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Fryzi:
Why is Russia drumming war at all cost?

... because they will soon do it, and billions of Americans and Europeans are going to die!

Lemmy123:
Eweeeyyyy!

Russia and chest beating tho

You think they are IPOB?

Fiscus105:
If thats what you call in charge.

I think in ur own reasoning, even if the wife bring concubine home, husband should look like slowpoke.

So, from his post, what's he doing that made you conclude he's not in charge?

mitchyy:
The fact that she lied about her whereabout is not a proof that she is with another man. Did something else happen to make you feel she is cheating?
Personally, if my kids are hospitalized, i stay with them 24/7. I don’t even leave them alone with their dad to attend to whatever business because i can care for them better. But not everyone can act that way. She said she knew you’ll be pissed that she is attending to business while the kids are at the hospital that is why she lied. Give her the benefit of the doubt and query her for her actions and for lying.
But do not accuse her outrightly of cheating. Only a very foolish and irresponsible woman will leave her sick kids to see a lover. If you have reasons to believe she is unfaithful then do your findings and investigate. If she is truly cheating and you accuse her without proof, she will deny and turn it on your head. Its you that will end up being the bad person. Monitor her and get proof that she won’t be able to deny.
A marriage without trust is heading for disaster by the way.

...she would have gotten a good "benefit of doubt" if she had accepted the video call!

Munamu:
He who alleges let him prove. Ur relationship has not been Rosy recently. That is understandable, but suspecting her of adultery should not be the option.

It is not a crime to suspect based on numerous occurences, as he claims, but he has to prove...

Fiscus105:
You are not in charge of ur house and by extension your wife had lost regards for you.

If she has not been doing it, just a step to start doing it, and to stop her,it remains a daunting task.

Is he expected to be beating and battering his wife to have been in charge...

oldtruth:
What to say? You are apparently not a real African man. Let me tell you straight up. Real men controls. You are obviously not in control. Infact I wonder where you people see equality in marriage. The West don't even practice it. The FACT is that; "you are USELESS to your woman".

Too harsh!

Lovebliss2:
You have trust issues.
Work on it and don't destroy your marriage.

...and what is your message for the woman?

yanabasee2:
You don't know women.....



First sign of a cheat is yelling or getting angry over little enquiry like, where are you?


@Op.... it's 9yrs and she's still in this state of misled....


The men who fall in love with married women.... Should see what their fantasy can lead to.... Destroying another man's heart.

... you meant fall in lust...!

Kobojunkiee:
Dude, this your conversation with your wife sounded more like an interrogation session to me. If say na me be her, I for turn my phone off from the time you started querying my decision to go get water across the street. For real, interrogations of that kind, and from a so-called love one... I no dey do at all.

Something was not right about what exactly that you literally took to interrogating your wife's every move when it wasn't as if your kids were abandoned or something? The maid was with them so... Was she meant to report her every movement to you or something?

Leaving the kids at the mercy of the maid? Are you for real? If you can't leave your kids with your maid, what do you have a maid for?

The fact is that the wife is secretive and disrespectful. This leaves little room for trust

Skyfornia:
You don't trust that woman one bit...so what are you still doing with her? I'm even irritated with your actions...why let your marriage get to this level ? Has she done anything in the past that prompted you to start questioning her moves?

Personally once trust is lost in a relationship, then it is no longer worth it.

If your wife starts showing these traits, will you still easily trust her?

Mightyhaiz:
lol,so na obj invent phone for inside otta?


Abi he could have blocked phones which was already in everyotger country including ghana and Niger from entering Nigeria? Cos i no understand this una narrative about obj bringing about phones in Nigeria.

So, if the mobile phones enter naija from Ghana and Niger, the phones go come dey work without the companies and their masts inside naija?

FreeStuffsNG:
You are playing the ostrich and not adding value to the debate with this cheap blackmail.
When has it become a support in evil when I demand answers that are legitimate questions.
Why are you all jittery is completely unacceptable. It's my tax the Lekkilies EndSars report is requesting be paid to fictitious names and Nathaniel Solomon who is alive yet the report labelled as dead and you said if I demand answers it becomes evil?
Our state wasn't built on falsehoods sir.

