₦airaland Forum

Laurene:
He'll lose if he can't prove they're lying.
Stop using scare tactics.

Lol. I'm not using scare tactics.

izzou:
[color=royalblue]Very scary oh.

Nothing concern me and night travel again.[/color]

But why do you like traveling by night? Is it more fun?

Eunoiaa:
You and these Nairaland men. 🤣🤣


You crack me up.

I'm TIRED. REALLY TIRED.

Both the unsolicited ones and the monickers I've never seen in my entire life.

Congratulations to you.💚

edoncast:
Lol

Bros, why are you sending me a DM?

maxiuc:
A case that he will loose woefully

I said haaaaa this boy really looked like you so what's crime in that

And who told you he will lose in court?

How will you feel if you birth a child and someone jokingly says the child looks like your best friend.

Put yourself in his shoes and answer truthfully.

This is very applaudable. Foolish people will come from nowhere and want to dent reputation you've built for years and call it cruise for stupid likes and retweets.

This will serve as a deterrent to others.

Kukutente23:
People are balling hard but frying yams for sale is not an example of balling hard. Rather, it is an example of struggling hard

Look at the hair on her head in that pic. Does that look like hair worth 20k? If he couldn't give her hair worth over 20k but gave her 250k out of the blues, then something is wrong with him. If he can afford to give her 700k phone, and she adds that sum to 250k, I'm sure 1m cannot be used to do yam frying business. Something better will be in the offing. The fact that she used this particular money to start frying yams shows it's a one off thing thus, it is safe to say he cannot afford the lifestyle expected of someone who uses 250k to do hair.

The man does not want her to look good for him. He is just simply foolish. From the picture of her kneeling down beside the yams, it shows she does not enjoy such luxury from him. Thus, she sees this particular incident as a big deal to be overjoyed with.

It is utter foolishness to enter a public bus with 250k hair especially in Nigeria's broken transport system. Secondly, it is bigger foolishness to turn yourself to uber customer. Imagine taking uber for 365 days a year to everywhere you're going. If you sit down to calculate how much you have spent, you will realise it will get you a good Nigerian used car to serve you. Again, it shows a lack of financial insight on your part again.

I'm not referring to car as a sign of riches. What I am pointing out is that she has no business going about jumping from one bus to the other with a 250k hair. It is foolishness.

You think she did not pressure him for the 250k? If he can afford 250k for hair, shouldn't opening a boutique for her be a small matter?

If you observed keenly, from the onset of this convo, I didn't support buying yams when he gave her money to buy hair. I said it was misappropriation of funds.

I have looked at the hair on her head and I'm here to tell you that hair extensions are not cheap. A pack of attachment is 6,500. If you multiply that by two, that is 13k already and as you can see, the hair length is long and way past her bra length. We've not even added money for washing the hair and then paying for workmanship. So the hair on her head is 20k worthy. People spend as much as 30k and even 70k on braids.

I don't understand your problem with the man giving her 250k for hair. If you can't do it for your woman, that is totally fine, nobody will beat you for that.

And yes, it is also possible she's not used to luxury things. And probably this time, he wanted her to enjoy his funds. There are people who aren't used to living a luxurious life and don't know how to act/behave when it comes to them, it takes a great deal of unlearning and learning to get used to a new "phase of life".

You sound condescending. The real rich people do not care about these things. Really.

There's a Nairalander that I've known for 4yrs now. He never owned a car and ALWAYS used Uber everywhere he went to until he left the shores of Nigeria.

Lol. There are people who do not own cars but use Uber 365 days a year because they do not really mind and also their income outweigh their expenditure, it doesn't mean they lack financial insight. People have priorities and will use their money to do what suits them.

I can decide to jump from bus to another with my 250k wig and it shouldn't bother you.

Here again, jumping into conclusion. You accused the man for simping because he gave her 250k, now again, you're assuming she pressured him.

Just rest please. Don't worry, God will provide for you.

Eunoiaa:
I guess so too.

