Crime › Re: My Experience With A Cultist Today by flames007(m): 8:23am On Mar 27, 2022 |
FERNANDEZISBACK: You are too scared..you could have kept on walking and ignored him..or screamed out for help..
He wouldn't stab you..that was an empty threat..why give In to him so easily..the moment you start acting like a kid then y've given yourself to them..  Then you know nothing about these bastard cultists. If he does any of that they'll mark his face and come back for him. what if they traced him to his house only to come back in the night to commit atrocities. Those cultists are totally sold to the devil trust me. |
Agriculture › Re: Day Old Chicks Price Update by flames007(m): 8:17am On Mar 27, 2022 |
Nice one boss. why not state the price as the topic said, to help those interested in poultry biz. |
Romance › Re: 5 Things Men Look For In A Woman by flames007(m): 10:02pm On Mar 26, 2022 |
somebody will just wake up one morning and start writing something just because that's the way you're thinking. Who told you that's what(most) men want. No single statistics to back it up. |
Programming › Re: Programmers And Coffee/energy Drink by flames007(m): 11:47pm On Mar 25, 2022 |
If you must take energy drinks please try to limit it to at most once per week. The composition of those things are detrimental to the health. Coffee is even still better in that respect (not saying there's nothing like caffeine addiction though).
If your room is big enough, try walking about for like 5 minutes. Take a nap if you feel tire. Do whatever but don't become reliant(or addicted) to drugs in the process. |
Family › Re: Is It Proper Having Sex With My Married Ex by flames007(m): 8:15pm On Mar 25, 2022 |
Lucasmuyiwaa: I wrote a topic couple of months ago and I’m very glad your comments and lashes here made me come back to my feet. Now this girl still loves me and she agreed to always let me use her body. Please is it normal ? Your thought process amazes me. |
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Career › Re: Please Nairalanders Help: I'm Cursed To Not Make It In Life by flames007(m): 10:44am On Mar 25, 2022 |
MeritNation: I don't know you, but if anyone is qualified to give you a reply, it's me.
I'm 37y.o, will be 38 this year and all I have is my waec certificate. Like you, I went to the university and spent 8 years too but couldn't graduate. I was so demoralized and ashamed of myself I stayed away from home for years. As a matter of fact, I only faced my fears and returned home last November. Like you, I know how it feels to think of oneself as worthless and a complete failure. For 5 years I worked as a nanny in the city where I schooled, just so I could stay away from my home. My advice to you is somehow you have to come to the point where you face your worst fear. Look yourself in the face and tell yourself there's a whole world of good that can come out of you and your experience. It helps to have supportive people around you, but ultimately it starts with you. You're a huge success and a work in progress. Tell it to yourself as often as possible even if you don't believe it. Step out of your shell. My shame made me cut off a lot of people from my life just to limit the explanations and so I could stop seeing the stuff I imagined they were thinking about me, but the right people can help you go a long way to getting back on your feet. I don't have many of such people, only about 4/5 but I'm grateful for them. You most likely have such people around you- stop pushing them away. I wrote jamb in 2020 after years of feeling petrified at the thought. I had to get over how I felt about writing the exam with people young enough to be my children and I went for it. I passed. I wrote post utme last year and scored high too. I was given admission to Abu, Zaria but guess what? I rejected it. I put myself in a position where I'd proved to myself that I could get something right and I didn't think wasting my time in our university system was worth it. I felt I needed a degree to validate me but now I know I don't. I'm pursuing a career now in digital marketing after taking a course I graduated from this month. It's not all my making, I have a strong support system but it started with me. Why have I told you all this? You have no idea the amazing things you're capable of. You think you're introverted? You've not met me. I've tasted depression and felt suicidal before and yet here I am. Don't give in to those thoughts. One personal statement of mine is "do it afraid”. I'll likely be my own worst critic. Everyday I feel self doubt and fear but I keep pushing myself inside. Please find an iota of strength inside you and push. Refuse to give in to the fear and negativity going on in your head. Above all, a relationship with God helped me with my initial depressive tendencies and I believe you can find rest and acceptance there too.
It's well with you �❤️ I don't know who you are, but i love you for this. |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Have You Ever Been This Shamed? (photos) by flames007(m): 10:23am On Mar 25, 2022 |
She felt she has made it in life. It's this kind of attitude that make young boys and girls detest small beginnings; they wouldn't be caught dead starting small, so boys go into yahoo and the girls go into hookup. |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Have You Ever Been This Shamed? (photos) by flames007(m): 10:19am On Mar 25, 2022 |
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Family › Re: Cardiff Mum Didn't Know She Was Pregnant Until She "Felt The Baby's Head Coming" by flames007(m): 9:06am On Mar 25, 2022 |
DrFunmisticGlow: It's called a crypto pregnancy or cryptic pregnancy.
