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To all our dear men out there, both the married and the intending ones, finding it in your souls to dropping your old habits of jumping from girl to girl will do you a whole lot of good in your marriages and in your career.  

Sticking to your woman does not necessarily have to make your marriage a boring one, neither does jumping from girl to girl boosts your ego juice but rather it only exposes you to your insecurities.  

A case of “I NO FIT DEY CHOP ONLY OGBONO” is a phrase that was fabricated by devil himself to be luring children of God to into adulterous activities, not to talk of destroying homes and marriages.   The rates in which newly married men find their ways back to their old lives is sickening. While madam is in the hospital where she just put to bed probably their first or second child, oga is at his mistress’ house where he’s spending the night with phone switched off probably telling his wife earlier he’s out of town. With this generation of men, it has been so damages that you can actually tell the good from the bad.   Gone are those days when men get married and it becomes a huge transition from boyhood to manhood in their lives that bring a big change, assuming the husbandly and fatherly sense of responsibility in their lives. But now a man can get married on Saturday and still find it so easy to honour a date he planned on Sunday with his side chick who he probably kept in the dark.  

Instead of men exploring their polygamous nature which have reduced them to approval SEEKING SCUM, why not focus on building up your career and your family. I will not allow any arguments here, please take it to your work station and argue it there.  

Ps: NOT ALL MEN ARE SCUM!

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Please help me and look into this matter o, my sister does not know what I know about her husband, in fact I am still in shock as I am typing this message.

Am a guy, so it happened one day when we both (me and my sister’s hubby) came for a function at an in-law’s house and it was night, it happened that we were going to pass the in the house, so we were both given the same room to crash.

In the middle of the night while I was asleep, I noticed some movements round my waist down to my junk, when I wake up I will see nothing, I went back to sleep again and it repeated couple of time. So this time I stayed awake because I could no longer go back to sleep, after sometime the man started touching me as I was awake, this time I was watching him as I was wide awake, I was terrified and couldn’t believe my eyes...Rest of the story

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Complements of the season H Plus community and family. I met this lady in Abuja and we started dating, we really got close to each other that we spend time at each other’s place, I never knew what exactly she did for a living but she always talked about her boss all the time who owned a famous hotel in Abuja (name withheld) and she actually introduced me to him at some point, so I figured she must be into hotel management.



She is a wealthy lady, anytime I spend time in her house I found peace because she was neither the type of lady that answers 100 phone calls per day nor was she the type that men visits in her house, in fact I was really comfortable with this lady, she even lends me one of her cars to drive to work on a daily basis.


In fact H Plus, I was really considering marrying this girl because she was everything I wanted in a woman. On that faithful day I went to work with her car as usual, my phone rang and it was her. She sent me on an errand to go collect something for her from her boss, but before I go I should drop the car at her house so her mechanic do some maintenance to the car.




So I did as she asked and dropped the car at her house and went straight to the hotel owned by her boss to collect the something, the hotel is a popular one, located at area 10 Abuja close to def… as I got there the man was already waiting for me outside the building, when he saw me approaching he smiled and wrapped his arm round my shoulders so I could aid him get up from where he was sitting, then he took me inside.


He took me straight back to the building behind the main hotel building and as we got inside, I discovered that the more we got inside the rooms were getting darker, until we got into a room where I saw group of middle aged men almost naked, they tied red shiny pieces of cloths round their waists, about 12 – 15 of them standing round a table with a white shiny bowl on top of the table...Read the rest of the story

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A drama has erupted after a woman who attacked her husband’s lover discovered that she was actually born a male.

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What do you think is the cause of male chauvinism? This question came up during a heated argument with our respondents, while analyzing the character Okonkwo in the play Things Fall Apart, his best friend advised him not to take part in the killing of that young boy Ikemefula, who lived with him for 3 years and called him father.


A female respondent Chimaroge gave an insight, she said;
“Its fear and pride. Men’s pride and ego would not allow them listen to their own human feelings and tenderness, because to show feelings is being regarded as a woman. Okonkwo went ahead out of fear; fear that it would reduce him to being a woman if he refrained from striking the boy. So in reality men struggle between their self-image and their ego. I also think men are afraid of women that if they are given a chance they will do better than them”...READ MORE

Everyone has an acceptable minimum to maximum age of selecting a partner, there is no standard measure to say maximum but there has been a rule called the ‘half your age plus seven’. This rules states that by dividing your own age by two and then adding seven you can find the socially-acceptable minimum age of anyone you want to date. So if you’re a 24 year-old, you can feel free to be with anyone who is at least 19 (i.e., 12 + 7) but not someone who is 18.


But arguably age is just a number and maturity is what really matters in a relationship, we always come across partners of different ages who fall in love with each other, I know couples who are having an age difference of 12 years and yet lead a wonderful life.

We truly can't help with whom we fall in love. Love doesn't care if someone is older or younger, but we certainly do.




I have always felt better dating older girls so I always ended up attracting them, it’s not an ego thing but I feel fulfilled relating with a mature lady than someone I feel is less experienced...MORE

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I ask again, why can't wicked people leave pastoral work for those who're ready to follow after Christ?

Pastoral is all for business, means of getting quick wealth. The girl in the picture was urged to speak about this on his burial by an only friend who knows of this, because already they have started printing posters that say things like "our daddy GO is gone", "gone to the bossom of our Lord" until she revealed his real side.

