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If you refuse to marry him, then you will have to wait for another guy,(Wonder how many years it took you to find this guy).
You gals of nowadays thinks husband full town like b4,"A bird at hand worth 2 birds on a tree "
Girls are at time very stupid ? Imagine even between christian, there is church segregation !!
What will happen if it were marriage BTW
!. Christian and Muslim
2.christian and traditionalist
3.Christian and peg an
4. Christian and cultist
5. Christian and Talibans

How are about voodoo's, jaw's ,buggist, Hindu, etc

Thank you all for Ur advise,I have call the corper boy and 'He is scare to his marrow.After I told him on how Thugs are keeping constant surveillance's at my resident ,He
vowed never to return to the north,(making arrangement with some of this friends on how to collect his discharge certificate.)
The teenage gal father have move her to Kano( her Aunt's place, perhap planning on abortion,) and trying to reduce Whta He called "disgrace on His family name".

I have be off & On trying to watch my ash as I tackle my personnel issue.

thank God ,the thugs have no issue with me !!!

Don't worried if he is married or not ,just go ahead and have your baby .If he returns and he is ready to married your; GOOD.!!!!
If he refuses to married you(cos He is already married),put your baby out for abduction .
I understd ,People are looking 4 baby in that part of the world ,so get a good family and give them ur baby.
carry on with Ur life,life itself is very short

I wonder why a guy should be bothering on such issues !
As far as I am concern,my girlie/her people should b bother with that headache,what matter, is what comes
after the whole celebration,when you finally have your girlis[s][/s] wife

4 where eeeeeeee,
I NO GO FIT OOOOO

'you don carry bel-le ' so what advise are you looking 4,
just marry am 4 the sake of the unborn baby

africhika:
[size=15pt]ALL OF YOU CALLING GENNY "SPOILED", WHAT?! DO YOU THINK D'BANJ IS A VIRGIN?!
WHAT BACKWARD NONSENSE FOR CALLING A WOMAN "SPOILED!" IT'S 2011, SHOW SOME INTELLIGENCE FOR GOD'S SAKE---WOMEN ARE NOT FRUIT!
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Na wa ooo!
The truth b say,Atiku do finishes with her as-h, i only hope they will b happy afterword.
the gal is unhappy cos of her life sytle and she finaly get hook to a playboy.
Na wa ooo

I am working with a private firm, Residing in the Northern part of 9ja .
I have a Corper girlfriend by name Bimbo ( I met thru my Neighbor) who is from western part of 9ja. We normally spend every Sunday evening together, Bimbo became pregnant of which I am responsible and she going to have the baby , even if I will not marry her . Bimbo is the 4th child in a family of 5 sibling all females .Two of Bimbo sisters are outside Nigeria :one is in UK and the other is in South Africa (both married for the past 6 yrs. & 8 yrs.), and the family in south Africa are still waiting upon the Lord for a still child.
My Problem Started when I told my fiancée (studying in Malaysia) that a girl is pregnant for me .My fiancée who is from a polygamous home like myself agree to have, the expecting baby as part of our home (will be getting marry next yr , October) . She advise me to go and see Bimbo's parent so that we can arrange for the future of the unborn baby .I was greatly surprise at Bimbo attitude ,when I told her of my readiness to see her people. she told me that she will never take me to her parent ,That she know I am the father of her Baby ,but I should forget about seeing her parent because they will never approved of me ,that I should not bother about the future of the unborn Baby .(all this happen 3 month ago). BIMBO BATCH WILL BE PASSING OUT THIS MAY 2011.

Two night ago ,I received a phone call from Bimbo's flat mate(also a friend) . She told me of Bimbo's plan to take our baby(unborn) to her sister place in South Africa. The South Africa Family were planning on how to adopt a child, then came the gist of bimbo pregnancy. Arrangement have being concluded on how Bimbo will be move to south Africa after her POP(passing -out-parade from NYSC), she will deliver the baby in South Africa (leaving the baby with her sister), then move to UK to continue with her life.
Initially I was mad ,and on my way to confront her but her friend beg me not create any problem between them because ,she was the ONLY person whom Bimbo have confined with on this issue . Claim she reveal it to me because her consciences was judging her.
I felt used and dump ,and I am very, very angry with Bimbo .
A friend Advised me to report to the Police , get A lawyer who will mandate Bimbo to sign an Agreement of returning my baby back after ONE yr.
I know your guys in this family section are mature and not bias adult , What do you advise me to do ?

obowunmi:
Funny OP. Doubt anyone will take you seriously.

