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Abeg call it off.It is obvious you don't trust this guy,and there is absolutely no point staying in relationship where your partner cannot be trusted.

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FELLOW NAIRALANDERS,I'D LIKE TO HEAR YOUR COMMENT ON THIS CHALLENGING TOPIC.THANKS

WHO SHOULD QUIT JOBS BETWEEN A HUBBY EARNING N70,AND A WIFE EARNING N700 PER MONTH,IF THE NEED ARISES?


YOUR CANDID OPINION IS REQUIRED.

YOU CAN'T AFFORD TO QUIT,IT IS NOT ADVISABLE.EVERY MARRIAGES HAVE THEIR OWN CHALLENGES,BUT

THEY ALL HAVE WAYS OF OVERCOMING THEM.SO FIND A WAY OR WAYS TO TACKLE YOUR PROBLEMS.IF YOU ARE

WILLING AND VERY OPTIMISTIC,YOU'D GET SOLUTIONS.IT IS JUST A MATTER OF TIME.

HERE ARE FEW TIPS YOU CAN MAKE USE OF;

1. TALK TO HER ABOUT WHAT YOU DON'T LIKE IN THE RELATIONSHIP,AND HOW IT'S AFFECTS YOU.

2. TRY GET SOMEONE SHE RESPECTS SO MUCH TO TALK TO HER ABOUT HER ATTITUDE TOWARDS HER HUSBAND,AND THE IMPLICATION ON THEIR MARRIAGE.

3. BE VERY PATIENT WITH HER.

4. GET BOOKS AND OTHER RESOURCE MATERIALS THAT  DEALS WITH ISSUES LIKE US.

5. TALK TO GOD TO GIVE YOU WISDOM TO DEAL WITH THE CIRCUMSTANCE.

             I WISH YOU ALL THE BEST PAL,

BE GOOD

DO GOOD

FEEL GOOD

FOR GOD IS GOOD!!

@ Poster,

           I credence that it is cos you are relatively young in marriage,but not withstanding,you need to put it your own personal effort.First,talk to your hubby about your challenges,never shy away from discussing with your hubby about your sexual life.
       
          Second,i'd suggest that you go for counseling on ways to improve your sexual appetite you could go with your hubby or in the alternative get books,articles or browse the net on topics that will enhance your sexual desires.

         Third study yourself well and try to know what suits you and let your hubby too know.e.g your body,your reactions,your timing,etc

        Sincerely,sexual fulfillment takes a lot of effort and dedication,there is no hard and fast route to it.It is either you are enjoying it or not.And even if you have been enjoying sex with your spouse,you will still need to
put in more effort for improvement.It can only get better!  

         I wish you all the best pal.

@ poster,

So,what is the big deal in that?Is he not a Nigerian?Carri Jibe is even assorted,and is usually taken by people that can afford it.Cos is relatively expensive

Burgundy:
Please, has anybody ever heard of the sin of BLASPHEMY? It's the only sin in the bible that there is no forgiveness for. Please, if you have a problem wth men of God, keep your opinions to urself, instead of running your mouth. As much as God is a loving and merciful being, he is also a consuming fire

True Life Story!
A girl was attending a night party with some boys and when she was about leaving the house at about 10-11 pm, her mum escorted them to the car ( the boys came to pick her from her house) and she was saying the lord will go with you and protect you, and the daughter was like: "Mum, I don't think there is space for God in this car, maybe God can stay in the boot" The mother did not caution her and they went for the party. They had a crate of Eggs in the boot and on their way, they had a terribble accident where all occupants of the car died. The car was a total wreck and the boot was the only part of the car that was intact, with not one single egg cracked, talk less of broken, my opinion, God stayed in the boot where she put him and if she was in the boot with God, she may have survived. Lesson: Better to keep your mouth shut concerning spiritual things u ain't sure of than running your mouth anyhow!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Nice talk and great lesson

@ poster,

let me begin by asking you how you tell him about the money for the house keep not being enough,do you do it politely or the other way round?'cos the truth of the matter is that men have their ego.So whatever you do that tends to infringe on their ego does not augur well with them.My advice is that you discuss with him in a gentle and submissive manner preferably in a loving and peaceful atmosphere.If he still doesn't hear, just let him be and continue on how you have been doing,and with God on your side you will pull through.