By using the word "fictitious names" to generalize the list of victims and undermine the efforts of those ladies and gentlemen of that panel, you deserve whatever curse is coming to you.

ba7man:
A detailed list like this of victims would have been of more relevance.

You can't list victims from other locations as Lekki massacre victims and names like "Wale, Mercy, Peter" in a final report and expect logical people to swallow it.

There's a detailed list of all the Policemen killed.

There's a detailed list of all the Policemen indicted.

O.k. how about the victims of the Massacre??

They started with Eniola Badmus, then progressed to victims from other parts of the country, people reported dead started ressurecting to disclaim their deaths............ which leads to this panel that represents the same lies.

It's quite easy to use the word "fictitious" or "fake" if you're desperate to avoid Justice or cover Injustice
"Wale, Mercy, Peter "- There are many artisans that came to look for their daily bread in Lagos, sleeping rough due to poor wages, that are known only by their first names by their colleagues and acquaintances.

FreeStuffsNG:
v) - The panel was silent on the family members of those reportedly killed, merely insinuating they were afraid to testify. Even goats have owners who will look for them if they do not return home, not to talk of human beings. Where are the family members
of those who were reportedly killed at Lekki Toll Gate? If the panel is recommending compensation for the families, what are their identities and addresses? Who will receive the compensations when no family members have shown up to date?

vi) - How did a man who reported seeing the lifeless body of his brother himself ended up being on the list of the panel's deceased persons?

vii) - How can a Judicial Panel convince anyone that the names of some casualties of the Lekki Toll Gate incident listed as numbers 3 (Jide), 42 (Tola) and 43 (Wisdom) are not fictitious names.


Honestly, I don't have anything against the list and I urge any uniformed officer wrongly accused to sue the panel and saharareporters to demand for justice and damages.

For Saharareporters, they should please help us use their 'investigative' eyes to find out why the Lekkilies EndSars report ended up with fictitious names and help us compile the names of those who inserted falsehoods into the report. I won't mind if Saharareporters can rise above partisanship to help us compile the names of the businesses destroyed, police officers, soldiers and their relatives murdered during the EndSars whose lives matter too.
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It's quite easy to use the word "fictitious" or "fake" if you're desperate to avoid Justice or cover Injustice
"3 (Jide), 42 (Tola) and 43 (Wisdom"- There are many artisans that came to look for their daily bread in Lagos, sleeping rough due to poor wages, that are known only by their first names by their colleagues and acquaintances.

triple996:
Christianity is a big joke .
Can you imagine, the same religion that criticize Islam for marring multiple wives is also doing so. Religion of jokers

Sorry, you're the biggest joke by judging Christianity with the actions of one man or some men.

triple996:
Christianity is a big joke .
Can you imagine, the same religion that criticize Islam for marring multiple wives is also doing so. Religion of jokers

You're the biggest joke by judging Christianity with the actions of one man or some men.

Anyahuruagu:
Continue finding errors and empty discrepancies, very soon the hunter will be hunted.

It will get to all of you shouting for forensics up and down.

Fact finding grammar speaking beings.

I am alarmed by the height of corruption in this country, its worrisome.

Not just worrisome, but the tragedy of a Nation.

christistruth01:
How can Nathaniel Solomon who is alive and well be declared dead by a Panel

What evidence was used to determine and Convince the Panel that included a Judge and a SAN Lawyer that he had Certainly died at Lekki even though Nathaniel Solomon presented a Petition in front of that very same panel and he was awarded damages

This issue alone is deeply troubling

Was the same Criteria used to determine all the other deaths?

This Case will go all the way to the Supreme Court

Stop trying to cover evil by chasing shadows... focus should be on the bigger picture of the findings.

Nonpartisan1:
A certain Kolade Johnson was killed by SARS operatives in April, 2017[/b], but Sanwo-Olu's panel listed him among those allegedly "massacred" by soldiers at Lekki on October 20, 2020!

They spent a whole year shopping for names to garnish their #LekkiLies.

No matter how desperate your lots are to defend tyranny, Justice will still prevail.

SonofDevil:
out of the 14 names concocted

2 died before lekki toll gate incident.
(Kayode salami, folorunsho mercy).

3 deceased have no surnames or family names( tola,jide, and wisdom).

Nathaniel Solomon that was declared dead in 2020 granted interview with punch 2 months ago

The end sars panel report is a joke. By the time FG and Lag state finish dissecting the report it will be shredded and thrown into dustbin

Story...

