immortalcrown:
I support the idea of conducting a DNA test on the child.

But the child's complexion is not my reason. If you base your argument on the child's complexion, many facts can be used against your suggestion of a DNA test. Be wise.

In this case, it is almost unlikely. It would have been better if both Mohbad and Wumi were fair then Liam is dark or if any of their grandparents was fair. Because dark genes are mostly dominant.

I'm not saying it's beyond the bound of possibilities but it's almost very impossible

martineverest:
see as Photoshop filtering dey deceive u....

Photoshop still dey deceive me?

Some people will just wake one day and they will begin manifesting unfortunate behaviour like a mad person.

Mohbad was a black guy.
His supposed wife is a dark lady.

I understand there is something called a recessive or a throwback gene. Where children can pick their grandparent's colour.
Nevertheless, Mohbad's father is dark, his mother is also dark.

Where commeth a light skinned son?
If not that some people's brains have twisted (Opolo ti lo).

Aside that, the child has nothing in common with Mohbad, not even the eyes, or the nose or the mouth.

Yet some godforsaken earthly bastards children of doom said the child looks like the late Mohbad. Ha!

That DNA should be done. Anyone guilty of paternity fraud should be punished

nlparrot:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=04hoiTKaZx8?si=sCSF1wq0NWbCmYW-

Mohbad, real name Ilerioluwa Oladimeji Aloba, is a fast-rising artist in the Nigerian music industry. But today we're not here to talk about his career, but rather to celebrate his one-year-old son, Liam.

Liam, who shares his father's charming smile, celebrates his first birthday today. The adorable toddler was seen wearing a cute little outfit and beaming with joy, surrounded by friends and family.

Source: Famosblongng @IG

Some people will just wake one day and they will begin manifesting unfortunate behaviour like a mad person.

Mohbad was a black guy.
His supposed wife is a dark lady.

I understand there is something called a recessive or a throwback gene. Where children can pick their grandparent's colour.
Nevertheless, Mohbad's father is dark, his mother is also dark.

Where commeth a light skinned son?
If not that some people's brains have twisted (Opolo ti lo).

Aside that, the child has nothing in common with Mohbad, not even the eyes, or the nose or the mouth.

Yet some godforsaken earthly bastards children of doom said the child looks like the late Mohbad. Ha! Some of you will die tragically, I swr.

Tempulated:
This thought just crossed my mind now. Believe it or not if not for many of these generous foreign blue movies ladies.

A lot of Adults might not have seen a matured coochie up till this moment and some might not seen it live in their lifetime except they get married or they see one unexpectedly.

We all know how discreet these gender are always with their thing like they kept a gold there lol. Most of them gravitate towards made men with material things.

Lastly Rape cases might have skyrocketed a lot.

Speak for yourself lil boy. This can only be a tale of a dirty, broke and ugly mofo with a terrible mouth odour.

I never understand how men complain of scarcity of women. Even during the days wey owu dey blow me. I still dey push women away.

Women are very vulnerable and surplus, but broke and UGLY men don't know this.

We4all:


I feel sorry for your partner. She must be living in bondage.

Everywhere good now. If you like, make your younger ones dey drag you for blockos.

Na the OP cause am. Na why I no dey follow person shine teeth.

Na too much teeth wey him dey follow him sister shine cause that see finish.

gammarays:

Since Nigerian churches and pastors are ineffective from your post, won't it be nice to take him to Atheists or traditionalist so they can bring him back to life.
After all we've heard strong stuffs from them as well

If one doesn't work, the other should work 😕

Use your common sense now. Even if you don't have, borrow from your neighbours now. Since when have atheists claim to have any special powers to raise people from the dead?

We now have mad people everywhere and I just came to the conclusion that some ladies on this NL are nothing but a piece of animal dung.

Animal dung better pass them sef. Jeez! What the? From the first female who commented, one can sense a closer relation with madness.
Hia! Back in the days. My friend had an elder sister who was married. But along the line something went bad for them and they had to return to the wife's parent's house with the husband.
Regardless that they had nothing on them. They were treated with so much love and respect. My friend used to fetch their bathing water to ensure that they had the best comfort.
They were there for almost a year before they left. And I can tell you that my friend never complained about their presence.

When they left, the husband got appointed a ward councilor (twice) and later became a senator (twice as well). They are drippin in wealth as I speak to you.

