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viver1:
Lies lies lies. Try harder.

Your left ball there, how u go think say na true b4? Werey...

A man that snooped into his wife’s phone to discovered a chat between her and her pastor that reveals that not only that his wife has been cheating on him with this pastor, but their son is a product of their adulterous escapade.


He exposed the chat on Hplus community platform and begged to be kept anonymous after explaining how he got into his wife’s facebook account and discovered the chat.

Read his wife’s chat with her pastor

I have experienced it first-hand so I witnessed how it works perfectly. In 2016 my ex used this strategy on me unintentionally and I yielded, if not that the guy acted fast, she would have been mine. So I decided to explore that tactics more. Just last February, I have worked with a woman with this strategy and a man she just met in less than 2 months rushed down to Imo state and paid whatever bride price his money could reach at that moment, how much more you that have dated him for over a year now. But of course there are some criteria that could hinder this strategy from working, if your type of relations falls within these categories;


1. If you’re the type that your boyfriend/fiancé always suspect of infidelity and you always have a perfect way to cover it up, he might be correct in his suspicions but the smart ways which you to cover it up makes him look like a fool even if he’s too dumb. The more he acquires, the more you make him look dumber. If you know you’re cheating him, please stop it, if you know you’re not and he always suspects you, try and be more transparent with him because it’s very important.

2. If your relationship lacks romance, you are only into it hoping and praying to God that he marries you. You need to take your man to a romantic adventure, spice it up a bit so that he will know what he will miss if he’s about to lose you.

3. Make sure he really loves you, not just because he spoils you with cash or gifts, be sure he loves you even just a bit.

4. If your man is not financially ready.

5. And he’s single.


Now to the strategy; first and foremost you need to know his intentions with you, is he interested in marriage or not, if he is then here is what to do. Get a good looking man to act as his rival, either he is you old friend or even if you have to pay or manipulate him but be sure to let him know what role he is playing in case he gets stocked. Let him get interested in you, not just wanting to see you but wanting to meet your parents...Continue

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A notorious match fixer who started out fixing football matches in the late 80’s and perfected the art of match fixing, Perumal Raj Wilson a Singapore national, who was convicted for fixing matches, revealed to BBC how he has been fixing matches including the South African 2010 world cup qualifier match between Nigeria vs Kenya played in November 14, 2009 in Nairobi. In Perumal’s interview reads:


Perumal:
“I have brought previously Nigeria to tournament in Malaysia, The Intercontinental Cup, so that was how I planned with Odera to approach the Nigerian football association”.


Prince Odera AKA Odera Eze is a Nigerian National and football agent, as the documents in Aljazera’s possession attests, he clearly also had close links to the Nigerian football federation. In September 2008, he was licensed by the federation to organize international fixtures on its behalf and traveled with the national team on several occasions. That same year he was photographed with Wilson Raj Perumal when Nigeria took part in the Intercontinental cup in Malaysia.


In late October 2009, just a couple of weeks before Nigeria’s last world cup qualifier against Kenya, Odera signed two letters to secure visas to Nigeria for Perumal and an associate Manimaran Kalimutu. Kalimutu was one of the syndicate’s most reliable runners who regularly carried money overseas for Perumal and passed it on to footballers in Kenya, Rwanda, Jordan and elsewhere. In early November 2009, he and Perumal flew to Nigeria and checked into the transcorp Hilton hotel in Abuja.



Manimaran:

“We reached Abuja at 8am Nigeria time, we went and put our luggage in the room, and Wilson told me to meet him downstairs at the lobby, there were people from the federation and I didn’t join them, I just went to the bar, I was having my chivas”


During that meeting, Perumal claims to have offered members of the Nigeria football federation an extraordinary deal.


