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edunaragold:
After marriage a lot of people do expect thing to just be fine,they don't know, both couples have,another life challenges ahead of them, while some couples overcame their challenges another couples are planing to break up finally.

Since I discovered I married an Igbo Lady, and after one kid,I later learn were my mistake came from, my only mistake was that I did not set in mind another financial side were my wife would generate incomes, but am working on 3 ways i can generate petty petty income before my salary enters,no perfect marriage, but its how you use endurance to achieved the well beings of the marriage .a lot of times its after marriage that people realized their mistake despite all the marriage plans before the marriage.

When my wife started given me that attitude and excuses of am tired, leave me alone, pls stop, etc when I make advance at her, I tried to find out what is wrong, I called her attention to it politely, she told me that I was irritating her, so I quickly discovered an idle mind is the devils work shop, I tried my best in enrolling her in a catering school, she still continued in refusing me. I would pretend as if am forcing to rap her, but jokingly, she would scream rape!!! Playfully so I would stop.

Sometimes when I come back from work late or spend few times around while in the area, she would think I went to cheat, my wife is somebody that assumes especially when she saw u talking to any woman or greet, she would conclude in her heart that you guys may be dating.

After disturbing me that she wants to relocate to her own state so her business can flourish ,I called her mom to see if they can agree to it which she did, and after much advice from elderly men and woman I later came to my own finally conclusion after doing my + and - because not every advice one takes when seeking for advise ,I gave her some money to go spent time with her mom and what ever she decide she should let me know, I will be sending her some cash every months and the baby till she comes back to her senses.,they are now in the east and I stay in another state alone.

Na who sex help, another 3 ladies are disturbing to come visit me, but I decline them,I no wan cast my beloved marriage but soon i will answer them not now, especially now that am rushing and focusing to complete my house and put some tenant but all works and no play males jack a dull boy.

Now am more relaxed, marriage no b small thing o,its not a do or die affair ,don't kill your self for those you can't pls. A lot of woman change after having kids.

Since my wife left our conversion on phone is even better than when we stayed together. Sometimes you need to give a wife the opportunity to refresh them self as no woman wants to be tied own. Marriages get broken due to lack of refreshment, give your problem wife sense of refreshment, or let them miss you so they can know what they have.

Total bullcrap ..
Obasanjo's letters to president's after him is more interesting..

Pls allow your wife deny you sex till old age you hear.. you are a REAL Man.. infact, don't ask her for sex again.. just masturbate anything you want to have sex.. remember your wife's body is sacred and you don't deserve sex from her..

Romeo Romeo .. be a good boy and REAL Man you hear... E. W U.

Liverpool must collect WotoWoto...

We go beat them like market thieves..

#Coyg

officialmario:
Good morning Nairalanders

I want to use this medium to seek for your advice..

Me and my wife has been together since 2014, although we have not done marriage as we only did introduction, but we planned having our marriage this year, we had two kids, but I think right now I'm not comfortable living with my wife.

I am not enjoying this relationship anymore, she keeps beating me whenever there is quarrel between us, she is fond of slapping me and giving me punches, at times she makes use of wire and and broom to scatter my head.

The one that happened on Monday is really giving me much concern, she checked my phone and saw a friend I was chatting with and instead of her to ask me about the lady, the next thing she did was to slap me and she started beating me to the extent of having right hand dislocation.. It's not as if she can beat me if I decided to fight back, I don't want to raise my hand on a woman, it's a curse and I don't want to do that, this is getting out of hand and I am not living comfortable at home again, we sleep on different bed, she doesn't allow me touch her again.

She is even planning to get a room by ending of this month when she gets her salary..
I told my sister about her behavior, the advice she gave me is that I should beat the hell out of her whenever she raises her hand to beat me.

I have pleaded with my wife to let us continue the way we have been doing before but she wouldn't listen to me.

I am really confused and I don't know what to do right now..

I need your advice my great people of Nairaland.

I would advice you to allow her poop in your mouth..
She needs to Punch you more in the eyes and damage it..
You are a REAL Man.. and you should continue tolerating it.. remember there is no perfect woman out there.. like they say... Happy wife..Happy home.. pls endure and enjoy more of the beating..