The problem you are having is that, your parents are the ones indulging your sister. That's the truth, your parents do not rate you at all. Regardless of the situation, where I'm from. Parents don't allow disrespectful behaviours from the younger ones towards their elderly ones.

My father would let you know that if someone is one day your senior, you should respect that person.

My best advice for you is to leave that house, it's better to sleep in the gutters or under the bridge than stay where you are not wanted.

To all those idiots saying why did you slap your younger sister. Excuse you, if someone is being disrespectful, are they not suppose to be straightened?

Just that if it were me, I would have handled the case differently.

Instead of slapping her, I go just nod my head. Wetin I go do dey inside me, I no dey too follow person reason.

Pikin wey no get home training, na from outside them go take train them come. Na why I dey always tell people say, for this life. You gats dey capable of doing evil or else, people no go fear you.
I go just make her realize say na this world she meet me.

Them no born any of my younger ones well even as them dey married. If I talk, them no dey talk put (when them no wan mad)

I hate disrespect die. Na why I dey move solo.

Testiebobo:
I cant really remember when last we bought a bag of rice in our house. Maybe december of 2022. But in lagos i guess a bag of rice should be around that 80k or more than... In your state kor?

#78k at Daleko, Mushin

Leezah:
My mum was called to bar in late 90's and before I was called she specifically asked me to stay away from Land/Chieftaincy matters.

As a naturally curious person I defied until I saw a female lawyer drop dead in court, definitely not health related. I've gone full time ADR!

As a realtor, real estate and property owner. I can tell you that. Truly land and property cases are always very delicate and dangerous.

I don't know of the droppin' dead. But I know for sure that, lawyers and even judges lose their lives to hitmen.

You'll have a hearing in court and your counsel will refuse to show up. Lol! Chai!

If I told you what I've seen and experienced in this business so far. You will def. faint.

However, the danger involved in land and properties is the reason Real Estate became lucrative.

Testiebobo:
Right from when i was a kid, i was forced to stay indoor when my peers were outdoor having fun. I was flogged everytime i tried to sneak out.
In the journey of life, i'hv learnt to be lonely.
1 When i was in primary level, i was a fighter in the class and later became violent. I cant count the numbers of pupils shirt i'hv torn. I was really poor academically.
2 In high school, my mates had besties, girlfriends, friends etc. But i had none. This time i became less violent but very harsh and mean in my words. When others went for sports and social clubs, i always hid myself under the school's basement.
3 In my adolescence period, i entered university of which i am still in currently. I had a place of work. And my boss always complain to my parents why i love to be silent at work and prevent smiling always. I guess i am just tough inside but not outside.
The same parents who me locked up indoor in my childhood. Are now begging to be interactive and be associative. Is it not too late?

Normally! A man no supposed dey shine teeth anyhow.

We4all:


It isn't right for a 9 year old to rebel, but when you fail in your duties and responsibilities as a father, then you have no moral standing to demand for respect even from a toddler.

Let me ask you a question: If a father sexually molest his 5 year old daughter and she begins to rebel against him, would you also condemn her behavior?

The point I'm trying to make is , if you behave badly as an adult, you will surely lose your respect; even from kids. It is what it is!

The problem i have with you is that your English is too much.
I said considering the context of this story.
Now we've agreed that the father is wrong. Now, is it okay for a 9yo to rebel against his father.

Leave sexual assault out of it. As it's not within the confines of the story.

oglalasioux:


Did you type all these for an adopted child or for a child that was fraudulently brought to your home?

Let’s not be stupid. Say no to paternity fraud. Do a DNA. If you find out the child is not yours legally adopt the child as yours but never forgive the perpetrator.

That's even if the biological father is willing to relinquish the parental rights.

We4all:


Says a 'dead beat dad' supporting his kind.

Don't attack me , attack my message.
Let's agree the father is wrong, in all ramifications. But, Is it right for a 9yo to rebel against his father?

Balablue64:
Looks like kwashiokor food, tueh!

You people should learn to respect your elders. This is wrong

Biglittlelois:


Most ladies won't marry irresponsible deadbeat gamblers like the ones in your family.

Who is this cockroach? Ori e buru, omo ale jati jati. Mtcheeeew

Regardless:
What you said makes sense but bro, women are necessary evil.

They make the world colorful in their own way. Besides, there are exceptions amongst women and even if the exceptions don't negate the overall rules, one can be lucky to meet a woman who deserves a man's all.

