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LuvU2:
---Black men re just losers. No real woman wants them(maybe last choice) so they create an illusionary world where they see themselves as the Alfas, most desired, sexiest. Thnk God many black women re now waking up to see they can have the real men,masters of this world than settling for their fellow women in men body aka black men.

These were the words of one of my very good friends, still pondering on them

At least there was a research that backed up this claim, i know truth is always bitter and i also know that u will be trapped in your sentimentally self righteousness right now. Pls always try to be reasonable.

meobizy:
It's her own point of view. I know I date and f-uck women of most races.

So what does that make you?

YorubaAssasin:
All

In as much as i don't fully accept what u said, i feel compelled to agree with you, black women especially in America hardly identifies with her culture. She would even do pass the people they borrowed their culture.

That's why u will marry a Nigerian woman and take her to America only for her to divorce you there just to take over your property after she has started earning from her nursing job.

An American Author and Journalist Naomi John's has observed that Black women will soon start losing their Black Partners to white women.

Ms. John's says according to her study, When a black woman is very Educated, they lose respect for their partners.

She states that her study show that White women cherish black people more than their education and soon enough, black African women will be left lonely.

"This is an independent study that we did with my friends. The black African women will soon be lonely because they are too careless with their mouths and lack respect for their Black men...Read More

donbachi:
Black women get mouh shaa!...na so 1 woman tell d husband"so if dem say make men go dis side,u go follow go abi.make i see u dia".

Lol, e get the ones wey their mouth go make you wan cry sef.

An American Author and Journalist Naomi John's has observed that Black women will soon start losing their Black Partners to white women.

Ms. John's says according to her study, When a black woman is very Educated, they lose respect for their partners.

She states that her study show that White women cherish black people more than their education and soon enough, black African women will be left lonely.

"This is an independent study that we did with my friends. The black African women will soon be lonely because they are too careless with their mouths and lack respect for their Black men...Read more

During a counseling session between H Plus and a lady known as Chi, she revealed that she would very much like to come back to her next life as a wealthy man.

According to the lady, she said that being a female is really hard, as long as you are female, whether single, married, divorced, young, old, single mom, independent, rich or broke, your opinions are been limited and are directly or indirectly made for you by someone else.

In her words;

“Over the years women have been abused, trampled upon, stigmatized even by their fellow women and it has all been the norm of the society, been disguised under the word ‘culture’. Even a verse in the bible that degrades women, and it got me wondering if God really hates women. Isaiah 4:1 among other verses says;

“And seven women shall take hold to one man in that day, saying we will eat our own food and wear our own clothes, only let us be called by your name, take away our shame”

“Women’s choices in life have always been restricted by culture, morals religion, which have subjected them to be passively submissive to men. Every decision a lady makes in her life, it must not affect her dreams of getting married to a man in the future or else she remains lonely for the rest of her life because in the society, a woman’s ultimate goal is to get... Read more

A female twitter user identified as @Scilla_xx has taken to the platform to reveal that she needs a stay at home husband who will take care of the kid while she is making the money.

According to the Lady, all she wants is a Man that will hang around at home, and do the house chores While she go out there and make the money. She says its her own way of of making sure he doesn’t cheat.

See her tweet and photos below; Read more

Your partner cheated on you—does it have to end your relationship? Can it actually benefit it? No it doesn’t have to end your relationship and yes, it can even help it… sometimes, but that doesn’t make it right.


It may be hard to wrap your head around the idea, but Perel makes some convincing arguments for thinking differently about cheating in her new book, The State of Affairs: Rethinking Infidelity.

Why should we be rethinking infidelity? Because there’s a lot of cheating going on, and it’s not just guys—both men and women are seeing a rise in cheating. While it’s hard to pin down exact numbers (some say as high as 60 or 70 percent) the numbers really don’t matter; all that matters is, will it happen to you?

You may be thinking it could never happen to you and that you and your spouse are very happy. But love and happiness aren’t always the most important factors when it comes to determining whether someone will or won’t cheat.