Sure thing.

I don't eat ripe mango. Only unripe ones.

Eunoiaa:
So it's not true for you?


Wow. With the way I see people posting about it online, I'd think it something every lady with big boobs experience.

It is not true for me oh.

I run, played football, do exercises with my big breast and never had back pain.

I guess people are different.

dollyjoy:
Back pain?
I wonder why people say this. I am on the big side and I never experienced any back pain.

My sister, I tire too.

Mine is bigger than yours and I don't still understand this back pain people associate with big boobs.

Kukutente23:
Someone who can afford a 250k hair is not someone who will be thinking of frying yams to survive

The question is not if the man deems her worthy of 250k hair but if the man can afford it and if she can also afford to wear such hair given her economic realities.

A boyfriend who can afford to give his lady a 250k hair must of necessity be able to give her a 700k phone in the mold of iPhone14, shoes worth at least 75k and such other expensive gifts and most certainly a car. Or what is the wisdom in wearing a 250k wig and end up matching your sweat with others in public buses. If the boyfriend cannot afford to give her all these but is instead giving her 250k hair, then he is of all men most foolish.

Again, a man who can AFFORD (with AFFORD being the operative word here), to give his woman 250k for hair will most probably not look upon her with grace if the next business idea she can come up with is frying yams. She will most certainly lose the guy cause he will see her as mentally poor and lacking in creativity.

More importantly, I struggle to see how a lady who knows her boyfriend can actually afford to give her 250k for hair will think the next thing is to be frying yams for sale. Women are too vain to stoop that low from such heights. All she needs to do is pressure him to open a boutique for her and that's it.

Even in this harsh economic realities, people are still balling hard. Your reality is not theirs.

If he gives her a 250k worth of hair, that is fine. Adding a 700k phone or expensive shoes will be done at his own discretion. If he also decides to buy her a car, that is also good and fine.

For me, it's the man's thought that matters. He wanted her to look good for him.

Nigerians and classism. Lol. What is wrong in entering public bus? It is just a means of transportation. What if he doesn't buy her a car but instead she uses Uber to and fro.

It is people like you who associate owning a car with riches.

She needs to pressure him to open a boutique for her? Okay oh. Later you people will say you don't like pressure from women.

kkins25:
How I go dey one scam away from jail con dey dash you money to do legit business? The yahoo is not yahooing at all
😂😂😂😂

I recall, one student, told me she asked her childhood and closest friend(former) who's into hook up things, to help her with 2k for an emergency and didn't get it..
I told her, even if na me u think say i go give you? Abi, no be d same bumbum una get? If u think say e easy run am....
🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣

Lmao.

Most yahoo boys spend their money on frivolities, only few invest in legit business for themselves or their pablet girlfriends.

Even hookup biz is also a risky venture sha. Some of them are generous and won't really mind sha.

pocohantas:
Sadly it is not only yahoo boys. That problem has been there before the advent of mainstream yahoo boys. In fact, some yahoo boys open salon, nail tech and hair business for their gfs all the time.

There are many men that provide what their women/wives need, but get angry once she mentions starting a business. Then they ask "Are you lacking anything? Why do you want to work?" Whether it comes from a place of love or not is subjective and relative.

Hmmmmmm. True again sha.

I just remembered some Yahoo boys that opened salon, nail and hair business for their babes, and they're thriving.

Lol. That's really weird sha. But to each his own.

pocohantas:


Maybe he is the type that will buy you luxury things, but never give you money that can help you grow. There are men like that. They will buy beer for their male friends, ask them to teach you the business and they start dodging you.

Anyway, if this story is true, I commend her for ensuring she can stand on her own.

The only men that I know who will buy luxury things and never give you money that can help you grow are Yahoo boys. It is not hard to spot them.

I don't even understand the set of people that do such.

If indeed the story is true, good luck to her being a virtuous woman.

