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Age disparity in sexual relationships is the difference in ages of individuals in sexual relationships. Concepts of these relationships, including what defines an age disparity, have developed over time and vary among societies.


Differences in age preferences for mates can stem from evolutionary mating strategies and age preferences in sexual partners may vary cross culturally. There are also social theories for age differences in relationships as well as suggested reasons for 'alternative' age-hypogamous relationships. Age-disparity relationships have been documented for most of recorded history and have been regarded with a wide range of attitudes dependent on sociocultural norms and legal systems.


Male preference for younger females

A renounced scientist David Buss attributed the male preference for younger females to certain youthful cues. In females, relative youth and physical attractiveness (which males valued more compared to females) demonstrated cues for fertility and high reproductive capacity. Buss stated the specific age preference of around 25 years implied that fertility was a stronger ultimate cause of mate preference than reproductive value as data suggested that fertility peaks in females around mid-twenties.


From a life history theory perspective, females that display these cues are judged to be more capable of reproductive investment. This notion of age preference due to peak fertility is supported by Kenrick, Keefe, Gabrielidis, and Cornelius's study, which found that although teenage males would accept a mate slightly younger than themselves, there was a wider range of preference for ages above their own. Teenage males also report that their ideal mates would be several years older than themselves.


Buss and Schmitt stress that although long term mating relationships are common for humans, there are both short term and long term mating relationships. Buss and Schmitt provided a Sexual Strategies Theory that describes the two sexes as having evolved distinct psychological mechanisms that underlie the strategies for short and long term mating. This theory is directly relevant and compatible with those two already mentioned, Life History and Parental Investment.


Males tend to appear oriented towards short term mating (greater desire for short term mates than women, prefer larger number of sexual partners and take less time to consent to sexual intercourse) and this appears to solve a number of adaptive problems including using fewer resources to access a mate. Although there are a number of reproductive advantages to short term mating, males still pursue long term mates, and this is due to the possibility of monopolising a female's lifetime reproductive resources. Consistent with findings, for both short term and long term mates, males prefer younger females (reproductively valuable).


Female preference for older males

As they are the higher investing sex, females tend to be slightly more demanding when picking a mate (as predicted by parental investment theory). They also tend to have a more difficult task of evaluating a male's reproductive value accurately based on physical appearance as age tends to have fewer constraints on a male's reproductive resources. Buss attributed the older age preference to older males displaying characteristics of high providing-capacity such as status and resources...Read More

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MrBrownJay1:
for a minute, i thought i was reading the application for donkey of the year award, lol! funny how everything you described was ALL about you (and what you can get from him), rather than his character.

.... i wish you all the best in finding the donkey you described in your above post someday.

Its so clear that Some women are just after money. Its so sad...

We have treated the topic about what makes a woman a wife material, and we have seen many responses from men about their opinion of a wife material, the responses were intense. Read the post here

The purpose of this topic is to help develop people's mind on the ideas of marriages, we are also forming study from the topic to understand what individuals want from marriages.

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chiommy123:
His character. How he understands. His reactions in certain suitations.

Great! but u have to break it down a bit. Like what do u mean his character, how he understands and his reactions...

izuch:
Bros "this is Nigeria" all a woman needs to be happy is excess cash. What else will she need? A man that can cook? With money she'll get the best of cooks. romance/ servicing? She'll get the best sugar boy/stud money can afford. Houses, cars holidays and almost all the good things of life, na money kill am.

Unbelievable!!
My guy that sounds bitter, there's truth in what u said but i still choose to believe that its not all women.
I mean i have seen a woman who divorced her well-to-do husband just to be a second wife to a billionaire that she met for the first time on the plane on her way to meet her husband in America, just because he proposed to her there. Not that the husband is not wealthy but she preferred to abandon her family including her 2 kids for this bilionare.
After her, this billionaire later went on to marry a 3rd wife.
10-15 years into the marriage to the billionaire, she later died of unknown cause.
Money is good but money is not everything...

izuch:
MMMMOOOONNNNEEEEYYYYYY! BE SUPER RICH AND YOURE THE BEST HUSBAND MATERIAL EVER

Why u dey show urself na? U think say na all woman dey trip for money like that?