In our interview study, explained that the men who cheated on their partners all said they loved them and didn’t want to lose them. They start off thinking they want monogamy, but after being in a relationship for months or years, they start missing sex with others. But by this point Read more

Normal parting in one of the Kisii clubs came to a standstill on Sunday evening after two sugars mummies, who are in their late forties, exchanged blows over a campus boy.


This was after one of the sugar mummy busted them having good times when she was informed by one the waiters in the club. With anger and a feeling of betrayal, there was an exchange of words leading to a major fight which brought about the commotion in the club.

Brian Momanyi, a second-year student at Kisii University, admitted cheating on the two women as they were rich and provided him with everything he needed.

"My parents are poor and which made me find a survival tactic. One was in charge if my school fees and the other paid my rent and other bills," Momanyi said.

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According to Moraa, a cleaner in the club, she confirmed that Momanyi has been cheating on several women in Kisii town for money.

"He has never been here with ladies of his age. He does sugars mummies who are financially stable," she said. The club manager, however, refused to comment on the issue.

This kind of relationships has become common among university students.

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A Facebook user identified as Kaycee Ichie Oguejiofor took to social media earlier today to shade a lady who rejected his advances, over seven years ago, According to the dramatic young man, his ex-girlfriend, Amaka whom he asked out back in 2011 had responded to his advances saying she can’t date a broke man. He opted to shade her in a birthday message which read;

Source: https://hpluscommunitylink..com/2018/08/man-shades-ex-lover-on-her-birthday-for-saying-he-was-broke-7-years-ago.html

“Hi Amaka

I know you will read this, how are you enjoying your singledom, not like marriage or relationship is a big deal, but I am very happy in mine.

Nothing is perfect but mine is very close to perfection. I remember the last time I saw you, you were on way to Pastor Peter’s Church for prayers. And it’s not to tell why.

If you don’t change even your attitude even the devil will not answer your prayers. I remember when I asked you out in 2011, and your response was “Delgado I like you, but I can’t date a broke man. You said if I am lucky you will still be single when I have made money. And just then you might consider me.

Anyways I don’t wish evil or bad on people ọ, far from it… In fact I have only one prayer for you, I honestly pray and money will turn to man and ask for your hand in marriage. Let me stop here for today happy birthday”

Blackfire:
I will date a 30+ woman anyday... Instead of this empty slay mamas

Date is different from marriage. We are talking about marrige not date

chenzen:
l m sure the OP has got sisters ;Dl m sure the OP has got sisters

Yes i have. But they all got married even b4 they hit 23.

ugybabe2020:
coming out as menstrual blood would hv been better than forming as a human being.Anyway,i blame government for not making condom free at least to save us from the likes of u.

Boom goes the dynamite! That's how truth explodes.

prttysassygirl:
This op is so biased,if the female folks too start saying they won't marry penniless men,it's your type that would start calling them unprintable names,but look at what u are typing. Shame on u

Saying that if the female folks start saying they wount marry penniless men, Ur sounding like its not already the criteria for woman. Have you seen a single marriage that lasted with a penniless man? Am just a concerned folk playing his controversial character

What are some keys to a healthy relationship? If you look closely at successful relationships you’ll realize many of them have certain things in common. Here’s a list of a few things to strive for in your relationship, so you know what to look for:

Source: https://hpluscommunitylink..com/2018/02/here-are-10-qualities-you-should-look.html

Empathy

An individual’s ability to empathize with you is crucial in a relationship. Empathy is an important relationship skill that both parties should develop. Empathy is the ability to view the world from your partner’s eyes. Being able to put yourself in your partner’s shoes is essential to building a long term relationship based on mutual understanding. Empathy means being a team, a “we” rather than an isolated “I”.

Acceptance

Your partner should be able to “get” you. They should know your tastes, your likes, your dislikes, your moods, your innate personality — they should know that “real” you, and love you for being exactly who you are. Acceptance is a key relationship skill. Both you and your partner should accept one another for exactly the people that you are, faults and all. Your partner should love you because of everything that comprises who you are. Don’t accept any less.