OK Since noboby ,wanna talk 2 me .This is what I am gonna do,

I will report Bimbo to 9ja Police and ensure that she sign an agreement which wil mandate her to return my baby after one yb.

bye

toyemz:
@ poster
i hope you know that your friend might have acquired a wife?
especially if the parents demand that he marry her?
so when you talk to him, advise him in that light
and girls have sex at 13, 14 in the north is not a very common sight
your friend must have been an outlet of some sort to the unsuspecting girl, he probably promised her marriage too
remember that in underaged marriages the girls have to go to their husbands' houses as virgins

enough said, you work in the north
have you got enough strength and discipline to keep away from these underaged girls
if so kudos to you

I gat nothing to do wth them ,I alway prefer yoruba gal witht their huge & large back-si de,I am alway going 4 corper gals

@ all the reply  above

sorry about the use of the "cool & Nice " in  narrating my condition, but its  just that anytime I feel  Bad/dispressed / disappointed ,
I use such word  ( like take it Nice & cool and it will resolve itself ,it just some word I have use for the past 16 yrs)  & its help me calm down while I looks for solution on how to  tackle the problem .

I am still awaiting your nice & cool advice plz.

Thanks

Am a cool & Nice Guy working for a Cool & Nice firm, Residing in a Cool & Nice part of the Northern 9ja.
I had a Cool & Nice Corper gal ( courtesy of my cool & Nice Neighbor) with a Cool & Nice but large as-s from the Cool & Nice western part(Ibadan) of 9ja.
My Cool & Nice Bimbo (no real name) became pregnant courtesy of my Nice & Cool Di-ck . Bimbo is cool & nice abt the Pregnancy ,she claim ,she like my cool & nice face & could like to have a Baby with a cool & nice face like mine ,and She told me to be Cool & nice abt it even if I will not marry her, she going to keep the pregnancy ( and besides , her family will not allow her to marry a northerner ) and ,I was cool & nice abt it , Bimbo is the 4th child in a family of 5 sibling all females .Two of Bimbo sibling are outside 9ja :one is in UK and the other is in South Africa (both married for the past 6 yrs & 8 yrs),the sibling in south Africa is still childless.
The Problem Start when I gather a cool & nice courage to tell my cool & nice fiancée (fulani gal with a cool & nice legs) that a cool & nice corper Gal is pregnant for me .My cool & Nice Fulani gal who is from a polygamous home like myself agree to have ,the expecting cool & nice baby as part of our home(not yet married) .She advice me to go to Bimbo parent ,tell them ,I am responsible and will take care of the baby from my cool & nice job, so I marched to my cool & nice Bimbo to tell her the cool & nice decision.
To my greater surprise, Bimbo spark (hala) & told me that she will never take me to her parent ,That she know I am the father of her Baby ,but I should forget abt seeing her parent cos they will never approved of a northerner, that I should not bother on how the baby will be taken care of. so after getting into her cool & nice punany , I decide to 2 forget abt it.(all this happen 3 month ago). Bimbo batch will be passing out this may 2011.

I wrote this because just this evening ,A roommate of my cool & nice Bimbo (also a corper gal whom I have also slept with) called me (hand set) and told me that my cool & nice Bimbo is taking my cool & nice Baby (unborn) to south Africa to her cool & NICE sister who have been married for 8 yrs without issue.
That the South Africa Family were planning on how to adopt having finally release they can never made a baby of their own, then Bimbo gave them the gist of her pregnancy. They have made arrangement to fly Bimbo to south Africa after her POP, so that she will deliver there and they will keep the Baby while Bimbo continue with her life.
Initially I was mad ,and on my way to confront her but her friend beg me not create any problem between them because ,she was the only one who Bimbo confined with the plan .I feel use and dump ,and I am very angry ,I feel like strangled Bimbo ,………PLz ,I need ur COOL & NICE advise, Bimbo , Bimbo…Bimbo…SHE is not aware That I know her plan yet !!!

pleep:
Woah, im really confused here. Fifteen year old Muslim girls have sex?

I have seen less than 15 yrs having sex here ,there is nothing I can do about it cos it none of my bussiness'.infact one of our Driver (in his early 30's) just marry a 14 yrs old daugher of this family friend. It common in northern 9ja.
can you recalled the senetor that marry the 15yr old Eyptian girl !!