I've seen a case like that, her stomach was so flat, nobody that night believed she in labour. 15mins after, bouncing baby girl was out. That's not the point. in as much as there's something called crypto pregnancy, the said mother still knew she was pregnant; this one didn't(like how?). � |
Family › Re: Cardiff Mum Didn't Know She Was Pregnant Until She "Felt The Baby's Head Coming" by flames007(m): 9:01am On Mar 25, 2022 |
thesicilian: I'd be too ashamed to reveal this level of dumb ignorance to the world I'm deeply puzzled myself. That woman is not normal. i mean, pregnancy is a strenuous period. How in the world would you say you didn't feel a thing. Haa. |
Romance › Re: When You Are Not Destined To Make It From Gambling by flames007(m): 8:47am On Mar 25, 2022 |
alfredxyz123: How long will man continue in darkness?  i don't know how to answer your question man. Just stop dashing bookies your money. |
Phones › Re: Oraimo Vs New Age ; Who Is The King Of Smart Phone Accessories by flames007(m): 2:14pm On Mar 24, 2022 |
constance500: Oraimo is the real deal now.. New age has already turned to old age Omor  |
Romance › Re: Divide Nigeria Into 3 Countries Which Country Will Be Like Dubai Faster? by flames007(m): 11:16am On Mar 24, 2022 |
It's not dividing Nigeria that's the problem. That's just like trying to uproot a tree by plucking the leaves - you'd have to go deeper: root. Our problems are more fundamental than that. We need to improve on leadership and followership to if we're to see any form of progress. |
Romance › Re: Do Ladies Also Admire Men And Say I Must Knack That Man? by flames007(m): 4:46pm On Mar 23, 2022 |
I don't imagine it works that way. Women are attracted to a man's sense of power. And by power you know what i mean naw. i was swiping with a group of girls, viewing male models one time like dat. They don't even like guys with large muscles. The normal ones just want you toned; abnormal ones will fall head over heels for a man with a big round pack  - just let him have money. Others like sexcapades, like if they see a guy they like, they'll flirt with him and grant him access to the kingdom with no strings attached. Overall, women are the hardest thing to classify. You may loose your mind trying to unravel the thought process of these fickle beings. |
Business › Re: Join Our App Lovin Selfclick Group Let Make $3 Millons Together by flames007(m): 4:36pm On Mar 23, 2022 |
Your calculation is flawed. if 1000 views give $10 then 10000 views will give $100. on a month that would be $3,000 for 100 people. That's $30 per head.
Except i'm getting something wrong i don't see how $3M is possible that way. |
Business › Re: Fellow Hustlers How Much Have You Made Today. by flames007(m): 7:04pm On Mar 22, 2022 |
Veenbanks: Make baba dey whine una. Baba just wan catch cruise abi you no know nairalanders again. If alphaconde give you kobo make I know wetin cause am. Broke people forming wetin I no know. Omo, be like say you no know as truck drivers dey collect better money. |
Romance › Re: Help!!! My Girlfriend Is A Lesbian. I Found Out Today by flames007(m): 10:23am On Mar 22, 2022 |
Thrycimacus: Hello guys I'm in need of a solution. I started dating my babe since last year, and we plan on getting married this year.
Believe me, I'm completely in love with her. Since I met this girl, it's as though every other girl isn't worth my time. I would say that we love ourselves to the best of my knowledge.
I didn't ever believe that my babe was a cheat, so I don't suspect her, neither do I read her text messages , nor even ask who called her and all that.
Something stupid happened today though. I checked my babes whatsapp chat out of curiosity without her permission (please guys forgive me for that). She was working on a project beside me while I was reading her chat.
I noticed she wasnt comfortable as I told her I only wanted to preview her whatsapp stickers. As I spent more time with her phone, she became so worried that she had to get her phone, asking what I was doing with her phone.
I told her I was reading her chat, then she got real angry, that I shouldn't have read her messages. There are contents there she doesnt want me to see.
Pretending as though I havent seen anything yet, I asked her , which content? Then she was already angry and collected her phone.
I tried getting g her phone but to no avail. Then I sat her down. Babe tell me, are you a lesbian ? She vehemently denied, asking why I will even ask her such question. Then I told her about her chat with one girl. She was trying to defend her self that the chat doesnt mean anything. The said chat was actually lesbian related.
I asked my babe, is the girl you were chatting with a lesbian, she said yes. I said fine, give me your phone let me continue reading then if you have nothing to hide from me. She refused.
I told her that her refusal only means 1 thing, and that can threaten our very relationship...
To cut the low g story short, at some point, she began to cry. I told her I knew she was a lesbian from that chat, I only wanted her to tell me with her mouth. She didnt directly admit it though, but she said that she was working on fixing her problem.
Admit it baby, so I know if its something I can fix with you, babe said she will tell me everything tomorrow, that she can't get herself to discuss anything with me today. With this, I had to understand and let her go. Hopefully tomorrow she can confide in me finally about her (I suppose) lesbian affairs.
