₦airaland Forum

Nazgul:
He should know that a lot of foreign women hang around African celebrities for the sole purpose of setting them up and milking them. A rape accusation in a foreign land would destroy his image forever.

Abeg make he follow foreign women make we breathe small fresh air. Afterall, Nigerian women are bad in y'all books.

That comment dey muzz me. Role model to our youths ke?

Nigerians do love putting fools on a pedestal.

I say this without bias but Cole Palmer >>>>>>>

With the rate he's going, I won't be surprised he clinches a Ballon d'Or award in the nearest future. He will be one English player that will win this. Insha Allah.

My Man of the Match. 💙💙💙💙

Reggzy:
lol,you sef dey watch ball?...Which club?

Chelsea Football Club.
Best Club in England, the Pride of London.💙🙏

Nazgul:
This fixture by UEFA is very shameful. How can Europa league final come before conference league final?

Conference league final was supposed to be played last Wednesday and today was supposed to be Europa league final. We would have defeated Tottenham had it been the our final was played today.

UEFA is totally biased.

Yen yen yen Naz. Go siddon abeg.

Chelsea haters?? Delete your fuçking drafts pleaseeeeeeeeeeeee.

The sky is BLUE.💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙

Up the fuçking Chels!!!!

triplechoice:
You said this because you can't think of any other reason behind his expression of outrage.


Why don't you consider for once that his religious beliefs might be the reason behind his condemnation of those teenager's dressing and not because he's a paedophile?

I didn't quote you because I support what the man said about how those teenagers were dressed,(nothing is indecent in it) but because you said he shouldn't be allowed near female children when you don't know much about him or the actual reason behind his opinion.

What of women who are guilty of the same behaviour of condemning teenagers who they consider inappropriately dressed?

From your reasoning, are they not doing that too because they're paedophiles and should also not be allowed near female children?

A man literally said same thing on this thread before my comment and you nor write epistle for him head.

Abeg comot. Osiso at this instant!

Waiting for the Nairaland men that have dated rich girls to tell their stories lies.

omoredia:
So u don't even beIieve in urseIf? That's why the US doesn't want u peopIe

Papa nor vex. 😂😂

omoredia:
It is ur power? Let then lose it so that Nigeria will have chance to be world power

Nigeria and world power in same sentence?

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

Thanks for the laugh.

Klass99:
Lol and shaking my head.

Yes na. I'm very flexible.

This man shouldn't be allowed close to female children. Where is the indecent dressing please?

[quote author=Tallesty1 post=135531751][/quote]😂😂😂

Konquest:
@Folake,

Let me break the ice here.

I like the way YOU'VE been operating in "stealth mode." It reveals a lot about the inner workings of the resident ex-Uniben "In-house Counsel."

This is the end of May 2025 and you NEVER bothered to say one word of "hello." It shows you can be a "hard-minded" lawyer.


Really? Ah! "What are you "transitioning" into outside law Folake?"



Anyways, enjoy your day, and the rest of 2025 leading right into 2026.

Ciao.

Hi Sir. Happy New Year.

All these big big grammar though. Lol.

Truly, I'm a hard minded lawyer, it's a good thing though.

I hope you've been fine as well.

Well, I can transition into anything. Teaching, strip dancing, Prophetess etc.

Klass99:
Ehn ehn, is that so, @ the bolded? Were you and Farfalla not the ones trying to convince me otherwise about procreation one time? Or am I mistaking?

How did you get to this point of procreation being secondary for you? I'm curious o, because the society will have us women believing we want children more than we crave air to breathe and water to drink.

Are you into litigation or corporate law practice?

Lol it's not me oh, Klass. You're mistaken.

Oh, it's ALWAYS been like this for me. I'm a very selfish woman.

I'm an In-house Counsel. Wanna transition outside Law soon though.

Klass99:
Mwaaahh , kisses to you too. How is the lawyer life going after law school? Why does No.4 resonate with you?

🥰🥰

Lawyer life nor easy but we keep pushing through. Thanks for asking.💜

Well personally, I believe in Marriage for companionship purpose. Procreation is secondary in my books.

Proserpina:
Nigerians dey always overdo things nah.


From what I've seen so far, there's no correlation o

Normally.

There's no correlation but you know how the thing dey go.

Gerrard59:
Based on the followers' message restriction settings, I agree with Mrjavas. It's going to be hard. Well, na for those wey wan woo ladies online.

I'm so old school. It has to be face-to-face.