People like us are no longer angered by women's games instead, we've accepted it and learnt to dish it out to them in the same dose.

Men just need more awareness and wake up call, don't hate the game, learn to play it too.

The emboldened already showed the kinna person you are. I have nothing to say to you

advanceDNA:


The mistake some women make is that they over estimate their worth in a mans life..many do not realize they do not have the bargaining chips to demand for a man's submission and total faithfulness (only few can truly ask that question "what else does a man want" )

...many just believe by agreeing to date or marry you...they are doing a huge favour, and have automatically given u all u need, and so u must return the favour with all they want including faithfulness to them....

And its always funny because they don't believe they are doing anything wrong in a relationship....they always believe they have done more than enough .....

Lol.....even the so called sex they claim to be "giving u their all"... Just in a month...
Their body is in ghostmode for 1 week period
They are just not in the mood for no reason
Not in the mood just becos they want to tell u sex is not food....
Not in the mood because they are truly tired from stress...

A man will not get enough sex
He will get nagging...he will get billings
He will be expected to pay all the bills
Pay for her clothes, still buy her motor because davido bought chioma motor...
Settle in laws...and sponsor inlaws that will come and live with you.........And still demand u to not look for peace of mind and relaxation elsewhere.... They will now ask ...what do men want as if they are giving u all u need in life...

Infact you are really on point.
I had a GF one time like that. We were in the living room chilling out when a call came in thru her phone. It was her younger sister.
The sister was trying to get some funds from her but she replied that she was broke.
Next thing I heard was "Ask from uncle Francis now."
Na me be that uncle Francis o.

In my head I was like. Uncle Francis wey dey run charity NGO now.
I kuku like the girl. She know the kind person wey I be.
I'm a very kind person wey dey lavish. But I hate begging and feeling entitled.

Now imagine if I wifed that kinna lady. I'll take care of her, take care of her parents, her siblings will always flock around because them know say rabas full ground.

Idiot wey no know how I take struggle before I made my money go begin vex because say I send my parents money and I no send her own parents money.

At the end of the day, she'll turn your kids against you.

You see, any man wey go marry. Anything wey him eyes see. Make him dey manage am like that.

Mindlog:


Clarify what "to mend his kid" means.

He sends his kid into the room to get an item and the kid loiters around like a sluggard, only to return when he feels like.

The kid doesn't honour his father. That's it.

It is so disappointing this is coming from a man.
Is your father your father because he is kind towards you or is he your father because he gave you his genes?

Fathers are gods. If you called yourself a christian and have read the old testament, you should understand that being a father is just more than providing.

Whether your father provides for you or not, he is still your father.
Whether he cares for you or not, he is still your father.
You don't get to chose your father. Therefore you can't unchoose him.

Well! To each his own. All I know is, I can't have my kid hang around a boy that doesn't honour either of his parents.

A 9yo. In no time this one will start beating up his father now

Mindlog:


A father has the obligation to raise his children right and it starts with him being a positive role model to them.

So a father who smokes doesn't have the right to mend his kid if he smoked?

blackboy:
Deep!!! But can be disputed. One solution is not for all. I must give it to you though makes some sense.

This is the gospel truth. The truth is not a respecter of persons.

soulhelper481:
I am not. As a matter of fact, my son can't be rebellious. Is because I pay attention to details that I'm able to see those little things. That's to tell you that I can't raise a disrespectful child. He is a good child, he's just passing through some challenges, all these will pass.

The truth is, in life, you can't do shameful things Infront of the young one and expect them to applaud you.

Since you brought your business to our space. Lemme give you a piece of advise as an elderly man.

You see all these lil girls that are doing big talks are not married o. Some of them are divorced and bittered.
You can't learn how to be rich from a poor man.
If you wanted to succeed, you should learn from a successful person, not from failures like them who can't even get a man to buy them engagement ring.

Why do you think many mothers are still with their husbands? Basically it's because of the children.

Why do you think the man is gambling? So he can lavish? He's prolly gambling to make money for his family. The pressure is just too much on him.

He is not cheating on you and he doesn't beat you.
Knowledge can only get you far. Understanding is the key. Do you know your father in-law? Did your husband experience something like that with his own father?
Those who don't know or forget histories are doomed to repeat them.

Regardless of his fathers mistakes, a 9yo boy is really too small to start being rebellious. Chai!

Wo! Do whatever you think is best for you.