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Do These Two Lines Match Up On Your Hands? Here’s What It Means

We've all seen the lines on the insides of our hands, but did you know that they can actually tell you a whole lot about your personality?

We all know that our hands can say a lot about who we are.

Palm reading has been around for thousands of years, and it's been a time-tested indicator of a number of personality attributes.

The shape of your hand can offer a general demonstration of what kind of person you are.

You can see here, that these are the "broad strokes." Meanwhile, the more intricate aspects are contained not in the hand's shape, but the lines it contains.

While there is still much room for interpretation and subjectivity, there are agreed-upon philosophies.

Lifelines, for one, reveal the biggest features of your life. That would include health, prosperity, and romantic endeavors.

But there are other lines that can tell quite a story as well.

Depending on which type of palm reader you ask, these lines, located higher on the hand (just below the first knuckle of your fingers) can tell quite a story.

They're the lines here marked "spleen" on the right hand, though they exist on both, obviously.

So, not only do the lines themselves speak volumes, but their positions in relation to one another do as well.

Let's look that the rules of these oft-overlooked lines and see what they mean, shall we?

Now clap them together three or four times…
Okay, that has nothing to do with anything, but it does reveal that you're gullible and willing to clap your hands when a random stranger tells you to.

But now it's time to get serious.
Well, that's not totally true about clapping not helping. It does.

So does making fists repeatedly. They make the lines more prominent, so they might be easier to see when stacking these up to the images you're seeing.

Combine your palms like this and see where the wrinkles line up. READ MORE

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Do These Two Lines Match Up On Your Hands? Here’s What It Means

We've all seen the lines on the insides of our hands, but did you know that they can actually tell you a whole lot about your personality?


We all know that our hands can say a lot about who we are.


Palm reading has been around for thousands of years, and it's been a time-tested indicator of a number of personality attributes.

The shape of your hand can offer a general demonstration of what kind of person you are.

You can see here, that these are the "broad strokes." Meanwhile, the more intricate aspects are contained not in the hand's shape, but the lines it contains.

While there is still much room for interpretation and subjectivity, there are agreed-upon philosophies.


Lifelines, for one, reveal the biggest features of your life. That would include health, prosperity, and romantic endeavors.

But there are other lines that can tell quite a story as well.

Depending on which type of palm reader you ask, these lines, located higher on the hand (just below the first knuckle of your fingers) can tell quite a story.

They're the lines here marked "spleen" on the right hand, though they exist on both, obviously.

So, not only do the lines themselves speak volumes, but their positions in relation to one another do as well. READ MORE

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Many followers of paganism and modern esotericism use palm reading to predict the future and find out about the personality traits of the person. It's not easy to understand the meanings of palm lines. You will need to learn how to identify primary and secondary lines and to read them correctly.


Every line on your palm represents different areas of your life, and each line tells a story or contains secrets about your personality. Palm reading can be entertaining and enjoyable, as it can reveal something about you, something that you didn't know.

The key to successful palm reading is looking at all the lines together to obtain a real picture of life. So let's try to read what your palms have to say about your life right now.


The main line is the heart line. This is the upper part of two vertical lines intersecting the palm of your hand. The heart line will tell you about the health and emotional relationships of a person. You can learn a lot about the character of a person simply by connecting their hands.


Let's read your palms right now!
Take your hands and make the lateral parts of your palms connect. The way of your heart lines match up can say something about your love life.

#1. You have a high heart line on your right hand.
You're a great lover! You prefer to have romantic relationships with people older than you as they can teach you something new. You live your life to the extreme...READ MORE

I will begin first!!!

Am Fraspree derived from my name Francis splendour.

Am Igbo by tribe with Igbo business sense; Nna nwanne weta calculator kam pia something there!!!

Born and bred in Naija, single and expecting!!!

