and less on salvation of the soul is the order of the day. Sermons on death, which is certain for all, is avoided like a plague and the worshippers are fed with sermons on the life of this world alone — how to live in it in affluence and prosperity without bounds.

The rich rule the world and have all the authority. The poor dare not speak in a gathering where the rich are. It seems a crime or a curse to be poor. The poor are outcasts in the society and despairingly in religious gatherings. They must wait for their rewards in heaven.

From the look of things, Nigerian religious leaders are totally reliant on members’ donations. Couldn’t there be really additional means of sustenance such that they can be selective in reception of donations?

Do religious leaders of today truly uphold the teachings of the founders of their faiths? All faiths have a core similarity of piety and moderation as the practice of the founders. None of them lived like kings as our modern religious leaders are wont to do. Sermons have become selective to the whims of the worshippers. Nigerians are so consumed with various vices which they have no plans of dropping, even as they hold on tenaciously to a religious identity. They do not want sermons condemning their immorality, corruption and blood shedding.

Religion is meant to be the ideal model for man. Yet, with its elements astray, a tainted model can’t yield the same expected spotless result of a corrupt-free society. Materialism, which is the root of corruption, has tainted the idealism of religious leaders. Religion has always appreciated hard work which, with a good blend of time management should, in no way, affect religious obligations. Thus, the body and soul get fed with legitimate earnings.

Why has the trend of religious practices today derailed from the original practice? Initially, religion was pristine and revered. Its laws were observed to the letter, unlike today where laws are made to be broken. A minute branch of corruption such as lying, is today taken so lightly that it is considered impossible not to lie.

The onus is on religious leaders to return to the basis of their religion. If religious matters are watered down, what then is left of the society which looks up to religion for direction? The function of religion is yet unrivalled and this is what religious leaders need to employ and deploy in winning hearts, not for the institution of treasury but in thirst for God’s will and favour which translates to the common good of the society at large.

If religious leaders fear men more than God, what should be expected of a mere member of the congregation? It is the fear of losing members that make religious leaders selective in their sermons in order not to offend the sensibilities of members who fornicate, commit adultery, steal, cheat, lie, etc. Mere numbers shouldn’t count, but worth.

Religious leaders can also go a long way in curbing corruption by deemphasising the overt recognition of the wealthy. They should begin to ask questions about questionable donations. They should also become totally selective in their acceptance of donations/charity. This would go a long way in dissuading shady characters from bringing their ill gotten wealth as donations for fear of rejection. With less places to show off their ill gotten wealth, there should be less drive to acquire these wealth.

Furthermore, there should also be a balanced recognition of material as well as physical commitment. The world we live in is so materialistic that the tide has crept into religious institutions. The poor are left with no place of solace, as their humble devotion is hardly recognised in religious gathering. Not only do these leaders aid the corrupt, they also help in stirring up corrupt intent in the hearts of those yearning for a place of recognition. All these could be nipped in the bud by downplaying material acquisition.

If only everyone could sit back and weigh the supposed gains of corruption against its ills, we’d begin to be more responsible. The greatest of all burdens lie on religious leaders as custodians of faith.





http://www.punchng.com/opinion/corruption-and-our-religious-leaders/
Celebrities › Re: Winner Of Davido's 500k Is Mc Galaxy (pics) by fitzmayowa: 7:14am On Nov 25, 2012
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