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[quote author=::Andrew::]Taking care of her financially does not mean you must give her money. It involves issues
like advicing her on how she can use her money and share it with you. [/quote]gold!!!

Short, tall, fat, slim. . . They're all the same to me. Its the 'person' that matters.

Madness

Whats your own??

fluid26: pleep! Take it easy bro. It's unfair for you to judge the young lad with the yardstick of your intelligence and wealth of experience.

As for me, I can't co-exist with someone who consistently exhibits traits of dominance...be it academic or otherwise. She'd evetually be the death of me. They are usually as unteachable as they are uncompromising. I have a blacklist though...hehe.

1. Mbaise girls [#noOffencePls, it's just an opinion]
2. Ora-Ifite girls
3. Lawyers
4. Human rights activists
5. Grammar-bending semi-literates

That'll be all for now.

you small boys somehow seem to think that intelligence translates to dominance?? Smh.
And the fact that you will want to dominate someone in a relationship shows a high degree of insecurity.
I'm not dissappointed tho, the young shall always grow.

I'm still not supporting abortion, all i'm saying is that a woman should be allowed to make her choice concerning what will grow in her OWN womb.

pleep: Flash you are pathetic. Men like you are ruining society. Have you ever stopped to consider that most women actually want their mate to be smarter than them? Guys like you are so ashamed of your masculinity.

If you find a woman that is smarter than you at everything, first off your a simp, and second off she will never respect you. I don't blame her, dudes like you don't even respect yourselves.

lol, you're the pathetic one here. This show of aggression already shows you're very insecure.
Intelligence never translates to maturity. Your woman can be more intelligent than you but you can still be in control. Like seriously?? Havent you heard of illiterate men married to graduates yet they are still in total control with full respect??
You my friend is either very insecure or a chauv. Both pathetic.

pleep: insecure about what my intelligence? No, i just dont think such a person would be pleasant to be around. A Girl that is smarter than me at some things is fine.. but not everything.

I dont think any man would want that.

either you're insecure or you're a male chauvinist!
So its ok to be more intelligent than a woman but she musnt be more intelligent than you??

Oh lawd!! The way crazyman and obino are carrying out this argument is doing my head in!!!
Dont call IT a child ffs!!! Stop making it sound so brutal and so dramatic. You can aswell call it the murder of a future president! for all i care it might even be a bi or tri-germinal disc without any kind of life or human form!
For those saying life starts from conception, why not proconception. That valuable sperm you are wasting, dont you consider it murder?? Yes naa, for every time you ejaculate outside a womb you are wasting 40mil spermatozoa or in your own words killing 40 million children. What could be worse than that??
If you must argue, call a spade its real name and leave the dramatics for hollywood!
A sperm is a sperm, a germinal disc is a germinal disc! both are not capable of any type of human life! A child is far different, it is independent and its growth does not have any kind of relationship with the mother. Stop calling a possible disc a child ffs!
A woman has the right to determine what grows inside her!

[quote author=Mynd_44]Hello how are you doing too?[/quote]lol

I totally would cos it would be fun, just meeting new people; bearing in mind already that nothing's ever going to come out of it.

[quote author=Mynd_44]Interesting questions. Maybe you need to visiting some prisons and ask people that who did the act[/quote]i thought you've improved. . .

CrazyMan: Are you aware that abortions comes with great risks...should that also be overlooked?

great risks?? Lol, a c.s is considered safer than an abortion yet c.s is a considerably safe operation.
It amuses me when ignorants talk like they know shit.

martfrank: Am seriously in love wit an mbaise gal,but am afraid,I heard some tales about dem,na tru? Urgent

maybe if you tell us the tales we would then be able to determine whether na true or not.

Another 5 secs of my life gone, just like that.

Patient must have had an underlying neurologic disorder.

eldoradoxx: I think we should proceed from the assumption that all doctors like engaging in dirty relationship with opposite se*x until the contrary is proved!!! I omitted the word " womanise" cause its normal for every man to womanise unless he is sick.

are you high?? What does that even mean?