Chemistry

Physical chemistry is important. While it may not be the most important thing on this list, healthy relationships require attraction as a force. You and your partner ought to be attracted to one another, physically and emotionally, and that attraction should lead to a healthy level of chemistry that can be sustained over time.

Steadfastness

Your partner should be steadfast with you in promises and obligations. With you, your partner should be able to keep his or her word. Steadfastness leads to trust, which is absolutely essential in healthy, long-term relationships. If your partner isn’t steadfast with you, then you have little reason to grow trust with this person. Do not become intimately involved with someone who cannot keep their word.

Goals

It is important that you and your partner support each others’ goals in life. Relationships take constant work and require that you and your partner have a willingness to work together and grow together. Your partner should support and help you reach the goals you want in your life.

Generosity

Your partner should be generous with you, not in the financial sense, but in the emotional sense. Most importantly, your partner ought to be generous with time, when it comes to you. An essential aspect of relationships is the ability to “give”. If you notice that your partner takes and takes without giving, perhaps it’s time to find a new partner. Generosity is the essence of healthy relationships.

Priorities

Your partner and you do not need to have the exact same priorities in life, but it certainly helps if your priorities are aligned. If you want to move to India one day to teach yoga at a spiritual retreat and your partner wants to move to Los Angeles to jumpstart a career in the entertainment industry, your priorities are definitely not aligned. Sometimes, for a relationship to thrive, priorities can be adjusted or redefined, which is fine, but both parties should be equally flexible in this.

Trust

Trust is the single most important factor when it comes to when a relationship is a success or a failure. You must be able to trust your partner, and your partner must be able to trust you. And both of you should give the other person reason to trust. With trust, you have the ability to be vulnerable — an important factor in long-term, successful partnerships. If you can’t be vulnerable with your partner, it’s time to move on.

Communication

Good relationships have great communication structures. Bad relationships almost always have terrible communication between partners. You and your partner should speak the same language, emotionally speaking, in the sense that you should be able to communicate your desires successfully. Neither party should be timid about asserting themselves when appropriate, and neither party should feel shy about communicating feelings at any point. Do you and your partner have successful communication?

Commitment

Commitment is the most important quality to look for when deciding a successful match. If you are searching for love and a long-term relationship, you and your partner must be able and willing to commit to one another, understanding all the sacrifices and adjustments that are necessary when transitioning from single life to life as a couple. The key to commitment is love. If you love someone, commitment should be no less than nature.

egbarison:
We forget that @30 many of them are more responsible and capable of handling most-marriage-related-challenges. At that age bracket some do not even depend on their man (hubby) for upkeep. Moreover God is the greatest Planner and Designer. Meanwhile love and respect are integral keys to a happy relationship, without which she @21 or 22 can still be your devil.

There are more women in their 30s who are more mature and more experienced than those little, inexperienced and entitled girls whom you think can give you more happiness in your marriages. I mean, most of these younger girls feel that the world revolves around her and that boys feed off their hands, but these experienced ones are those ones that have passed through it and have made peace with their minds and decide to come in terms with reality.

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“Firstly women over-30 have a lower fertility. If you want to build a family with these old donkeys be prepared to possibly have a downs syndrome child.

When you marry a 30+ woman, you’re marrying her 30+ joysticks she’s had over her long life on earth. She has more bodies than a grave yard.

Women over-30 are very bitter from the wasted prime spent on failed relationships she hoped would lead to marriage.
Now that you’re marrying her, she should be grateful, but she’s not. She’s always just angry.

By marrying a woman over 30+ you are investing everything in a rapidly depreciating pleasure provider that has already lost a lot of its aesthetic value…

She will be wrinkled in the next 5 years and already having back problems.

Many guys these days are marrying early 30’s women, and then, almost immediately – Bam!.

