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Nerdg:
She told me of being pregnant and later had a stillbirth at the 7months.

The background.
I met her when we were teens and have always loved her. She refused me sex and along the line, her neighbor gave me (who is her relation). She learnt about this and we had our first break up.
We both got admission into different universities and couldn't see again.
We later met again and settled with a condition that there would be no sex. This didn't go down well with me and I called it off. This repeated and there was even a time I walked her out of my house because of this issue and didn't give her tfare. My house is like 1hr drive from where she lives.
The issue:
I love this girl to the extent that anytime I thought of getting married, she will come to mind.
Now I have a good job and she's done with school. I proposed to her and she accepted it.
Is about 3 months now, she came on my birthday 3 months ago. That was all. She doesn't come always because she stays with her elder brother and can't leave house just like that.

Note, we haven't had sex till now.

About 2 weeks ago, I told her about how I got a girl pregnant and we had to abort it and that since then I haven't been myself. That it pains me to this day. We talked about it and she was sorry over it.

Yesterday, we had a very deep discussion and she revealed to me that she had a relationship at school. They were together for 4yrs. I then asked her if she had ever missed her period. She said yes. But not to this school boyfriend but another man. She wanted to keep the pregnancy but her parents refused because the guy is not a good person. The guy wanted the pregnancy but her family didn't want the guy to marry her. She finally had a stillbirth at the 7th month.

I was stunned. I know she's not a virgin, she told me but I was confused. Sex had always been our problem and I never expected that she had experienced something like this. Now she asked me that she hope she won't regret telling me this. I told her no that she won't regret but I'm stunned.

Please should I still go on with this marriage?

u might hate this girl after sex,
i guess u give it more time
a girl that refused u while giving it to others,might repeat it in marriage...

madridguy:
A man in USA sees a tiger attacking a girl. He fights the tiger and the tiger dies Newspapers report: *"LOCAL HERO SAVES LADY FROM TIGER"*
Man says:
"I'm not American."
Report changed: *"Foreign Hero Saves girl from tiger"*
Man says, "Actually, I'm from Iraq." *BREAKING NEWS, TERRORIST KILLS INNOCENT TIGER WHICH WAS PLAYING WITH A LITTLE GIRL.*

u re an extremist

[quote author=modelmike7 post=58673986]....... Corruption allegations? Stealing glaring as this are mere Allegations? Oh my world, smh!!

....

this mansion and two houses in dubai which one is more expensive?

how much is buratai salary to acquire two buildings in dubai?

omenka:
Tell them that a billion times and they'd still not listen. All they do is scream afonja to any dissenting.

These guys are highly dillusional.

oga what is problem?

u keep calling ppl delusional while u wont rest in making topics abt delusional and mad ppl......

i think u re more delusional than the ppl u accuse.....

40kobo77:
This is bad.

Wanted to say something about those in power,then i remembered it is the police.

It shall not be well with the Nigerian Police.

OUR swear catching up with you guys. Quote me and unwashed female underwears fall on you.

the worst thing i dislike is police

sarrki:
Please see hypocrisy of PDP

So now they remembered Muslim

sorry.....

awusa yooots so u knew nigeria is a signatory to united nations?

but refused to know the rights of indigenous ppl according to united nations.....

ok continue...

the op self
only the name represents lies
smh

Igboesika:
Exactly, if these people are not opposing Biafra, trust me, we wouldn't have gotten to this level.
It's just like a situation where someone is angry and shouting,the more you oppose that person, the more the person's anger increases and the more outsiders are paying attention to the quarrel . But if you ignore the person, the motivation for anger won't be there.
Those opposing Ipob is obviously helping them indirectly.
And to that professor... Check him very well, he's a product of backyard. This is Nigeria where you can obtain any qualification as long as you have the cash or the connections. How can this poo come out from someone who claims to be a professor ?

an international professor at that calling for war in this modern age.......

am sure this sick man graduated with 10th class lower in zoology nd ended up as prof in the zoo.....
smh

Dedetwo:
i simply demonstrated my inherent stupidity on the public arena. From the above crap, it is safe say that Soyinka and Adamu are zombies. I guess from my previous silly and imbecilic post, i meant that government should hire zombies such Soyinka and Adamu to debate him. Seriously, i am one of the best reasons Nigeria is a dead-end entity. I wrote this piece with no disrespect.

