₦airaland Forum

raumdeuter:
Less said the better.

Hmmm, if you say so.

raumdeuter:
This man you mention so. Another guy man

Lol. You know am abi?

WhoDeyHause:
Yeeeh, you even still put their signature Hahahaha? Blood of Jesus.
I bind you.

Lol be calming down.

Amigoss:
Her Evian is active,na why......Normally Benin women are "carried",Na why dem get the "stubborn" PR and stereotype,lovely souls

Yes. Stubborn and lovely women.

WhoDeyHause:
Then there's not much difference with what we are saying now madam. Everything is attributed to who is more powerful, some women would go to that ogba river like as if they're going to their kitchen but their power will still fail them if the deity backing the husband or family is stronger or vice versa. Power pass power like you said.
But wait ooo I don dey suspect you, this one you've been to both ogba and igboba maybe ovia too self. I hope we are safe? No be say small vex person go vex you for here you go touch phone turn person to grasshopper sharp.

Yes. I understand what you're saying.

Power pass power for Benin. That na normal thing.

Lol, it's Ikpoba (not Igboba). Hahahaha, Ovia river is on another level entirely. That river has claimed lives, even a popular Benin-based clergy, Pastor Charles Osazuwa went to that river to pray and pour anointing oil. This was years ago though.

Hahahaha. If I naked swear for person, e go affect am.

Amigoss:
Yeah but my pov was from the fact that there are checks in place for such not to occur to create that fear factor.....

Small stealing for the community wey dem dey call ayelala or Oba's curse on human traffickers(madam),cases like this make people think twice before indulging in some things...

Lol yes, there are still checks. I totally agree with that.

All these do not stop people from doing wrong deeds though.

Remember "Stolen waters are sweet and bread eaten in secret is pleasant".

Amigoss:
Ahhhh, Olokun women?

Yes. Olokun worshippers thrive in Edo State.

There are more than 250 deities in that state.

WhoDeyHause:
I'm not insinuating that. I mean for the woman's spiritual fortification to override the husband's lock on her from the deity they did the rites to. Note my emphasis is only on married woman ooo not single, divorces or widows.

There are also married women that have spiritual fortification and even if they go outside to cheat, nothing will happen to them.

Power pass power.

Do you think all those curses Israel DMW was laying on his estranged wife will affect her? Somebody that will prosper.

drimzsmoke:
As in!!!
Thanks a lot jare!!!

You're welcome.

WhoDeyHause:
He's right but it also depends on how strong the fortification of the said husband is or how strong the woman is also spiritually though this one is rare. Some men actually don't really do anything when claiming to but the fear of the rites will make the wives not to trespass because of other people's incidents.

Lol and who told you that it is rare for Edo women to be spiritually fortified.

Have you been to Ikpoba River or Ogba River on a daily basis? How many of the people seen at the said rivers are men?

I've been to both rivers and I know what I'm saying.

There are also some set of women that are not meant for marriage. Any man that decides to make it official with them dies. These women belong to the gods, although they are free to enter several sexual relationships with men. I have a friend whose mum is unmarried and have different kids with different men. She too cannot marry.

drimzsmoke:
The randy pastor Fatoyinbo, even after all the mess he had created, wife nursed him in sickness
Ondo state former governor as well
My mum's younger sister, her husband developed benign prostatic hyperplasia(BPH) 10 years ago or more, he's been sexually inactive since then and my mum's younger sister is still with him. The list I have is endless!!!
These idiots will just come online and CAP shit!!!

I know right!

Nigerian women don suffer for Nairaland. One would think their own mothers are of Egyptian descent.

I'm sorry about what your aunty and husband are going through. It is emotionally and financially draining. Sending them ❤️&💡

Amigoss:
I'm surprised it is coming from her,an Edo woman....For all their shortcomings,Paternity fraud,adultery is what I could vouch and swear they could never do.

I don't think cheating/paternity fraud/adultery is solely tied to a specific gender or tribe.