Kukutente23:
By their fruits we shall know them

Those who make enough to afford it

Her beauty is not the subject

Then she should sell it and add to the money for her business

To misappropriate will be to spend the money unwisely. She didn't do that so I see it as creative engineering. Besides, it seems you are not of the feminist stock with this your theory.


A wife material should be able to decipher how best to deploy the resources available to her. Few people will argue with her choice here. She can be likened to Abigail in the Bible who saved her foolish husband's life from David's wrath using the man's properties evn when the man chose to be foolish.

Looool. Na you sabi.

And are you her brother to know if she can afford it or not? Or you live with her?

You clearly said this

Look at that girl in the video. Does she look liks someone who should be doing 20k hair not to mention 250k?

To which I replied that she's beautiful. If a man deems it fit that she deserves a 250k wig, I don't see a problem with that. If you don't like it, that is your cup of akamu.

Looool. Creative engineering indeed.

I see you've taken the Bible route. Lol. I know what you are.

My stance still remains that her boyfriend out of his benevolence gave her 250k for hair. Surely, there's more of the money from where it came from and if she had asked, he would gladly finance her business.

If you want a virtuous woman, nobody's stopping you please.

Kukutente23:
The parasites have arrived
Look at that girl in the video. Does she look liks someone who should be doing 20k hair not to mention 250k?
Wisdom is profitable to direct. There is a difference between misappopriation and creative financing

Lol. I'm not a parasite.

So who are the women/girls deserving to do 20k/250k hair?

That girl is beautiful. I don't know about you.

In case you don't know, attachment is expensive now in the market. That braids you see on her head is also expensive.

I wasn't wrong when I said she misappropriated the funds her boyfriend gave to her. He gave her the money specifically to buy a good hair to look good and not to buy yams.

Simple!

It doesn't make her a wife material. Gosh!

abobote:
If the boyfriend can give 250k just for hair, that means he is rich enough to start a good business for her.

Don't believe everything you see on social media though

Apt. My thoughts exactly.

If indeed her boyfriend gave her the money to buy hair, she should have used it for that singular purpose.

Misappropriation is still misappropriation even when benevolent or beneficial to you. And if starts small...

Tomorrow, you'll give her money for a building project and she'd use it to make yam pepper soup with goat meat.

But oh well, she's a Queen afterall and her type is rare.

Unlimited22:
No be for these matters o. Especially if you decide to invest in the South African Premier League, you gats investigate very well


Academy products can be balling and on fire but you have to let them develop

Lol smh. You sef dey talk.

Eunoiaa:
We're winning and pushing small small. 🤣💪


They've been increasing the age of loneliness from 30+ to 40, 50, and 60 plus now. It's currently not stable as one guy one time increased it to 80+. But all I can definitively tell you is that it's no more 30, so all glory be to God and the sisterhood and their unrelenting spirits.

Amazing news for Nigerian women today.

All glory and praise be to God and the stubborn women as well.

We will EMERGE, Insha Allah.

Eunoiaa:
When that one said anything below 27 is a waste of time, I thought they used to peddle that young women are the best for dating/marriage ni.

I didn't want to comment since but I was amused when he said that.

Soon it'd be 40+ women that are the best for dating/marriage.

TemporaryHansel:
Anything below 27 is a waste of time

Lol na wa.

#JusticeforGenZGirls.

Men and always shifting the goalpost.

pocohantas:
If not she for set ring light dey cry.
🤣🤣🤣🤣

Lmao no lies. With plenty likes, shares and retweets.

God abeg. 🤣🤣🤣

pocohantas:
They think say na Mohbad wife.
Na why e good make woman strong and dey tactical. Not every small thing, you go dey cry until catarrh commot for your nose.

🤣🤣🤣🤣

Stubborn women>>>>>>>>

Nazgul:
At least the guy would have bedtime stories to tell his kids that being Jesus isn't an easy task.

That one sef dey. 🤣🤣🤣

Heard this on radio today.

Congratulations Op.

Your wife is beautiful! All shades of gorgeousness.

May your home be blessed. 💚