₦airaland Forum

I see GTB winning against Innoson on the long run.

Mariangeles:
ChiomaCa run from an unrepentant adulterous man ooo! He's not worth it!

I don't think you really understand the problem here.. the OP is trying to save her marriage which she has committed so much to, not break it.

If you're telling her to deny her husband sex while they are still together.. then that's a recipe for disaster and more problems, don't you think so?

Richy4:
Can I just ask for who's benefits is she dressing sexy and working out? The man or for herself?... I need to know...

Because if it's for the benefit of the man in question, forget it, it won't work..She can carry all the weight lifting in Olympics or run from Wuse to Gwagwalada every morning, it won't move him..

It's for her benefit actually.. she might catch his fancy once again if she wants to or opt out of the marriage.

Majority of guys patronizing escorts, hookers, olosh0s are married men and that's a fact. It shows there are things their wives are not doing or giving them again like before.

It's very easy for a divorced man to remarry but it's not same for a divorced woman with kid(s), the stereotype will be there so she has to think about that too.

Mariangeles:
Never allow him touch you with his filthy hands again. He's dirty and doesn't deserve you.
Don't let him defile you.

Never ever doubt yourself. You're clean and beautiful.

What kind of bad advice is this one..

If the man can't touch her, is it you that will go and touch her? or you didn't see where she wrote that she was begging for sex from her husband meaning she needs manly touch.
Please be sensitive with comments on marital issues so you don't end up breaking a home.

@OP From your writeup, one can assume your sex life with your husband is boring and dry.. those hookers are skilled in the act of seduction which most wives fail to understand.

Hit the gym, get back in shape and start dressing attractively so he'll notice you. If he is not already addicted to ashaw0s, then maybe he might change.

You see all the so called godly people attimes ehnn.. when you see what they do in secret, you'd be disappointed.

No be this lady sing.. the land is green?
She is talented and beautiful too.. hbd to her.

MrSly:
Let me explain it in simple terms. You were in your land with potentials But you could not see those potentials due to lack of foresight. Igbo man came and saw it, relocated and started tapping it. Now he has succeeded with numerous landed properties. You now woke up and started being envy. That is just it. PERIOD!

You have won sir..
I could not see the potentials because my enemy is blind abi. No le le

goodheart01:
You're a bloody gay pig. For terming restructuring as treason I wonder what else is in your numbskull. So SE also ruling is wrong abi?? They're not part of Nigeria right?? But when Fulani Janjaweedz want to rule they get the position despite their backwardness...

I spit on you and your nauseating mentality... Arsehole

Ignored!

I've vowed never to dignify blackmailers and trolls with response again on this forum.. look elsewhere for your playmate.

Omodua:
Your comments shows insensitivity to problems in the North. So many problems remains unsolved. Fulani's have problems.
By the way, North has been in the saddle of Nigerian leadership. What gains, apart from poverty and wars?
Unity Beggars!

Nigga I'm a full-fledged Yoruba man.. so it's not my fault that I think and love Yoruba.

chudez0147:
DamnNigga
Isoright!!

You want to see who will cry ? Lol ..
all this small children on nairaland, una dey mek me laf

You might be too young to know how Igbos declared and fought a needless war from 1967 -1970 only for their baby general to japa to Ivory Coast when he saw death calling.

If ohaneze and the Igbos are saying there won't be peace if Igbos don't get presidency in 2023 then I'm sure most Nigerians are keen to know what they plan for the country. Power is not given on a platter of gold or by blackmail.

MrSly:
As an igbo man, the last person I will have anything with is southwestern individual. Cunny, lousy cum noisy, etc. Above all very deceitful. Deal with them at your own peril. The igbos know this and that is why they have known peace. So take your Nigeria. No sensible igbo man has interest in it just that you folk slow our progress. Nigeria should let igbos( Biafra) go.

Yen yen yen.. yet over half of Igbo population in Nigeria are living in Yorubaland. Say you want presidency and stop your rubbish biafra braggado.
Or you think we send you?

macaranta:
So the exclusion of the south east seems right to you? Yiu guys really deserve buhari afterall.

How is South East excluded?
The Igbos today have ×3 of what Yorubas got under GEJ where they were rejoicing that he marginalized Yorubas. The thread is here on Nairaland for the world to see.

headbasher96:
alot of coups have happened all over the world but there is still peace the DRC experienced ethenic cleansing but still they are managing with any tangible natural resources how is the case of our dear nation different

There is a reason the world frowns at coups in the first place.. you don't take right of the people to elect their leaders away and not expect consequences which in Nigeria's case include hatred, suspicions, nepotism, corruption, sectionalism, religious and tribal intolerance and so many others.

So he didn't even use protection.. that's how some people go about spreading diseases to their unsuspecting partners.

An ex that's likely sleeping with other guys might decide to pin her pregnancy on him due to his present financial status or to disrupt his marriage plans.
Someone that is an ex should remain ex abeg.. look at the problem on this one's neck now.

See yarnsh like Zuma rock.. any man wey no strong go quick tire.

The problem of Nigeria stems from the first ever bloody coup which began on January 15, 1966 led by Major Nzeogwu, Ifeajuna and others killing about 22 persons comprising of political leaders, ethnic leaders and senior Army officers including their wives and children. Surprisingly not one Igbo man was scratched in that evil attack on our democracy.

