European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Arsenal Vs Chelsea: EFL Cup (1 - 0) On 3rd February 2026 by folake4u: 4:44pm On Feb 04 |
Caaz: Kikikikikili
Goodafternoon Folake4u Good afternoon Mama. |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Arsenal Vs Chelsea: EFL Cup (1 - 0) On 3rd February 2026 by folake4u: 9:16pm On Feb 03 |
Hmmmmm. Caaz v. Folake4u.  |
Crime › Re: Nigerian Socialite Impersonates Dubai Prince, Steals $2.5 Million From Woman by folake4u: 8:18pm On Feb 03 |
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Christianity Etc › Re: Famous Gospel Musician Ron Kenoly Dies At 81 by folake4u: 8:12pm On Feb 03 |
Omgggggggggg!!! I loved loved Ron Kenoly's music.
He had a charming smile every time. May he rest in peace and his family comforted. |
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Romance › Re: I Want To Marry This Girl But She Keeps Doing This Should I Quit Her. by folake4u: 7:57pm On Feb 02 |
Lol this sounds like SS2B plaything. |
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Family › Re: Men That Married A Lady Without Skill Or Education , Share Your Experience by folake4u: 9:58pm On Feb 01 |
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Family › Re: Men That Married A Lady Without Skill Or Education , Share Your Experience by folake4u: 9:45pm On Feb 01 |
elipheleh: Marrying an unintelligent woman is really the worst mistake a man can make.
If I can reverse the Hands of clock I wont go for my current wife.
Well, I always loved an intellectually sound woman. It trips me. Something like a medical doctor or a programmer lady. At minimum a working class lady. Both intellect and beauty trips me.
I imagined a marriage where I'll be on thesame frequency.
I am a 1st class material but financial burden made me drop to second class upper in my 3rd year to 5th year.
I always knew I was going far in life and needed a woman who wanted to go far too.
When I met my wife she was very beautiful, speaks very well and in her 1st year. Each time I asked about her studies she would convince me how she was the best in her class and this and that.
Ask for her results, she would say results are not yet out.
By her 2nd year I married her after she got pregnant. As per the honorable man na
Do you know this girl after I2nd year, all her results were carry over. I mean ALL. Not even 1 pass.
Damn. Women fear women.
Now she just birthing beautiful kids. But now there's communication. Tge knowledge gap between us is too wide. Nothing to discuss about. Even when I try to communicate it frustrates me. I will speak and still explain my very own grammar. Then I will now explain the meaning and the etymology before continuing with the sentence. Its a real pain communicating.
You can imagine my regrets when I see an intelligent hardworking lady doctor outside.
Secondly, she doesn't want to work or even study to improve herself.
I am not poor by any means. I am a software developer. I earn about N4 million monthly.
But my wife is only happy selling ZOBO and kwulikwuli. Even at that she is not serious with it. Imagine this year she has not even started selling anything. January has passed.
I've told her to learn and IT skills. She says No.
Told her learn nursing, she said No
I did international passport for me, her and our 3 kids. She just came up and said she won't like to travel abroad. Her fears is that women there are likely going to be working on jobs.
Ok. Madam lets open Boutique for you - she no get the energy to run boutique.
Oya learn driving and be taking the kids to school - it is taking her almost 3 years to learn. Today she will drive, tomorrow she will forget it.
Oya madam go back to school and complete your education. She no want.
Every quarrel, she will threaten to commit suicide (informing random relations of mine to take care good of her children if anything happens to her) and accuse me of not seeing any value in her. Madam which value? You don't want to improve yourself and you now cry that I am improving.
She wants this and that and I spend so much. How can a man be spending more than 3 million every month? She want chop chop chop.
Since I met her, I have overworked myself.
Story long..
Sometimes, I always feel like quitting this marriage. But being a Christian, I feel trapped in this better for worse journey.
If only Madam can develop herself. I wish she can be just willing to learn or pursue knowledge. Let her drop this laziness about self-development and littleness mindset thing. Kai. No ambition. No dreams. I wish she can just have dreams for once in her life. And be a lover of wisdom.
I plan to go far in this life. But its difficult to do so when you're unequally yoked with an unambitious partner.
Only God can save my marriage at this rate things are going Damnnn. You're not trolling right? |
Health › Re: Abuja Singer, Ifunanya Nwangene Dies From Snakebite by folake4u: 7:45pm On Feb 01 |
Owwwww. This is quite sad. May she rest in peace. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Sarah Mullally Confirmed As Archbishop Of Canterbury by folake4u: 11:29am On Feb 01 |
Congratulations Sarah.  |
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European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Chelsea Vs West Ham (3 - 2) On 31st January 2026 by folake4u: 7:06pm On Jan 31 |
Caaz: I m supporting Chelsea to win.....they better not disappoint me. Hello folake4u.  |
Romance › Re: Lawyer Warns: Running If Your Partner Dies In Your House Could Ruin Your Life by folake4u: 9:21pm On Jan 30 |
Mariangeles: Okay.
I've often wondered about that.
Thanks.  You're welcome babe.  |
Politics › Re: Natasha Akpoti & Husband Enjoying Sweet Moments In Snowy Switzerland (Video) by folake4u: 9:20pm On Jan 30 |
Natasha the stallion.