It’s over almost before it began. Its because you are trying to make ancestors housewives. Leave these dinosaurs.
Marrying an over-30 woman is like buying a used car 1Km short of its 120,000km servicing.

The over-30 woman can fix herself up enough to fool the prospective provider/hubby for a short while, and once the line that is dotted is signed her true colours come out.

Many women who are not married in their late 30s today ever saw it coming.
They had a plan: finish their first degree, masters, a job, a promotion, make money, be independent and settle down by 30, latest 32.
Over the years, they turn down potential husbands, go on a partying spree like they have frozen time, only to arrive at 35 with nothing to show for it other than a dead end job, a car, and sometimes a child from a relationship that never quite worked out.

So, now they are stuck in a phase where they will never find a man of their dreams and have to settle for any man who will be gracious enough to even suggest marriage.

By now, all those flimsy and shallow standards they used to have are gone, humility is their second name.

I have seen many women on Twitter in their 20s buy into the misguided, feminist belief that men & marriage are bad for their academic & career advancement.

What feminism does not factor in is that the older a woman get, the less a chance she stands of marrying someone desirable.
This is a fact of life, don’t come here with your Nywe Nywe Nywe misogyny… VOETSEK

Very few men would marry a 35+ woman when we live in a highly hypergamous (act of marrying someone wealthier than you) society.
There are plenty of young and hot beautiful women ready to settle into a marriage where they play the second fiddle as long as the man provides.
It is good to be ambitious, even better to break the stupid glass ceilings, but at what price?

Bottom line, at some point, you will need a man in your life. My experience of having observed women 30+ has proven that they mostly live a life full of regrets.

Let me share with you from my observations the signs that a woman is likely to end up single, and lonely and stay away from these types!!

1. She values education and career over marriage and relationship. She’s always throwing statements like “Marriage isn’t an achievement”

2. At age 30+ she has more liquor in her refrigerator than fruits and vegetables.

3. She can take down more shots than any of her peers at 30+ who have kids

4. She’s into smoking cigarettes and addicted to weed.

5. Her idea of fun at age 30+ is a night out with the girls.

6. At age 30+ she still insists on only dating men based on what their career is or according to his achievements. “He’s a lawyer” “He’s a doctor” “He’s an engineer” “He’s Successful.

7. The idea of cooking for a man is a total turn-off to her.

8. She has never forgiven her father for abusing her mother, or her first boyfriend used to abuse her and she now thinks every man is violent and controlling.

9. She is so much into fashion, and hair-styling she doesn’t want to be identified as being old in her circles

10. Her job involves a lot of travelling.

11. She can easily find a parking spot at Taboo than her way to church.
My brother if you find an ancestor over 32+ Love yourself…… run for your life from these dinosaurs.

Online Data And Dating Tips For Women
Here you’ll find interesting data about dating and relationships from H Plus Community, the online dating blog. Data on this page was either pulled by looking into the behavior of daters using Facebook or through surveys.




If you’re looking for something specific for a story, study, or article and don’t see it here email our team. We’ll be happy to look up additional stats and are happy to share what we know.
Men’s Take On Women’s Photos:

55% of men say a woman’s profile photos are more important than what she says in her profile description
When asked what they notice in a woman’s profile photo first:

o 53% of men say eyes
o 32% of men say body
o 12% of men say hair
o 3% of men say lips

86% of men said a woman with light and natural makeup would make them click on her profile.

Dating Profile Advice – Descriptions
Dating Profile Tips

Fill out everything.

o People who fill out a display name when asked get 20% more messages than those who don’t.
o People who fill out their description get 28% more messages than those who don’t.

Highlight your positive traits

o People with the word laugh in their profile get more messages.
o People who use the word honest in their profile get more messages.
o People with the word healthy in their profile get 17% more messages.

Be careful about your word choice.

o Profiles with the word healthy get 17% more messages.
o Profiles with the word laid back get 50% fewer messages.
o Profiles with the word ambitious get 38% fewer messages.
o Profiles with the word job get 10% fewer messages.
o Profiles with the word serious get 10% fewer messages.
o Profiles with the word casual get 2% fewer messages.