@ poster,

My candid opinion is that you look to God for guidance counseling.Also if you are both legally married then your break up will have to done legally,but truly consider the repercussion of a break up.I'd suggest that you both have it discussed.

@ poster,

Those hints are quite correct.But I'd like add the magical word of I LOVE YOU with plenty of hugs and kisses!They equally works wonder.

The major problem is that our so-called leaders are not visionary,the truth is that they don't have anything for this country,even if they have, it is too scanty and little.Gone are the leaders that had visions and plans for this country,e.g Late Obafemi Awolowo,he had a soft spot for the educational sector and he was able to accomplish its enforcement in his life time.
I'd say that it is time we started praying for leaders that are focused and visionary.This is the first step to moving this nation forward.

Good for her and congratulations.

Hello all!


Am sure a lot of people have had course to confess top embarrassing situations they have found themselves in to their spouses or are wondering how they will go about it.My question now is that how did you or would you go about it.


please lets be considerate and realistic.thanks

Agreed,It is a thing of pride and honor to retain ones virginity either for the male or the female.It builds trust and confidence during marriage.I'd advice everyone that cares to listen that if you so desire to keep your virginity till marriage then the Lord in turn will honor you.Lets do what is right and pleasing before God,He is watching OK!

@ poster,

Well,you sound really serious.Anyway,whatever is the issue between you and your heart-throb,i credence you will find a way to sort it out.I wish you all the best

@ poster,


I agree with you 100 percent.Men should learn to respect their wives,cos first of all women are made out of men i.e bone of their bone and flesh of their flesh,so if they disrespect women then they are definitely disrespecting themselves,but if they honor and respect their wives they are honoring themselves.

@ poster


You seem very desperate.Why?to me the relationship is founded on lust,and lust is dangerous and destructive and also short lived.You claim that you still want her back,this is because of what you are getting from her! yes, that is what lust can offer take,take and always taking!and never giving.I'd say that you have got it all wrong from the outset .The relationship is meaningless and can't stand the test of time.

@ poster,
You really need to sit that friend of yours down and advice her to take things easy.First,is she sure that the found condom in the car belong to the husband?Second,she should find out the cause of the friction in their relationship cos she claimed that they've always had an enjoyable union.Tell her to take some of this points and others into consideration before she takes any stupid action.I wish her all the best.

God created woman didn't he?So why not go ahead and ask God the creator and the maker of women to reveal to you  their ways and character.Surely He will do so.

For me,my preference will everly be home made meals.Actually i relish cooking,so i do a lot of catering practicals.For fast foods and the likes,i personally don't find anything special in what they offer,other than the ingredients and condiments used in spicing up the meals.

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Then change your status and tell her that you are sorry or else you have the plan to cheat on her.

, No man is above the law.

I don't think it was wise for them to have fled the country just like that,because the truth of the matter is that they would have stayed back if they were innocent.They would have waited to see it through before embarking on their trip.Even if they were innocent their fleeing the country has already given them away.Hope they come back and face the consequences of their actions.

You really need to be careful o,don't give or collect anything from her,it is also advisable that you avoid her seriously.Thank God that the orientation camp will soon be over,so that you can be free from her.Also make sure you don't keep in touch after the camp.This is serious temptation.To him that has ears let him hear,

A small girl calling her dad S.H,because she often hears her mum calling her father S.H,which is the short form for SWEET HEART.

Various kitchen methodology are being passed from mothers to their children particularly their girls. Ranging from how to slice, peel, boil, cook, tidy the kitchen environment, e.t.c.

Please, I will like to know which particular kitchen ritual you have learnt from your mum and you are still using till date. For instance, my mum taught me to always boil rice thoroughly and not to parboil and also tidying the kitchen up immediately after use.

Girlfriends can demand from their boy friends,but it is not obligatory for the guy to give the girl.The guy is not indebted to the girl in anyway.A girl who demands a certain amount of allowance from her boyfriend is not considerate.It is usually left for the guy to give at will and not on demand.