A dazzling beauty. |
Romance › Re: Lawyer Warns: Running If Your Partner Dies In Your House Could Ruin Your Life by folake4u: 9:12pm On Jan 30 |
Mariangeles: That is another question:
If you were my lawyer/legal advisor, what would the payment plan be like? Monthly or per service?  It depends on the client pocket.  You can sign a retainership agreement with the lawyer or per service. Well, a retainership is best because it gives you unlimited access to the lawyer. |
Romance › Re: Lawyer Warns: Running If Your Partner Dies In Your House Could Ruin Your Life by folake4u: 8:57pm On Jan 30*. Modified: 9:18pm On Jan 30 |
Nefort: So what is the process to go through so I can contact you if I have issues requiring a lawyer? Do you register you clients? You could sign a retainership agreement with a lawyer Or pay per service. |
Romance › Re: Lawyer Warns: Running If Your Partner Dies In Your House Could Ruin Your Life by folake4u: 8:37pm On Jan 30 |
Mariangeles: In such a situation, what would a lawyer [advise his/her client to] do first? Accompany the client to report to the police station? If yes, what next after that? Maria, all these questions..... Do you want me to be your lawyer?  |
Properties › Re: Finally Moved Into My First Rented House At The Age Of 46 by folake4u: 8:35pm On Jan 30 |
Double0h7: What? Let the man rest! He’s worked a lifetime to secure a room over his head. ☺️ Lmao you're rude o. But yes, it could be his retirement home. 😂😂 |
Romance › Re: Lawyer Warns: Running If Your Partner Dies In Your House Could Ruin Your Life by folake4u: 6:22pm On Jan 30 |
Nefort: Please how do one get a lawyer? I am one. |
Romance › Re: Lawyer Warns: Running If Your Partner Dies In Your House Could Ruin Your Life by folake4u: 6:18pm On Jan 30 |
The best thing to do is to call your lawyer first.
It's important to have lawyers on your speed dial. |
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Properties › Re: Finally Moved Into My First Rented House At The Age Of 46 by folake4u: 5:15pm On Jan 30 |
Double0h7: Now, you can retire in peace 😂 What the helly? 😂 |
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Family › Re: My Marital Journey Has Begun! by folake4u: 9:21am On Jan 30 |
Gerrard59: The same Jman has attacked me for stating that many people will get married. So, na him sef don go do introduction?
You see, this is why I loathe extremists on both sides. They are hypocritical and do more harm than good. Lol, your brother has gone to do introduction. He opened this thread with great enthusiasm.  Yes, the hypocrisy stinks to the highest heavens. |
Health › Re: When Was The Last Time You Had Quality Sleep by folake4u: 11:09pm On Jan 29 |
Last night. I slept at 12midnight and woke up this morning 8:40am. |
Family › Re: My Marital Journey Has Begun! by folake4u: 11:05pm On Jan 29 |
pocohantas: I didn't know you are familiar with him. I was shocked when I followed your comment and saw it is Jman. I am very sure about a month ago, I saw him arguing with his life that men do not benefit from marriage. But na him create thread, not the 20yo girl. I am actually, I always try to avoid his monicker like plague. 😂😂 Let's not be surprised if his 20yr old wife influences him to be creating Tiktok content soon. |
Family › Re: My Marital Journey Has Begun! by folake4u: 5:01pm On Jan 29 |
pocohantas: This one in particular is always online telling us men don't benefit from marriage. But he has left his fellow Ministers of Bannies to go do introduction, even open thread to tell us. I pity his colleagues on here.
😂😂😂😂😂😂 Imagine my shock when I opened this thread and it's the notorious monicker always championing that marriage doesn't benefit men. A case of "Do as I say, not what I do". Na mumu dey believe their mouth. |
Family › Re: My Marital Journey Has Begun! by folake4u: 2:53pm On Jan 29 |
Lol. I thought Marriage doesn't benefit men but you don open thread due to excitement on getting married. You for kuku do Tiktok content about "GRWM on meeting my in-laws".  |
Crime › Re: Uk-based Nigerian Jailed 6 Years For Raping A Woman In Toilet Of A Train by folake4u: 2:44pm On Jan 29 |
spiceadole: My sister, don't mind them. I'm in the UK. This is my 7th year. White women are not rushing Nigerian men. Even Nigerian women tend to avoid them . Konji is dealing with a lot of Nigerian men here. Some of them got dumped by their wives as soon as they relocated here. I know a guy who has not gotten any action since Sept 2023. His wife divorced him and moved on with a guy from another African country. He is so frustrated, he is considering visiting Nigeria during the summer just so he can cum. Loool just look at. Nigerian men and audacity. They always want to reap where they didn't sow. Las las na Nigerian women fit them pass.  I'm not surprised he's taking that route of coming to the country just to cúm. Na their way be that. I have an acquaintance that does so yearly. Na him tradition. |
Crime › Re: Uk-based Nigerian Jailed 6 Years For Raping A Woman In Toilet Of A Train by folake4u: 11:45am On Jan 29 |
Yen yen yen.
I thought you people said white women are the best thing after sliced bread. See how y'all are changing mouth. Na múmú dey believe una truly.
I hope justice is served and Mr. Odubanjo cools his brains in prison. |