So you see, a land of opportunities with plenty natural resources turned to a land of no future when other tribes became suspicious of Igbos even till this very day. The military guys too didn't try.. tho. some school of thought believe Nigeria witnessed more infrastructural development and civility under military than under civilian regime. It's still up for debate.

helinues:
Make I ask you, do you think it's possible for Tinubu and Osinbajo to be having interest in the presidency at the same time?

Tinubu brought Prof. Osibanjo to serve as running mate to PMB in his stead when critics rejected a muslim-muslim APC ticket for 2015 and I think he wanted Aregbe as VP in 2019 but PMB still retained Osibanjo.
Those two are good friends o, forget media trying to cause rift between them, so it's possible Osibanjo might get APC ticket if Tinubu decides not to run. They are both capable men and that's what matters.

He made some valid points tho.. but I still feel Tinubu has better chances of becoming president than most members of the old brigade.

Nigerian youths are not ready for anything politics other than big brother naija, BBN gossips and other irrelevant stuffs. Only few like Moghalu, Sowore, Yul etc. are making efforts which is commendable.

I thought we've trashed this issue severally here.. they (Fulanis) used religion as a tool to brainwash the Hausas and capitalized on the differences, clashes and power tussle among Hausas to usurp their emirates and take over strategic leadership in all their lands.

They moved to the West to attempt same but met fierce resistance when Yoruba rulers set aside their differences (entered like a form of parley) to defeat the Fulani invaders. Reason Yorubas put common sense ahead of religion till date.

ThEGodFaThEr101:
Se.un, Lal.asticlala rule 2 . Don't abuse, bully, deliberately insult/provoke, fight, or wish harm to Nairaland members OR THEIR TRIBES.

3. Don't threaten, support or DEFEND violent acts against any person, tribe, race, animals, or group (e.g. rape).

Run along boy.. your cheap blackmail won't work here.

Baba Buhari leave God alone for now and sanction the Military to go after them.. why are we budgeting so much for security yet can't put an end to insurgency in NE for example which is one out of six geopolitical zones?

If it's to recruit more hands or seek international help, then let's explore the option to end this menace once and for all.

The idea of having electric cars is good no doubt but I feel we should take it step by step. We still have abundant gas we can use for cooking and vehicles while we focus on improving the power situation in the country.

We like to muzzle up too many things at a time and end up achieving nothing.. Over 70 percent of China's population still use coal, firewoods etc. despite the call for clean, renewable energy but you don't see the Chinese govt. banning coal like their naive counterparts in Nigeria do.

vanbonattel:
Threatening who?

Which person is Threatening you?

Is asari now an Igbo man?

These people sef

Go and ask your people in ohaneze making reckless statements like.. 'for peace to reign, SE should be given presidency'.

We are interested in what you'll do when Tinubu or Osibanjo eventually wins in 2023. Maybe you'll declare war on Nigeria again like '67 we'll know and we'll see who will cry.

ChiefOloye:
This thug is politically naive, political power is not given on platter, rather, it's taken. Nobody will gift Ibos power, it doesn't work that way.

Nobody will give any section of the country power on a platter of gold.

That's why it's called a democracy.. you must gain wide acceptance from the people , contest and win elections to become president not to go about blackmailing others and threatening violence.

So who is stopping them from contesting? instead of making moves to give their preferred candidates good publicity, it's Tinubu and SW agenda they are attacking all over the place.

It's only Igbos that have been attacking and speaking ill of Tinubu just like they did to Awolowo and M.K.O Abiola yet some dumb folks in the South West still thinks North is our problem.

If Igbos should get presidency today, I'm 100% sure they will continue Azikiwe's agenda of dominating others, remove Yorubas completely from politics like we saw under GEJ and tag call for restructuring a treasonable offence. Then everyone's eyes will clear.
What is the manifesto of a typical Igbo other than to fill space in Aso rock and claim it's SE turn.. SE turn for what exactly??

@OP It's not as easy as you think.. if the husbands go outside to meet say a side chick and start developing feelings aside the sex, then it's problem for their marriage. Trust those girls to shower the man with affection and crazy styles that he won't even feel the urge to meet his wife again.

It's the feminists and western lifestyle that is causing all these rubbish we're witnessing today.
In U.K or Canada for example, a woman can call Police to throw her husband out of the house for demanding sex or other silly things.
Imagine you getting thrown out of your own house for complaining about sex denial. If you end up getting a divorce, they'd still split the man's fortune into two and give one half to the woman. It's a terrible system those western guys are running and it's affecting our African women too.

@OP Why you no collect her number na? babe wey don kiss you, rest head on your shoulder.

It's not every froendship that must lead to sex. That kind of girl will stick her head out for you (her cinema love) in your time of need so I feel you should have asked for her number.

It's just like the professional world where you network by giving out and receiving complimentary cards just incase you need to link up with one or two people later.

Congratulations AIG Odumosu.. more wins sir.

Danibonk:
Brother sorry ooo, my wife to be went to ilorin go Dey stay with her ex boyfriend na the money I Dey send for Xmas na him she and the guy Dey use flex. When she came back I saw their chat I confronted her she denied it I show her the chat she start begging me.as a wise guy I no want stories i ended the relationship

Imagine..

For her mind now she wise.
It's very hard to forgive a lying or cheating partner cos such people are capable of anything including paternity fraud. Count yourself lucky o.

Nicepoker:
Op you were too fast to confront.

I feel he should have used a private detective to unravel whatever is going on between the other man and his wife.. women cheat a lot and are usually smart about it.

The twist here is that she is pregnant and must not be stressed or interrogated too much to avoid complications.