Mention your education.

o People with the word college in their profile get 64% more replies to their messages.
o People with the word school in their profile get 55% more replies to their messages.
o People with the word graduated in their profile get 46% more replies to their messages.
o People with the word self-taught in their profile get 8% more replies to their messages. Dating Profile
General Dating Data & Insights
Date Ideas
Included full data set with information not pulled out below.)

Coffee or dinner dates are preferred by women of all ages.

o Women in their 20s and 30s list dinner most often when describing their ideal date.
o Women in their 30s, 40s, 50s, and 60s list coffee most often when describing their ideal date.

Going for a walk is a great idea.

o For women in their 20s walk is the 4th most mentioned word/phrase while describing their ideal date.
o For women in their 30s, 40s, 50s, and 60s walk is the 3rd most mentioned word/phrase while describing their ideal date.

Quiet and conversation were also popular descriptors while explaining what makes a great day.

o Conversation was the 3rd most mentioned word/phrase for women in their 40s, 4th most mentioned for women in their 60s, and 6th most mentioned for women in their 30s.
o Quiet was the 7th most mentioned word/phrase for women in their 60s, 8th for women in their 40s and 50s, and 15th for women in their 30s.

All women like wine.

o Women of every age group mentioned wine before beer or pub while describing their perfect date.
o Women in their 50s and 60s mentioned wine more often than those in their 20s, 30s. and 40s.

Women in their 20s and 30s like to be surprised.

o For women in their 20s surprise was the 14th most mentioned.
o For women in their 30s surprise was the 13th most mentioned.

Dating and Our Mother’s Influence

16% of people said they would break up with someone their mom didn’t like.
50% of daters want specific feedback from their moms on who they’re dating.
73% of people think their mom can sense when someone they’re dating makes them happy.
48% of men and 46% of women said their moms think shared values are the most important think to look for in a partner.
Moms value someone with a good/stable job for their daughters more than their sons.


Dating/Relationship Timelines

70% of men would disclose if they were seeing other people on the first date.
50% of men want to define the relationship as exclusive after the first few dates.
50% of both men and women want to discuss past relationships after dating after a few weeks.
56% of men want to discuss marriage after at least 6 months of dating.
52% of men never want to know their date’s number of past sexual partners.


Single Moms

Women with kids engage in 55% more deep conversations than those without children.
Women who mention kids, son, or daughter in a message have a response rate 6% higher than the average.
Women who mention son, daughter, teenager, children, or single mom in their dating profile get 4% fewer messages.


Men in General (Article has full data set with additional information not mentioned below.)

Men are looking for a woman who’s ambitious.

o For men in their 20s ambitious was the 5th most mentioned trait when describing their perfect match.
o For men in their 30s ambitious was the 3rd most mentioned trait when describing their perfect match.
o For men in their 40s ambitious was the 10th most mentioned trait when describing their perfect match.

Men value someone with a relationship with God.

o For men in their 30s God was the 5th most mentioned trait when describing their perfect match.
o For men in their 40s God was the 5th most mentioned trait when describing their perfect match.
o For men 50+ God was the 5th most mentioned trait when describing their perfect match.

Men put more emphasis on a woman who’s open.

o For men in their 40s open was the 4th most mentioned trait when describing their perfect match.
o For men in their 30s and 50+ open was the 6th most mentioned trait when describing their perfect match.
o For men in their 20s open was the 9th most mentioned trait when describing their perfect match.

Men like beautiful women.

o For men in their 20s beautiful was the 7th most mentioned trait when describing their perfect match.
o For men in their 30s and 40s beautiful was the 7th most mentioned trait when describing their perfect match.
o For who are 50+ beautiful was the 15th most mentioned trait when describing their perfect match.