But I can tell you for free that Edo women have a healthy appetite for sex. Just like every other tribe.

edoncast:
I once told u I like u .You should know I want to make my intentions known to you codedly .why coming here to announce I came to your dm.

Be a good Folake

Oh!

Thanks for liking me. However, it is unrequited.

Be assured of my utmost regards.

TrebleChamp:
Are you married to a man from those tribes i mentioned? Not court or church wedding ooh, proper traditional marriage?

I am not married but I'm a born and bred Benin girl.

And I've seen these things happen.

GloriousGbola:
thank God say you say am with ya very full chest

Lol. He knows nothing.

TrebleChamp:
I think Isoko, Urhobo and some part of Benin mostly, their married women dare not cheap on thier husband.

Loooooooool. Keep playing.

UyaiIncomparabl:
You are in Lagos. Do not worry. You will meet them in all shades of black and white.

Sorry. I slept off.

Hian, God abeg oh.🤣🤣🤣

mhizsimi:
Prayer is the key

The master key that breaks every shackles.

Proserpina:

He should go to his closet in War room and commit his girlfriend into God's hands.

Forgive her and pray about it. Fight for your relationship.

Women in male dominated fields >>>>>

UyaiIncomparabl:
He wanted me to get pregnant for him, I said NO. He went ballistic and called me a swine. Lol. No wahala. Oga, if you must want the milk, come pay for the cow that pumps the milk, simple.

Plus, he lived a fast life and I did not want to be part of it. Had a lot of disgusting vices I could not condone too. I complained so much he nicknamed me "nag". I tried all I could to make him a homebody like me, but his choices were baddies which he tried all he could to make me be (which isn't bad), but I was uninterested. Two contrasting humans. We just stopped communicating but he is still generous surprisingly.

Oh wow. I really detest men that always push for pregnancy out of wedlock. Just like kuku do the right thing and put a ring on it.

Lol. To be baddie nor bad oh, at least there's God fearing Baddie.

You tried sha. I haven't met these set of men that'd want to date me and I pray they keep avoiding my path.

UyaiIncomparabl:
Yes, very weird. I even made a real life scenario here.

Oh wow.

Never knew you'd experienced this before.

If you don't mind me asking, how did you break things off with him? Did he take it lightly?

UyaiIncomparabl:
Darling,

It does not work that way. Not every supposedly generous guy is generous in the whole sense of it. Some men are very ready to sponsor your vanities but will never fund a dime to set you on the foot of financial liberation. I mean, these sort of men will rather buy you hairs worth millions than fund your potentials that can make you soar. As a girl who wants something different for yourself, what must you do if you meet such man? Must you not ask and misappropriate the funds for your own good?

Sometimes, misappropriation of funds in this context is not a bad choice. Unless there is a pattern, then it should be looked into. Until then, all I can see is a woman is very entrepreuneurial and ready to financially liberate herself.

Thank you, Uyai.

Point taken. But I find it very weird though. Splurging on women for vanities but not doing same for financial liberation.

Men are weird. Later they'd be bashing materialistic women.

Laurene:
Not glad he did because he went contrary to his beliefs as a gospel-propagating Christian.

And NO! He shouldn't use any form military to drive home his points... We're not in a military rule.
We have the civil courts go take care of issues like this.

Besides some of these people are shady... Always with a skeleton in there cupboard.
So don't ever expect someone in such caliber to accept guilt.

I totally get your point but let's put it this way. Let's put aside "gospel-propagating Christian", he is a brand on his own and it is within his own right to protect the brand's image.

Lol I agree we're not in military rule but this is Nigeria, people are gullible, there's also herd mentality, rumours and rumour mongers who spread false information about people and people unknowingly accept that narrative without knowing the truth.

There's also the civil courts for that too. Yes.
But oh well....

Looool I see where you're headed though.

Laurene:
Yeah they'll likely cower and retract it.
That's how it works in a Banana Republic...Trust me!

Yes, most definitely.

You have to use "vawulence" to drive home a point these days and I'm glad he went this route though.

