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Romance / Marriage Or Business by franxiz(m): 8:12pm On Oct 03, 2023
Good evening wonderful people on the forum.

I just want to share my depression, regrets and failed marriage experience just to let out this load in my heart and move on with life. I will be brief and straight to the point

I met this lady back in our university days, we shared a lot in common and interest. The relationship was good till graduation when we both served in different states, some months into NYSC, she messaged me to forgive her actions and try to move on with life as she had found someone who is ready to settle down and since am still serving I need time to establish myself, that message broke my heart, I tried calling her but she block me on all platforms...

Fast-forward 2years later after NYSC, I got a call from a familiar number but was not sure who the caller might be.. wow it's her! After hearing her voice... before I could say anything, she was already crying and begging me for forgiveness on the phone etc, I tried acting like commando, but the love and fellings we shared took the better of me. I let the past and we started all over again.

Few years later, we are married no kids yet and no peace in the house, we can't spend one full week in a month happy as husband and wife without quarry and not speaking to each other, I have tried to find solution to this issues, but nothing, sometimes it's goes on for months... I have tried talking the her family about it our issues but they feel less concerned as if it's my cross, I have to bear it alone.

My problem began few months after our marriage, wifey complain of being lonely at home each time I go out for work and wanted a small business to run so as to support the family, good idea I though but am regretting it today. As wifey is so engrossed in this business and forgetting she has a husband to attend to, Monday to Sunday, even Christmas, easter, salla holidays, she goes to shop from 7am and comes back at night by 9 or 9:30pm with the excuse of traffic on the way or my supplies where bringing me goods so I have to wait for them to come...

Mine most worried issue is that she is not concerned in starting a family, each time I want her attention, all I get is am tired, body dey pain me, tomorrow we do it... but she can't fail to attend to her business matters even as late as 10:30pm she is ordering goods or calling her customs of the goods she has in store from her phone....

I finally man up and told her to choose between her marriage or Business, my people this lady shock me, she walked out of the marriage to focus on her business after wasting my time and resources...

It hurts but I will overcome this depression with time... thank you all and good night.

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Nairaland / General / Re: How To Create A New Topic by franxiz(m): 3:12pm On Sep 20, 2022
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Car Talk / Re: How Much Do You Spend On Transportation Daily? by franxiz(m): 4:49pm On Mar 09, 2022
you only spend N250k transport to work today you the shout say you don spend money....we wey dey spend N1,200 before.. now its N2000 to N2300 with abeg sir and the time wey you take reach busstop.

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Sports / Re: EPL: James To Leave Man Utd After Ronaldo’s Arrival by franxiz(m): 2:11pm On Aug 31, 2021
Nice one...
Sports / Re: Manchester United Reportedly Agree Personal Terms With Borussia Dortmund's Jadon by franxiz(m): 5:01pm On Jun 10, 2021
[Bros na u wan pay the money...why complain abt how much united wan pay...na wa ooo quote author=Mangekyo post=102580650]Sancho is actually a good player, but I don't think he's worth the €95million+ Dortmund are demanding. Manchester United should take him for 60 million max, with add ons if they win the league.

IN the meantime, Chelsea are currently negotiating with Dortmund for A Erling Haaland swoop, as well as Hakimi and Varane.
I'm proud to be a blues fan #KTBFFH [/quote]

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Food / Re: Unique Types Of People At A Nigerian Owambe by franxiz(m): 2:32pm On Jun 10, 2021
Ftc. I love owambe...every saturday...but coro soil things last year

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Romance / Re: 5 Signs You May Be In An Unhealthy Relationship by franxiz(m): 12:20pm On May 18, 2021
Ftc...feels good...am passing through the above mention listed
Religion / Re: Dr Olukoya's Prophecies For 2021 by franxiz(m): 11:58am On Jan 01, 2021
False prophet with false prophecy.....this people can never see things good for the country only bad bad things...them surwe for this so called men of God
Religion / Re: Primate Ayodele 2021 Prophecy: I Foresee Calamity In The New Year by franxiz(m): 5:02pm On Dec 27, 2020
in your whole life you never see better thing to people and this country..na so so bad bad things you dey see.. abeg change network maybe you fit connect to God channel to see better things this year
Politics / Re: 2023 Presidency: I Won’t Allow Anyone Deceive Me Again – Sam Ewang by franxiz(m): 4:06pm On Dec 14, 2020
So you don wake-up from your slumber...welcome sir...