Perumal:
“I will make sure everything is done to help Nigeria qualify, which is I’ve got two players or three players in the Kenyan team and they will ensure Nigeria’s win. And the other side is that my company will probably give bonus to Mozambique of $100,000usd to make sure they get positive results with Tunisia”.Read More

A notorious match fixer who started out fixing football matches in the late 80’s and perfected the art of match fixing, Perumal Raj Wilson a Singapore national, who was convicted for fixing matches, revealed to BBC how he has been fixing matches including the South African 2010 world cup qualifier match between Nigeria vs Kenya played in November 14, 2009 in Nairobi. In Perumal’s interview reads:


Perumal:
“I have brought previously Nigeria to tournament in Malaysia, The Intercontinental Cup, so that was how I planned with Odera to approach the Nigerian football association”.


Prince Odera AKA Odera Eze is a Nigerian National and football agent, as the documents in Aljazera’s possession attests, he clearly also had close links to the Nigerian football federation. In September 2008, he was licensed by the federation to organize international fixtures on its behalf and traveled with the national team on several occasions. That same year he was photographed with Wilson Raj Perumal when Nigeria took part in the Intercontinental cup in Malaysia.


In late October 2009, just a couple of weeks before Nigeria’s last world cup qualifier against Kenya, Odera signed two letters to secure visas to Nigeria for Perumal and an associate Manimaran Kalimutu. Kalimutu was one of the syndicate’s most reliable runners who regularly carried money overseas for Perumal and passed it on to footballers in Kenya, Rwanda, Jordan and elsewhere. In early November 2009, he and Perumal flew to Nigeria and checked into the transcorp Hilton hotel in Abuja.



Manimaran:

“We reached Abuja at 8am Nigeria time, we went and put our luggage in the room, and Wilson told me to meet him downstairs at the lobby, there were people from the federation and I didn’t join them, I just went to the bar, I was having my chivas”


During that meeting, Perumal claims to have offered members of the Nigeria football federation an extraordinary deal.


Perumal:
“I will make sure everything is done to help Nigeria qualify, which is I’ve got two players or three players in the Kenyan team and they will ensure Nigeria’s win. And the other side is that my company will probably give bonus to Mozambique of $100,000usd to make sure they get positive results with Tunisia”.[color=orange]Read More[/color]

Water don pass garri here o!
A shocking video has surfaced online displaying a whole former deputy senate president Senator Ike Ekweremadu being beaten and dragged by angry IPOB youth in Nuremberg, Germany.

It was gathered that Ike Ekweremadu went to celebrate the Igbo cultural new yam festival in Nuremberg with his fellow tribesmen when they angrily descended on him. In the video, he could be seen receiving beatings and eggs been thrown at him and was been rescued by some men.

In another voice clip been posted, a young man was saying in Igbo language, “there will be no place for all of them both at home and abroad, this is just the beginning, when he gets home he should tell others what happened to him” Watch Videos

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Hi Hplus, I don’t know since when a woman can be so heartless as to plan a mission to purposely collect her fellow woman’s husband first of all by gaining the trust of everyone living in the house, women are now going nuclear in their plot to snatch another woman’s husband. Ladies beware of this kind of girls.

There is this girl that lived in the next block that used to come to our home to help us out with chores voluntarily, she would just come and ask if there was any dirty laundry to do or to clean the house, in fact I used to rely on her coming, to tell you the truth this girl has been really helpful but I didn’t know it will come with a very big price to cost me my marriage.

We liked her because she was very nice, she worked diligently and took care of our house, so we will dash her money sometimes or buy things for her to make her happy, sometimes she would even buy things for my children while she’s coming, the level of trust I had for her I was so relaxed with this girl.

It all started when my husband told me that he was traveling for about a week for a business,...Continue

Blackivy27:
Not true. My mother is a single mother, a widow who brought up two infants to teenagers. I can say i am proud to be her daughter. She is to me deserving of the award BEST MOTHER. Shes like a father and mother in one.

Your case if different, ur talking about a widow who raised her children by herself, her husband died that means she was once married, but hes talking a single mother who gave birth out of wedlock, the case is very different.

A lady has taken to facebook to express her bitterness over the control of power seemingly been held by men, and has promised to remain to see the power change hands…[color=orange]Read her post[/color]

The Royal Niger company was a merchant company chartered by the British government in the nineteenth century, the had to pay the sum of 865,000 pounds to take over all the trading areas in what they consolidated in readiness for the annexation of southern protectorate with the northern protectorate.