Kukutente23:
You still do not get it.

You are fixated on spending and not the reasoning behind the spending

You keep pushing the narrative of everyone is free to do what they like with their money which is correct. But you should also know that more importantly, anything you have as resources should be well managed to yield maximum benefit.

Again, someone who can only think of frying yams is on the lowest rung of the economic ladder. Such persons have no business wearing a N250k hair. The boyfriend who gave her the money is more foolish because from the lady's response, it is obvious he has not taken care of things she feels are more important to her before going to N250k hair. If he had already satisfied more cogent needs for her, there's no reason she would have gone to buy yams and oil with the money he gave her for hair.

The lady is wiser than him obviously. If she does not have a job or means of sustenance, and he has not provided her one but is giving her 250k for hair, it shows how shallow and frivolous he is. The lady is more sensible than the guy obviously.

That said, someone who prefers uber to driving and can afford it is within his rights to do so. But he should also be aware of the limitations such as moving at night and cross country movements. So with that, you'll see that having a personal means of movement is more desirable than using uber and its not just the economics alone but the convenience.

And again, wearing a 250k hair to jump buses is utter foolishness. There are some things that make sense and some don't.

Lastly, you now think it's because I can't afford it that's why I'm against the spending. When I said you're a parasite, you denied it. Well, you're now thinking as one

It is futile going back and forth with you.

I agree with you. I'm a parasite indeed. A wonderful one at that.

Thank you.

Kindly accept the assurance of my warmest regards.

IrawoKross:
If your own mother does the opposite to your father at home, then I wish her all the best.

By the way, it's really lovely I made you go online searching for meanings.


Love 😘

You've run out of words to say and that's why you're deflecting. Pele, I totally understand.

You should also try using the online dictionary yourself instead of throwing words around.

Udo!

Laurene:
I mean the gospel singer is using intimidation tactics to get them retract.
The gospel singer won't like a defamation trial.

Lol yeah.

I see you're a learned colleague.

But intimidation tactics is the best way for them to retract such statements. Anytime they hear 'sue", they always go into panic mode. I'm sure he's using that to drive home his point.

They will retract it definitely.

IrawoKross:
Please, is it that you wannabe Nairaland feminist derive joy making an issue out of nothing?

As a graduate of law, you ought to be brilliant to know when someone used the word "Nearly Impossible"

Someone used "Totally Impossible" but me wen use "Nearly Impossible" you guys are already in my mention with placards of unsolicited sermons.

Don't try to make a big deal out of my comment.

No hard feelings.

Anytime a female user disagrees with y'all, the next thing is to label feminism. That format is really stale please. Be creative and get a new label.

Oh well, I applaud the lady's selflessness but you shading Nigerian women doesn't make sense.

Since you want to play smart, you should know by now what "Nearly impossible" means and its synonym. Kindly find attached.

Don't also try to make a big deal out of it because your mother is also a Nigerian lady. You didn't think about this when you subtly shaded Nigerian women?

No hard feelings, bruh.

IrawoKross:
God!!!

You sent your angel in a human form to that young man....

It will be nearly impossible to see one Nigerian lady do this.

God bless her for this.

Lol.

This is highly unnecessary of you to shade Nigerian women because nor be today this kind thing dey happen.

Lots of Nigerian women still stick to their sick husbands, even close to their death bed. They literally took the vow "In sickness and health" to another new level when they stay by their side.

Joke Silva has been standing with her sick husband (who has dementia) for years. Pray, tell me, is she a Kenyan woman?

Finally, you deserve the love you think you deserve.

seankafor:
road 🛣️ is more free 🆓 at night but e no worth am due to insecurity

Yeah.

I'm hearing lots of robbery attacks these days on the road.

izzou:
[color=royalblue]It is less stressful and faster.

Sleep and wake up at your destination, in the morning. You can even go about your business like nothing happened.

The downside? Acute High blood pressure[/color]

Oh I see.

Na that blood pressure part nor make sense.