I travel back and forth from Uk, Dublin, Milano back to Naija, but am currently in Uk for my business; man gat to wack na u understand!!!

Francis is an Italian name, it means freeman and splendour is a name that sticked from back in the day when i was a rapper on stage, that was my stage name!!!

My hobbies; my love for music, i still go to studios to record songs just for fun, i love to skate, i went for a bungee jump once in Milano city in Italy and almost shit my pants!!!

I love football, watch the epl games but seldomly, and i love to strategize.

Am looking to meet an amazing woman someday that will sweep the group off my feet and the rest shall be history!!!

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abelprice:
26 laws of seduction. ......noted...

written by whom?

Adasun:
keep up da gud work op

Thanks bro. ..

JamaicanLove:
Rubbish POST

Young lady, its not a must to comment on my thread, if you cannot address well then get the Bleep off...

austyn0:
I can attest to this fact...Although I can't help it that love made me wiser and serious,,it didn't change the fact that I attracted a whole lotta shoddies while being the "Good-Cool-Dude".

Theres a different between charming a lady you are crushing on and attracting a whole lotta shoddies while being the "Good-Cool-Dude". The former gives you the opportunity to have your fate in your hands according to your choice but the latter just takes you where ever fate leads you. But its cool to be attracting ladies, thumbs up bro..

#4. Leading your targets into ease and comfort; the more relaxed your target is, the easier for you to bend him/her to your will. Now the key to making your target feel comfortable is to mirror them; adapt to their moods.

People are always drawn to those who are most similar to themselves; seem to have the same passion, have the same moral views, respond the same way to same things, seem to share their values and tastes, to understand their spirit and they will fall under your anointing.

This works particularly well if your target is of another tribe, religion, culture, different belief, different country etc, (you have learnt their language or prefer their customs, etc.) is very charming since for you this preference is a choice not a question of birth. Never forget that the key here also is subtlety.

Ok let's move on then
#3. Know how to calm every situation; you must know how to smooth out conflict. In the face of aggression or heated arguments, just retreat and let them have their little victories, yielding annd indulgence can turn any fight into charming moments, never openly criticize your targets, it will make them insecure and resistant to change. charmed by this particular skill, your targets will not notice your powers growing.

Any questions? Please ask so that we can move on....

#2. Being a source of pleasure to your target; if you are a complainer and all you do is to complain about your problems or other people’s problems, my guy its better you stop doing that no one wants to hear about your troubles.

But listen to your target’s complains and most importantly distract them from their problems by giving them pleasure.

By doing this often enough, they will fall under your anointing lol… being lighthearted and fun is always more charming than being serious and critical. Always brighten her moments with your energetic presence than boring the moment with your seriousness.

When i say listen and observe your target what i mean is for you to know how to spot her strength and most especially her weakness, everybody has a weakness/insecurities or two no matter how confident they seem to appear. Now it is your job to identify those weaknesses/insecurities to start acting upon them immediately, everybody unconsciously reveal their insecurity at some point. You have her weaknesses to act upon, you have her full attention to yourslf and never stops thinking about you. But remember subtlety is the key, i mean do not make it seem obvious.

#1. Make your target the centre of attraction; Your target must be the subject of your interest that is to say, you must learn to listen and observe. The best topic to discuss to your target is about themselves, let your target talk more revealing themselves in the process. As you findout more about them; their strength, their weaknesses, you can now know how to individualize your attention, appealing to their specific desires and needs, then you tailor your flatteries or compliments what-so-ever to those weaknesses you have learnt. By this way you can make them feel bigger and better, validating their sense of self-worth. Treat them like a star and they will become addicted and dependent of you.

zinnydan:
nooo I don't need charms,if I can't charm my guy with good behavior and understanding I don't think charm will do...I also believe that charms expires

Relax its not that kind of charm, its just a few techniques to use to make him feel special.

zinnydan:
Charm ke

Yes, charm. It also applies to women too in case you have this male friend you like to have a deep relationship with that will lead to marriage, this will come in handy.