Mindlog:


You as a husband and father has the obligation to do right before your wife and children, you can intimidate them to fear you but not to love nor bond with you.

"Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger by the way you treat them. Rather, bring them up with the discipline and instruction that comes from the Lord".....Ephesians 6:4

Are you saying a father does not have the right to straighten out his kids?

A 9yo for Pete's sake.

We4all:


Why are you trying so hard to pain the woman black? As an adult, you should already be aware that there are consequences for our actions or inactions. If the kid is giving his dad a cold shoulder, it is because the father is not being a good and responsible dad. And it's the least he deserves.

From research, it has been proven that most boys tend to imitate/inherit their father's behavior because they see it as a norm. So, it is better she moves out with the boys so they don't end up like their dead beat dad.

A 9yo really?
Regular talk from a distorted hypothalamus gender.

We4all:


Go and sit down. Why must a woman cover up for her husband? If you want your kids to adore you as a father, then be a responsible dad.

Was the husband always like that? Use your head lil child.

Biglittlelois:


Always the emotional tantrums from the male gender when it comes to deadbeat dads

The son is blind and can't see the actions of his irresponsible gambling dad? The Op, God bless her soul, even tries to shield the husband by saying and painting him good to their sons but they still see through the beautiful lies

You men need to do better because the enduring wife era has come to an end, being a sperm donor doesn't automatically make you a responsible father, do right by your family and take care of them in love, very simple.

Honestly! It's really not safe for your husband.

It's very simple.

To avoid infidelity in marriage, don't marry/get married. It's that simple.
I've said it several times that we are too different to live together.

Since the advent of social media and the emergence of these bittered feminists, in association with men who walk around in female panties.

Men have been reduced to the same level with women, and it's so shocking that some men are part of such ridiculous and odoriferous movement.
I can't even imagine a full man with ibroobi and afuonu would think he is same with a woman.

A man pays your bride price, brings you into his house, feeds you and annihilate your bills. Then you think you have equal rights? Is that not madness?
Let's flip the coin. If a woman paid a man's dowry, and brings the man into her home, feeds the man and clothes him. How do you think the woman will behave towards the man?

She'll turn herself into the head of the family, with absolute authority. She begins to run her mouth like a runny tap. Resents the man and treats him like trash.

This is because women are not natural providers.

A man on the other hand pays a bride price. The bride price means the man is buying the absolute authority over his bride's sexuality.
It means you are buying this woman's womanhood. Her womb. Therefore, no other man must have access to it except you. Since you have paid for it.

Now, imagine if you've paid for a KG of meat, wrapped in a nylon to pick up later. And while you are on your way, you look ahead and you see the meat seller stealthily removing from your package to sell to another.

How will you feel? Great, awesome, or ecstatic?

You'd prolly feel betrayed, disappointed, and being taken for a fool.

What the '? I mean, the meat seller just stole from you, downplayed your common sense in the grand calculus of things. What you already paid for.

That's exactly how it feels when a woman cheats on her husband, her sexuality has been paid for, that she may keep it only for her husband. Or for which other purpose do you think men pay bride price. Are women really that worth it, if not to buy their loyalty?

If women think they have the right to cheat as men do. They should start paying groom's price too. Buy your husband's sexuality and feed him and clothe him without being resentful and disrespectful.

Now to you men(men with sense), the society creates a standard and forces everyone to live in accordance.

Those men who keep indulging women don't know that they are steadily undoing themselves, because, since we've given much liberation and a taste of power to women. Women now cheat more than men on a 3, 7 ratio. I mean, they thought, if men cheat, why can't they.

And so, you know, the ripple effect?

While you are out working your ass off to provide for your family. Your wife will sleep with a young boy who is very youthful, has stamina and by far better than you in bed.
Scream your his name while he is at it, and imagine him while she does it with you once in a month.

And you know what? She will enjoy it with him more than with you that she will start starving you of sex, and even take money from you to offset his bills.
And since you are so sex starved, you will look for a young girl, who has a boyfriend. And when boys see that married men are sleeping with their girlfriends, they will lose all morality and pay you back by sleeping with your wife the more.

If the boy got too sweet, she might even kill you and elope with the boy to spend your fortune. Meanwhile, these younger boys are really good in bed (boys wey dey smoke igbo, wey don dey watch porn since 14yo. If them handle your wife)


And the cycle keeps centrifuging.