Rexwalters1:
Correct a Mumu according to his folly, that he may acknowledge his ignorance. Just imagine the Fed should act on a State inquiry? Dunce.

As the federal government spoke person, please tell them to conduct their own inquiry!

Rexwalters1:
Mumus everywhere on Nairaland, The Federal Government of Nigeria should act on a report from a state inquiry? It shows how ignorant you are.

The crux of the matter is that the inquiry has indicted the Federal Government...even the report is accepted internationally!

Davash222:
God bless the United States of A.

Unfortunately, the USA, under the rulership of the demon-in-chief, Hussein Obama, help foistered this tyrannical government on Nigerians.

yinkeys:
They’re afraid of him
If it was Jonathan they won’t think twice
Seems they fear what retired military generals can do

They are not afraid of him! Rather, they have become morally compromised because of their own depth of corruption.

Chapii:
You look at SARS only from Lagos. Peter Obi fought crime in Anambra with SARS so I cannot say SARS did not have any benefits

... initial benefit before they metamorphed into a blood-thirsty criminal agency.

Adakintroy:
Nigeria na rugged country no be for mumu youth weh never greeet their father's for timeless scarifice. This evening them go de bar de press phone smoke, drink beer then insult their county. Forget say even his fragile democry was process by blood. Arm forces remembrance day go pass with no sense of reflection from them. Shallow thinkers but make wizkid release song now all of them go come alive.

At their age buhari them de insult was fighting a war to united Nigeria..at least he believe in something he was willing to die for.

This mumu youth jus wake up one day just de stretch hand for power ..like it our Turn. Turn kee them there. I go vote cripple buhari than this batch of youths. No be his biggest fan. But butvhis youths irritates me like mad. Most entitled set of youth Nigeria don producers yet.

Tyranny sympathiser...

Angelfrost:
Such statements against Lai Mohammed while exonerating his boss (Mr. President) smacks deeply of hypocrisy and cowardice...

Are we gonna act like Lai, Adesina, and others act independently of their paymasters?!!... Mtchewwww!

Who told you that the report exonerated the president?
As Commander-in -Chief of the armed forces, the report is a direct indictment of the president.

JOemmy:
Waste of time lie muhammad is saying exactly what is in the mind of buhari he will never sack him. I don't even know why there's so much global attention to this lekki massacre when this buhari's nepotic regime have even done far worse in massacring thausands of ipob and shia members?

"so much.."

Rexwalters1:
When I got back to Lagos & saw the damage done, they deserved what they got, Public Miscreants.

Ironically, you have become the "public micreant" by trying to superimpose the hoodlums that damaged public properties on those peaceful protesters at Lekki.

Chapii:
We need law and order first. I campaigned vigorously against this Govt but as soon as elections are over then we wait for the next. Buhari must go is a call for Anarchy

When undergrads chants "the VC must go" in a peaceful protest, it is also a call for anarchy, right?

Chapii:
I am not and can never be a Fan of Tinubu, Lai or Buhari and I agree largely with the report of the Panel but the entire reportage is not balanced.

The government of the day - LASG and FG (IG of Police) did not manage the entire EndSars protest professionally. The brute force that was used to disperse the protest at Lekki toll gate was the only option left for the Government at that point in time and these are my reasons.
1. Why is nobody reporting that the government allowed the protest to last for over 2 weeks in lagos, Abuja and several other cities meaning that the govt. recognizes the right to protest.
2. Why is nobody talking about how the protest at the toll gate gave birth to many other protest sites in several parts of lagos and was making normal life unbearable for other citizens due to road blocks and all.
3. Why is nobody talking about how the protest have degenerated into a crisis situation with prison break, burning of Police stations, killing of police men, looting and destruction etc. As at 7pm of 20.10.20, over 30 police stations in Lagos was on fire and several policemen killed.
Last but not the least, the people that were at the lekki toll gate protest venue at the time of arrival of the military cannot be said to be law abiding. They were defying a government imposed curfew which is to take effect by 4pm that day.
Citizens have all right to protest but the government should also be up and doing in managing the overall security situation in the communities. My 2 cents

Is your "2 cents" trying to validate the extrajudicial killings and maimings of peacefully protesting young Nigerians?