₦airaland Forum

adedejisy:
Good evening my fellow nairalanders,i just want your advice on my predicament...I'm living in 3bedroom flat with my 3kids and wife but we use 2 rooms out of the flat while the last room was not in use..Sometimes last year my younger brother ask me for assistance to be staying with me and family so that he will sleeping in the unused room and as man I told my wife and she said no one will stay with us, including anyone from her family that she will prefer the room to be empty.My Challenge now is her immediately sister is asking for the same assistance to live with us and my wife is now begging me to allow her to stay with us,please what do I do? Should I let her stay, please I need Ur advice. Thanks

to be honest with you.. you av to allow her

tho. I would av asked you to say no too... buh what if it splits ur home

cos from d way you type, I can deduce you have a peaceful home.. so don't let one small favour ruin it

as for your brother, you can apologize to him.. buh also remind ur wife of what she said when he wanted to stay

90% of d 'so-called' yahoo guys are into rituals..

na just d name 'yahoo' dem dey use cover.. blood money is bloody money

I think d lady is at fault..

why collect cash gifts from ur husband's friend without letting him know?

even if nothing is going on between them, she has successfully ridiculed d man making him feel useless

d man sef get him own fault sha..

Funny thing is..

People that have gone deep in Sexual lust will leave comments giving OP false hope..

@OP 'man know thyself'.. leave all that story abeg

booqee:
I keep wondering why did God even create the tree of life in the garden of Eden in the first place if He didn't want man to sin..

Some say its intentional... if it is, why was He so displeased to the extent of placing a curse on them...

He created us as man.. not as gods or heavenly creatures.. so of course he was easy and prone to falling for temptation.. so I assumed He knew from the start while creating him, that man would fall by eating the forbidden fruit...

so why bother creating it and then cursing man when it is believed He knew he would fall.. (that's the part that makes it look unfair) .. its similar to setting a concealed trap right in front of us..


I'm confused honestly ..

contributions are welcome

probably there for Him & His spirit beings.. cos from what we've read, they know too much

whatever sha...

you're on a long thing... guess you're just "breaking out"

To all d poor/broke mofos getting false hope from ladies..

hope ya'll are seeing thingz.. hustle!

Stupedinluv:
Some igbo women have that touch of beauty. Some nonigbo women too.

Ok!

was just giving my honest opinion..

btw are you Hausa/ fulani?

Stupedinluv:
Hausas/fulanis maintain their shapes better doesnt make them prettier

True..

buh igbo women have that touch of beauty... even in beauty pageants, they top

kaziblake:
This is applicable to all tribes.

Well... yeah if you say so

buh they've got good genes

every tribe is pretty in their own way sha

they are actually beautiful people.. buh I dunno why they brag

I notice they are able to maintain their shapes till old age..

I've see 50+ igbo woman and I was like DAMN!.. you need to see 'hotter than fire'

phensbassey:
its a good thing na

honestly.. I won't be happy o

cos. what if I don't want her or not ready yet

wouldn't want to appear rude by saying NO.. and I will def. not say YES

dunno... buh I will feel somehow sha

my mates are running after women... why my own case go come diff. na

na to go do deliverance sharp sharp

kinglekan:

You sure sey nor be your partner?

But on a more serious note if what you typed really happened, you did the right thing but what i seriously doubt is the fact that you probably didn't hand him over to the police.

That would make you an accomplice and worse still your furnace in hell would be made double hot Nebuchadnezzar style.

Exactly my thoughts..

d guy in question must have done something bad to warrant jungle justice..

Good d OP saved him.. buh then he has to answer for his crimes and face d law

eitsei:
all these public universities also have good facilities (hostels, classrooms, toilets etc) but are no longer in good condition due to poor management and maintenance
All the classrooms in the public universities have become overcrowded due to geometric increase in the number of their intakes every year but the management of the school and the government failed in their responsibilities to provide more lecture theatres and address all the problems facing public universities, the government should also update the outdated curricula and make it more research oriented, provide more funding for the these schools and improve students welfare
I believe if all these ills can be attended to we'll able to compete with other universities all over world and hopefully we can have more Daniel Ayodele

yeah. I agree

I really hope they'd consider.. for d sake of those going in

buh then is it feasible?.. most of these politicianshave their kids schooling abroad.. and they don't see anything bad about it..