Therefore, if you had money and you marry a wife in this 21st century. You are stupid. You can't even cheat. You married a 21st century woman. She put you out there on SM and your fellow men will persecute you. The same way you've been persecuting others.

However, if your wife no longer appealed to you , you can divorce her and place a young girl on a soft life with lots of enjoyment here and there. But divorce may get messy and she may part with your money and taunt you with your kids.

But what if you just have baby mamas? Lol! I mean baby mamas are very very understanding. You don't have to pay any stupid bride price, somebody will not whine like a horse when you sleep with another woman.
You don't have to worry whether someone is cheating or not.
You don't have to sponsor her family for anything, her younger siblings will not expect you to do shit for them.
If any of your baby mamas lost a family member, you dont have to be there for her. Just send her money.

You don't have to pretend around her family members so they can think you are cool.

If you are broke and you marry in this 21st century you are stupid. Rich men will pass your wife around like Jabulani soccer ball.

But the best way to go about this is to simply

GO YOUR OWN WAY.

Don't have anything sexual to do with women. Your life and your purpose should be your insomnia.

MONK_MODE_FOREVER

advanceDNA:


.... U women cheat all over the place too but come here to pretend....u blame men for paternity fraud, u blame men when u cheat, u even blame men for prostîtution....U are just playing victim card and fallacy...

Let's stop stressing ourselves with all this he cheated, she cheated...he hurt me, he made me depressed...No one should stop anybody from cheating...

Every body should stay their lane...let's cancel marriage since no one wants to be discipline or mayb it's just that fvcking one partner for life is not feasible.... So no one should expect Faithfulness

..face u career and make ur own money.....do ur chores alone, pay ur bills alone, build ur own house

If u want fvck ..fvck whoever u like..
..if u want kids.....get pregnant...
.if u don't want kids, face u life and enjoy it .
..no husband or wife will harass u or limit u career ur growth....

I don't always want to quote NL female again because it seems that their IQ is in ten, and not in tens.

How can I pay your bride price, bring you into my house and at the end of the day you'll tell me we have equal rights?
The bride price I paid is to privatize your sexuality. So that no man may ever sleep with you again.

Women should also start privatizing their husbands' sexuality by paying his dowry, feeding him and the kids and single handedly running the affairs of the home.

TheBillyonaire:


Does it occur to you that your present mindset as indicated in your post is the default programming of the mind of all masculine males by default?

Males are wired to mate and see mating as supremely ultimate and the funny thing is that we are ready to mate with every beautiful female whether married or unmarried, whether virgins or someone's girlfriend, whether someone's sister or auntie.

We are the reason that we accuse women of infidelity, because we are the ones fuccking them, so while you are gallivanting outwardly to fucck people's virgins, sisters, aunties, wives and daughters, etc; do not refuse to forget that other masculine males are also gallivanting inwardly to fuccks yours truly.

It is fair in war and in peace. I think the best thing to do is rise above the organic instinct of the programmers and focus on just two women. A wife and a side chic. And I do not think AY did anything wrong, I think he is a product of his God as that God wanted him to be. And I see no reason why he should cry. Now he can live the bachelor life and sow his wild oats as long as his waist can handle the wiggle.

Who gets in trouble with NAFDAC over fake products? The seller or the buyer.

The buyer may request to buy anything. It is the responsibility of the seller to either accept or decline.

Since a man always wants to have sex. It is the responsibility of women to decide who to give it to.

Blaming men for the promiscuity of women is not only the highest level of stupidity. It is imbecility in it's grand form.

soulhelper481:

Your son wouldn't disrespect you so long as you don't repeatedly do shameful things and show inresponsibly Infront of him.

Trying to justify why your son is being rebellious again.

Well, one thing is sure in life. You can choose your actions, but you can't choose your consequences. As long as you are able to deal with the consequences 20-25years later.

You are good.

MsJackson:
Check my profile for the beginning of my story. Now he is living with another woman at the moment and I don't know how to function anymore. I can no longer sleep without taking alcohol. I have developed high blood pressure. I suffer from heart palpitations now. WHERE WILL I START FROM? A 40 year old single mother

No man lets go of what is important to you. If something is serving it's purpose towards me, you will need to tie me up first before I can release it.

If your husband wasn't serving his purpose, and a richer man comes around. You would have dumped him too.

This is just one men out of 5million women who are dumping their man.

1:5Million cases.

Men need to catch up.