A 21 year old girl (name withheld) in Kogi state has made a confession during her father’s burial which shocked the whole town, she revealed that her father started molesting her at the age of 13, which she claimed that resulted to the abortion of 3 pregnancies in the process.


Her late father was a residential pastor of a Deeper life church branch in Kogi state before his death. He was been given a pastoral burial service by his co pastors when the girl delivered this shocking message. When it was time for friends and families remarks at the burial, she came forward with the shocking news.


She said that her father deflowered her when she was 13 and continued abusing her sexually ever since then. “When i became pregnant the first time at 13, my father took me to a village outside our town where no one will recognize him as a pastor to get rid of the pregnancy.”


“I got pregnant for him again at 15 and he took me to the same quack clinic to get rid of it, and also at 16”. Her mother separated with her father when she was 12 and moved to another state, she has been living with her father ever since then, then the abuse started at 13...READ MORE

A 70-year-old Hausa man marries a 15-year-old girl in Niger state, Nigeria. Clearly the girl in the picture seemed to might have not completely gone through her puberty changes.


These pedophilic marriages are commonly practiced in the northern parts of Nigeria, where girls as young as 8-years old, not old enough to take care of themselves can be married off to men old enough to be their ancestors. Most times these marriages are slave trades and being disguised as marriages, in a bid for the girl’s parents to pay off their debts or to become wealthy.


The main factor that champion this drastic act is poverty, lack of education, and strong social and religious traditions, because no wealthy parent would sell their under aged beloved girl child to an old man in the name of marriage. It is more common now than before but every report media are either occupied with one thing or chose not to continue reporting these matters...Read More

A 70-year-old Hausa man marries a 15-year-old girl in Niger state, Nigeria. Clearly the girl in the picture seemed to might have not completely gone through her puberty changes.


These pedophilic marriages are commonly practiced in the northern parts of Nigeria, where girls as young as 8-years old, not old enough to take care of themselves can be married off to men old enough to be their ancestors. Most times these marriages are slave trades and being disguised as marriages, in a bid for the girl’s parents to pay off their debts or to become wealthy.


The main factor that champion this drastic act is poverty, lack of education, and strong social and religious traditions, because no wealthy parent would sell their under aged beloved girl child to an old man in the name of marriage. It is more common now than before but every report media are either occupied with one thing or chose not to continue reporting these matters...Read More

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Women have super strong instinct than men but sometimes choose to ignore or use them wrongly, it is good for a woman to be ambitious when it comes to choosing a man but at what cost?


Of course every woman’s dream is to marry a prince in shiny armor who will come and sweep her off her feet, at least at a certain younger age in a woman’s life she must have had such thoughts or still have them. At that younger and ripe age, she friend zones all her meek and gentle male friends who have a clear future and their heads are correct, they become too sensitive and too broke for her, because she needs some excitements and adventure in her life.


She wants a lion that she can feel love for, he’s cute and buoyant, he’s going to be driving a beautiful car but yet he squats with a friend, he’s huge and has six packs but he is woman beater, he has a very nice job and a comfortable apartment but he’s married, though he promised you marriage. My sister, did you think he would leave his wife for you? Even if he tells you he’s desperately unhappy, he doesn’t love her, or he’s going to leave—chances are he won’t.


As she gets older she’s still running around with her lions and they continue devouring her. As she’s busy with her lions, her meek and gentle friend zoned male friends who are eligible bachelors all gets married, but it doesn’t go down well with her. By that time she has started to realize her mistakes, a reasonable amount of her time have been wasted.


When the Mr lion has finished formatting her destiny and she is still single and frustrated, she puts the blames on every man that she can find, couple of more years goes by and she becomes bitterer...Learn More

“My Ex Who Recently Got Married Called Me Yesterday Saying He Couldn’t Think Of A Reason Why We Broke Up” – Lady

A lady known as Adanma Doreen shared her recent encounter with her ex-boyfriend on her twitter handle @Adanma_doreen who broke up with her and recently got married to another woman. View Pictures

In her tweet “So my ex who recently got married called me today (he saw me last week) saying he couldn’t think of a reason why we broke up. He said ‘I think of you before I meet a client because thinking of you makes me smile’”...Read Her Full Tweet

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I'm blessed but unlucky but when it comes to encounter with women and relationships I'm unluckily lucky. My relationships with ladies have always been a bit of terrible experience.


I had a relationship with a lady which started smoothly, we have swell time, out of this world romantic experience. Whenever we're not together I try to get in touch by calling at least thrice in the morning, noon and night. But at one point she will be too busy to take my calls or return it to show that she missed it. If she needs my attention anytime I'll make sure I'm there at all cost.


If she needs anything I'll try to provide if not all, at least a good fraction of it. With all these efforts, what greets me is rejections, unappreciation or even worst. I have a female friend who recently told me why all the things greet me in relationship is that I love too much and a man is not supposed to love like that cos I try to do same to her even as a good friend. I'm against any form maltreatment a man should give to a woman.


Be it physical, verbal or emotional abuse, lack of care and providence or any form of discomfort. She has given me guidelines and curricula on how I treat a woman which includes forming to be too busy to call or text especially in the morning, I should call at night when I’m about to sleep just to check her...LEARN MORE

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