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Politics / Re: Photos Of Soldiers Guarding & Assisting Zabarmari People Harvest Farm Produce by franxiz(m): 4:03pm On Dec 14, 2020
Let me not say my mind yet....just watching the guy behind me
Celebrities / Re: Omah Lay Says Uganda Is Not Allowing The Nigerian Government Intervene by franxiz(m): 3:59pm On Dec 14, 2020
It's well with you my bro...shit happens....don't count on our govt for support..fight ur fight alone..

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European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) / Re: Brighton Vs Manchester United - ( 2 - 3) On 26th September 2020 by franxiz(m): 2:16pm On Sep 26, 2020
my boy rashford...na me train u...
Celebrities / Re: Governor Ayade Appoints Shan George As Chairman Callywood Board, She Cries by franxiz(m): 8:11pm On Feb 21, 2020
Soon we start hearing different state in nigeria own version of nollywood eg.

Imo state: owerrywood
Osun state: oshywood
Edo state: bennywood

I fear this country we copy pass cat

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Celebrities / Re: Toyin Lawani And Princess Shyngle Pose Together In Swimsuit (Photo) by franxiz(m): 9:42am On Aug 02, 2019
the dark lady get six toes
Politics / Re: 'God Is A Nigerian' - Obasanjo by franxiz(m): 3:50pm On Jul 02, 2019
if God is from Nigeria...then the road to his house is Ajah
Family / Re: My Married Jobless Elder Brother Is Sucking My Mum Financially. Help! by franxiz(m): 9:13pm On Apr 23, 2019
@ovop shame no dey catch u
Properties / Re: Most Expensive Places To Live In Nigeria| Co-tenant by franxiz(m): 4:04pm On Apr 23, 2019
the person that made this topic is a liar....how can you open that your mouth to say the cheapest 1 room flat in lagos is 600k....o boy respect your old age

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Education / Re: Teacher Flogs Student, 12 Strokes, For Not Completing Her Homework (Photos) by franxiz(m): 8:22am On Mar 05, 2019
Are you asking me?...wo if Na me be you...I go hire Anthony Joshua brother go beat up the teacher and principal of the school
Celebrities / Re: Disrespectful Or Nah? Cossy Ojiakor Names Her New Pet ‘atiku’ (photos) by franxiz(m): 8:18am On Mar 05, 2019
Na most say u go eat for party....
Politics / Re: "There Will Be No Electronic Voting In 2019"-mahmood Yakubu, INEC Chairman Says by franxiz(m): 11:27am On Jun 25, 2018
BUHARI PLANNING TO RIG ELECTION 2019....
Celebrities / Re: Fela's Bedroom Preserved Exactly How It Was Before His Death (Photo) by franxiz(m): 12:46pm On Oct 15, 2015
I wonder if he have finish smoking the giant cigareete place on his casket....during his burial....#JustAsking
Business / Re: Please How And Were Can I Buy Goods In Bulk From Wholesalers In Lagos And Aba by franxiz(m): 7:31pm On Oct 01, 2015
Pls were can I can buy provisions, alcoholic drinks, fruit juice at cheap rate in Awoyaya area off Ajah Lagos.
Romance / Re: What Is The Worst Response To "I Love U" That You Hav Heard... by franxiz(m): 4:41pm On Jul 24, 2014
hmmmm
Career / Re: Nigerian Army Direct Short Service Commission (DSSC) Out. Register Online by franxiz(m): 10:41pm On Aug 15, 2013
good day room my name is Francis am new here... pls i want to if nigerian army have fix a date for the screening...

pls if yes... wats the date.
abeg info me.

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