I would advise too, that you also let her castrate you.. Ride on bro.. you are on Track..
Cheers to more beatings and molestations Dear REAL Man ...

Congratulations to the Stabber..

Em go enter Kirikiri, then other guy men go dey fucvk em wife as em dey Jail..

sirchim:
Can you trap a football?

Ask your mother first ...

Run along Kid...

Feminist dn Dump SIMP..

JoshTim:
Wotowoto....chukwudi ndubusi, na you be that?

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What are you saying.. ??

All this useless feminist wannabe Wailers always wanted to to be the ones to announce a breakup..
No wonder e pain that Ubi Franklin Ex.. Sandra .. as that guy first her run go IG go announce am...

I pity the Sudanese...
Dem go chop am WotoWoto...


Make Coach change team & tactics..

Still not a Fan of Moses Simon...

He should be in the bench abegg..

We4all:
You got to be kidding me. Are you sure you and I share the same planet?

If Dangote wants 20 male kids today, he will get them in a split second. Science has made it possible.

I am not even talking about IVF, but other methods that can be used to achieve that. It is very easy if you consult experts. And he can afford to pay for it.

But my point is, he doesn’t need all that cos he has found fulfillment in his girls. And the interesting thing is, most girls who are from rich homes will never discard the family’s name even after marriage. So, he doesn’t have to worry about losing his name.

There are over a million Dangote’s kind of mentality scattered across Nigeria who don’t care about the sex of a child.

It is a mentality thing and it’s hard to change one’s mentality overnight just because of societal criticisms and bandwagons.

Any man that doesn't have a male child but can afford to do so thru IVF and other means but choose not to do so.. IS A MANIPULATED MAN"..

My final response to you..
Peace_out.

Religious fools...

We4all:
More than 80% of the men I know who are obsessed with male kids are either drunkards, womanizers, illiterates or damn broke.

Others who welcome their female children with open arms and worry less about having male kids are rich, sophisticated, widely travelled and woke.

If in doubt, ask Dangote and Otedola. They will educate you better.

For every Dangote and Otedola you know..

There are millions in the country, hoping and praying earnestly to have a male child..
You think if Dangote and Otedola can be charged $2million from God (for example) for a male child of theirs ,that they won't rush and pay the sum the next day to have it...

Otedola and co only show you what they want you to see, you don't know their inner regret and wish...

Naso Tonto dike talk say she no need man.. bla bla bla.. but in private she confided to kpokpogri that she wants him to be the father figure in the son's life, and brought him to the boy's graduation ceremony in school to stand in as a dad.

You are not in people's closet.. you can tell what they secretly hope and wish for..


Ponder over it Bro..

Cheers..

I pray this relationship crumbles and ends in premium tears.

No man should raise another man's seed...I pray that young man do discover soon and get sense to Japa..

Experience is the best teacher...

Most well to do Men always about them like locust...

Op.. like you said.. there choices are limited.. they (ladies) won't know until they become a single mom..

You would never be president.
Instead make Yaya Bello lead Nigeria..

Good move ...


Aeon woke generation clowns would not like this...

Make that Useless Feminist wannabe Old senator come Kano come protest if e pain her..

Iheanacho was joking but Onyekuru wasn't having any of it..


See people wey go play against El Neny.. Ahmed Hegazi .. Mo Sallah etc..

Jokers..

shutupareyouGOD:
Look at this kid without experience calling some a kid…run along oponu

Lalasticlala
Seun
Farano
Rocktation
RoyalRoy
Justwise
Mynd44
OAM4J


Rule 2 has been broken.. I need swift justice.

shutupareyouGOD:
See who I Dey follow talk sef…ahh I f up…last mention from me

Run along Kid..

I don't need "Things" like you to quote me at all ...

We4all:
Money is the koko and not any stupid male child. Do you know the type of respect that the likes of Linda Ikeji commands?

You’re talking cos probably your mom birthed responsible and able men.

What about a scenario where the male kids are useless? Are you saying if that were the case, the family will cease to exist?

How many women birth female kids that measure up to Linda Ikeji and the likes in Nigeria?? Just a handful while millions of them birthed the average Female..

A scenario of children being useless isn't restricted to the male gender.. one can bore only female kids and they end up being useless too..