2buff:
Apparently as long as it doesn't involve front penetration, some people have maintained virgin status till marriage.
They are usually the freaks though

hmmmm

[quote author=baby.me link=topic=655550.msg8226421#msg8226421 date=1304063463]He probably finished from one backyard uni. Forgive him and blame the school. [/quote]

2mch:
Did you write this in a hurry? I see you are a corp member, so you must have graduated from university.

Thanks 4 the insult, all the same if u understd the message,then plz post ur advise .
.

@ poster

Can you swear that you have never ba-ng another punany during ur gal absent !!!
you are lucky she told u of bashi-ng the guy once(let just assume it is once).

Instead of yelling ,and expecting NL to tell you to quit, you should have ask yourself ,
what the hell is wrong with you ?

how can your gal confess of sleeping with another person ?
and even say ,she is in love with the Guy!!!
It simply implies ,that you are not man enough.

sorry ,your gal have fall into the hand of a real caner" who have excessively koboko her.
perhap, while she was with you (b4 the NYSC),you were not doing the stuff wella , ,I mean bas-hing the punany wella
experience show that female corp member also uses that 11 months of service yr
to enjoy full se-xual satisfaction.We guy here up north do not waste such chance, so
most of the corp members are normally cane-d wella b4 the end of their service yr,the guy
may not b ready to marry her but the memory of the escapes is what is still in her brain.
I ADVICED YOU TO 4GIVE HER ,4GET ABOUT IT AND GIVE HER THE REAL THING,show her u can do more than the guy,she will change.
go ahead and continue your marriage arrangement.

denitro:
He will be killed , Period
I am highly surprised at some senseless comments by some people here.
Please warn your friend and help do some ground work (begging the family of the girl)for him.
Once a compromise is reached then your friend can come back.

Thanks

Thanks all for your adviced

I know i will get matured mind in this FAMILY FORUM ,that was why I move the thread from ROMANCE,

Thanks you all for your advised ,and this is what I am gonna do from the advised i got here :

1. I will call the corper boy and let him know of what is at stake

2. I will get to know from the corper if he will marry the gal

3. If he agreed ,the next thing is to see the gal family,( i know thy will only approve if the corper convert to Islam

IF the above 1-3 works out ,then WE can persuade the corper place of primary assignment(the school) not to report to NYSC

[quote author=Shy-One link=topic=655500.msg8221608#msg8221608 date=1303997581]@ OP

You know what to do

So do it.

Call him - you know it is the right thing to do.

A very dear and close friend of mine died last week. He Always said to me: "YOU CAN NEVER DO WRONG DOING RIGHT."

Call him.[/quote]thanks 4 ur advise

plz,ignour most of my spelling ,am just managing to use the keyboard,substain a little injury in righthand.
tanx u

I am not a corp member,i am a working Class guy that is staying in a 3bedroom flat(caurtesy of my company). Being someone who grew up in a polgamus home , It wasnt long b4 i realise how lonely i was withlarge wasting space in the apartment, so I make it a duty to give out one room to honest,socialble corper,I like them around me,enjoy the noise,the augument etc,at time if one is lucky some of the corp gal could be generous with their,
That is how I have been living and the corper boy is the 3rd guy ,I am sharing this apartment with

Outstrip:
Notice he used the word infidel there. The girl is obviously not a christian and the man not a muslim. There is a good chance that he could end up dead.

gbam ! The main reason why I am interfering !!


I will soon Be moving out of town(friday) and wouldnt be back for 2wks(outstation job).
I am  trying to see what i can do to help  b4 then but if the best advise I could get from here is to mind my bussiness ,
then perhap , i should mine my bussines,
THANKS

ThiefOfHearts:
what is your business?

Are you asking for help to help your reetarded neighbor from accepting the consequences of his actions or wetin be the point of this thread sef?

Stop being his adodi and tell him to face the music. Simple as that. Old enough to have sex, old enough to talk to his new father in law.

I am afraid of what they will do to him,if they get him,
because the gal's father is claiming that his gal was a virgin ,and the man couldnt control himself as he burst into tears,that an infe"dal will
raped" his daughter.

@ all
I am only trying to prevent blood shed.
Those thugs means bussiness and I couldnt help but be glad that they didnt meet the corper at home .

THanks your reply but I will do with good advise