UDONMINIT?

why is buhari taking medical treatments abroad,is there no hospitals in this great con3?
why do nig import petrol while we have refineries?
we have gravel and bitumen wet we still have bad roads,citizens dying daily bec of the bad roads,why?
why is nig still in darkness without electricity?

this is only the but few questions concerned nigerians should be asking......

see wetin unemployment don cause

smh

Dedetwo:
Why do you not make yourself available to debate him?

bec am not a zombie

nothingmega122:
Nigeria has been ranked as the 5th most dangerous country in the world by The World Economic Forum. In its biennial tourism report with one section focusing on safety and security, WEF ranked 136 countries and Nigeria was the 5th most dangerous based on violence and terroristic attacks by Boko Haram..They named Finland as the safest country in the world while Colombia was listed as the most dangerous.See the top 10 most dangerous countries in the world below.1. Colombia2. Yemen3. El Salvador4. Pakistan5 ZOO6. Venezuela8. Kenya9. Honduras10 Ukraine. copied

nawao

Modsenemy:
This man doesn't talk like a diplomat .
Only a power hungry person talks like this

A wise leader has his ways of choosing words wisely .

If Biafra ever comes, I think someone else should be chosen as the leader

we dont need ur concern,u should be worried bec ur president is now a ghost worker.....

i dont know why nigeria has not hired soyinka or prof adamu adamu to debate this man {ohamadike} on ait

expose him him so that the ppl he brainwashed will wake up from their slumber......

naija is always afraid of truth even animals will be angry with kanu for calling this hell a zoo...

the person that composed this mumbo-jumbo is a goat.........

u guys never believed in what ipob is doing long before now....

so why break ur head on ipob issue now?

u should be concerned about ur ghost president and not ipob....

leave the brainwased alone......

Evablizin:
He might be saying the truth but one of the true and good qualities of a Leader is the ability to manage his/her tongue,what to say using the right words to avoid criticism

manage tongue like liar mohammed is doing abi?

we re tired of this abuse

sarrki:
The cultism war I mean

He should make rivers a sweet state and envy of all

i never saw u on the thread where police women were kidnapped by ur brothers in maiduguri

JohnieWalker12:
Kiki Abeg I dey available... Just in case

this ur tummy na confused pack

Amberon11:
Gosh! You're totally shameless. Niger Delta consists of all the non-igbbo parts of the SS. And pls focus on your Biafra. We don't want you, its not by force.

The Bight of Biafra extends east of the Bight of Benin from the River Delta of the Niger in the north until it reaches Cape Lopez in Gabon.[2] Besides the Niger River, other rivers reaching the bay are the [Biafra] [Cross River]|Cross River]], Wouri River, Calabar River, Ndian, Wouri, Sanaga, Nyong River, Ntem, Mbia, Mbini, Muni and Komo River.[1]
The main islands in the Bay are Bioko and Príncipe; other important islands are Ilhéu Bom Bom, Ilhéu Caroço, Elobey Grande and Elobey Chico.[1] Countries located at the Bight of Biafra are [[Biafra], Cameroon, Equatorial Guinea (Bioko Island and Rio Muni), and Gabon (northern coast).
History[edit]
On 30 June 1849, Britain established a colonial protectorate over the Bight of Biafra,[Biafra] under the authority of the British Consuls of the Bight of Benin:
May 1852 - 1853 Louis Fraser
1853 - April 1859 Benjamin Campbell
April 1859 - 1860 George Brand
1860 - January 1861 Henry Hand
January 1861 - May 1861 Henry Grant Foote
May 1861 - 6 August 1861 William McCoskry (acting)
On 6 August 1861, Biafra protectorate and the neighboring Benin protectorate (under its own British consuls) became a united British protectorate Bights of Biafra and Benin, again under British consuls:
1861 - December 1864 Richard Francis Burton
December 1864 - 1873 Charles Livingstone
1873 - 1878 George Hartley
1878 - 13 September 1879 David Hopkins
13 September 1879 - 5 June 1885 Edward Hyde Hewett.
From 16 July 1884, it merged into the British protectorate over Brass, Opobo, Aboh and Old Calabar (excluding Lagos Colony), which was confirmed on 5 June 1885, and named Oil Rivers Protectorate, where, on August 1891, effective consular administration was established, headed by a consul general (on 5 June 1885, the aforementoned former consul Edward Hyde Hewett became the first). The area would, in different steps, merge further via the 12 May 1893 Niger Coast Protectorate, 1 January 1900 (renamed Southern Nigeria Protectorate into which, on 16 February 1906, Lagos was incorporated), on 28 February 1906 made into the Colony and Protectorate of Southern Nigeria. From 1 January 1914, it was part of Colony and Protectorate of Nigeria.
Biafra was independent state from Nigeria in 1967, when after the Biafran War, the Nigerian government remove the name of the name bright of Biafra they considered secessionist.

do u see how stupid some of the so called ss sounds when u deny ur roots??

go to youtube and see what sen.ben bruce said about a country without history...
gosh some of u ppl re to disgusting......