I get your point. But I dont think it's all females that restrict access to DMs.

Lmao that's also okay.

Klass99:
I think you have a good point but Pansophist also made some valid points, your response and reaction to him wasn't necessary.

Let's try and debate the issue sensibly and in a civil manner.

1. The difference between parents and children is that, parents made a choice to have children and that choice comes with responsibilities and obligations some of which you listed above. Children on the other hand didn't make a choice to come into this world, to have parents or to have the sort of situation OP is in thrust upon them. As children we try to make the best of it, by doing good, doing right and doing well by our parents.

2. It is a natural course of life that children will grow up one day and leave home. This is a normal and old practice, even the bible talks about a man leaving his parents to cleave to his wife. We leave the nest to build our lives and live out our dreams or purpose, most times that means physically parting from parents and leaving them behind.

3. Parents and children were never meant to be together until death do them part. That is an exclusive reserve of married couples. The OP"s parents are the ones who should be together till death does them part. I understand the sentiment you expressed about parents being old, doing things for us and wanting us around in old age, but I think what most of them truly need is companionship.

4. It can be companionship from one another as a couple, from their friends, church community, or a group of people with same interests, etc. It must not necessarily be from the physical presence of their children. This is one of the reasons why I believe companionship is more important in marriage than children. I also don't like this idea we have of birthing kids so they can look after us in old age. It creates scenarios like the one OP is in now and emotional blackmail as well.

5. I cannot relate to the desire or need, to bring non-existent people into existence, just so they can take care of us in old age. It is a lot work if you ask me, because the work you will do for those children before you reach old age, will be more than the work they'll do for you in return. And if they are children who refuse to catch sense, premium heartache and pain awaits you in old age.

6. So, yes, while parents fed us and took care of us, it was their responsibility and duty to do so, as a matter of the choice they made to bring us into this world. While we also have a duty to do right by them as godly and sensible children, we can do that without necessarily living with them.

My own mother told me once that while they do not see me often they feel my impact from miles away through the financial support I provide. Pansophist is not wrong when he says they should adopt children, in my case, we have a young girl of University age who lives with my parents.

She's in her 3rd year now, she's not a blood relative, I don't know how or where my mum found her but they've put her through primary and secondary school, now she's almost through with University.

I am more quick to send that girl pocket money for her personal use, than I am, to send to some of my own blood relatives. Blood is not thicker than water for me when it comes to that girl, the value she has provided and continues to provide exceeds the value some blood relatives have provided.

7 kisses to you, Klass.

No. 4 resonates with me very well.

MrJavaS:
And get blocked right?
Even if you have good intentions, they just won't give you the time of the day.

Besides Instagram is the best place to meet people you may find attractive because it's a photo sharing app, we all know that guys are attracted to looks at first before anything else.

I've removed my hand from Instagram girls, it's a lot better to meet girls offline.

😂😂😂😂 Why are you prepping yourself to get blocked? This is so funny.
Certainly, I don't think 10 girls will block you. 1 must somehow click.

Just try, you hear.

MrJavaS:
Funny how it's impossible (1%) chance of getting a lady's attention on Instagram, they set their accounts to private and then set up the account to only receive message requests from accounts they follow. To be honest I don't believe it's possible to find love online.

Lol it is possible to find love online.

You can target comment section of popular posts on IG and Twitter, and from there follow-up on any lady that you fancy, I guess.

Proserpina:
I'm on season two but I can say it's worth my time. Sometimes I get bored and see some cartoons in-between else I would have watched farther. I really have short attention span for things these days.

Oh if you watch it you will understand. Any small thing Valhalla, Ragnarok... Odin signs , hall of what self . They made it sound like people who fear death are not serious with thier lives🙄🙄 . Them do carry that Valhalla for head abeg.

Naturally, I have short attention span but cartoons, Korean movies, music have my heart always. But yeah, I get your point.

Anyways, Valhalla get another meaning to Nigerians sha. E dey give cult vibes and stuff.

😂😂😂😂

Proserpina:
Funny how I'm recently watching vikings and I see this.

Valhalla ko Malaria ni

Oh really? Nice. I haven't watched Vikings though.

Pina why?😂😂😂😂😂

Nazgul:
We're coming back stronger next season. That's a guarantee.

Naz, you said this last season. Please give up!

[quote author=Nazgul post=135502226][/quote]Lmao 🤣😂😂.

I've told you. Leave ManYoo for your mental health's sake.

Valhalla.