Honestly I love this babe. Up until today, i have always believed that she loves me too. But this revelation is really threatening to destroy my future with her.
Before she left today , after I must have given her my word that telling me all her dark truth will not stop me from loving her, she said I was saying those just so she can open up. That if I leave her or change my behaviour towards her when she tell me what shes been hiding, it will not be good.
Please guys, how do I face this serious problem now in a mature way ?
Please I'm not here to play, I need mature contributions.
I created a new account for privacy sake My girlfriend was bisexual(until i came into her life). I gave her listening ears and now she's a near perfect human being and i love her so much. Now, there's no secret, no matter how deep, she won't tell me because she knows i'm logical and mature enough to handle these things. She knows my limits though and tries not to cross it  You see, we expect perfection from people when we are not perfect. Instagram and celebrities have damaged our collective perception. If you really want a lasting relationship, you must be ready to work on your weakness as well as your partner's. That's how you build trust. Trust me, if you compose yourself as a man that you are and hear her out(and help her through it) she'll forever adore you. |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Seo Article Writers Needed by flames007(m): 11:53pm On Mar 19, 2022 |
And you want quality? You'll only find article spinners at this rate, sorry. |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Writer Needed by flames007(m): 4:30pm On Mar 18, 2022 |
richforever123: Blog Writer need
Must be able to do a research writing What's your rate?
please drop a means for reaching you. |
Phones › Re: by flames007(m): 4:24pm On Mar 18, 2022 |
EaztegEririe: Hi guys I'm Vickie, I'll sharing a magic I just discovered. I'm not not really a big fan of rubbing lotions (fear of using the wrong ones that might damaged my skin). For years now that I can't remember, I don't rub creams.
Recently started an experiment on myself, I did some research on natural remedies to achieve a clear skin. And after much trials I came up with a good combinations of natural mixtures that would repair skin damage.
Below is a before and after photos I took
In case you need it here in Lagos WhatsApp Israel at (+2349035693592)
(Note; I'm not a beauty therapist, it's just my own discovery) How much? |
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Health › Re: How Do People In Nigeria Sleep? by flames007(m): 9:53am On Mar 16, 2022 |
guobe: Hallelujah,fuel just got finished from my neighbours generator set. This is hilarious  |
Science/Technology › Re: Here Is Why Google Thinks University Degrees Are Useless by flames007(m): 5:48am On Mar 16, 2022 |
aikyg: What are you saying? Google has more employees with PhD per meter square than any other company on earth. It's easier for you to get a job at Google with a degree, post graduate or PhD. To get a job at Google without a degree, you must be exceptionally gifted and extremely hardworking. Now you're talking. |
Science/Technology › Re: Here Is Why Google Thinks University Degrees Are Useless by flames007(m): 7:40pm On Mar 15, 2022 |
aikyg: This is not true! Did you know that many people work work in Google inc don't possess a degree? Do your findings well before you say what you don't know. |
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Family › Re: I Envy My Uncle's Knowledge Abt Job Skills. by flames007(m): 3:25pm On Mar 15, 2022 |
Your uncle is an undercover Leonardo da vinci  |
Career › Re: Talented And Reliable Freelance Writers Needed by flames007(m): 7:52am On Mar 15, 2022 |
FIFtheMyth: Now hiring! Good morning.
How can one reach you? |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: My Incompetence Just Cost Me A Job, I Feel Worthless by flames007(m): 7:48am On Mar 15, 2022 |
Ever heard of the word consistency?
The problem with this generation is: 1) we've lost the ability to start over when we make mistakes the first few times. 2)The information you can come across is so wide, varied and absolutely ginormous that it drowns; if you don't have laser focus, trust me you'd drown in the sea of information. information that could have easily helped you to build wealth. 3)As a result of No.2, you want to explore every option. Now herein lies the problem: you will only want to dedicate very little time to learning say backend engineering, because you're in a hurry to run off to explore other options -YOU WILL DEPLETE YOUR ENERGY. FOCUS!!
It's true, failure is painful. But if you just focus on the frontend dev you're doing now, i believe you will smile soon. |
Nairaland General › Re: God has done it - After a year..Check first post by flames007(m): 7:27am On Mar 15, 2022 |
Space BOOKED!!
God bless the giver. |
Career › Re: How To Earn A Very Comfortable Living As A Well Paid Freelance Writer In 2022... by flames007(m): 9:45pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
SnrBrother: COMING UP TOMORROW:
Lesson ONE: What is copywriting? Lesson TWO: WHY Email Copywriting? Lesson THREE: The $1k/Month Email Copywriting Breakdown.
Stay tuned!
/Peace, Love, & Light/
~Victor.
P.S. Got questions?
Don’t hesitate to have a field day below... How can I participate in the workshop? |