In the question of paying the 865,000pounds at that time, and up till date they are still own the piece of property which they bought. Nigeria is a business venture as they created it at that time and as it is, still we have not moved from where we were as of the time they created this union.

It started during the time when it was the trade of the era to go to wherever you can and beat the civilization down and take whatever you can, the British came towards the Lagos colony in 1861, they came towards the water front and entered into trade treaties and protection treaties with some of those trading partners in bits and batches.

The 1914 amalgamation of Nigeria was as a result of a fight between the British and the jihad that invaded the northern Nigeria from Sokoto over the tussle to conquer and control more territories, the fight ended when they came together to form an agreement to consolidate the resources they both control in their regions and share the benefits of owning them permanently, since then they are both on the same mission to make Nigeria their own over the heads of the owners of the lands.

The discussion to merge the southern parts with the northern parts were strictly between the British and the caliphate, which means that for 15 years that they were working to merge them, attending series of meetings and exchanges, they were both tiptoeing over the heads of the owners of the lands. It was kept secret until a German newspaper leaked it in the first time on the 26th of December 1913.

What they reported as an amalgamation (the coming together of equals) was actually an annexation. Quoting from the telegram of the then secretary of the colony Mr Harcourt, the one which Port Harcourt was names after, in explaining what was about to happen the day before it became public;..[color=orange]Read More[/color]

husbandsnatcha:
......Pay the houserent first and i'm all urs
LMAO

I dont pay rent, i live in my own house and i also collect rent. If ur still interested just buzz me.

husbandsnatcha:
...Him no chop says who? U chingum boy

Who chingum boy? Oya come make i handle you, if i no nack you non-stop for one straight hour without cumming i go pay ur house rent for 2 years!

jimyjames:
Lol husbandsnatcha I have witness a guy f*cks a girl and she fainted

I have heard of women dying during sex even some news here on nairaland so what are you talking about

Exactly, what is she even bragging about? U fuvk man to his death because him no chop then come dey brag about am? Mtscheewww

Just give it time it will fade gradually, i have been in the same shoes and discovered that love is a useless thing, the moment you show a little sign of weaknesses women will take full advantage of that. To women they only exist to survive on their strategy which they use on men, because they see the world very differently from the way men do. Till date women are still devising new techniques in dealing with men, that's why the competition for attention through their nude dressings are getting more provocating. Watch out for them.

TechTutor:
Loool...This niggar is talented!

I swear down

ibkonekt:
Because all the other platforms that you mentioned are promoting the feminist agenda

I think that its because women are taking more advantage of it trying to shift their barriers towards men but the men weren't taking them seriously until now, they are trying to gradually enslave men into their own emotion.

All these women ranting sef what are you trying to achieve from your fights with men on nairaland? The men already got this forum locked down, maybe u should try other forums.

ubunja:
The Narcissism of women:

When men write romance threads: THEY EXPLAIN HOW WOMEN THINK AND BEHAVE


When women write romance threads: THEY TELL MEN HOW TO THINK AND BEHAVE.



narcissism is a real disease.

They always want to be controlling, you should know that women act by emotion but men are logical, anytime u see such post just know that it is pure emotion and selfcentered post.

franchasng:
my own problem with ladies is, we now have so many Nigerian ladies who are doing well financially but I tell you, a Nigerian lady will rather die than help a man who is not her husband financially.

Go to USA, Canada, UK, etc there are hundreds of Nigerian ladies who are single and have no serious boyfriends, but they will rather die single than return back to Nigeria to meet a struggling Nigerian guy and marry and help him migrate to those countries. Instead they will give one million excuses why they cannot do it.

But despite the bad things Nigerian ladies have been doing to Nigerian guys who brought them abroad, Nigerian guys still come back home to marry broke, poor Nigerian ladies and transform their lives and help them travel abroad to start a better life there as couple, something Nigerian ladies will rather die than do reason u have so many old single Nigerian ladies in US, UK, Canada, etc.


Helping Nigerian ladies is a waste of time for any sensible man, unless God convinced you to help her, if not don't do it because they are not worth it at all because again if they were in your shoes and you are in their shoes, they will never notice you nor help you.

