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BiafranBushBoy:
Same thing I said to him, I will say to you!

Go hang yourself with your opinion.

Does anyone give a shit about it?

If you don't have money to take care of a girl, go become a gay or something else.

BiafranBushBoy:
Your article is nice... but the "Igbo girl" stuff you potrayed will make it die a natural death.

Thanks for being tribalistic...

I hope you enjoyed your own post.

He spoke the truth bro, this isn't about being tribalistic, he is talking from what is realistic

MariaLavina:
Confused lots!

When a lady decides to be caring, attentive, and supportive, she becomes too available , desperate and cheap.

But when she decides to put herself first, seek only want you can offer, she becomes a slut, gold digger and a materialistic one. The problem with you overgrown babies is that you do not get to understand what you want before you stopped growing.


Fools!

I love this comment dear, some folks are just no more in their right senses anymore

Hanseel1:
A man spends his whole life chasing money, mostly not for his on needs but for that of his immediate family. The wife works quite alright but there is an unwritten law that says he must provide all her needs because he is a "man", so he saves up and the first car he buys he gives to his wife because "she's a woman, she shouldn't be stressed up" he can still jump buses till he affords to buy another car. The house rent gets due and he is short of 50k so his wife adds up from her savings and they pay. Two months into the renewal of the rent the wife starts nagging about how she really needs her 50k, there are things she needs to do, most of which are all superfluous. He pays her back her 50k that she contributed to the good of the same family. His wife isn't very good at driving so he comes home to see she has bashed in the the right door of her car. "I'm a little pressed for money dear, I won't be able to fix that anytime soon, do you have some money to spare?" She says she doesn't so the car gets parked for a month or two in which his eardrums were nearly perforated with nagging and complains.

She's pregnant! Yay! the first child is here, its a girl. That brings it's own responsibilities. The wife's family came to visit to congratulate them and when they live another unwritten law says that as a "man" you should give them money for transport

The Man's own family comes too and the same unwritten law is applied.

They get more children and have to move to a bigger house which requires bigger money for rent. And with children expenses don't decrease as they grow older it increases.

One day you wake up and you are 65years old realizing you've done absolutely nothing for yourself as a man but slaved to satisfy others, most of which aren't even grateful for the sacrifice.

The manipulated man,go and read it

stephenmorris:
This lady is shaking tables with her tweet about girls who call men broke but rely on other men for money


source-https://www.xclusivenobs.com/romance/this-lady-is-shaking-tables-with-her-tweet-about-girls-who-call-men-broke-but-rely-on-other-men-for-money/

credit-twitter

Bro,never fall for this crap. If you dare think she is making sense, wait until both of you get married,then you will know that those statement were null and void.

chiommy123:
eyaa

Yea,thanks

chiommy123:
just remember to treat her right

I currently have none ma

chiommy123:
because they admire slim girls in the presence of their fat girl friends and when the girl is slim they complain too. what do you guys really want

Fat or slim,all i want is a mature and sensible lady.

milemimi93:
She's Mrs Guap Mimi..

OK,congrats Sir

milemimi93:
Yeah I'm married. Married to the Guap.

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mimimile93:
That picture really explains why the say love is blind..


LOVE and SENSE are two enemies at any time.

That's why people who love truly have no common sense and those who have common sense don't love truly.


Fvck Love! I'm tired of trying.

But you are married

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
How can one enjoy a carrot after childbirth?

let's ask those who already have experience about that

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
The cucumber I'm getting now is far better than the carrot you ever offered me. All the best to your new girl.

Cucumber to make the hole wider and deeper

MissRaine69:
Most men here would not be able to handle a woman who stands on her own two feet and is confident enough to “toast” them.
They are used to the dependent Oliver Twist type of woman.

I will be able to handle it cos i have experienced it. So far the lady is good looking and not a control freak.

pekeyim:
Hmmmm so govt will purchase the planes for private individuals to enjoy profit all in the name of ppp. Too many fake PPP out there already.

Well said bro,this is exactly what happened. I just don't see why people should congratulate the government officials and their likes for siphoning things meant for the masses and then privately privatize it just to seem like its being managed by foreigners. SMH! If you know ,you know.

Naijagram:
I'm seriously in love with my Bestie... I don't know how to tell him and I don't want to lose him as well.

He's so caring and very nice to me.
We do almost everything together... We go to the movies together, eat together and all that.

People think we are dating.

I don't want to make a mistake. I have feelings for him...I don't know if has feelings for me too.

Suggestions please!

No Insults.

I'm seriously in love with my Bestie... I don't know how to tell her and I don't want to lose her as well.

She's so caring and very nice to me.
We do almost everything together... We go to the movies together, eat together and all that.

People think we are dating.

I don't want to make a mistake. I have feelings for her...I don't know if she has feelings for me too.

Suggestions please!

No Insults.

GODPUNISHUNA:
mad man

What have i done wrong here now?

