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adebisilucy:
please help change my name to adorpearl. Thank you

Hi there.

You sent me a PM, how may I be of service to you?

Gerrard59:
On this topic, we agree to disagree.

Okay then.

For richer, for richer"

Positive affirmations only.

ManDemMaCall:
Bumbo Clat, Babylon!

Update! Update!! Update!!!

A very big thanks to the US for this great opportunity presented to we keypad warriors .

GOD BLeSS AMERICA!

Hi there.

Why are you sending me a mail?

sunsweet33:
That’s black people for you. While Indians and Chinese are busy flooding everywhere with their friends and relatives an helping them to succeed all over the world we are here with Nothing sensible to say hahahaha

Lol.

Black man and problems.

yewit37486:
Don't mind them, lots of successful Nigerian professionals in the UK, Canada, US, etc. Care work trend only started in recent years, before during and after that - Nigerian professionals were and are still migrating and doing well there.
Plus, this topic has been overflogged like a million times.

I know right? This topic is really overflogged.

With the way such topics grace front-page all the time, one would think it's only care jobs that are hot cake abroad for immigrants.

Misery sure loves company. So you guys don't have friends abroad that are 9-5ers?

Mopolchi:
Zubby no dey as best actor?

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Biglittlelois:
I'm new here too, and you're welcome.

RULE 1: No lady should mention a male on the thread and if a male comments, he should be ignored.

The person you quoted up there is male and also a troll.

Please kindly desist from quoting such henceforth. I know you're new here though but Thank you.

Biglittlelois:
I didn't know this thread existed, looks interesting

I'm off to reading comments from the first page, I need to get myself updated

Good morning ladies and a lovely week to you all.

Good morning to you Lois and welcome to the Pink pill thread.

Have a lovely day ahead.

Badmashiii:
Exactly. i must be sure of getting something valuable in return before i could consider doing favor for anybody. Man or woman.

And on my scale of values,"pussy" ranks among the lowest.

Sex is cheap. Can be gotten anywhere and everywhere.

Wise choice.

Badmashiii:
Exactly. All girls don't like to be "anybody's fool" but will love other men to be foolish for them.

The op is the fool here for doing all favors without getting something in return.

Personally i don't do favors for girls. Why?

Some get entitled and demand more favors while some see sex as the only best compensation they can give you.

I could only do favor for you if I'm absolutely sure there could be something tangible i could possibly get,whether now or in the future. Nobi one kind mumu sex.

If you do favours for people without expecting sex in return, that is absolutely fine.

horia:
Follow the storyline
At this point you are clowning

You're the one clowning actually. Don't flip it on me.

GloriousGbola:
Hot dominatrix action on a Sunday afternoon

Folake4u don't allow anyone to bully you ooo

No gree in 2024. Fight to finish. Koboko me I bulala you.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T-UcchGOz8I?si=GUP729yLoVObwpmD

No gree for anybody indeed. 🤣🤣

sprints1:
to knack in the dark abi Netflix and off light

Lol.

Movies and off light, like I'm currently doing.

Farfalla:
** Speeds off to fetch koboko.

Noooooo.

biographyinsigh:
When she got there, she would have told him straight that this cuddle, I am not comfortable with it. Do you want to date me?

Women like to play men and your response confirmed same. Why would you talk of contract?

Like someone pointed out, she should have told him point blank, I can't cuddle.

Women, you lots weird sometimes.....

If she had said that line too, you lots would have still called her "desperate" or "too forward".

I don't know what you're talking about. I don't like to play men. Personally, I don't give a fuçk about many men except people I know.

Yes. I said contract because I was trying to give an example.

Certainly, she should have also declined his offer of cuddling him the first instance he mentioned it.

Still his action of throwing her out of his house is unjustifiable.

pato405:
Yummu! You're all the same!

Cunny women everywhere.

Even the few ones that'll spend N100 to get you a gift, will demand N1000 transport fare back home the day they bring the gift to your house! Work done = - N900!

Cunny?

You should probably change the women you roll with. It's obvious you have poor taste.

pato405:
Yimmu! Adonbilivit! Women dont spend their money on men!

So no woman has spent money on you? Either through buying food, ice cream or cooking for You?

Awww. Quite sad.

horia:
Turn him down by going to his place and even getting dinner 😂😂😂

Must you people sleep with all female acquaintance that visit?

horia:
He should go for the full package, He should talk?
Why did she say nothing when he talked?
Who is dodgy here? The one who asked for something or the one who couldn't turn it down because she thinks she can slide her way through this one?

From what the Op narrated here, he asked if she had a boyfriend and she replied "No".

There was no mention of him asking her out!

She also has every right to turn him down.

Infact, both of them fit each other.

Tallesty1:
Why though?

I don't have strength.

horia:
When he was caring for her that one was not affectionate abi?

If he wanted the full package, he should make it official and make her know his intentions.

I don't like dodgy people. Use your mouth talk am.

Tallesty1:
Na to just open church near your house.

There are churches close to my house oh.

One Pastor gave me his flier when I was returning home from work. I promised to show up but never went.

Gerrard59:
In all of this, we should remember OP requested cuddling prior to her presence in his apartment, which she agreed to. Upon arrival, she disagrees, which she has the right to. OP is not at fault. Agreement is agreement. It is dishonest to change the goalpost in the middle of the game.

Cuddling? I saw that part.
I want you to answer me truthfully.

Do you cuddle your female friends when you're emotionally down?

Wouldn't you feel weird if any of your female friend tells you a fellow male friend was down and she went over to cuddle him.

I hope you're aware that cuddling is an affectionate/intimate/prolonged type of hug.

If he really wants a cuddle, let him define the "relationship" he has with the girl. Period!

Agreement is agreement. Good and fine. But there was no contract signed for such, she has every right to back out.

It is also dishonest of him not to define the relationship with the girl. I totally understand what was running through the girl's mind. She doesn't want to be "anybody's fool".

NSK4U:
There are subtle ways to initiate sex or cuddle as he wanted without making oneself look unnecessarily desperate.....

It now projects his longtime care for her as a favour to be repayed with sex whether by agreement or not......

My thoughts exactly.

Showing desperation for sex is a BIG BIG RED FLAG/TURN OFF especially if the "relationship" isn't defined.

It's a sad situation really. Some men feel if you're nice to a lady, the lady needs to repay them with sex.

This is how some of them get into trouble abroad.

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All my friends have given up, don't worry about me.

Even online service dey hard me join.

kkins25:
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I will ascend to heaven later this evening and discuss the bolded with the council of elders. One Nitzen is hiding and depriving the ministry of the Most High of her 10%. What's a Christian without the "body of Christ" where we congregate, praising the lord in unspoken tongues---shamala hamala..

She even adds "dark room." Tell us, what shades of grey are going on in there?

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Abeg I don tire. But you can pray for me though.

I love dark rooms to a fault. Shild of darkness who enjoys relaxing in the dark.

Lucifyre:
See my g! Save for the sunday rice of course.

You nor dey chop Sunday rice?

Not going to church, clean sheets, Sunday rice, movies and dark room.