Nigerian guys wake up, don't let sex drive push you into helping any Lady u see, help men and women when God or your inner spirit pushes you to help not just ladies.

Help older women instead not these young wicked ladies of our time

Am glad our men have began to wake up from their pussy induced slumber, am now proud. But leave those vulnerable ones alone look for those predators and gold diggers and deal with them.

pansophist:
Nairaland is not the only place. Any social platform that enables anonymous postings will reveal the honest opinion of people. Places like nairaland, reddit, YouTube comments etc.

About male bashing the female, you have to know that there is no other socially acceptable outlet men can table their frustration. Or else, you'll be tagged a weak man, cry baby, rejected etc. It is not socially allowed for men to complain, society and women love stoicism in men. But in contrary, a woman has all the right in the world to cry and table out her frustration, and society somehow will find a way to make her comfortable. A man problem is his problem alone, a womans problem is for society to solve

A man's problem is his problem alone but a woman's problem is the problem of the society. That will make a good heading.

franchasng:
because Nairaland is faceless so people can express their mind without being politically correct to please their true friends, relatives, employers and business associates

Exactly, atleast someone understands what am saying.

WonderManly:
Let me consult my oracle. Just a mument...

Carry ur oracle go ur village, no come here with ur oracle o

nNEOo:
That's why it NL
Your observation is apt.

As apt as it may be, we still need to invade more platforms with this revolution.

ubunja:
We need to push the truth maximally while NL is willing to allow it. Days are coming when speech will be policed.

Nothing lasts forever brother

Are u saying that that other platforms don't allow it? I think its more of men not proud to stand their grounds in expressing their emotions over the things they don't allow with women in order not to be tagged as cry babies. NL gives them more privacy than any other platform.

I have gone through every social media and i have never come across the way men in Nairaland express Themselves over the mistreatment they get from women, could it be because Nairaland forum is so unstrict with displaying profile pictures unlike Facebook, Twitter, etc?

The men are so eager and quick to truly display their minds in about how bad they feel about mistreatment they get from women and also eager to help a fellow dude out in resolving his women crisis. This tells that men are living under a culture of silence and some feel that nairaland is a place to express and educate each other about their issues with women, because they feel secure expressing themselves when they are not fully exposed.

Go to Facebook and Twitter, almost every female there is a feminist nailing men with every single chance they get, and some women wrappers among the men who are afraid to confront the preachings of these feminists out of fear of being verbally attacked by their feminst hounds followers, dragged out as a sexist or blocked from visiting their pages will decide to befriend these rude ladies on Facebook and be using polite words to confront them in order not to get to their bad sides, out of fear of being dragged out.

An example of what am explaining here, search for Nkechi Bianze on Facebook and go through her posts, you will see nothing more than a hypocritical confused feminist who contradicts her school of thoughts with different feminist posts from time to time. She has over 40k die hard followers mostly women and a few women wrapper men who are ready to die hardly back her up to buttress her point. Nobody is brave enough to challenge her anymore, the ones who are, like me were blocked by her and her fans from accessing her page.

Its only in nairaland that i have seen men freely expressing themselves without barriers..Find out more

BlueAir:
such post marital agreement is good and fair enough for any relationship .better still make it more lawyer involved



Everyone be like "babe I hope I didnt offend u for not calling when I got to work"

Yeah maybe they should make an agreement to call each other when ever they get to work, or not to get angry at each other and pretend all is well even when they are not.

AwkaetitiBabe:
Femi

Nwa Awka etiti pls leave the femi nism one side bikonu

Fanika22:
Nawao... fvckin for hours without ejaculating .. how?
masters! please teach me

Its not a big deal i do it all the time, its not for beginners though you have to be an expert in sex b4 u can do it, the idea is to zero ur mind during the action and then to pause and be kissing anytime u start feeling excited her just to allow some time to calm down again, then u continue. This technique can last for as long as u want it to, it works for me all the time. But those days when i was a beginner, one particular girl always taunted me with that and it played on my ego.

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