Amberon11:
Gosh! You're totally shameless. Niger Delta consists of all the non-igbbo parts of the SS. And pls focus on your Biafra. We don't want you, its not by force.

The Niger Delta is the delta of the Niger River sitting directly on the Gulf of Guinea on the Atlantic Ocean in Nigeria.[1] It is typically considered to be located within nine coastal southern Nigerian states, which include: all six states from the South South geopolitical zone, one state (Ondo) from South West geopolitical zone and two states (Abia and Imo) from South East geopolitical zone. Of all the states that the region covers, only Cross River is not an oil-producing state.
Niger Delta is a very densely populated region sometimes called the Oil Rivers because it was once a major producer of palm oil. The area was the British Oil Rivers Protectorate from 1885 until 1893, when it was expanded and became the Niger Coast Protectorate. The delta is a petroleum-rich region, and has been the centre of international controversy over pollution, corruption (notably by the Abacha regime), and human rights violations....

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Niger_Delta
mr man do research next time before typing rubbish here next time....

Amberon11:
Im proudly urhobo and the afonjas are better than you. At least they don't eat their fellow human beings like you people do.

ok,continue from where u stopped.....

sarrki:
All this fake pastors sef

Someone that preaches hatred among brethren

the man is not even an ibo man
yet u refuse to hear the simple truth

ppl like u re the problems nig has

keep decieving ur self till its too late

gmaribel:
He once claimed that 90% of Igbo women are PR*STITUTES.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4UIRwV6PLLw

i didnt hear him say that in the mumbojumbo u compiled......

in 2013 which means the agitation was nt bec gejonathan lost election as most of the zombies claim.....

keep up the free advert.....

the condition of the con3 is getting to ppls lives.....

a hungry man is an angry man

a man that has stayed hungry for too long is a beast

KratosCorp:
What are you talking about?

I said the word is not and has never been derogatory. In fact the word is used for any geographical area that's encompassed with water - including those in igbo land.

The word is not used to describe a group of people until you attach another word to it. For example "onye mba mmiri" or "ndi mba mmiri" which mean "a riverrine person" or "riverrine people" respectively.

So when Nigeria says that Tonye, for example, is from Niger Delta or Riverrine Area, it does not in any way sound derogatory to the person of Tonye, unless he has problem understanding English.

why re u wastin ur time trying to educate an afonja goat/?

Decypher:
what a coagulation of vile stupidity, if stupidity was power you would have been a god by now!

looooooools
guy no try this joke next time

person fit dye from lafin....
hahahahahahhahahahaaaa

Caleboha:
This man is making a name for himself while some others are wasting their lives arguing about IPOB, Igbos and cone heads, restructuring or true federalism.
Outside nigeria is the big picture, life is bigger than Nnamdi Kanu, life is bigger than Arewa youths, life is bigger than nigeria, life is bigger than your shameless hateful arguments on facebook and nairaland. The earlier you face your future, the better for you and your household!

there is no good life without home......

how many americans are struggling in nig embassy to come to nig...

the faster we restructure nig the better for all of us....

MalcoImX:
The blood of Nigerians that were shed to liberate you is what you're now throwing on our face and calling a regret. This time you'll have to face the Igbo all by yourself. No single Nigerian blood will be there for you to regret later. The blood of a single human being, to me, is better than all the oil in the world. No one died of hunger in Nigeria pre- oil discovery.

the blood of the innocent women and children gowon destroyed in biafra will forever hunt u all........
u saved ijaw ppl as u claimed yet obj massacred odi comunity nd bubu bombarded there creeks..
hypocrite

sarrki:
That's why I will never support all this crooks

Like the parable goes "Those that live in glass house should not throw the first Stone"

Same as Mazi KANU he lives in London and formenting trouble down here

just like buhari is ruling naija from

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morgue

sorry london