My dear sweet,beautiful and lovely girls don't mind anyone that advise you not to party,club or enjoy yourself....Party hard and club 7days a week,24hours a day...It is ur time ojare,Don't ❌ stop smoking ,that Shisha,Cigarette,Skunk,Igbo(marijuna) or whatever!Please smoke,smoke and smoke,infact fire up and smoke out ur brain. Sleep around in exchange for money,luxuries and Iphone ....Do u no Iphone9 will be launched soon? Samsung Sx10 will be out so soon So pls double ur Olosho hustles,so dat u can use d latest gadgets.Don't mind any guy that wanna fall in real love with u,they are all heartbreakers as love is dead,Jump like frog from one yahoo boy to another to a married man,and to a sugar daddy......They are the ones that can pay ur bills.Don't mind any guy professing love to u ojare. Bleep LOVE!!!!This world is very sweet my sister enjoy and enjoy and enjoy and dont listen to anyone or take up any preaching from anyone.....Makesure u go to clubs with your Boyfriend and smoke with him and take hard drugs together every now and then,Please continue smoking with him.......He is not ready for marriage at the moment joor
But I have a good news for u my sister,small with big god....When that guy you wasting ur life with is ready to settle down,he will marry a very decent girl who has a good future ambition,properly trained,well cultured and mannered and he will use u as a testimony in the Church⛪ By then u will be above 30years and ur lungs will be badly burnt,ur big boobs and ass would have sagged,wrinkled with heavy stretch marks all over and u will be looking extraordinarily older than ur age because ur beauty would have fade off,..Even MaryKay,BlackOpral,Sleek or classic will not stay well on your face again?? please continue enjoying your live ojare.
I wish you well ooo......wehdone Ma!!!

4FACEADELEKE:
The book of pook,the rational male by Rollo tomassi,the art of seduction by robert greene,no more mr nice guy by Robert glover,manipulated man and many other red pill books on reddit.

Ok,thanks bro!

4FACEADELEKE:
yes and so many other red pill books still reading more,never get tired of red pill books,it opens the eyes of men.

Nice one. Can you prescribe some of the ones you have read?

4FACEADELEKE:
Minimile all I am going to say is,I love you bro.I ain't telling you to let go because if I am in your shoes I can never let go.You are a strong man,a fighter,and a warrior.I won't advice you to get married no,I won't either advice you to have a child.All I am going to say is,start all over again put a new dream in your heart pursue it,and plan for the rest of your life,so that when you get old you will never suffer.Relationships are not for everyone,and I am among those people,most of the things you said here I can relate,because I have experienced part of them in my past,but today I am glad I swallowed the red pill,and I learnt from men like Robert Greene,that was one of the turning points of my life.Women are not important,that's why they fight so hard to make men see their importance and validate them. This world is for us MEN,but the men have shared their powers with women. Never let anybody pressurize you to get married,my mother and father are doing that now,but I told them point blank,that I never will.I cant be a slave to a woman,in disguise of false exploitation covered with a mask called marriage.#Saynotomarriagerelationshipandexploitation

Have you read the manipulated man?

If you believe this tales by moon light,you are on your own!

Shugavee:
how would u be sure of that But if u hv doubts as u do now!! Then don't

I don't have doubt though just wondering

Shugavee:
yes if u still love them!! But please make sure things r over with the present girl

And they came back all because of either what they were enjoying from you and not for the sake of love?

OG1BABY:
It all depends on what lead to the breakup in the first place. My opinion though

What could have lead to the breakup that the two party couldn't resolved?

Pls,is it advisable for someone to go back to his/her ex?

InfernoNig:
She's not into you. Your chats probably bothering her s someone is giving her the attention she desire. Stop showing her attention, and you will see how she will start begging for your attention. Nothing goes for nothing. If she doesn't care to strike a reasonable conversation, call or text you everyday as you do then you lock up. Do same to her. Peace

Well said,you can't say it better than this bro

FluidQueen:
Why do the society think they need to affirm a woman's worth and value? If its so thoughtful, why don't women affirm a man's value and worth by Paying the groom price too? Why can't we appreciate you too? Why can't we simply thank the groom's family for bringing up such a handsome, Amazing and kind hearted man? Or are we just equivalent to a purchase?

Lol. It's ridiculous, isn't it? Why is the rationale for the concept being tailored to one gender? All it symbolizes is female subjugation, no euphemism can change it!

It's the basis for female discrimination, and prejudice.
I paid on your head, you must obey me.
I married you, you didn't marry me.
These are subtle sexist practice that should be removed.

All of that will always leads to gender equality issue in the marriage because no woman want to hear i paid your pride price not you. And the woman will always feel pained by such statements. Bride price it's good in itself but most families sees it as a do or die affair.

AntiBrutus:
The things they say to make people believe being good is now socially wrong. Just as they go about convincing guys that girls love bad boys.

Some men like them bad, some like them good.
The good and the bad are all getting married.

I don't wanna ask his definition of good and bad.
Because I am sure it's the usual nonsense.

If the ladies like, let them fall for this crap,they will all find themselves to be blamed not the OP nor all the commentators

planetx13:
In as much the OP is trying to make sense, i still think that the idea is immature and borne out of arrogance rather than dignity. You should understand that sexual feelings have nothing to do with money, a woman who is a billionaire can still be a nympho (just as the queen of England's mother was a klepto despite all the wealth).
The point is ladies should stop using sex (especially when you claim to be in a love affair with someone) as a bargaining tool. It is NOT right. It only makes you look desperate and cheap. I use the word 'cheap because "anything that has a price can be afforded and trust me ,to many people.. it will be cheap..... what happened to the era when the love and body of women were PRICELESS .

The idea of thinking that when you make your own money as a lady means you now have the power over Sex is selfish, immature and devoid of wisdom. Sex is and always will be CONSENSUAL. Nobody(male or female) has power over sex... it is an agreement among the people involved.. be it 2 or more people (whatever!!!!) . If you want to make money, make money... but not with the intention to use it and manipulate the power of sex cos the only person you will end up frustrating and hurting is YOURSELF?!!!!!!

Ciao

This is totally right,pls if he wants to spend on you either you give him sex or not he will. So,ladies should just take off that orientation that sex is a gateway to getting money from your guy.

Where is your location?