Dear Admin,

I write to you with a heavy heart, not to see if you can solve my problem but to get my story out to the world to see so that everyone will understand what I have been experiencing throughout my life time...


I wasn’t born the way I am, I was sick when I was 2 and my mum took me to hospital for treatment and a nurse gave me an expired injection on my right butt and from that day my right leg became disabled. I grew up becoming deformed on my right leg, from that day life has become a living hell for me.

Everyone I know has been treating me like cancer including my own mother because of my condition. I am the first born child and the first daughter out of five, 4 girl and 1 boy. Even though I am the first child my mother treats me as the last, she values my younger siblings more than me as if I am the cause of my condition. My mother never allows me to go out and any time I go out she will call me on the phone and starts yelling and ask me to come back home that I am not supposed to leave the house, left for her she always wants me locked up in the house and she still beats me up at even at 29 years old, but she treats my younger ones with respect.

5 years ago I gave birth to a boy for a military soldier, who is an alcoholic and abusive, he beats me up at any slightest opportunity; this is a relationship that my mother pushed me into because she wanted me to give birth. She knew that the man is abusive and also knew the sufferings that I was going through at the hands of this man yet she still insisted I stay with him.

He only made promise to my mother that he will marry my five years ago or whatever deal he made with my mother on my head that I don’t know about and that was it, he has never married me since then, he only uses me as his intimacy gadget. He will keep me in his house and go out because he is not so comfortable to let me go out with him, I will remain at home to clean, wash, cook for him, when he gets back at night he eats and hops on top of me to get his sexual urge out, when he’s satisfied he comes down and sleeps off, he never says a word to me and I dare not provoke him that day because he will beat me up and also beat up my son, tomorrow he continues in the same cycle and he will never care to know how I was doing or his son.

There was a day he was beating my son in my presence, I couldn’t stand the sight of him flogging my little boy with belt, I fought him with my last strength that day I unleashed the beast inside of me that I never thought I had, I poured fuel on his car that he cared so much about and threatened to set it on fire if he laid one more hand on my boy again, and that was how he stopped beating him. I might accept him beat me to some extent but when it comes to my son I cannot allow it. He will bring in different women into the house and be sleeping with them as often as he likes and I dare not say a word or I receive humiliations and beatings of my life. I have anticipated committing suicide many times and in many ways but just for the sake of my son I have still been going.

One day I ran away from his house and back to my family house with my son, I told my mother everything that happened but my mother insists I go back there. She says that no one will marry me because of my condition and that the soldier is a God sent to me and an opportunity to stay in a relationship and she forced me to go back to him and this time I decided to stand my ground. I have left him since 2 months now and he has never looked for me, though my mother has told him where I was but he has never came looking for me yet she still wants me back there.

My mother has never been a fan of any of her daughter’s man beating or humiliating her daughter but my own case is so different, sometimes I wonder if she is my mother, if my father isn’t late I probably wouldn’t have experience half of all these humiliations that I have experienced.

The past 2 months I have been in my family house I met this guy Fred on social media who has been a very nice gentleman, he knows my condition yet he still choses to be nice to me. I don’t think that what he feels for me is sexual but I have never felt this appreciated before in my life because every guy I have ever known just wants to sleep with me and dump me the next day. Not that if Fred wants sex from me that I would not have given it to him or he hasn’t gotten the perfect timing to ask, but he has just been a perfect gentleman. He knows my story and he has been so brave and trying to make me feel happy again, I have never felt this alive since I became conscious of myself.

Since my mother found out about Fred and I, it has been episodes of drama, one night my mother and I had a serious fight over Fred’s matter, the fight was so intense that things got smashed in the house, neighbors had to come and separate us. She told that I will either go back to the father of my son’s house or I must leave her house, I accepted to leave the house but I stood my grounds that I was never going to be anyone’s punching bag anymore, I didn’t sleep in that house that night I had to pass the night at a neighbor’s house.

