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AmazonTopaz:
I am even more keen on kids than marriage.

A man who shares my vision and ideas is whom I will marry. I just haven't met the person and I am willing to do life without getting married.

I have learned to decenter men from my life.

Aww that's cool. I'm more keen on companionship than kids. Since my childhood, I've never really toyed with the idea of having mini-mes but let's see how life goes.

And Insha Allah, you will get your heart desires.

Same here, I catch my cruise with them and keep it moving.

Gerrard59:
The way they even say young boys will impregnate these advanced aged women tells a lot about their mentality. Not even that a fellow 50-year-old man will approach her, but a lad.

Indeed, it was disgusting when I saw young men say "Until them lodge one Mama for hotel before others go hear word". A harmless and fun trend by women was sexualized by men.

Disgusting lots.

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Gerrard59:
When you say many men haven't changed at all, is this from actual physical conversations/interactions across the spectrum of men or online conversations?

Mine is from studies such as women preferring to be child-free because men haven't changed alongside them regarding childbirth and other women's issues. Additionally, women demanding more as major/equal players in the corporate world. Another one is women becoming more sexually free or expressive compared to a decade or two ago. Many men are yet to come to terms with this.


I know that section like the back of my palm.

Yes, all of the above, Gerrard.

Oh nice. Welldone.

Talk and Do!!!! Nor be Cho Cho Cho.

We were saved from noise pollution by the useless Manure United. Alhamdulilah.

Gerrard59:
She is right though. I think the Nairalander Tightpussy2024 stated something similar. Men will want to follow every woman, but believe theirs are untouchable. Things have changed on most social issues, so have most women (globally speaking), but it seems many men haven't changed as well. Maybe the effects of testosterone and nature are too strong.

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I no know say this kind section dey for this our forum o. We learn daily.

Many men haven't changed at all and so women are following in their footsteps. A win-win situation, if you ask me.

Haha. There's also the Sexuality/Ashewo thread. Have you seen that?

Nazgul:
Our useless coach is yet to make any changes. So what he's saying is that he's OK with what his players are playing on the pitch?

Amorim suppose dey do mishai. 😂😂😂😂

Nazgul:
Just wait and see.

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

Useless club. Red devils indeed.

Gerrard59, this is what I was telling you earlier.

Gerrard59:
Thanks for explaining.


What I meant is that those Southeastern men who don't give head because of tradition have nothing to do with me. So my Igboness does not reach that side. I was not called headmaster for no reason. Why you think say I would rather reside permanently in a Black dominated environment?b

You're welcome.

Ohhhhhh!!! I get your point now.

Headmaster aye? Let Igwe give you the Headies Award plaque nau.

Gerrard59:
So why men dey lie for social media say dem no fit give head?


My Igboness doesn't reach that side.

Lol 😂 well, different strokes for different folks, I guess.

Some men really don't give head and are vocal about it. Some are lying but are indeed pússywhipped.

I have a simple rule. If you don't eat me, I won't do same for you.

And really, you should not really be carried away social media cos a lot of people lie there.

Lol so you really don't do óral sex?

Gerrard59:
Because most of our men aren't interested or keen on performing oral s.ex

Lol. I think you should speak for yourself alone.

Cos there are lots of men who perform öral séx. Although, I have heard from some South Eastern men that they're not keen in that act. They're a minority anyways.

Gerrard59:
In Nigeria, where do such women reside? What do they do for a living? Which places do they congregate for leisure activities?

I'm just genuinely curious...

Sexual liberal women in all parts of Nigeria that can be found in churches, mosques, clubs with thriving business or careers.

Ouchbabe:
My brother times have changed ooo
Sex means nothing to most women now. The way a man cums and think of the next woman to bash that's the same way women climax(do they even climax) and think of the next guy they will sleep with to pay their bill

Lmao, let the Op be dreaming in Lala-land. I laughed out loud when I read his post.

Even there are Women that just sleep with men for fun. Strictly fun. No strings attached whatsoever.

AmazonTopaz:
Which video?
Marriage by default puts women at a disadvantage so a woman must carefully pick and not rush into. As a Feminists, I have made peace with the fact that I may never marry.

Owww you haven't seen it. Find attached:

P Daniel Oyewande: There was a time I felt disconnected from my babe(wife), I was just tired of her. I was fed up, she wasn’t appealing to me anymore. She wasn’t attractive and I was overwhelmed. I had to go to her mentor who apologized on her behalf. pic.twitter.com/hO6e1wyet0

— 𝒥𝓊𝓁ℯ𝓏 💞 (@JulezJakez) May 10, 2025

Yeah this is true. It's important women don't rush these things otherwise O ti lor izz far gone.

Lol Why'd you say that? As for me, I'm not really keen on kids but marriage for companionship isn't bad at all.

Moniya4Real:
A very considerate woman. She bit off the tip and not the whole thing. Merciful banny

Very considerate. She try.

I last bought yam in February this year. Three (3) big sizes for N5,500.

Tallesty1:
Be nice to him

Neverrrr!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Nazgul How market??

Garri.

AmazonTopaz:
E be like say marriage na business for you. It's a good mindset for a woman to honestly have because men will disgrace you so always be on guard.

😂😂😂😂😂

I mean, we could be all lovey-dovey in marriage but facts remain that it's still an institution that should be treated with respect, kindness, love etc (which are elements of the contract agreement).

And yeah, some men will stain your white.

Did you see the trending video of that man disgracing his wife on live TV earlier this week?

Talismann:
nice one, but I no wan wake up tomorrow see one funny post, "we have decided to let go and move on ... "

And if that happens, that's also okay too.

AmazonTopaz:
You are welcome, your number 2 is wild o

Lmao how nau.

Jughead29:
Am sure if you check this lady's bag you will see some toys that will amaze you 😂

Did she bring out the toys and start self-servicing? What is your problem?

Instead of condemning his action, you're shifting blame. Mtcheww!

Klass99:
1. That would be serial killers, I would like to know what makes human life so meaningless or invaluable, to cause them to kill so easily.

2. In my opinion, a beatiful union of two adults (a biological male and a biological female) taking good care of each other spiritually, mentally, emotionally, physically and financially. Doing life together through the good and bad times, and doing good things for God's kingdom on earth.

3. Hmm..........my smile/dimples, my voice, my ability for keeping things neat, tidy and appealing.

4. I don't have any role models, if I like or admire something about a person, I try to practice it in my own life. That has been my experience with different people over the years, from my mother to my flatmate, to a colleague at work.

5. It has got to be my Naija na or any other African country will do just fine. Africa is in my blood like kilode! I love this continent and the different sights and sounds of it.

6. I admire the differences in our anatomies, how muscular and strong men are physically. I also admire how they naturally gravitate towards providing for and protecting women they like or just by seeing us as the weaker sex.

7. That would be the life application bible from my eldest sister! This version of the bible is one of the best things to have ever happened to me in my life. I thoroughly like and I enjoy reading it and using it.

I tag JovialJune.

Awww that's nice. I have dimple too.

I admire your love for the African continent, Klass. It intrigues me.