My point remains .. A male child(ren) would always be a priority to any sensible man in Africa (Nigeria)..
No apologies to what anyone feels about my opinion..

shutupareyouGOD:
Gibberish…the man deposits the Y chromosome while God determines the sex…oya go to the hospital and be testing ph level na…ph tester…

Abegg.. Take Your WAILINGS elsewhere..

Run along Kid..

Dangrace01:
My dad died when i was 7; the day i remembered my father's property the whole village close that day an experience ill never forget.

I have elder sisters

Man and woman no b d same thing

You get the Memo bro .

Let the Woke generation continue fooling themselves..

Truthisunique3:
na only you don talk like man here

Op fit don born like 4girls before his wife dey join am agree to this

How man go get 4 girls for house, who go carry the family name

See Bro..
Many people in this generation are forming Woke nonsense.. but they forgot that we are not whites and can not be like them even in the next 100 yrs to come.. becos of poverty, ethnic sentiment, tribalism , corruption etc..

Any one that wants to live his life in Nigeria here based on the standard abroad would be shocked and regret in due time..

E get one time wey I dey inside (family)house on Vacation.. two able bodied men came and Brought a missing child to our house and assumed that my mom is the parent of the kid, they started lashing out at my mom, using rude and disparaging words etc..
My elder bro came out and not long I followed suit to see who the Baztards was, immeidiately they saw us and me in particular, wetin commot for their mouth na Bros Good afternoon.. (people wey senior me for age oo) when Dem see my Abs, muscles etc no be person tell them to comport and start apologizing that it was a case of mistaken identity, that they taught my mom was the careless mother that let her child wander away.. I was just laughing..

Another example was some village idiots that wanted to exceed our father's land boundary (you know how stupid some igbos can be when it comes to land)..
When me and my brothers pounced on them and nearly sent them to Hell.. it ended in apology from them..

My brother, the list is endless... I can go on and on..
Any man in Nigeria forming Woke, claiming male child is not a priority, copying Canada lifestyle for naija, e go shock am.. when he and his family would be intimidated by any slightest reason and most times the intimidation starts when the man is dead, na d wife and female children left go suffer am..


My dad died when all of us where in primary school.. guess what, we are three boys and a girl..
No type of Juju , intimidation and harrasment wey em uncle no give my mom, so that she would be scared and run away, so that they can inherit my father's property and the family would be in disarray..
Guess what my mom said Years later.. that she soldiered on cos she know she has male children and people adviced her too to hold on cos his sons would become men soon and take over...
As I speak, my father's uncle is still alive he have grand children sef.. but all of them both him, his children and grandchildren children dey fear us..
When we talk , nobody coughs but we don't interfer in their business too..
Cos Dem know say we dn become Men and the naturr of our profession would also make life miserable for them just with a phone call..

I pity any man wey say Male child isn't a priority in a family.. E go shock am.. em go know say na Africa.. Nigeria be this.. no be canada or US..

Naija fit win or loose ..
Draw no dey dis match..

Wetin concern me.. na how to beat Liverpool on Thursday I dry think..

Scottz:
be like your own brain de epileptic ba

RoyalRoy

Rule 2 has been broken.. I demand swift Justice..

Scottz:
May God punish you for this stupid mentality and for you to dare God you will not see that make child you’d see female quadruplets
Ewu

Lalasticlala
Seun
Farano
Rocktation
Mynd44
OAM4J
Justwise

Rule 2 has been broken..

Op don't allow any Useless idiot here tell you say .. what about female kids?? Are they not humans bla bla bla..


You are entitled to want a male child and be unapologetic about it...
If she can't give you a male child, then find a woman that can give you such...
FYI .. the female body system determines the sex of the child.. cos the man releases both X and Y chromosomes..
Her body system can make the X see faster and Vice versa..
The kind of Food she eats also determines of the X or Y chromosomes either of the two that would survive than the other when released..
Bottom line, Women determine child sex.. don't let this Woke idiots decieve you..

Make your research..

Ever since that his Okporoko like Fiancee served him breakfast..
Na em this dude come take Redpill..
He is now sensible and spitting bars..


Dem no dey tellii persin now..

Very useless bitter Feminist wannabes ..

Nonsense and Woke generation..