The next morning as my mother went to work, I came home and packed both my things and my son’s things and we both left the house, Fred was ready to accommodate me and my son so we moved in with Fred who lived at the next city in the town. Fred has been very supportive since I and my son moved in with him but I didn’t want to be too much burden to him so I took up a menial job at a dry gin factory where I worked shifts so I can save up some money and rent my own apartment.

One day I came home and discovered that Fred and my son were both missing, Fred’s phone was switched off. I alerted the neighbors and we searched everywhere but couldn’t find them. I finally discovered that it was the military man that sent some armed off duty military officers on plain clothes and they kidnapped them both, this operation was carried out with my mother who showed them where Fred lives. The following morning I went to the military man’s house I met my son in a really bad shape, he has been crying all night to see his mother and his eyes were swollen. I asked about Fred but he refused to show me where he was, he said I should forget about him.

Meanwhile I immediately moved in with the military man so as to secure Fred’s release, but after much pleading on Fred’s behalf, Fred was released 3 days later from a military cell where he was accused of kidnapping the military man’s son, he was battered and was told to stay away from us. I felt really bad that my Fred had to go through all that, the only guy that mattered in my life. Now I feared that he would even want to ever speak to me again let alone allow me to see him, of course he stopped answering my calls and I couldn’t eat for days, my only thought was ‘Is Fred really ok?’.

After 1 week of the incident I sneaked to visit Fred at his house but Fred has already gone and no one seemed to know where Fred lives now, he has changed his line and has moved on. Till today I still live with him in his house. Fred was the only man that showed me real love that a woman in my condition has never felt. I cannot breathe without smelling Fred, now my heart is heavy and am drowning; my life has never been the same. Please tell me what I should do.
Chi, Onitsha….

Have you ever been served a break up line? Here is the break up lines that was served to people during their break ups by their ex-lovers;

Oluwashola4me, male
Mine was, "Tee, I used to have feelings for you, but I ain't gat no feelings for you anymore."
It was dumbfounded, because I was still in love with her.
She was my all in all then. I loved her with my whole heart**sobs**She later told me that she thought I'd actually moved on due to my unavailability for some time, hence her breaking up with me. Guess she was insecure. Still feeling it in my heart tho.

Anonymous, female
"You're not just what I thought you were" - I cried my eyes out lol

Anonymous, female
Oohh one time he said to me that I deserved someone better than him coz he isnt the right one for me...the next thing I know he is married with his xgf...
But after that he still want us to be friends I hate doing it but I need to blocked him in every social media we shared before coz I don't wanna hear all the BS he's talking abt

Cokacoola, male
She was lyk "you qave me 21 missed call now the iphone my mum bouqht 4 me frm uk fell into d water while vibrating. Its over!!!

Excellencyabia1
She said that I can't feed her and the children with ministry money if we get married that as she is she need someone that is earning from the govt. but she has been calling for us to reconcile because she had that the printing press where I use to work before joining the ministry called me back and I was also licensed in the Anglican Communion within a month.

Sundoj08, male
No comments cos I've never being served but I've definitely served some.. poo was dope, smiling inside while she was all bitter and pitiful.. No hard feelings

Cruzita, female
Real girls don't get dumped we do the serving.

Wilybebsy, female
She was like 'I need a break' till today the break never finish, that was more than a year ago... Read more>>> https://hpluscommunitylink..com/2018/08/what-break-up-lines-were-you-served-by-your-ex.html?showComment=1533856678643#c3058749153377006169

Hi Hplus,

I used to be fun lover, I rocked life to its fullest back then because I loved parties, and ladies night outs, hanging out with couple of friends, I loved night life too but since I got married it all changed, my life has been so boring.


I met my husband 2 years ago through a friend while I was doing my NYSC program in Abuja, back then he was just another guy trying to date my friend Rose but she was already in a serious relationship with her UK based guy who has promised to return to the country to meet her parents for her igba-nkwu.

I met him when he invited Rose for a birthday party so she decided to bring me along. We had a group chat at the party and this guy started to develop interest in me, long story short he took it up from there and then we started dating. We dated for almost a year before we got married.