SniperInADiaper: You have proven my point.. - Pills might not work. Even the most effective pill is not going to be 100% effective.

I think it takes a very strong person to keep a pregnancy from r@pe.

ofcourse, so. . . . . .
The question is would you have an abortion? Not if pills were the best method of abortion.

SniperInADiaper: Please tell me which pill is 100% effective and has NEVER failed?

none. And your point in relation to what i first wrote is??

I only go out with girls that are more intelligent than i am or atleast i'm at par with. No one is FAR more intelligent than i am.

SniperInADiaper: Pills might not work.

depends on the pill.

^^^ lmao!!
@op, yes mistakes are needed for relationships to survive, so instead of waiting for it, have an affair, video it and upload.
Things will start going smoothly then.

Onegai: OMG, run!!!! This is catholicism, forget that they preach the gospel of Jesus Christ there, read the same bible you read and one of their most powerful prayers is Psalm 23! They are obviously different from you because they are not pentecostals (even though the pentecostal church started from catholic church), infact, catholics are the same as hindus, muslims and Ifa and Olokun worshippers!! How can you expect this girl to understand and believe in the God you serve, whom is the same God she serves!! Nooo!!

Yep, that above is what sarcasm sounds like. You do know that you are judging this young lady and that isn't, oh what's the word, er, CHRIST-LIKE OF YOU.

she has said it all!

angiemartinez: u r jst so sillly, am so sory to say

you're the silly one, if you were so thick not to notice the sarcasm staring at you in the face.

[quote author=she-wanna]Op; I'm not sure about some or all of them womanizing but I don't think there is any reason for them to cos they should have been tired of seeing and working on the female body na![/quote]i tire ooo! Or maybe its because the women wont leave them the fck alone!

Why would an underaged be allowed to post on nairaland??
These and many more questions are the mysteries of life.

Very very beautiful, fine and compelling piece!! Never wanted to finish it but as soon as i'd started i knew i had no option.
Well written. Kudos.
But then, is this real?? Or just another hollywood wishdom??

This has always been an area of interest to me in terms of the morality in abortion.
Of course abortion may be illegal but then we know that there are several situations were its accepted eg. If the health of the mother is endangered.
Who defined health not only as the physical well being but also as the mental and emotional well being.
R.ape is a very emotionally distabilizing experience on its own that leaves the victim with an enormous hatred and animousity towards the rapist.
Now while you are still passing through the shame and emotional trauma of being raped you also find out that you're pregnant, it implies the following
1. The child will be borne out of hatred and will always remind you of that experience.
2. You'll have to explain to the child that his father is a rapist. You'll have to deal with that too.
3. It will distabilize all your life plans, social life, educational, religious, family, society, marriage-wise etc
everywhere you'll go about bearing the banner of the rapped woman who also has a bastard child to show for it.
But all this can be avoided by taking just some pills hours after the experience when the foetus isnt even yet conceived.

tpia1: Are you or whoever, afraid of her reaction if you dont give her the money for all these baubles?

exactly! Thats the point.

tpia1: maybe, maybe not.

fact remains majority of nigerian arent rich, so not everybody will have access to date/marry dangote, adenuga or a billionaire's daughter.

i dont see any point here.

@op, this write up is soooo on point!
I'v been saying this same thing over and over again.
Love is unconditional and has no etiology. It just happens. Thats why it cant end cos nothing precipitated it in the first place.
I dont believe its a choice, cos if you can choose to love then you can also choose not to love.
Hence i always say the only true love that exists is the one between God and man and between a parent and the child.
There's nothing like love between a man and a woman unless if there's another shallow definition of love.

[quote author=tpia@]i assume love here means infatuation, in the context of this thread.[/quote]jeeez! How thick can one's brain get??

tpia1: too prickly.

any reason why?

i didnt see your name in the thread title and so far, nobody has taken offence at either the topic or the poster.

so, why are you up in arms?

by op i meant 'original post' ie the first post. Nobody is bearing arms unless you're paranoid.