I really hope o... amassing wealth one will leave behind instead of leaving good legacy is bad

wait o..

shey if that guy no get money.. d girl fit love am like this?

eitsei:
you know there are some private universities that were close to producing a graduate with 5.0 in the past, for example, covenant University have produced I think two graduates with 4.99 before, so I won't be surprised if in their next convocation there is another 5.0 from their school

I respect their goal (to provide education)..

buh then Private treatment is never d same as Public treatment.. no matter how we choose to coat it

they av good welfare facilities no doubt, very conducive for learning

buh go to public skols.. poor welfare (hostels, toilets etc), overcrowded lecture halls and so on..

only d strong survives/graduates in public talk more 5.0 CGPA

greatgod2012:
I really feel for these people. May God heal them and may we never find ourselves in this type of situation. Amen.

which one? be specific

the 'mental state' or 'Pure Love'

which one

Nawa o...

what some sane peeps can't get right..

isn't love a beautiful thing?

eitsei:
my thoughts exactly, private universities too will start producing their own 5.0,it's just a matter of time

yeah..

and funny thing is Unilag might not see another 5.0 CGPA in the next 10-15yrs.. or more sef

but private.. *clears throat

another business strategy.

lrdval:
Mehn.. 5.0 no be beans ooo...if your a graduate, you will understand what it swallowed to bag 5.0...my friends didnt believe that it's true till now...Am happy he didnt bag it from priv uni

priv. unis will start dishing out 5.0 like it's nothing now..

just watch

that guy is a guru (tho. I dnt knw him in person).. Unilag takes only d Best (JAMB & P.UTME stats.).. the competition is usually high, very high

this Fayose again..

hope you didn't destroy our walkways this time..

local Ekiti thugnor

hysteriabox:
Morning. I feel Other details ll aid in a proper interpretation. Were you close to your dad? Was he a strong figure in your life growing up? In the dream, was it only the blindness that caught your attention? Any other thing you noticed-the atmosphere (fear, sickly, happy etc) , the environment-someplace you knew, and finally did your dad have eye issues?

dreams can actually be funny o..

attimes when you dream about ur own death, you'd think you're gonna die soon (possible tho.)
buh in reality, it shows a new chapter in your life..

d blind part could be a warning sign.. probably d path d OP is taking.. might not be a favourable one

buh you still on point sha... joseph d dream specialist

@OP shebi I'm now Joseph

ok lemme try..

Fullamafia:
That region's politicians have always been known as Any Government In Power (AGIP). If not for the SS, they would have killed PDP like they killed their own APGA founded by Ojukwu.

While the iPods are wasting their youth fighting APC/North/SW, their elders are lining up to be given space in the camp of the 'enemy'.

TRUE!

and not long ago, they were all shouting islamization agenda and all that

na their youths I pity pass sha.. gullible folks

mrvitalis:
I am an die hard Buhari supporter from the east.. . Bit one thing Buhari and APC must know is that the igbos are not controlled by there leaders

Simple thing to win igbo votes

Complete second Niger bridge
Give anambra and international airport
Start work on the Anambra or ABA sea Port
Enugu Port Harcourt Road
Enugu onisha Road

hmmn!

well said.. buh d Reno guy claimed GEJ fixed all that

who should we bliv sef..

cos d regions that got him there would be greater priority (simple logic)

what's ur own take on it

Su Yang- Adeleke

ringing tone e ma badt gaan...

who talk say money no good?

so d guy die true true..

buh I've seen this kind of stunt in RED.. one Bruce willis film like that

hmmmn.. *thinking

smallJagaban:
CANADA - BLACKBERRY

USA - IPHONE, CHEVROLET

CHINA - ELECTRONICS , TECHNOLOGY


AFRICA - ABSOLUTELY NOTHING

IBO - ?

hope you're not trying to say 'drug trafficking'..

cos. it won't be fair

why do ladies like hating on themselves like this..

or what exactly is this thread for??

@OP wat's dangerous there nw..

with all d body wey stiff... yarnsh sef no entice somborry

ehnnnnn...

* dancing.. Omu illegal.. a jo jo illegal

that your wife sef..

@OP take heart... pele