Before we got married he made me have an agreement with him to lose all my friends and stay away from fun places, it was a difficult decision to choose in-between because am a flamboyant person. I am a party lover and I don’t understand why my man will not see it as a hobby, I don’t know what he is so afraid of, is it that other men will come and snatch me away from him? Or is he trying to be stingy that am going to finish his money? He will keep saying that it is only irresponsible people that live that kind of life, and I only ask who gets paid these days for being a good girl?

I get bored so easily now imagine me sitting alone doing nothing in the house with no friends, nowhere to go. This is not getting any good for our marriage, and to top it all up I am already 2 weeks pregnant and I haven’t told him yet because when he finds out he will add more restraints to his rules. I wanted to start a business that will at least be taking me out of the house but he does not approve it, he agrees that I will start a business after I have given him children but in the meantime I should just be sitting around the house and doing... Read more>>>

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An ideal woman is a smart woman that knows how powerful she is so she invests in caring for her man in her life genuinely.


She is a woman who doesn’t flow with the crowd mentality that women are only to be helped by men, she is a man’s jackpot. She may not necessarily be wealthy but she is contributing immensely to something she is committed to. An ideal man identifies her immediately.

An ideal woman knows her worth, she doesn’t go around social media just boasting about her self-worth, she lives it. She is a global resource without limits.

She submits to her man’s leadership and does not protest against it.

She is not moved by a man’s wealth, she accepts him because he has values.

She is a woman that commits to putting her home together and not destroying it.

She is a woman of faith, prayerful and patient, any time she goes on her knees heavens shake on her behalf. She prays every day for her man.
She is a woman of class; she always knows how to make her man happy.

She is a humble woman despite her status, background, position, financial status etc, she never allows it to get into the way of her relationship.

She is the queen of her territory, you can always find her touch all over her man.

She is a mother, wife and best friend.

Her family come first, second and third to her.

She is a woman of action, a warrior, a lioness, a woman of high class, and yet she is humble and respectful.

She never discloses matters of her relationship for advice.

She always builds her man up and never forgets to crown him, she treats him like a king.

She listens more and talks less.
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Dear Hplus Community,

Greetings, my name is V, and I reside in Abuja. I was introduced to my man by his eldest brother when he was 57 years old, and I too was 42 and I was in the category of the “Single and seriously searching” (SSS).


His brother came to me and told me that he wanted me to marry his brother who has married three times and yet the wives would leave him despite all his health. Not that he’s a wicked man, neither does he lay a hand on them, nor him being stingy or petty.

I asked why and he told me that his brother has a problem, he grew up to be urgeless. Not that he was gay but he was raised in a catholic school and straight to seminary school, he had never seen a woman’s nekydness before and had no idea how having sex felt like. When he later couldn’t make it to becoming a priest he went straight into business, he put down all those discipline he learnt from catholic community into his business and became so wealthy, but he had no urge in women because he never developed any feeling for them.

He became the first to see the light in their family so he helped his other siblings out both younger and older but unfortunately they all married before him and bared children except him and yet he was never bothered by any of that, therapy sessions could not work. All the inexperienced and shy wives that he married could not successfully seduce him in bed because he was never turned on by their nekydness, they have tried all of their options but all failed.

I became their final hope, they told me to add a little bit of force in bed and make him to cum for once so he could see how sweet sex is and make him propose to me.

I accepted, so they booked a hotel suite for me and my guy for a night and we went in for the play. Immediately I undressed to my birthday suit and into my sexy nighties, then the local wanted to sleep on his thick jeans and his tight belt on, but I strongly insisted he take it off and his t-shirt also.

He managed to take them off and we pretended to be watching tv for over 30 minutes but my man was so focused on his Aljazeera channel, so I made a move started... Read more>>> https://hpluscommunitylink..com/2018/08/my-husband-was-divorced-but-still-a-virgin-at-53-when-i-married-him.html

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